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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I have my boyfriend over and let him tell my dad we'll be out for 2 days?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - For Valentine's, my 33 year-old boyfriend got me a gift voucher, good for a spa day for two, and a night in a hotel, breakfast included. We've gone to the spa (great, by the way), and we will book the night very soon. However, I mentioned this...

My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...

The 4.5 year boring boyfriend or the exciting new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hello, (Sorry, this is a long one, but I feel that each factor is important) I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are currently in our 3rd year of university. Anyways, last Summer I spent 3 months of it in my home ...

Asked a girl out said she's seeing someone else should I go for it anyways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Got this girls number had previously meet her and already decided that i liked her. Been texting a little bit asked her out on a date and she said she might be seeing someone else. I dont think their in a relationship just been out on a date. can i ...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so mean to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - one of my friends has recentally got a boyfriend who i think is very aggroant. he has only talked to me twice and both were mean things. him and my friend constantly give me nasty looks. and today he was telling his friends how ugly and fat i am. ...

I thought the meeting with my family went well but I haven't heard from him since

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi I posted a question earlier in the week about this guy who ive been seeing for a few weeks who met my parents for the first time on sunday. Anyway just to recap he wasnt in a hurry to leave and seemed to get on well with them and told me when he ...

My g/f blocked me on fb so her parents can't see my comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - we've been dating about one and a half years my girlfriend blocked me on facebook and told me it's because her family won't stop giving her crap about us and she's just sick of dealing with it she said it's like her parents can see things i pos...

Need help shopping for the perfect engagement ring

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - I'm starting the process of shopping for an engagement ring for my girlfriend. It seems like I've been reading up on them for hours, learning about the quality, cut and color. But I cannot seem to find a good way to determine carat size. I know th...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi Okay, I'm going to keep the introduction 'til my problem as short as possible. Please bear with me because I could really use some advice. I had a very rough childhood, bullied a lot and extreme. Then a couple of really bad things happ...

My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I...

What do I have to do to make my boyfriend realize that what I do for him/his family is out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Is it possible for someone to never be satisfied with you,rather not see how much you care.. My boyfriend of 5 years never really sees the good in me..I'v been taking care of his autistic sister for the past 4 years not because I have to but beca...

Is it true that if you've been hurt in a relationship you shouldn't compare others to your bad experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - I wont bother telling you the background of me and the girl I was dating for just about 3 months, I'm just interested by her comment and wanted to know what you guys can make of it... My best friend saw her last night and said he spoke to her and...

I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with t...

My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...

Didn't think he was the cheating type but I've caught him in lies and strange women answering his voice in the early am!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I feel like im going insane. I do. I come from a conservative family and always thought I would be with (in regards to sex) one man. I like about the idea of only knowing one person intimately and vice versa. Me and my current boyfriend wen...

I don't like him but I don't want to hurt him by breaking up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - ok so i been dating this boy for 2 weeks and i feel so embarrssed like everyone says im to pretty for him and that he is ugly and stuff and i just feel sad and im not attracted to him either and he is in love with me and im afraid if i break up with ...

I miss him and don't want to be with anyone else but he doesn't want a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Please Help! I was in a 5year relationship that ended less then a year ago. He actually broke up with me over text because he couldn't face me. The reason our relationship failed was bc I wanted to get married and he didn't. Marriage scared ...

HELP guy who loves me only for my looks? mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instead ...

How will I ever get a boyfriend with my shyness and home situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm a shy 17 year old girl and I have never had a boyfriend. Over the past year, I have gained a little bit of confidence and have started talking to boys more. I like this guy at college but i know that if we ever spoke I would get all nervous ...

B/f can't text me during the work day yet he's on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I've posted about this before on this site, however the problem is still continuing. Every time I text my bf while we're both at work he just completely ignores me, yet he's on facebook posting statuses, liking pictures, just doing whatever. He ...

I feel like I'm disgusting to my boyfriend, why won't he make love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - I’m a 29 years old man and I’ve kind of a love problem. I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, he’s 25. We’re together a bit more than a year and I’ve to say it has been the best year of my life. He’s perfect, he’s that kind of person I’ve always wanted to ...

Is he inerested? Does he like me? Should I ask him out for our second date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I went out on a date with a guy, the date went really well. We talked, laughed, he told me I looked nice, and at the end of the date we hugged and he told me we should definitely hangout again. I didn't want him to feel as if he had to be the on...

How long should I date a guy before asking to be exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I was using an online dating site and met a guy two months ago. He lives in another town about 45 minutes away. We see each other once or twice a week and communicate daily. He has a full time job, goes to school, and has a son. Recently he's been ...

Her awful childhood has led her to a lot of problems, I don't know whether I should try to help her and stick around. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - This is a long winded story but I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible. I've known my girlfriend for 4 yrs and we have been dating for about 2 months but we started really talking a month before that. Word around town was she was a easy ...

What kind of games is she playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - I am in love with a girl which happen to be sitting close to me while we were writting our s.s.c.e exams in 2010,but I didn't tell her then not until august last year,that's 2 year after we left the secondary school.when I first called her on the ...

Boyfriend broke up saying he had never felt like marrying me..something was wrong. I want him back though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I celebrated our two year anniversary at the beginning of February and he dumped me over the phone 11 days later. We were in what I considered to be a very committed relationship--sure we had never talked about marriage but to ...

I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discusse...

He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him...

The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 February 2013 (?) - I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...

What can I do? I'm scared my boyfriend's just gonna be like this the rest of his life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 24 years old. He dropped outta High School due to severe insomnia. He has no license, no job, and syill lives with his parents. He has big plans for his future but it seems he doesn't care to do anything about yet he always complains ...

Is this guy into harmless flirting or is he using Facebook to pick up women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Ok so I know I'm not the only person with this problem!!. I'm dating this guy Who claims to be really into me. He tells me he misses me all the time, Good morning and good night texted everyday and we talk on the phone for hours! We have been on a ...

Me or your cyberwoman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Here goes have asked questions before and it has been helpful. I met a man about two years ago, he is on the shy side and awkward. My daughter is in sports, that is how I met him. He always would come and support her at her games and fundraisers ...

My g/f likes to flash her guy friends just for fun?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - My gf likes to flash her guy friends just for fun I don't care but she continueisly says that she feels bad and that she dosent want to do anything that we as a couple don't agree on she asked me if I mind and even though I say I don't care she says ...

Is it acceptable or reasonable to have a crush on someone else whilst in a committed longterm relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I basically just wanted to ask if it is ever acceptable or reasonable to have feelings for someone else (or a "crush", for want of a better word) whilst in a committed, long term relationship? Would this mean that the current rela...

So was he scared off by my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a few weeks and things have been going pretty well until the other day. We met up to go for a walk but the weather took a turn for the worse so he suggested we go to mine as it was like the only place nearby that was ...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...

Boyfriend's female friend is always at his house and no one cares about my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Every week for the past 3 months, whenever I go to my boyfriend's mums there is this girl there. This girl has openly admitted to liking my boyfriend for the past 5 years and purely doesn't like me on the bases I'm going out with him and she isn't. ...

Girlfriend stood me up on valentines day and now says she's too busy to make up the date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - my girlfriend stood me up on valentines day saying she needed to study for exams. i had made some pretty big plans and felt really horrible. at first I didn't tell her about this but she realized something was bothering me so i finally told her...

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, bu...

Relationship Questions. Here are a few to answer or ponder on. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi folks,could you please answer the following questions? 1. Do you agree with this statement? -- "Men do not want female friends. They have their friends, and aren't on the lookout for new females to add to their circle, unless, of cours...

My ex claims he loves me so much so where is the RING at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I dated this guy in 2000 we hit it off we acted as husband and wife with children I have from another relationship.everything was going great but things started to change not physical he never put his hands on me but when we get in ...

How should I how him how I feel without saying it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Why did he do that? I really like him.? So I was hanging out with this guy I really like and he was playing music and I asked him what song is next and he said your favourite song. And he was right it was one of the songs I like and I ...

Should I be patient or is she not into me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Ok. I met this girl a few weeks ago in a stripclub. She gave me her phone number. So i text her a few days after. She remembers me. And ask me to call her. At first every things was great. She told me tha she wanted something serious. We went out on ...

Why is that when you're with someone, attractive and available guys are everywhere, but when you're single, they are nowhere to be found?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - This is a pretty straight forward question that hopefully somebody could answer... I've came out of a 7 month relationship about a month ago and i've not met one decent guy, or anybody at all who i've found myself attracted to! It's strange bec...

He's too independent, but I don't want to suffocate him. How do I handle his rejections?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone.. I´ve been with my bf almost two years. We´ve had some problems as every couple..but we love each other..At least I think so..He´s very kind to me,says he loves me all the time,he´s gentle, he surprises me, i have so much fun with...

Was he tired, confused, emotional for some reason. or just forgetful when he use the name of his ex, (instead of my name), when he spoke to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - The other day my boyfriend called me by his ex's name. He was making me laugh because I had been previously upset with a family member. All of a sudden while he was telling me a joke he used her name instead of mine. He was with her for three ye...

Is it a communication problem? Guys do ask me out, but whenever I date it never leads to much more than the first date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old, Whenever I'v liked or been attracted to someone,that person has always asked me out.. I'm an attractive girl and these men compliment me a lot,but I don't know why it never leads to relationships! Its just a date and then I f...