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Archived questions from: May, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I'm not happy with my girlfriend's appearance and lack of self care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1423 days ago

31 May 2020 (M) - If I’m not happy with my gfs appearance do I have another choice rather than leaving her? We were both in good shape when we got together few years ago but she is now borderline obese. Also our eating habits are opposite. She has this obsession w...

Is this guy trying to make me pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone This is my first time posting on this, and my friend told me its very helpfull, im not sure how much details to go into but this has really confused me and have asked a few people but not really had a answer lol, So a guy im seeing af...

Blocked, I'm angry at how all the blame is on me, should I send a letter and a gift?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

24 May 2020 (M) - I was seeing a girl and she has a boyfriend, who she got just a few weeks after we met. Turns out she wanted to see both of us. But recently finally, the boyfriend found out her secret. She was out with me, and he got security to bget into her room ...

Lockdown causing problems in our relationship and I'm not sure how to fix things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

24 May 2020 (F) - Hi all, hope everyone is staying safe and coping well during the pandemic. So I'm in a relatively new relationship, about 6 months with my boyfriend who is 1 year older than me. We met on a dating app. I thought we had got on well when we would me...

I feel trapped in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve been in a long term relationship for 8 years we have a coming up 6 year old son my partner 3 years ago suddenly started smoking weed he was good looking and smart when we met the relationship was great we both were working we went on ...

Does this man like me or need space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - This boy told me he likes me n he started holding me n kissing me. He stays the night n hold me. In morning he left early n didn't hear from him in a couple days. He came up to me n I said u didn't say nothing just left. He said I need to get on my ...

Did I emotionally cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

22 May 2020 (F) - Some background. I’m in my mid 20s, my boyfriend is early 30s. I went through a very tough breakup. This was at a time in my life where I was also experiencing four deaths of people close to me. I was an absolute mess to say the least. Throughout ...

Why did he ghost me after acting so insecure ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , ...

Girlfriend refuses to discuss our relationship.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

21 May 2020 (M) - My girlfriend got drunk one day after an argument. She met up with a friend and they took a guy back to her place. Her friend left but the guy stayed. The next day she said nothing happened and told me they were both naked in the bed. She also told ...

Where did I mess up with the LDR who faded on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

20 May 2020 (M) - This girl and I first met a couple of years ago, casually hanged out a couple of times, then went back to our own countries on the opposite sides of the world. A few months later, we briefly met one more time when I travelled to her country; we had ...

I worry I am just this woman's plaything.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

20 May 2020 (M) - Been seeing someone for about four months for only one day a week, she don't have any more time for me, it's really good that one day a week, I told her I looked her up on Facebook, she got really mad an said not to do that again and block me, am I ...

BE REALISTIC WHEN DATING A NEW GUY

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1438 days ago

14 May 2020 (F) - Women often get caught up in the excitement of finding a new man, so much so that they throw caution to the wind and carry on with him even when there are clear indications he is not worth the bother. The very needy ones might even insist that they ...

This guy I've met shares a house, and sometimes meals, with his ex wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1442 days ago

14 May 2020 (F) - I have met someone He is divorced and has 3 grown children the youngest is 20 and still in college. The ex wife and he share a house he lives in the basement and she lives on the first floor. They sometimes share meals and when daughter comes home ...

My partner's family never acknowledge my birthday

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

13 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 63 and my guy is 65. We both own our own businesses, both fairly healthy. No children. We got together six years ago and both had no children from before. He lives with me in my house and they have often visited here and spent a ...

How do I move on from the fixation on my crush

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1443 days ago

13 May 2020 (F) - So I have a crush on a guy. We were meant to meet for a walk a two weeks ago but a misunderstanding/miscommunication happened and we didn't end up meeting. He asked if I could meet the following day but I said i was busy with clients. He has...

Why is my ex fiance distancing himself from me? He wanted to be friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1445 days ago

12 May 2020 (F) - Hi all... My current boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. I was really heart broken. So, I reached out to my ex-fiancé for advice. Him and I haven’t spoken in a year. My ex-fiancé told me he wasn’t in love with me and left me for his ex. His ex ...

I'm dating my best friend but I'm not attracted to him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1445 days ago

11 May 2020 (F) - DEAR CUPID, I have never had the best of luck with picking men , I have dated the narcissist,the insecure and the controlling. My best friend of 12 yrs told me about six months that he had developed feelings for me, at first I felt like he ruined ...

Does my boyfriend still love his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

11 May 2020 (F) - I’ve been with the guy of my dreams for almost a year now and he goes above and beyond for me most of the time. Before me he was with this girl that he absolutely doted on for 7 years and was in a bad way when they finished Apparently. The the ...

He only wanted friendship before now it appears he wants more but his ex is pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1445 days ago

11 May 2020 (F) - My heart is really hurt and I don't know what to do. Maybe I know what to do but I don't like having to do it. Any suggestions? My qualifier (call him Ted) and I are both AA members to the same group and I have known him several years. When we f...

No one takes me on real dates

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

8 May 2020 (F) - Dating is not what I thought it would be and I'm ready to give up! My first boyfriend I was 13 and it was fine till he dumped me. We were in 7th grade and most teachers by then didn't make us have assigned seats so we sat next to each other. W...

I want to help my boyfriend deal with his past sexual abuse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

8 May 2020 (F) - Hi all. I wasn't sure where else to ask this, but I am not sure what my best actions can be. While drunk, my boyfriend recently divulged some information to me about his past. Basically when he was 14 (he's 28 now), an older woman (early-mid ...

I feel I would be better off staying single and just getting a bed buddy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - I am a single mom. I have been divorced twice. I attract toxic people. Or people who need fixed. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I feel like I truly know myself now. I am sensitive and an over thinker. I am wondering if I should just ...

Why does the Guy I’m seeing ask me insecure type questions ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

5 May 2020 (F) - Met this guy a month ago and he’s been pursuing me for awhile. First night we met up he cooked and baked cookies for us. he begged me to come over again and i did. But the second time i ended up spending the night and we had sex. I stayed again this ...

Why do men keep viewing me as a booty call in college?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

4 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a question about college guys, hooking up and dating. I recently transferred to a new university and I realized it was a huge mistake. Outside of academics, I don't like my classmates or the location, but I've already been her...

Uncomfortable situation with man I am dating and a friend that he slept with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1451 days ago

4 May 2020 (F) - Hello everyone, I met someone on NYEs and we hit it off really well. He is a close friend of my roommate. They have a huge circle of friends from college and have a lot of history together. These group of friends often have parties together...

I've met a girl online and the relationship is hard work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1451 days ago

3 May 2020 (M) - Let me begin by saying I never had a girlfriend. I met this girl online, and we really hit it off. Im going light on the details but thing is, she wants something more, to bee more than friends and I feel something for her. We know each other ...