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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why put forth all of the effort to just change his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - About a year ago i dated this boy for about a year, we were both 17 at the time. I broke up with him during the exams because we were both really stressed out and werent getting along. Neither of us got over it for a long time, we havent seen each ...

I want my ex back but he won't talk to me! What do people think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him ...

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...

I want to stay with him him so much. Heart or head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and ...

I used to be a strong person but now I feel weak and pathetic! Why can't I stay away from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its ...

I want to know how I should handle myself on the first few dates? I don't want to appear clingy or desperate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - im in a new relationship after breaking up with my fiancee of a year and a half and i cant remember how i should act for the first few dates like how much is too much or too little texting and how much is too much or too little seeing each other. as ...

Do his actions show that he fancies me? What do you think?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he se...

I love two men equally and I know I'm selfish. Which heart do I break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - This is my first post. I am in a dilema. I love two men... James and Will (not real names). Dated James for two years when I moved offices and met Will. Me and James were fine until I met Will, me and Will clicked and sparked and everything that ...

I'm absolutely fuming about my relationship/non relationship! Can you guys help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Help I am absolutley fuming about my relationship/not relationship. I stupidly had an affair with a girl who had no real ties to her partner and she let it happen too. It got too intense and she got it all her own way as she said i knew what i wa...

Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be ...

What do I do about a guy I met at the pub? I really want him to ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hey everyone my name is Clare i live in surrey in englnd, i went to a party at a pub the other day and there was this really hot guy who works in there of course being a girl i was wearing a low cut top, anyhow he kept looking at me but i was too ...

I've been supporting us and my boyfriend feels like I'm "attacking" him when I mention him getting a job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend unofficially for over a year. Our official 1 year anniversary is coming up on July 6th. I'm very happy with him. He is very affectionate, treats me very well, spends lots of time with me and is just all around a ...

Can I find a partner at this age or do all men prefer the company of young(er) ladies?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I am aged 53 and would love to meet a nice man please tell me it isnt true that all men want young girls. I like to think I am attractive and hopefully nice company but it seems a shame if I have to resign myself to the fact no one is ever going to ...

He saw me naked yet did not step over the limit with me! He says he did not want to rush things but I'm worried he finds me unattractive?!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - A guy i've been seeing occasionally came to visit me this weekend. He drove 1.5-2hrs to get here. This would've been our 4th "date". During our first two we had just cuddled but on our last date we made out a lot. I wasn't sure what was going to ...

Two guys, really sweet, tonight is the work party.. give me some advice on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I just started working at an amusment park a few weeks ago and I've met two guys who work in games, during my breaks. I work in retail. They are both tall and have brown hair..and are sweet. I think I have a type. Tonight is our work party. S...

If we are taking a break, can I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My partner and I have been going through the mill for the past year as she had an emotional affair with an old friend of hers. We have been to counselling and talked alot and it appears she has quite a few personal problems and ghosts she wants to ...

Would it be awkward if I called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - at this place i work this girl comes and keeps lookin at me. Her friend came up to me and said she likes me. A week later her friend came and gave me her number. I've never spoken to her but she is extremely pretty. Wouldn't it be awkward to call? ...

Do you think that he might like me? How shall I act towards him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - just so you know i am usually negative so dont worry if you write no or anything like it. i like a lad. i know him because he coaches my brothers football. the only thing is, is that he has stopped now. i have been flirting with him a few times....

He tried to kiss me but I pulled away as I haven't kissed before, any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Erm, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now but we're not kissed, he has tried to kiss me, but I'v not had my first kiss yet so I pulled away :/ I am worried about not knowing what to do and need some tips, can anyone help? ...

Any feedback please from anyone with experience of inter-racial dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - HI! I was just wondering what your guys' thoughts are about interracial dating. I'm black, and yes I AM attracted to guys within my race, but I'm more into white guys. Sometimes I find it hard, because I don't really know what a guy is thinking ...

Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be ...

I want to accept Mike, but I fear he will reject me once I tell him that a while ago I slept with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy Mike that I have been friends with for 16 years and I'm extremely close with his family.Even in high school I had a crush on him. I never once thought he looked at me the same. And a little over a year ago I had ...

How can I break this off without looking like a jerk?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I no longer want to have any contact with a girl who has been interested in me for six months. The girl had been using me as a back up for her rocky relationship with her boyfriend. (She never told me she had a boyfriend. I found out through her ...

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird bu...

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...

I'm 16 and I like a boy who's 13, Is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I am 16 and i like a boy who is 13, i am very immature, and every guy i have liked has been younger than me. I've only been in 1 relationship (if you can really call it that) Is it wrong to like him??? ...

Should I feel used? Do you think there is any hope that we'll get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - my g/f broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i'm still depressed. she was my first g/f and i'm 18 and she's 17. i thought everything was going great but i had noticed somethings but ignored them, thinking i was paronoid. after visiting her for a fe...

Please help a guy in love and in need.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey everyone...help a guy in love and in need. I've been seeing this girl a good few months now, and tonight we argued a lot...I got/get very angry about her past (she used to be a drug addict), I feel like i'll always come second to the need she ...

She's showing the same signs of cheating again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey heres my question... Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for over a year now. we broke up a couple of times because it was obvious that she was cheating on me, so i broke up with her. we got back together about 2 months ago and everything w...

How do I tell my crush I like him without sounding so desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My crush called me last night and i want to talk to him again. I want to him to know that i like him, but how do i do that without sounding so desperate?...

I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposit...

When I come close to her I'm reminded of my ex, and become overwhelmed with hatred and destructive thoughts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - hey, i got a bit of an issue. I've checked google and things but i dont think anything but human experience can help me with this. i broke up with my G/F about 2 months ago, and shes now saying shes pregnant, but the only time we had sex was abou...

I want to say 'I love you' but I'm worried in case he doesn't say it back. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, liked eachother for 6 months before that but didnt tell each other. I've fallen in love with him and i keep finding myself wanting to say " i love you" when we're saying goodbye or just cuddling togt...

We kissed and I felt bad, because I'm with someone else. Now what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, I know he likes me too. The other night we had an amazing time, cuddling, kissing and talking. I felt really happy. I fell asleep beside him, and woke up smiling when I seen him. I don't know where we stand, or if it's goi...

I really want to sort my paranoia out and give him a holiday to remember.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm not sure how to put this. Im 18 and have a really stable relationship. I love my man to peices and would do anything for him. We always have a laugh and a joke when we are together. I have been with him for 2 years, but was unable to 'dis...

What's this weird obsession he has with my boobs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - I've been seeing this guy now for 4 months, we have recently started to become intimate but havnt had sex as to be honest neither of us are ready. I'm 16 and hes 17 but he has this weird obsession with my boobs. I am really flattered that he like...

He doesn't like initiating anything! What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. So I have recently entered my first relationship with a guy who's going through this his first time too. He is very adorable, funny, nice..and very shy and awkward. Personally I have no problem with his being shy---prolly jus...

Who should I believe???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - ok i was single for bout maybe a couple of months and i found this guy that i really liked......so i asked him out and he said yes.....and then a couple of days later my best friend tells me that it was a dare......and so i called him up and asked ...

Any suggestions on how I and my boyfriend could celebrate our birthdays in July when all our money are gone to pay for our new flat!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - this is a very wierd question, but this being the busiest of the sites, i feel ill get more answers from this one! basically, its mine and my boyfreinds birthdays soon. his is thursday the 31st of july, mines saturday the 2nd august. because we are...

Is kissing before marriage okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I am 22 years old and three months ago I met a guy. I am still a virgin and in fact he was the first guy I kissed. I really liked him, but he behaved more like a friend and still we were dating. Some days ago we were kissing and when I told him that ...

Is he taking so long to express himself because he's scared?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - The guy I've been knowing for 8 years but talking to for 3 years tells me that if he tells me how he feels about me I wouldn't believe it and he still didn't tell me cause he's been "busy" I don't know what to expect. Why would it take forever for a ...

Do I have "the grass is always greener on the other side" syndrome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We used to be very close, best friends, and have many good memories together as you can imagine after so long. He is completely opposite to me, but I have been friends with another guy (guy#2) for ...

I feel like I am trapped I want to leave but don't know how to go about it....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Sorry for this being long but you need to know the story beforehand- I have been with my partner for about 4 years and brought a house together about 3 years ago. We were happy for about 2 of these years. We always argue, he likes to order me...

How do you come to accept the sexual side of yourself??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - How do you come to terms with your sexuality? I have difficulty with this. Once I had a few too many beers and things went gone further than I would have liked with a guy that I had met and a girl friend of mine. Full sex wasn't involved. I feel ...

I think I love my best friend, but she is out of my league...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, There is a girl that I really do think I love and have liked her for about 6 months now, She still does not know and we are almost best friends, not only that I think that she is way out of my league. I dont like to seem like an atten...

He wants space but I want him back before this other girl gets him!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - he wants space but i want him back before this other girl gets him my bf of 3yrs told me he wants time to rethink our relationship so we broke up. i want him back but he doesnt seem to care about me now. when i speak to him he's always in a rush...

If she doesn't want me, why does she get back in touch with me every time she tells me that she doesn't want me to contact her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has broken up with me after five years and is so angry at me that she won't even let me show her the changes I'm willing to make to get her back. Here is some background - She is the same age as me but her culture is different to min...

Why doesn't he show that he cares??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Im 15, He's 16. We like each other, but were not going out just yet. We are on the verge of going out though. Im totally unexperienced, and he is experienced, he has had sex more than once, and i haven't gone out with a guy, i haven't even kis...

Is my drinking, lying boyfriend using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm with my boyfriend 2 years. He is very jelous and controlling. He doesn't let me go to the pub with my girlfriend, he ask all the time where i was what i do, callind all the time to check. he likes drink and argue with me to have excuse to go ...

We have only met once but I'm already feeling insecure. How can I protect myself emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - It's been a year since I split from my ex partner. He played mind games and made me feel I was going mad,because he wanted a relationship with someone he works with. Anyway a few months ago I joined a dating site and have had a few meets. some w...