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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is it alright to slip a guy your number in class?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I'm not a social butterfly I'm a little shy because I don't know how to start a conversation most of the time. Anyhow I keep catching this guy in my class checking me out usually I'd see him out of the corner of my eye. Until recently I caught him ...

My partner of 3 years is no longer is interested in sex and I discover he's watching porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - hi all, i have been with my partner for 3 years we used to have sex regularly, now its once a week if i'm lucky, but i have looked through his phone and our computer and found he has been watching porn. i am a little hacked off at this because he g...

Is this just a 'guy thing' or disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Okay, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and he has a blog, on this blog he posts pictures regularly of girls bums/girls in lingerie, raunchy stuff etc. He knew it got to me and I've asked him so many times to stop it and he doesn't ...

How to explain lack of relationship experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - 30-year-old male who, due to many factors, has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex. I didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues. I've managed to turn things around a bit these past two ...

In 11 months we've never asked where the relationship is going

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 34 year old woman, and I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 11 months. We do like each other's company, we like to go out and enjoy ourselves too. Our sex life is pretty good too. However, although it's been nearly a year ...

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...

My boyfriend and I want a baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I had sex unprotected while I was on birth-control an had my period a week later. Three weeks later I stopped my birth control because my bf and I want a baby. What are my chances of getting pregnant and would it be from the unprotected sex befo...

I'm attracted to her don't know if she's open to dating women. How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - So, I'm bisexual and have a huge crush on a mutual friend who is a female. I've seen her around before because we do have friends in common but I've never actually spoken to her before. Basically, she doesn't know I exist which at this point is a ...

When do I tell my new boyfriend I am a bankrupt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello, i was married in 2007 divorced in 2009 my husband fleeced me, tricked me into putting everything in my name - including his business which i hadnt realised was failing, a business load for 25 grand etc and the mortgage - as soon as i split up ...

I care more for boyfriend's friend than for the boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, my problem is i have been dating with my guy for a year, but i liked his friend too. As the relationship with my guy went on, he cheated on me a number of times then my love for him decreased each time i found out because i nolonger ...

Girl won't be with me because of her moms beliefs! - HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I am in a very bad a frustrating situation. I was married to a girl who left me for another guy and was living with him before we even got an official divorce. It took me a long time but I am finally over that now and have met the absolute girl of ...

She said she didn't have a Facebook page and lo and behold, I find pictures of her with another guy! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - Ok so I dont have a huge problem persay with this,more rather I want some opinions on the matter. Ive been seeing this girl for about a week now,weve been talking for over a month now and things seem to be going well. Last Saturday we went...

Are his comments about losing weight unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I need to know if I am over-reacting to this situation. My fiance are a happy couple, mostly. We've been together a couple of years now, and I feel that he accepts me for who I am and all my flaws. Except one. I have a hormonal condition that m...

Ladies, What do you think of my poem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I'm really interested in getting your opinion(s) on this poem. It's for a lady who I am really close to , but we are not officially a couple. I already wrote her a love letter and she keeps bringing up the fact that she reads it again and again. I'm ...

Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as...

How do you create a long lasting relationship with a woman? Do you have to be a 'bad boy'? Or are there some women out there who like the good guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - How do you make a woman fall in love with you? Yes i know iv heard it all before ''you cant' - ' you cant help who u fall in love with '' etc, but generally speaking, i have found that women who are hurt/abused not necessarily physically, but more ...

My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ...

Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really ...

Do I take a risk and do what he is asking me to do? Or do I follow my head and my heart and not move in for a while longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to approach the issue of 'progressing' in a relationship with my bf. He's nagging me to move in with him, and I don't want to yet. We've been together 20 months, and have been pretty happy the whole way through ...

Have I got a problem with commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I was in a terrible relationship which ended years ago. It was traumatic but I thought I had moved on. Since then I've dated lots of people. I've always said "yes" to any date just to spread my net wide and make sure I don't turn into a recluse b...

I'm tired of choosing the wrong men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - meet this man on a dateing site we hit it off good had 3 date ,then he im me to say his sons did not want him to date an so he ended it . but i ask him at first was he ready to moved on an he said yes an also said his sons wanted him to find someone ...

Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. ...

I really like two women. One is available. The other isn't ready for a relationship right now. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - I need some help! I am a single male. I was divorced ten years ago. I got out of a long term relationship two years ago. I have had time on my own and I am ready to date again. This is my problem. I have two lady friends. Both are attractive a...

We say 'I love you' to each other, but I've never told her I'm 'in love' with her. Should I tell her? Will this ruin things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - is it better to tell a significant other that you are 'in love' with them? Should i say this to my gf or is this best advised not to? I ask because i am in love with her, however we just say ' i love u', we have been together aprox 1 year, but im ...

Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...

She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. ...

How do you learn to notice guys when they are checking you out? And what should you do when they make eye contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I want to learn how to see guys checking me out or looking at me and how to handle it. When I was a teen, i wasnt really considered an attractive girl. Or at least i wasnt doing anything to look pretty. I had guy friends but didnt have a bf until ...

I Really like a guy who doesn't know I exist, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Really like a guy who doesn't know I exist, what do I do? There's this YouTube personality that I really like. Now before you think I'm crazy let me say I'll be attending college in his area. I'd already picked this school before I even started ...

Is she interested and attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I am writing this letter to seek your valuable advise. There is this woman working in the same building as me but in a different office. When she joined her office, she was introduced to me by the HR who is common to both of us. It has be...

Have seen this great guy a few times, but just don't know what to do next! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - okay so I need some input on this: I put an ad on craiglist looking for a long term relationship...yeah yeah I know craiglist isnt the best place for this, but I'm tired of being single. Anyway, so I decided to give it a try. I stated what I wa...

Are we together or not? So confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for about 4mnths. We have had sex go out together but I don't know if he really likes me. He always checks in tells me where he is and during sex the last time he tried holding my hand but I pulled away because he has not ...

How do I ask her to formally become my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - There is a girl that I have known for about 6 months, and we have been dating for about 4. It hasn't been all perfect, and i have done things that i in a million years never thought i would do. About 2 months, I had a hook up with an ex that ...

Should I tell my friend that I like the guy she is dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I'm a student and I've had a semi-relationship of about 9 months with a friend who I've known for almost 2 years. We were never actually official or even 'seeing' each other but we always went out got drunk and kissed and had sex a couple of times. ...

Do I fight for him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - i think this guy who lives in my student dorm likes me: we look at each other and smile like two idiots, he came over to watch TV and chat when we are alone, he liked my pic on Facebook (although he isn't very active on there), he teased me a bit,...

He comments on everyone's FB pics except mine??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we are friends on Facebook obviously. What bugs me is he has never liked or commented on any of my pictures but I see him commenting on my friends pictures saying things like "awww" and ...

I've kissed over 50 guys on nights out and feel disgusted with myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Ever since being in university I feel like i've lost my self respected, dignity and it makes me feel sick. I'm disappointed in myself for it... Basically, I keep kissing guys I meet on nights out! I've probably kissed just over 50 guys since being...

She had 2 glasses of wine with me and then because of her diabetes she had to go to hospital! I'm worried she will think I took advantage because we had sex before she went to hospital....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - So I have a real problem I think ill make this as short as possible...I met a diabetic girl online 3 Weeks ago, after talking for 2 of those Weeks we meet up 3 days in a row, all the while each night we are being intimate, not intercourse, just ...

I'm uneasy dating a man who has kids. I wouldn't be his 1st priority

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating a divorced 40 year old man for 6 weeks. He wants me to commit to him and he is desperately trying to sell the house that he shared with his ex so that he can move on. He has two children. I have never dated anyone with chil...

I'm terrible at reading women.....do you think she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hello all you agony aunts, when I'm writing this I'm just trying to figure this all out, and any words of advice or assurance or warning are deeply appreciated. So obviously, there's someone... I've had one class with her all year and sometimes sa...

I want to get in touch with this guy from the past but he is an enemy of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - There's this guy he used to really like me and was sort of a pysco as I didn't like him as I was young and wanted to explore other people, and we stopped talkin on bad terms, and now iregret it as it seems any other guy that I have got close with ...

Relationship taking a turn for the worst, what do I do!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I am really at a loss right now. I have been with my s/o for three years. Im 22 he's 24. The first months were bliss of course but shortly after that the fighting began and...it has never stopped! For three years we have been fighting, making up, ...

It is too soon! How do I tell her I need a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I'm a single father raising two kids, and was in a relationship with there mother for 16 yrs. It ended real bad, anyway the kids are my life, I'm very busy with them on top of working. I have tried to move on and have been dating for about 3 months ...

Am I still I love with my ex? How do I get those old feeling to go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - In the past year I've started seeing a boy that my family and peers looked down upon. They hated his guts. But I loved everything about this guy. He had all the qualities i was looking for. When we met I wasnt looking for love. I stumbled upon him. ...

He may have children he doesn't know about and I am hurting, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - I was really upset yesterday, as my boyfriend told me that he might have children that he doesn't know about. He is much older than i am, so he has had more of a past than i have had. He had flings with a few women from other countries when he was ...

How do we approach that first kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. we're both 13 years old. we havent kissed yet..only hugged. i dont know what to do. i wanna kiss him so bad but we both get nervous and we're both shy. he wants to kiss me too but we just dont..we ...

Do I start a long distance relationship with a woman I have only spent a few days with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Well. This has been an interesting month. Thanks in advance for the advice; here is the situation -- I'm a junior (in high school) studying abroad for the year in Spain, living with a host family. Been here for eight months so far. I'm a lesbi...

How do I introduce myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - This guy in my grade goes to my school and he has no idea who I am, but I have a crush on him regardless and I really wanna meet him but I don't know how to casually "bump" into him and introduce myself without seeming like a weirdo! Help!! :$...

How soon do you organize a third date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I have been on two dates with a guy I met a few weeks ago the last one was last wednesday I went round his and we watched a dvd together how long is it usually in between that you make plans for a third date we have kept in touch since ...

34 and single, will I ever find the right guy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I am 34 year old professional woman who never had a boyfriend in my life. Yeap, that's right. I am not fat (5.4ft 120lbs) and I am pretty satisfied with how I look people say. I've been on several dates before and a few guys have asked...