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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ...

He's fine in person but is awful at texting!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I was just hoping for some general advice. My boyfriend is incredible, and I'm head over heels for my relationship. We're both in college, so I know we're young, but I've never been happier with a significant other. He treats me like a princess. The ...

How can I ask someone out through e-mail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Okay, I know face-to-face is best. It is, I agree with you. But in my current situation I don't have that opportunity anymore. I met this guy, let's call him Tom, during a study opportunity. Basically students had a chance to apply to specifi...

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

Is my Bf telling me about a crush he once had on a pretty girl, only to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - my bf recently told me about a childhood crush of his and how pretty she is and how beautiful her smile is.I m feeling insecure becausezp if she loves him too he might leave me. At times i feel my bf really loves me and is doing this just to make ...

Would my ex FWB consider a relationship with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I'm pretty good friends with my ex fwb. We were fwb for about 18 months but we've been just friends for the last year. I had a boyfriend which is the reason the benefits ended, but we stayed in touch. This friend has always been really helpful t...

He's younger and broke!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm 25 years old and I am currently in grad school. I met this guy a year ago, because he worked at the restaurant across from my job and he delivered my food. We also have a mutual friend. We never talked then because he had a gir...

Online dating is making me a nervous wreck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I joined an online dating site and have gotten a few messages. Most of them are "hi" or "hey", not never interesting in my opinion. But, I came across someone with an awesome profile, seemed just as outgoing as me, VERY attractive, so I said "why ...

How do I tell him I'm going to be traveling with my best friend next year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I met a great guy a few weeks ago ,, treats me with respect , really cares about me ,, get on well Etc We was just going on dates, and we ended up kissing a few days ago at his house, and mine yesterday. The problem is IM GOING BACKPACKING at t...

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take ...

He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour befo...

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splittin...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

She told me she needs to be alone for a while. Did I come on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - Hi folks looking for some advice. I started seeing this girl "R" in feburary after meeting online- we went for a meal and clicked right away- we talked for over 7 hours and when it was time to go we shared a kiss which was truley amazing. A fe...

I'd like to ask her out but I have misgivings of being thought of as a sleazeball!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - There's this girl in my honors seminar group at university that I have a sight crush on. While a part of me would like to ask her out so that I might be able to get to know her better, another part of me is reluctant to do so. I really don't want to ...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position. He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care. He is obsessed with woman and is c...

I found out about his daughter a year into our relationship, and he didn't lend me money for my school fees because he puts her first!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24yrs and my guy is 29yrs too we have been friends since childhood but he asked me for a relationship as at last year so after one year he told me he had a 10yrs daughter out of wedlock and he said the reason why he refused to tell me such at ...

How can people get STD if both are 100% faithful? Can a STD be inherited from a mother? Not sure how STDs work after hearing things from fellow classmates.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Hello dear all and thank you in advance for taking your time for reading this. I am currently 21 years old and in a 4.5 year, heterosexual relationship with my first and only sexual partner, whom is 20 years himself. As on both accounts: we we...

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he want...

Unrequited feeling for a guy. Will I ever find a guy who really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 20 and I had an unrequited feeling or is that what you call it at a guy i know for 8 years. All my life i have known, that I had liked him a lot but I was unable to confess and hid it all this time. Instead I find joy and happiness just w...

What can I do about about my partner's willingness to be too kind for his own good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Situation is this.... My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. My partner has an ex wife with whom he is still going through separation issues and settlements. The separation was nasty so he has left it al...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

Don't want to lose him. But how can I make this work? I'd like to feel that I'm....wanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 April 2015 (?) - OK so right now i've been dating this lovely guy for around 5 months. And i dont want to lose him, but my issue is he is a very distant person. He is an introvert (and he admits this often) and well...im a very social and openly affectio...

I am crushing on my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - So I'm a terrible person. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about my best friends boyfriend. Today, was the worst day ever because I haven't ever felt so much good and bad. We were all hanging out and ever so slightly we'd periodically look o...

My partner has IBS and is afraid of having an attack in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My partner has IBS and says that she did not tell me as she thought i would not understand and finish with her when I found out and she says that she is so afraid that she will have a attack when we are in bed and i have tried to talk to her but so ...

Did I overreact? I felt like he totally blew me off so I basically told him to lose my number.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating this man for approximately 3 weeks now after getting out of a 3 year relationship. On the second date, we ended up having sex. It was spectacular, I hadn't felt so sexually connected and charged by a person in years. It was early ...

Is the spark going from our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now, and it is definately the best relationship i've ever been in. We started off as friends and it grew into more. My boyfriend has always seemed a bit shy in bed - he has a condition called ...

Is it normal to distance yourself from somebody who is causing you pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am wondering. Is it normal to distance yourself from a person who is hurting you too much? Causing you pain or stress? Almost like you need the pain and stress to stop so you emotionally withdraw from them? Does this happen all of a sudden or o...

My boyfriend wants "space" for a month and I am scared he wont come back!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend requested time apart. He said we're arguing too much. He doesn't want to end things, he wants to re-evaluate everything and he wants to be with me. I asked him not to string me along if he knows it's over, but he said he doesn't know. ...

Was my BF jealous that I gave these guys a dance lesson?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am a dancer. Recently I was asked to demonstrate some dance moves to some kick boxing students (most of them male) who take classes at the same dance studio. They were curious about the dance program. I was fine with it. I do not see anything...

I got sick and missed the calls, now he wont talk.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two months and we talk everyday. We work similar jobs and sometimes, overnight so we try to keep each other up. Friday I told him I had plans to go out but I ended up getting sick and fell into deep sleep, I ...

Are my large breasts an impediment to finding and dating a guy? I feel my breasts are a turn-off.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I have large breasts ,( an e cup )and have been single a while now . It seems to me that men don't like big breasts and actually find them a turn off. I am beginning to feel insecure and think no man will ever want me as every guy I talk to or re...

Any advice for me regarding my Girlfriend's actions during her previous relationship re nude photos sent to her now ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend has sent her nude photos to her ex about 2 years ago and that is over now. she said there was nothing more to that (like sex). She and I are together about a month and I really care for her and she does the same. She told me this bec...

Would it be wrong make up an alternative story for officials about how we met? She is my fiancée and we met via webcam. She was a webcam model.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - I met a woman. She was a webcam model. We fell in love, got engaged, and now are planning weddings. She is from Russia, me USA. We applied for fiancé visa and have the interview next week in Moscow. They will also ask us how we met, but we ar...

Should his voyeurism concern me? How can I believe that I am the woman for him when all his thousands of saved images of women all look nothing like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i am currently engaged to my partner of just over 2years. I have since constantly found images he has taken of women in public, on screens or saved of women. Also the usual porn etc... On his phone, email, playstation, in our new home (dvd's, ...

Is it too risky to spend time with this very sexually experienced guy considering that I want to remain celibate until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I met this guy and we started talking! he told me that when he was in high school and university so let's say a time frame from 18-24 he lived a pretty risqué lifestyle..and has been with a lot of women! he was in serious r...

How can I determine if he still loves me? Or confirm it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - My boyfriend is not talking to me any more ! we started this relationship 2 months ago, we loved each other ! i am sure about my feelings and i was sure about his feelings , but since last week everything has changed ! i don't know why, for no r...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

When I mentioned I'd had a bad day he changed the subject. Is this lack of empathy an indication that he doesn't care as much as I thought he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i'm not sure if i am over reacting or this is the sign for me to say bye to this guy. Hes 28, i'm 25, both from same country and same religion. we met of a matrimonial website. Cutting it short, we've been speaking for a short period of t...

What can I say or do? My libido is irksome for my Bf. Recently his persistence has led to doing things that made me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years now and for the most part everything is great. However, when I started on birth control my sex drive decreased dramatically and when I switched from the pill to the implant it didn't get much better....

I feel stuck. Is it reasonable that I feel so hurt at his lack of priority for me in his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I have just ended a relationship with my boyfriend due to his lack of time for me. He says he will come over and talk but says he is busy and has a lot on with work. He is self employed but spends a lot of time procrastinating and chatting to custo...