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Dating: Help and advice

What do you think his answer meant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hi I dated a guy around five times and we both are interested. Around two weeks ago I told him that I will move. He became sad. I told him to think if he want a long distance relationship and answer me. He agreed.Until now he did not answer me. Does...

Suffering from depression, low self-esteem, and bad anxiety. How do I meet someone who will like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I'm suffering from depression, low self esteem and really bad aniexty, i hate leaving the house, and i feel like having somone to pay me some attention and make me feel abit pretty for once would be a big help. i get told im stunning by frie...

Emotionally unavailable man driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Awhile back I made the mistake of starting a relationship with a totally emotionally unavailable man. I say this because 1)He hardly had any free time because of his work and late shifts(this I checked is true) 2)He is a relationship phobic. He ...

Is it a good sign he took me to meet his family on the first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Is it a good sign that he took me to meet his family on the first date?!? We met at a concert and have talked on the phone a lot since but today we had our first date. He went to get coffee and then he took me to meet his parents, sister, aunt and ...

Should I worry about my girlfriend's male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - hey hope ya can help me on dis 1.my girlfriends 2 best friends are guys they are completely in love with her their always touching her always flirting with her and tryin 2 kiss her !!! she loves them 2 bits but it really annoys er !!!shes told me ...

So...do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - ok so i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me like hes 17 and im 13 and like he'll state at me and sumtimes i think i see him looking at me ass but im not sure, i hope he likes me but im not sure like and he'll pick on me and stuff like that ...

Why won't she let me french kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hi I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years now. Here is my question. Whenever we make love, I want to french kiss her but she turns her face and places her cheeks or neck infront of my lips. Kissing is seldom and only when I make her extremely horny ...

How can I be more confident around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???...

How do you know if its love or just lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - How do you know if you love someone? How do you know it's not just lust? What if you go back out with someone you recently broke up with to find that it was a mistake? Why can't love be easy.. I don't really want to give any more information. I'...

How do you approach a quiet girl on the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - how should you approach a girl who is only a aquataince that you like who rides your bus?i think she is pretty and i wanna go out with her.im in 10th and i think shes in 8th and shes quiet on the bus.what should i do?...

Does he just want me now because I don't want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I dated a guy a while back for about 5-6 months. We broke up in May. The break up was for two main reasons. The first is that he has a problem with ED (is very heavy over 350 lbs.) Both of us handled it not very well. I wanted t...

Why does he want to get married so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - 6 years ago I lost my virginity to the owner of the hotel my family and I were staying at in Turkey. I stayed in contact with him but (because I wanted it this way), just as friends. My family and I stayed at the same hotel every year in the summer, ...

Why did the drunken 'you're hot' texts stop now that we're dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - This is probaly gonna sound stupid but... back before summer, this guy liked me, and whenever he went on a night out I would recieve drunk texts and phone calls. They basically said 'Your hot.' or 'I want you.' Ya know usual guy stuff. Now we have ...

Why was my girlfriend angry with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Last night my girlffriend was annoyed with me and continued berating me even after we had gone to bed. In short she was angry with me for not contacting her as soon as I arrived home. The background goes like this. I work full time and have ear...

Are short women better lovers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Just curious to know why so many men say short women are better lovers than taller women. I read several different forums, and sure enough, it came up over and over again. Problem was, no one elaborated on what made sex better with petite women. ...

What is likelyhood of a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is l...

What is up with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...

Once an abuser, always an abuser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My ex bf abused me and now he wants me back. He promises hes changed and so on. He says he regrets it and would do anything for me. He admits to be an idiot. He says he loves me- something he never told me when we were in a relationship. He says we ...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I've come to realize that whenever I feel like getting drunk I feel more attracted and in the mood to makeout with a girl instead of my boyfriend. I don't know why! For example, the other night I went to a party, and there were about 15 people- ...

Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the...

Should I just cut my losses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and i've been going out with my current boyfriend for 6 months. 2 months ago i started college. Last night a male friend from college kissed me, i kissed him back but then pulled away. But it got me thinking, although my boyfriend loves me, ...