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Dating: Help and advice

I'm in a messy relationship with no romance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1608 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - I've been with my bf for 4 years. We have one child together and he is 5. Around the time I got pregnant, we were having issues and broke up. Shortly after, he got a new gf and they were together for about about a year and a half, all thru my pregn...

Does he think we're official?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1611 days ago

26 November 2019 (F) - Been seeing this guy for a couple of months and uses “we” alot and even said the other day “ we make a good couple dont we?” Would you take this as him hinting or assuming we official? Or do you think I should wait for him to ask directly? I know I ...

My boyfriend seemed understanding that I developed two crushes, and that I want closure from one of them.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1610 days ago

26 November 2019 (F) - This summer I had a full-time internship that took up most of my time during the week and I had long, early hours. My boyfriend of 5 years and I couldn't see each other as often as we wanted since I lived at a dorm, he lived pretty far away, and I ...

My ex sent me a fb friend request, I do think about her a lot, and how I could have treated her better.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1611 days ago

25 November 2019 (M) - 1 year ago my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me 3 months after she moved far away for school. The main reasons she broke up with me, I think, were A) she decided she wanted to stay permanently and didn't want to take me away from my family, B) ...

My boyfriend keeps making comments that make me feel bad about myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1611 days ago

25 November 2019 (F) - I've been dating a man for the last 3 months that has never been in a relationship before. He's 27 and has dated but never committed. We met through mutual friends and had a bit of a rough start in some areas but he was always receptive to listening ...

Older guy us making a move on me but wants to keep it quiet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

25 November 2019 (F) - I have a friend (he's 20 years older). A couple of years ago, we had a talk about our feelings. He told me that he was interested in me but couldn't be with me because he had a girlfriend. We stayed in touch (close friends but nothing more) until ...

My GF is not a virgin but want have sex with me until we marry.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

25 November 2019 (M) - I am dating a girl who is 40 years old , it’s almost two months . We have great chemistry but I have one issue. She don’t want to have sex until we marry. She is not virgin ( someone raped her ) I don’t think she has to refuse sex If she is not ...

Is it childish of me to tell my mother about our arguments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

22 November 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I'm in my first serious relationship with a man. I've only dated a few guys before but it wasn't that serious and more like short term relationships. Since I'm taking things serious with this man and planning to get engaged,...

I'm tired of my 'bad boy' charade

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1616 days ago

22 November 2019 (M) - I used to be a bloke with low self confidence. I remember celebrating my 21st birthday still a virgin. Not been in a real relationship either. I had many close female friends, though I somehow friend zoned all of them. They kept telling me that I am ...

I'm in shock my boyfriend lied about sending private messages to my friend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

21 November 2019 (F) - My bf basically sent a message to someone he didn’t know was my friend saying “I think you’re beautiful and I think you should know lol” She sent me the screenshot. I called him very calm and said Hey, do you message girls on insta? He said no, ...

I want to take things slow but he thinks I am just stringing him along.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

21 November 2019 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 6 months, at first everything seemed great and he seemed like a gentleman, now I'm just having a hard time understanding his intentions. I'm not the type of girl who goes and sleeps around with any guy I date. I like t...

The guy I am interested in lives with a homeless woman who does drugs and they used to have sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

20 November 2019 (F) - I recently made contact with a guy from my high school from years ago. We talked for about a week, mostly through text, and made plans to meet up over the holidays, when he dropped a bombshell, and I need help sorting through it. Basically, he told ...

Can please someone tell me if I'm being manipulated or am I just controlling and delusional.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

19 November 2019 (F) - (Please read my previous post) So I wrote this post a little while ago: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-trust-my-boyfriend-around-his-female.html After blocking that girl, he promised me that he wouldn't talk to her again, and that he w...

S somebody who has suffered from major depression four times still entitled to hope for love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

19 November 2019 (M) - Well, the subject says it all ... that's basically the question I have. But I'll briefly give you some background. I'm willing to answer any questions and hoping for some dialogue, I don't expect any answers based on the short summary I give here. ...

How do I stop thinking about a fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1619 days ago

18 November 2019 (F) - How can I get over / stop constantly thinking about a fling? I came out of a 10 year relationship almost 18 months ago, Over summer I joined an online dating site and met somebody who was absolutely amazing. We talked online for quite a while be...

Why does my boyfriend seem obsessed with a woman he hasn't seen for a few years?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1459 days ago

18 November 2019 (F) - Hello, so I have been working with my boyfriend on and off helping him out in some of his work projects and he pays me, so he gave me his work laptop, not personal and I was working from there, so I remember I needed to search for a word meaning on ...

I'm not sure if I should trust this girl, or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1619 days ago

17 November 2019 (M) - Hey Aunts. I have recent gone on a few dates with someone who I met online. I was wondering when to remove my profile from the site, but she got there first and told me she had done so. Great I thought - best go and do the same quick. But as I ...

I get wet very easily when I am with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

16 November 2019 (F) - Hello, Ive been having a problem with being turned on and getting wet really easily, so basically I would be with my boyfriend just cuddling and I would get wet for some reason. It can be really awkward sometimes when I'm out in public with him. We ...

Why are people obsessed with having a "spark" when dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

16 November 2019 (F) - I went on a date with a new guy last week (not the same person my recent threads have been about). When I met him I thought he was nice looking but I didn't feel this 'spark' everyone keeps going on about. I enjoyed his conversation and felt we had ...

What's wrong? Trying asexual dating but that also isn't working. What's wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

14 November 2019 (F) - Hello. First of all, thank you for your mostly kind responses to my last post. I'm the lady who posted about being raised by my grandparents. (I did not write the title). After a long period of failed relationships (four with men one with a woman...

I think I need more information about how his last relationship ended before he makes plans to visit me! Thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

11 November 2019 (F) - I am in a new “situation” with a man for 5 months, 3.5 months of which has been long distance. He has been visiting the country that he lived in for 10 years that he left a year ago. I recieved a message this evening saying that he wants to come and ...

I need help with online dating ettiquette!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

10 November 2019 (M) - Hey everyone. I was just wondering at what point when dating someone is it normal / the etiquette do you not chat with other people / ask for dates? I've been online dating for a while, but without much / any success. Had a second date recently, t...

I love my girlfriend but am lusting after her mom

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

7 November 2019 (M) - I love my girlfriend but I can't stop lusting after her Mum. Is there something wrong with me? We've been together for 2 years and are both 24. Her Mum is 41. I don't know what it is but over the past few months or so I've started finding her Mum ...

Am I in the friend-zone? What should I do to avoid becoming her friend and further into a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1631 days ago

7 November 2019 (M) - I'm a 37 year old male, met this girl who is 31 on a dating app. We're both of Chinese background. She's had two relationships prior to our match; both long term. We hit it off pretty well over texts, subsequently I asked her out for dinner. She ...