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He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

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20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

Does this mean his still likes me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, a week ago me and my bf ended it. I did. Today I texted him telling him I wanted to talk. He said sure. After class, he asked how was my week without him. I said good and asked him how his week was. He said um good. Does that mean he like me ...

Should I stay in this relationship or move on?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Should I stay in this relationship or move on? I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am deeply in love with. She loves me too but not anywhere near the intensity or passion that I have for her. I accept that, because we all l...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

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18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

Does he still think of me as long term, or are we fading?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend only a few weeks ago (max a month ago) told me I was 'The One' for him and told most of his family the same. He said he wants to get his career in order first, and will probably propose to me in a few years when he's ready. For about ...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

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18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

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18 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

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18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another ...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

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17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

Is it possible for him to get those feelings back and for this relationship to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, A few days ago, my boyfriend of 7 months told me that his feelings have changed over the last few weeks because i dont trust him, and it has eventually driven him away. He was about to break up with me, but we had a long conversation, an...

I am pregnant and ignoring two men. Which one should I choose?

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16 November 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one. Its tricky. Am pregnant. The father of the baby has not been very supportive. He buys food and well made me sign a receipt saying I owed him 100 quid so I did and will pay it back to him and get him to sign a receipt but ...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

I am so down... How can I make my relationship better?

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16 November 2009 (F) - im feeling really down at the minute and i think it may be because of my relationship. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im only 19 so i know anything can happen and there are plenty of more fish in the sea etc but i dont want to leave ...

I feel trapped in this marriage, should I leave or should I stay?

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody, Hope you can help me out with this dilemma. I'm really confused about what to do. I am married with no kids. I met my wife to be at 21 and we started a serious relationship that saw us marry at 27, and I'm 32 now. My wife is ...

Have I fallen out of love? Or am I just confused?

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16 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for almost 3years now the one time we broke up because he was a player and i figured i had to move on. i fel for his friends kindness and mistook it for love he heard im dating his friend and he came back to fix things it...

Me and my girlfriend have lost the spark, how can I get it back?

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hi, i've been with my girlfriend for 9months now and i love her to pieces and would do anything for her. Recently she said that the spark wasn't there as much as it used to be but theres nothing to worry about and she loves me very much. I live away ...

Get Your Ex Back By Learning How to Say I'm Sorry

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16 November 2009 (F) - You may need to be able to say I'm sorry if you really want to get your ex back. Or are you wondering why you need to say that you are sorry. After all, doesn't it take two to argue and fight? Unfortunately a pattern of arguments causes a lot of ...

He said he wanted nothing to do with me. Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i really need help...i started talkin 2 diz amazing boy nd i started fallin in love wit him the only problems was dat we werent going together...we started having sex and everything was fine until i stayed at his house he started trying 2 make me ...

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

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15 November 2009 (F) - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...

I didn't know how I felt and now that I do, I've lost my best friend!

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14 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I had this best friend and we both developed feelings for one other. When I say best friends i mean glued to the hips .. soulmates. The only person i could be myself around. Problem was i had a boyfriend and admittedly i messed my best fri...

My jealousy cost me a friendship with the girl I love

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14 November 2009 (M) - hey, i have a girl,whom i use to like her so much. used to talk everyday n hang out weekends together like friends. some how i started feelings for her n felt jealous about her friends. i totally went possessive. i told her that i had feelings...

He says he likes me but now he's trying to provoke me!

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14 November 2009 (F) - question! what the helllll is wrong with men?! ok a guy that i know likes me he is 20. He liked me for a very long time but last year started showing his feelings more! then this year i told him i liked him but i dont wanna date him all he has d...

No man has seen me naked because of my stretch marks. Should I get a tummy tuck?

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14 November 2009 (F) - I am in my late 40’s. I have no confidence when it comes to my body. I am on my 3rd divorce and each one of them have cheated on me (I don’t blame them) as I will not show my naked body to anyone. Everyone always says you got nice figure but they...

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

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14 November 2009 (F) - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much ...

Is there a reason he might've stopped saying "I love you"?

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14 November 2009 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have been dating for some 2+ months. Every day before we went to bed, we would say "Good night, I love you", or something of that sort. But recently, my boyfriend has stopped saying "I love you" to me, and I can't think of ...

Why do I always drift away in relationships or is it just fate?

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13 November 2009 (F) - I am 14 years of age and I'v only had 2 proper intimiate relationships. Everytime I get intimate with someone, you would think that would bring me closer to that person but somehow we drift apart. I know it's somthing to do with my extreme s...

How do I stop the fire from fading in our long distance relationship?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hi my name is tuesdai Im currently in a long distance relationship with my Bf it has been a 1year and couple months since we were in this. We love each othe dearly but right now we getting the feeling that the fire in fading how do i prevent this ...

He says I'm 'getting carried away' for wanting to visit him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hey!! You guys have to help me!! Ok...so there is this guy that i was/am/could be kinda seeing..but it is a long distance thing...coz he lives in Wales and me in London. BUT...we've only been together a short while so its nothing serious at all...i ...

She doesn't seem to want me, but doesn't anyone else to have me either.

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13 November 2009 (M) - Heyas, Recently attended an overnight movie thing with a girl I really like at her male friend's place. Originally he only invited her however she told me about this and wanted me to go, so I obliged. I've known this girl for nearly a year and ...

Should I ask my boyfriend for a break (so I can pursue another guy)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 21 and have been in a happy, loving relationship for 3 years but recently moved to Spain to study for a year. Before I moved away I realised that the spark in my relationship had started to fade and I felt less attracted to my boyfriend than ...

He used me for sex and now he ignores me

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12 November 2009 (F) - Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again, we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried ...

After some relationship setbacks I feel alone and unattractive

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12 November 2009 (F) - After an upsetting break up, I met someone who was always there for me. We were instantly interested in each other but the problem was that he lived too far away from me and pursuing a relationship would be difficult. Last week, I found out from h...

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

My cousin is in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - ok so i have this really big problem.. i came back to my country this july, and we lived in my cousins house fer a month, my cousin was 18, now 19, and im 15. age isnt rlly a problem. so after a couple of days from wehn we started living ther, he...

My husband won't touch me sexually!

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11 November 2009 (F) - I have a very much needed please help save my marriage question. Well here goes,I have a very nice husband, except when it comes to being with me sexualy in anyway shape or form. and WITH HIM THERE'S no talking about it either. he started this abo...

Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing ...

The new guy seems suddenly distant. Did my ex say something about me?

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11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I broke up with my ex back in March and we havent been on speaking terms at all for the last couple months (we decided that we cant be friends right now because it would always be more, and he had a new gf) he broke my heart but i am ove...

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...

My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therap...

Why would my ex-girlfriend block me from MSN?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - well i think my ex has blocked me on msn but i know she has deleted me. we had an argument but then she forgave me and told me she would give me one more chance. the reason why she deleted me was because i was getting on her nerves but didnt bl...

My boyfriend dumped me and now I feel useless

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10 November 2009 (F) - i was depressed when i met my first and only boyfriend, and he sorta made me feel better, lifting me a little bit along the way. but after five months of being together, he dumped me--- and for the stupidest reason. since he hates mo now, i feel s...

I am afraid to marry her, yet also afraid to flush 5 years of my life down the toilet.

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9 November 2009 (M) - I will try to be brief. I have been dating my girl friend for almost 5 years, 4.5 of which she has lived with me. We've gone through many ups and downs as all relationships do, but more and more I dread the thought of spending my life with her as a ...