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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...

Should I beg for a second chance, and hope its all a phase on her part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Im just here to vent. It's prolly obvious that it's over and nothing can be done. I fell in love with this girl years ago... gave her everything I had, planned my future around her, would do anything for her. I looked forward to spending the rest of ...

Did I cheat on my boyfriend, and if so does that mean I'm not happy with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, we've been together for 7 months and it feels very right, like I've found my soul mate. I've been through enough abusive/controlling/violent and generally unhappy relationships to know that I'm definitely ...

Our sex life seems to have gone out the window...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello! So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 5 months now and its all been going great until the last couple of months. Our sex life seems to of kind of gone out the window. As in we hardly have sex anymore. This makes me confused...

Is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I told the guy I am dating that I will go to a party and asked him if he could help me by giving me his opinion about the hairstyle. He acccepted. I thought he will ask me something about the party, but he did not. The only thing he knows that I ...

Return of my first love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bits but my first love is now back in my life and I'm falling in love with him all over again and we have started sleeping together. My head is so missed up I don't know what to do. I need ...

Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...

I feel like I have been "cheated" on, even though we aren't really a couple anyway. Help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend before. But during this past summer, I met this girl at my work who was amazing. I was very shy at first when talking to her, but as I started talking to her I could see we were making a ...

I simply don't know what to do or say to take it to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - There is a girl that I have recently been introduced to and I am pretty sure that there is chemistry between us. I am basically a 26 year old adult that does not have much sexual experience. I have absolutely no idea what I am doing, I can't...

I don't want a relationship based on sex - how do I avoid this? Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so I used to work with this guy for two months and well, that's how long we've known each other. When I first met him, I really liked him, a lot. And last weekend, he told me that he liked me since we met, and the day after,, he asked me...

Should I get a friend to arrange a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I saw this girl in my friend's birthday party but I could not speak to her, because this guy kept sticking to her all the time. I don't think she likes him more but he was just the guy who kept tracing her! I don't think she likes me or dislikes m...

I wonder where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl in college for about a month now and I've been spending a lot of time with her since we both are in the same program. We've already kissed and stuff and we are very comfortable with each other. My question is when I i...

What are good ways to show affection that women like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I was just wondering if most women like lots of affection from someone there dating..... What are good ways to show affection that women like ?...

I'm starting to wonder if she doesn't like me, that would be nasty because I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - So me and this girl have been texting for a while and we really like eachother. She's really cool and she always tells me I'm sweet and amazing. But when we meet eachother in person she barely makes eye contact with me and she freezes up. She barely ...

She doesn't love him so should I tell her what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - i fall in love with my best friend, its great when im with her but it is also confusing.i love her soo much.. and sometimes i feel like i got to tell her what i feel, but i dont know if she feels the same way. she loves me but not like i love her, ...

Should I practice patience or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Okay so two years ago my mum made this friend and it was just a coincidence that she had four kids two of which are the same ages of me and my sister (both boys).The moment i met my mum's friends son i was very attracted to him when i met him,...

How can I show her we belong together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex were together for 2 years and broke up bout 3 months ago. she wanted to get back together and i didnt want to and she said she would wait to work things out. then she get another boyfriend which made me jealous. so i wanted to get back ...

Boyfriend gave me an unwanted hickey?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - OK hi my name is mimmy.im 20 years old.and me and my boyfriends been together for 5 1/2 months. and he gave me a hickey.that i clearly didnt want.but If i tell him no he will stop and look at me and tell me why? why? you have another man at ...

Single for so long! What can I do to get guys to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hi, ok so iv been single for a long time now, bout 4years and even before that I have never been involved in a proper relationship. Ths is rally starting to get me down. I feel that I do have issues with my self-confidence and at times do not fee...

Should I let her past bug me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I found out that the women that i am dating for 6 mths has had 22 men in her past,some where relationships of 1 to 2 yrs in length but most where only a few mths in length and then she tells me that she has had 4 one nite stands.She is 35 yrs old ...

Is there anyone out there not looking for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I am a gay guy that doesn't drink alcohol, but has nothing against it. It tends to be the reason i can't find friends. It also effects my love life. Why is it that all of the friends that I meet eventually just want to have sex with me, then after ...

The signs are all there that he likes me, how do I make the next move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I want to step things up a bit. (sorry this is long!) Theres this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me too. All the signs are there, hes just extremely shy and I think hes new to the whole dating thing (I am relatively new to it too...so I...

How can I show him I moved on from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I will reach our one year anniversary soon .We really love eachother but he lost my trust a while ago. Four months ago or so, we had a break where he was sexually engaged with another girl.. although they did not do anything...

I like him and he doesn't know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I need major help. My bf dumped me 2 months ago for someone else after 3 years of relationship. I was hurt very badly, but tried to stay friends. I thought it would be very hard to fall in love again, but I hated being lonely. I’m an extremely...

Why doesn't she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Ok so this is kinda complicated. There's this girl that I've known since she was born, we'll call her connie and I'm in love with her. She is my best friend's sister, we'll call him Ted and I know things will NEVER happen between us. It's kinda ...

Should I let my guard down and give it a try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My best friend, who is a male, is soo great. we have been friends for about two and a half years. hes easy to talk and has always been there for me when im with "the other guy". when im hurt by somebody else, i run to him and he comforts me. he has ...

Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...

Should I go to his party? And if I do, my two dress choices may make me look like I'm dressing to impress!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm going to a formal dress party on friday night, hosted by the guy I like. Things have been eventful lately with us - we got together and then he freaked out a little and said it was all going too fast and we should just be friends, get to know ...

What can I do to get girls interested in me? And when do I go in for the kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - So this may sound like a familiar topic but I am a male who struggles with women. I have struggled my whole life but it seems like women just have absaloute zero interest in me. I can talk to them, I joke with them usually in a sarcastic form (not ...