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Archived questions from: February, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel disrespected because we make plans and his son changes them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hello everyone I’m reaching out for help as I’m very frustrated. I’m 40 my boyfriend is 42 both divorced and has a kid, same age 12 years old. We have been in a relationship for a year and kids get along well and once in a while we plan for them to ...

After 10 years my partner has become my room mate and I'm feeling bored.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do in this situation. I am 30 years of age and I've feel like I've had so much going on in my life for ages, I've not been able to have a clear head about what i want romantically. I've had a partner for 10 years, but ...

He says he will never marry me, which makes me think I am not good enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1509 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hey all been with my partner for a year I've moved in with him and it's going great he has 2 young children who he sees alot and we have a great time together. Hes been married twice and engaged once. I've been engaged twice and married once. We ...

She left because I didn't propose after 2 years of dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - Hi, I will quickly describe the situation, though I ask you to please not to condemn me harshly. I am in my upper 40s, never married. Met a woman two years younger, also never been married. We dated for two years. It has been my first long-term ...

I lied to my girlfriend about why I don't drink alcohol.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - About ten years ago, I was a heavy drinker. One night, I got so drunk that I am surprised that I didn't die. I even threw up all over myself and the bed while I was sleeping. After that night, I quit drinking completely. When my girlfriend and I...

My boyfriend appears to lack empathy for others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

26 February 2020 (F) - Hi all I’d really like some input as to weather I’m being over sensitive . My partner and I don’t see eye to eye on certain matters and I am having a problem distinguishing if I am being too sensitive or if he is missing empathy and human compassion ...

He treats me like a queen, but has an appetite for other women, should I leave him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

26 February 2020 (F) - Hello I'm 30 years old. Been with my bf for six years he's 32 years old. He's good to me, he's affectionate, loving, kind, considerate, charming etc. I just moved in with him in his parents home,I know what it sounds like, I was going through some ...

My boyfriend has a leash on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

25 February 2020 (F) - I am starting to really dislike my boyfriends aunt because she has a leash on him. I want to clarify that I have been in a happy relationship for about 7 months now and I am really in love with him but I cannot deny that his aunt annoys me. I wo...

My friend was like a sister to me but then suddenly cut me off - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1522 days ago

24 February 2020 (M) - I'm 27 and in a relationship, but this is a question about a friend. Before any of you jump in saying that it's weird for straight taken guys to have female friends, let me just say that I've had female friends since I was about 3 and that just ...

My boyfriend has had more sexual partners than I am comfortable with. How can I find a way to accept this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1438 days ago

24 February 2020 (F) - I'm struggling with the number of sex partners my boyfriend has had before meeting me. I've only been with one other man besides him and that was my ex husband. My bf has had sex with way more people than I have. But he says his morals and values ...

Should I stop being so uptight and be happy that I'm wanted or should I go it alone again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1523 days ago

23 February 2020 (F) - I am a broken person. I know this, i know that my abusive relationships and sexual abuse as a child has had a big role to play in how i cope with things. I am quitr a strong person but it took me alot to get here. Im over protective and now i have a ...

We met on a dating app and spoken for 3 weeks but he hasn't asked me on a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1523 days ago

23 February 2020 (F) - So I've started to get back into the dating scene after being single nearly 2 years. My friends suggested online dating, which I don't really like the idea of, as I prefer to meet a guy naturally but Ive given it a whirl anyway. I've matched with ...

Despite a live in boyfriend my life is a lonely one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

22 February 2020 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost 3 years. We have lived together for 8 months. When we are together I feel comfortable and content, most of the time. I am feeling lonely recently because he has been choosing to go out with his friends both Fri...

My boyfriend keeps cancelling plans for me to visit him while deployed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

20 February 2020 (F) - My boyfriend is currently deployed. On 3 separate occasions we have made plans for me to travel to see him and he has canceled for one reason or another. Initially I bought into his excuses, but at this point I am skeptical. We have only been ...

In love with 2 men I am just in limbo at the moment and don't know which way to turn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

18 February 2020 (F) - I have never been so tormented. I am in love with two people. I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years but I got to know someone else. It started as friendship but somehow we have developed feelings for each other. I now have no idea what to do. I ...

Am I too messed up and damaged to ever have a happy relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

16 February 2020 (F) - I am 26 and have lived in a toxic, emotionally abusive household my whole life. I come from a culture where you're guilted into never moving out until marriage. (I'm saving up to move out as soon as I can though). Also, if I ever go no contact with ...

The man I've been going out with made sexual jokes about my friend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

15 February 2020 (F) - I have been going out with this lovely man for about 3 months now. We have been official for 1 month. I think he is a great man, goal-oriented, and self-driven. I really like his bubbly personality and how easy it is to interact with him. He mak...

How Do I Get My First Date Before I Turn 30?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

12 February 2020 (M) - I am a overweight, not very handsome, not particularly smart or interesting, bald, geeky, awkward male virgin. I am very introverted to say the least. I've never even kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. When I get nervous, I stutter and my ...

I don't like the boy my mom has me dating. How do I break up without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

11 February 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mom has me and my best friend dating but I don't love him the same way he loves me. He's sending me money and stuff but I have feelings for another person and I'm clueless on what to do. How do I tell the boy i have feelings for i li...

My idea of dating doesn't match that of my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts!! In need of some opinions and maybe an insight of my issue here. A little background story; I'm 21, Malaysian Chinese and in my final semester of my undergrad degree. Started dating my bf for about 10 months now and everything is pretty ...

I'm worried the chase is over now this guy has had sex with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

9 February 2020 (F) - I’m a 27-year-old female and I’ve been dating a 32-year old male for the past four or five weeks. Here’s some background info… We originally matched on Tinder back in October 2019 and began speaking but at that time I didn’t feel like it was the ...

A girl he has never met sent my boyfriend a video of her boobs.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1539 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My partner of 2 years has been amazing but in December I sadly found a girl had sent him a video of her showing her boobs and it really hurt me Cos he saved it and he promised me him and this girl were just mates they never met up but still it hurt ...

I asked out a girl I'm crazy about but she said she is already in another relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1539 days ago

6 February 2020 (M) - I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...

I'm having a hard time expressing my needs within the relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1541 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - Hi guys! Background: I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. I’m 27 he’s 28. We’ve talked about potentially moving in together when my lease is up in May. This is the first relationship I’ve been in that is relatively healthy, and I’ve ...

I have a boyfriend. Is it inappropriate to have my male best friend meal prep for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

5 February 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. Last week, one of my close friends who is male, asked if I could go accompany him to the wholesale supermarket since I had a membership and he wanted to get purchase a bunch of cleaning ...

Be patient or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

3 February 2020 (F) - I started a part time course to work in education in September 2019. There is a man on the course and I thought he seemed nice but assumed he was married and left it. It has only been has time has gone on he has paid me more attention and I have ...

My girlfriend is addicted to prescription drugs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1545 days ago

1 February 2020 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and generally hit it off. We have lots in common, we’re looking for similar things in life and from each other, and she’s beautiful. She is a lovely caring person. Very smart. Adventurous. I could go on... Obviously ...