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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I hate the girl I am in love with or I am in love with the girl I hate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I hate the girl I am in love with. Or I am in love with the girl I hate. Not sure exactly how to state it. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she never says no, just that she needs more time and she expects me to be able to guess when she ...

When she goes out with me it's jeans and a jumper but shen she goes out with friends she looks amazing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi! I am 19 and dating my wonderful 28 year old Girlfriend, we have been together for around 10 months and now live together, but recently she has started to be really funny with what she wears, when she goes out with me its jeans and a jump...

We had a tiff but he apologised the same night, now I haven't heard anything from him in 3 days.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 429 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I recently started seeing this bloke and everything was going well. We'd only seen each other a few times, he is soo nice to me and caring, even when we went to a party he was checking I was okay, and he said the first time we slept in the same bed ...

We used to date but are now just friends, howeve when I talk to other girls she doesn't like it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 427 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend I used to date, we work together. Our relationship at work has always been on the proffessional level. During our fragile,(on and off)relationship, I kept my friendship with other females a secret from her. My Female friends were the...

My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend but does not know that I know...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 425 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend (he does not know I know). He told this to a girl that was interested in him. He says he is gay, but dated girls in high school. He has been in a fraternity for a couple of months, so I am led to ...

Is his ex trying to come between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I trust my boyfriend with my life. I just don't understand why when his ex that cheated on him with one of his best friends calls or texts him he answers or texts her back... should I hold this over him or be worried??? She has also been to the ...

I feel that I'm going to lose him due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years and are still going strong. Sadly I feel that I'm going to lose him though due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things. I don't mean to and I cry after I yell and ...

He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to make him see him from my eyes or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I am dating a guy who is very nonchalant in nature and it makes understanding how he really feels about me hard to understand. I feel like I'm trying to get him to open up and it's not working. He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to ...

I don't know whether to work on it and hopefully get a good end result or just go back to being friends and find someone who does want to go serious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - What does it mean honestly? I am 28 and came out of a 6 month relationship a month ago. Met a girl who is 21 and came out of a 5 year relationship 2 month ago. We got on as friends for a while, last monday we actually hooked up at the pub and came ...

He threw a couple of cushions at me and now my friends are saying he is violent and I should leave him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi...... This weekend my boyfriend of over 1 year and me fell out. I know this happens all the time but we're currently buying a house together (i know it sounds soon but i've known him a lot longer) which is very stressful. His previous re...

I ran up and snogged him to get him back for parading his new gf in front of me, now I'm scared he will hurt me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I have fancied a lad for 2 years and he has just got a new girlfriend and he knows the way I feel about him and his girlfriend and him are always hugging and snogging around my school and they do it in front of me in purpose and Its sooo Upsetting ...

Hes led me on and then knocked me back! Im heartbroken what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi last month i got drunk and told a friend that i fancied him but he never really gave me an answer, just said that he was unsure about whether he wanted to get in a relationship at the minute so i said thats fine and just carried on chatting with ...

Im 14 and hardly know any boys! How can I best get to know some ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl, but i really don't know any boys! i'm not a shy person and i get on well with most people... the couple of guys i know (my parents' friends' sons) seem to find me fun to talk to and quite good looking :P the thing is ...

I don't know how to approach trying to get her interested in me again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - there is this girl that i went out with for about 18 months about 2 years ago. she broke up with me and i havn't stopped being in love with her since. i'm not sure if i have a chance with her but i asked her to the school prom and she said yes. I ...

We are both taking precautions but he is still so scared in case I get pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and we have sex 5 to 6 times a week sometimes more. We most always use a condom and I am on birth control, but he is so scared that he is going to get me pregnant. What can I do to make him see that ...

She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that ...

Should I continue seeing this man or marry re my own culture and religion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi, ive been through alot of shit in my life and somehow have managed to come out of it all. ive been heart broken twice and hurt. currently i am livin in the opposite side of the country to my parents, i am studyuing and when im finished i am ex...

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...

I have sentimental feelings with another girl but I feel pretty let down, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Greetings. For some time now I've been having a sentimental relationship with a female. We are very compatible on the most important levels of this type of relationship. However, on certain occasions I can't help but feeling about 20% let down, be...

My first cousin and I are in love, is this so wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - About two months ago I admitted my feelings toward a first cousin (after a few drinks, son of my aunt, we are both 42). He confirmed that he felt the same way. we have since been talking and admitted that we have both felt like this for as long as ...

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about this married guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I am having same feelings for two persons...one is my boyfriend and other guy was one i flirted with, other guy is married but i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do ya...how can i stop thinking about other guy...please suggest...

What makes a person in a relationship feel insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - what makes a person in a relationship feel insecure,as my boyfriend says im just jealous of his past relationships...

At times I get scared my bf has gone off me--how do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - i have shown insecurities to my boyfriend,i dont think he is cheating or anything like that,but i some times get scared he has gone off me or isnt coming round anymore.he says i'm being silly and stop worrying.how can i show i am over this,as i dont ...

Is it love when you fight all the time and want to get back at your bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi im 16 in june and ive been dating this guy for almost 6 years but he is 22 in june and we have been fighting alot for the last 2 years i dont know if im in love with him.... when we fight i always hurt my self or get really upset and do anything ...

I asked her out... she said yes.. now there are other things in they way! Should I just be patient!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 424 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Theres this girl i like. I asked her out, she initially said yes, but then backed out the next day, citing she wanted time to think and said we would see over anything happening... This was a couple of months ago and i havent seen much of her sinc...

Is this guy just using me, or does he like me ? What would this conversation tell you ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me? Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate? Me: What am...

We dated but then went back to being friends as she wasnt ready, should I wait for something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - i let slip to a close girl friend i liked her n found she liked me too... we weren't 'officially' going out but things were really good for a couple weeks or so until after one day i saw her she TXTd me she wasnt ready for a relationship yet and ...

I lose interest in guys that show how they feel about me, I just end up being compliant!! Anyone any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Lately I've come to realise that I tend to lose interest in guys who show too much interest in me too soon, whether that be sexual interest or in terms of wanting a relationship. Like I'll be flirting and having fun getting to know a guy and t...

Seeing each other for a few weeks... about 6 times, does this mean we are officially dating ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I've been "seeing" a guy for a few weeks (seen each other 6 times, which amounts 1-2 times a week). We're both in our late 20s. We speak virtually every night on the phone. The problem is this: while I feel like we have a great time when we are...

He always makes plans to go on a date with me, but it never happens !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - There is this guy who I really like, we get along so well and have alot in common. I know he is interested in me, and keeps telling me he wants a relationship, that he thinks I'm pretty, and when we are together he is totally into me. However, he ...

After we sleep together she says she doesnt want a relationship... Im confused!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I've just got involved with a girl. We slept together for a while but didn't do anything sexual until just 2 weeks ago. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship and wants it to stay the same. Last time I saw her she didn't c...

Im only 16, but he thinks I'm 18, hes 23 would I stand a chance with him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Im a mature 16 yr old girl. i regularly go in my local pub with my friends as they are all 18 or over. over the last yr i have met a guy who is 23. the thing is i look older so i told him i am 18. he is a really nice guy and i think im falling for ...

I confessed my love to a good friend and her lesbian gf is making problems for me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - help me please! im 16 and had a sexual relationship with my 18 yr old(female)best friend, who is recently in a gay relationship with a 23 yr old woman. I confessed my love to my friend one drunken night and her gf seen it! now everytime my friend ...

Why isn't my bf getting an erection when we roll around on the bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hi im confused. me an my 16 year old bf were rolling around on the bed kissing lol. and shouldnt he get an erection when we do this? i dont think he does, i can feel a very tiny lump but it must just be his willy not erected. his willy cant be th...

Is it wrong for me to talk to another man on MySpace? I have no intentions of cheating on my fiancee..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi Ok so...let me start at the begining... I've been engaged for 3 years...living with my fiancee. I'm home alot as I'm disabled, and he works crazy hours so we barely see eachother. I recently made a Myspace page in order to talk to my brother, ...

My gf steals pint glasses from the pub we go to a lot..and I am worried she might get caught! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Okay this is going to sound silly but everytime we go out for a drink, my girlfriend wants to steal pint glasses! lol! And I don't think its a good idea as we go their each week and she may get caught. She has stolen a number of glasses from pub...

He is lying about being in contact with his ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me. we have had on going arguments about he and his ex girlfriend calling each other and him hiding it from me. he claims it was not to upset me. last time we broke up over this and made up he promised to tell her to ...

She's talking about leaving my best friend for me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - I Like This Girl(Emma) But the only problem is that she's going out with my best friend (Carl). Recently Carl's been treating Emma really bad. Carl's Moved to the other side of the country and they're trying at long distance relationship. But lately ...

I can't get him out of my head and he hardly talks to me, except before and after sex! Is he just leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - HELP!!! i really like this guy im living with, and we are in a sexual relationship. over the easter holidays he was texting me all the time and we arranged to do a few things, like watch a film and go for a drink. when we got back to uni, he's been ...

It bugs me that this older guy I date...is a virgin! How do I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi I'm currently dating an older guy and I just found out he's a virgin and for some reason I'm having a hard time being okay with it, I always assumed older guys = more experience and now that i know he's got less than me, it bugs me. how can i...

She made it very clear that "she wasn't saying no, just not right now". What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - I dont know what to think of this girl! WE are both 16. Whenever i talk to her or am around her she is an angel, but her actions are another story. Most of the time, when we have plans, she cancels at the very last second. I have asked her out and ...

I'm stuck on this who used to like me but..am thinking I should go for another guy cause I'm lonely. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hi im having a problem at the moment. i hang around in a group of 5 mates 2 of them are coupled up and its hard to see them kiss because it makes me feel lonely with know one. when i first started hanging around in this group one guy liked me we got ...

My daughter's father keeps texting even after I tell him not to talk to me again! Is he trying to see what he can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - It's going on six months since I left my daughter's father. At times, I wonder what he's doing but I need to move on. My work profermance is not what it use to be (be on top of things, completing paperwork before certain deadlines, etc). My ...

Do girls find guys with body hair unattractive? I am a little worried. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Dear anyone who could help, I am a tad bit on the hairy side in this hairless body civilization we live in. I am not overly hairy, just more than most guys out there these days. And i am especially embarrassed because my rear end is hairy. Please...

I know she's the one for me but I want her to be sure that I am the one for her. What do you suggest we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 429 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. We both think the world of each other and spend all of our spare time together. We have always argued, but recently its become out of control. I am her first sexual partner and she ...

I love my guy very much but his family is coming between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Been with my bloke for 5 years. Engaged for 4 1/2 years. Problem is his family. They are always after money from him - they do it behind my back - and he gives into them everytime. They normally only want him or get in touch when they want something ...

Is it worth continuing to see him even although he's 22 and I'm 16? I REALLY like this guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I am 16, my boyfriend is 22. his ex is having his baby in a months time, and my parents know this.. we started seeing each other only 3 months ago, he is getting a lot of crap from people about my age and a lot of drama is caused.. the situatio...

Space is a source of contention for her as affection is for me. What is the best way to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid: I have been in a serious relationship for nearly two years. We have had our ups and downs as any relationship has, however, she has stated that space is a big source of contention for her, just as affection is for me. I admit that I ...

My boyfriend and I played around a bit, now that I'm home I feel like I've done something wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hi i have just got home from my boyfriends house and i was lookin on this site and my question is nothing like anyone elses .. but i have just come home like i said and i feel really guilty. i dont know why i feel guilty but i just do, i refuse to ...

What is the likelihood that I am pregnant again 13 days after just having my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I just had sex and it has only been 13 days after I had my baby. yes he came in me. I want to know the likelihood that I will get pregnant because my friend told me it was 100% that I am pregnant again and that I am dropping eggs left and right...is ...