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Faded love: Help and advice

Can you love someone you don't admire?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

7 November 2009 (M) - Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I...

Should I patch up the relatonship with my girlfriend or take a chance with the new woman I have met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (M) - I’ve been in a long distance relationship with “A” 3.5 years now. We see each other almost every weekend. Lately we’ve grown almost apart. We don’t call, no texts, nothing. We share friends and family together and I’m afraid if we split I will ...

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...

How can I forget the emotional abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...

Has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

5 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was ...

I was too clingy and my girlfriend has drifted. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I'am whit this girl for about a month now,(this is my first relationship by the way), at first it was great we were totally over each other and I could see that she is attracted to me, but I was too clingy and followed her wherever she went...

Is he "taking it slow" or disinterested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this man for a little over a month. He is significantly older than me (13 years) and pretty busy. We talked last Saturday and Sunday and we both said we wanted to take things slow due to failed past relationships (jumping into ...

Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to ...

She's on the fence, how do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and ...

Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he ...

How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who i...

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...

My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...

My ex-girlfriend says she wants to be friends, but is hot and cold with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want ...

Have I ruined everything with the man I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months. He's a complicated creature, very sports orientated from a young age so his appearance has always been important to him so he regularly goes to the gym. He has also never been on holiday with anyone and canno...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

Why has she changed so suddenly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - help me please, im screwing the best thing i have ever had in the world up and yet i cant stop myself. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 4 months now and i am so deeply in love with her, she makes me feel wanted needed and loved in...

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

How do I wow my girlfriend again? She seems to have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 and a half months, its been exciting and stressful,alot has happened but i love her, there was a problem with her ex who kept phoning her and trying to come round and one day he did. what made...

I want to shower my girlfriend with gifts, but is it too much if we are on the rocks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are sort of on the rocks- it nearly ended last week but i've booked a surprise holiday to Vienna for our first year anniversary tomorrow and although she doesn't know where we're going she's agreed to come and we'll hopefully ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I renewed my commitment and she said fate will decide!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I consider my relationship with my girlfriend extremely healthy, I have had about 3 girlfriends in my life and non of them had the effect that this girl has on me, I guess I can say this one is the 'one'. Well at least I thought she was... I am...

A few days ago he sweeps me off my feet. Now he wants to be friends. What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I posted this yesterday but gave everyone the wrong idea by using the word 'intimacy' - I didn't mean sex, I was just trying to describe the feeling of closeness we had, as though we'd been together for a long time... I don't know what happened!! ...

Am I just a fool in love? Why is my wife ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Im starting to wonder if my wife is still in love with me or not. I constantly feel like she is disrespecting me and is simply with me for convienience. Out latest argument was on Halloween when at the bar with her and friends, I would order a dr...

She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...

My boyfriend has been head over heels in love... until recently!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my bf for 11mths, he has been head over heels for me until recently. The past month has been awful I must say. He is finding ways to say he is busy (either at work or at school) so has no time for meeting me as he used to. His texts ...

I want to break up but how to tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi,I can't raaly understand why I'm riting and asking you that question,but first time in my life I feel ansequre if the tnings that I am going to do are right.I have a boyfriend from a year ago.In the start was normal relationship.but now I just ...

Is he being clingy or am I just not used to a guy like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Im loosing patience with my guy of 6 months. I was the one head over heels for him and had to step back cuz he was not ready. well now he is ready, askin me to move in for the last 3 months and i dont the feel the same as i did. He calls me allot...

Should I stay with Mr. Comfortable or try something new?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I started dating my fiance when i was in high school. He has been my first everything, and we've been together for almost 6 years. He is a great guy, very nice. But I find myself bored with him. The sex has never been good we've tried everything.. ...

Is there any way I can save this? Whatever I say is falling on deaf ears!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - (i posted a few days ago, but have reposted with extra details) my boyfriend of three years works very hard, and long hours. he has a son who lives with him, and money is tight. i also work but part time, i have three sons and we usually s...

Could he fall back in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Do you think it's possible for a man to fall out of love with a woman, and them fall back in love with her? My boyfriend and I have a house together and we've been having major problems. He's told me that he doesn't love me anymo...

Why is my ex stiff and formal? He's the one who dumped me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My ex fiance broke my heart 9 months ago. We were together for 7 years, best friends, and VERY much in love, but one day he said he had an epiphany and couldn't be with me anymore (his family is very religious). He's 27 and I'm 29. We planned to ...

Is he trying to leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i am 3 and half months pregnant and i have noticed that my boyfriend hasnt really wanted to have much to do with me anymore. he says it is my fault he is pulling away. is it really me that he is trying to leave?...

Desperatly wanting the love of my husband back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My husband wanted to talk to me the other night about us. The other night he told me he loves me but is not in love with me anymore but I am his best friend the thing is i felt the same way but i do love him and want our marriage to work. Since our ...

How to erase the ex from my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hii so my ex boyfriend is a total jack ass. like he is extremly sick and mean. he used to like verbilly abuse me and he liked seeing me get hurtt. he would call me fat ugly and useless alll of the time. he even made me drop myy best friend for ...

Is he just usuing me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - he asked me to treat him to dinner. unlike before he would never ask me for anything. is he not serious with me anymore? does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? I also occasionally give him load even sometimes he doesn't really seem to w...

He stopped texting me back, is he planning to break up with me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, my boyfriend has stopped saying sweet things to me. Is he planning to break up with me? My boyfriend and I used to text sweet things to each other before we went to bed every day, and then one day, I tell him good night, ...

LDR: feeling neglected!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Lately, I feel my boyfriend doesn't make an effort to talk to me. LDR. Even though he calls, but sometimes I feel he does it 'cause he thinks he has to since I complained about it before. Just recently, he slept over his friends house out of the ...

How do I know if this is going to work out? She's not dealing with some things because of a bereavement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I usually don't do posting like this but I don't know who to turn to. I love my wife dearly but we don't seem to see things eye to eye. She believes I need therapy and have problems, she doesn't understand some of her behavior causes ...

Lack of sex is souring our relationship and I want my space, is this enough justification to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Hi, So I'm in what seems to be a near-perfect (homosexual) relationship right now, my boyfriend and I are very attuned to each other, we are respectful, gentle, and loving, and this December will be 3 years. We marvel at how connected we are...

Did I ever mean anything to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - About 2 years ago I dated a woman who was just out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she was obsessed with, she was on the rebound, we dated for 5 months, she went back to him and I was heartbroken I was in love with her. To make matters worse , ...

I started wondering what else is out there. Is there something better? Is he the one for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - So I am lost and confused. I am 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with my current bf for almost 9 years now. I have never questioned our relationship before, but recently I couldn't help but wonder what else is out there, is there ...

How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...

I love him so much but he is cold and I just can´t take it anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I know it´s quite long but please take time to read my post. For the past few days (weeks) my boyfriend has been acting weird , cold and doesn´t talk to me as often (right now doesn´t talk to me at all or approach me ,speaks to me only when I´m...

He cut me off suddenly....what did I do wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - he cut me off and i just dont know what i did wrong.. I dated this guy for a month,we always had a good time toghether and he said so himself, we were double dating alot with his friend and my friend which are now b/f and g/f...he was aff...

I'm upset that he said he tried to love me but couldn't. Am I not loveable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I am confused about something and lookign for other people's perspective. I'm gay, if that matters, and have just been dumped by my boyfriend of 4 months.I always wondered his true feelings for me, and it was upsetting me a great deal, so I asked...

Long distance disaster...is he over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok, here is my story.... me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 years now. we have grown up together since we were 15yrs old. we are eachothers 1st bf/gf...1st EVERYTHING! i am SO in love with this boy and i thought he would say the...

Is it really my fault he fell out of love with me? Where did this come from?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am 37 and have been married for 17 years with a 15 year old daughter. My husband had a breakdown 5 weeks ago and told me he didn't love me. Since then he has been to the doctors, one minute saying he doesn't know what he wants and saying he ...