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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Will we have enough cash to survive on if we move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have started new jobs and we both get just over £13k a year but want to get a apartment in the next couple of months thinking about £500 pcm fully furnished and close to our jobs about 15mins drive from work. we obviously are gonna ...

Is it more common for a guy to text a girl he likes, before bed, or after school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I go to an all-girl school, and the only way to go to homecoming is to be asked by a boy at the all-guy's school right next door. My friends set me up with one of their guy friends that I'd never met so that we could all go as a group. He was ...

I have a bf but can't forget the other guy. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I've made such an incredible mess. I was with somebody for 3 years (lets call him D) and threw the whole relationship away for someone who I had so much in common with, he made me feel wonderful and he was ever so good looking, my tall dark mystery ...

I like someone who is going to have an arranged marriage..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - So there's this guy who i like for almost 2 years now, he's indian and I just found out the other night that he's going to have an arranged marriage. The relationship we have is kind of weird, were not friends but we talk sometimes on msn or ...

I thought we were flirting, but she was getting serious

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - I have a serious problem I know this girl,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.She really likes me and I like her too.Anyways we started to flirt.This I didn't take serious as I was only joking and also thought she was joking too. Because I k...

Where can we go, where we don't have to spend money? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - To simplify -this is a conversation I have ALOT with my girlfriend: ME: I don't feel like staying in the apartment tonight, let's go out someplace and do something. GF: I don't have any money. ME: We don't have to spend money - we can just...

Why would he want to spend time with an older woman when he could have me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I recently turned 21 I haven't had a boyfriend in awhile. I consider myself mature and I met a guy a few months ago that is 12 years older than me. He was in a long term relationship so he doesn't want to commit right now. He talks so sweet to me ...

Ladies, how do I get 'the edge' ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - I'm particularly interested in hearing responses from straight women in their 30s and 40s on this one. I appear to have a problem with women, and without being immodest, it seems that I'm too 'nice' and I don't have 'the edge'. The N word has b...

Younger men, can you tell me if he is telling the truth, or is he trying to control an older woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Well here is my drama I am in a strictly sexual relationship with a man 14 years younger than I am and he has told both while drinking and sober that he wants to take our relationship further. He has told me that he wants to take things slower as ...

Should I tell him how I feel? I think it could work because I am moving back closer to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend passed away almost 4 months ago and since then I have not really felt like moving on up until about a month ago. I told a guy in my school that I have a crush on him. I'm a bit scared to start a relationship now becuase I'm moving in ...

Is there such thing as love at first sight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Is there such thing as love at first sight? Iv met this girl and only been out with her a few times and something just feels right about it and like we have a connection, i didnt want to sat anything but she said thats how she felt the same wa...

His female friends seem more suited for him..should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Hey I've just started going out with this boy who i met through a friend, hes really nice, friendly and polite. He's kinda emoish but likes mainstream music and stuff as well. I'm not really into either of them. He has alot of friends who are girl...

My name is being dragged through the mud! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I recently asked a question regarding my ex-girlfriend and my new girlfriend. My new girlfriend wanted me to change my facebook status to "In A Relationship" after dating her for just a couple of weeks. I met her less than a week after me an...

We have been dating but I found him back online asking to meet up with other women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Ok here goes Typical story, one of which I have not been in before and kinda need advice I met a guy around 3 months ago from a site. Chatted for a good while and then met up. Got on great and he asked to see me again. Had another date. Dat...

Why would he get an erection while we were out walking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I went for a walk with my boyfriend just like everyday we did in the evening. but yesterday i saw something from his pants. I do think that it was an erection. we are dating for 1 months now never kiss before just hold hand sometimes and he never...

Is this age difference too big? And how do I overcome my shyness so I can date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - hello, well, there is this girl i like.....her name is emma( not actual) anyway....ive just turned 17 and shes 14 turning 15 early next year...the gap is about 2 years and a few months.....firstly is this gap to big? we have discussed it and agree ...

Was this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Ok im sure all the adults are going to say the same thing they say to every other kid that askes this question. but im different then other kids my age. i was raised only around men betwean the age of 30-60 so i have the mind of an older person. my ...

He can't stand that I have a 'past' -- will every other guy be the same way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Are all men obsessed with their partner's past? My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. In the beginning everything was perfect, obviously. Until he asked about my past. It wasn't wild, I made out with some guys, had crushes on other...

I keep thinking we could be more ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - i'm a 16 year old girl in my second year of high school. ok so hears my problem, i really likke this guy. i mean like i really like him. i always think of him and i'm always jealous when he talks to other girls. well at the end of last year we ...

All this chemistry but never been out on a date!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some perspective on this, as I am in far too deep emotionally, and I have fallen for him hook line and sinker. I really like him, I think he is an incredible man, but am I just bashing my head against a wall with this?: We ema...

He doesn't know any of my friends but I invited him to a party, was that the wrong thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I've known a guy for 2 months and been dating him for the last month. We see each other about 3 times a week and he always initiates getting together. I've been invited to my friend's birthday in a week's time and I told him about it. The other day ...

Scared to trust again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - iwas with my ex for eight years we weren't even broken up agood month and he was with someone else whom he got pregnant its been two years now and we seem like we were never apart and I happen to love his baby. him and the girl split up and he ...