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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

It's getting harder to resist my urges!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Hi all I'm a 28 y.old guy and I've been in a good relationship with my 24 year old gf for more then a year now. We love each other, and spend all our spare time together. It is important to mention that I find her very attractive, yet, I can't sto...

We are going to hang out at his apartment, alone, and I'm as nervous as all get out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for two months now and thisnSunday we are suppose to hang out at his apartment, alone, while his roommates are at work. We've hung out before just not THIS alone. And well, clearly I'm nervous as all get out. He is ...

Why don't I want someone who actually wants me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and ever since I was 18, I've only had 2 serious relationships. My first relationship was abusive and controlling, my second relationship involved drugs and alcohol. My first abusive boyfriend left me for another girl and...

I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm not sure if I did the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I dated my boyfriend for 8months and we started drifting apart. I attributed it to the fact that he was working at that time (it was vacation. We're both college students) so maybe that's why we couldn't hear from eachother much. That was actually ...

Need some help reading the signs from this girl....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc.. Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping ...

Confused why she kisses me but doesn't want to take things further because there's no spark.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I'm forty two and recently met someone. She's thirty nine and single. We've gone out about half a dozen times, and cuddled a few times and made out three times. The first two times it was mutual and spontaneous. We were cuddling in my room and all ...

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t ...

I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear from ...

How do I express my feelings to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Well my boyfriend asked me to tell him my 'feelings', and I'm not too sure what to respond with, I love him a lot, but I don't know how to express my feelings to him....

Will he notice that I gained weight? Does it matter to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I am probably going to sound completely insecure, but hey, I need some reassurance. I have liked this guy for a long time now, we used to see each other once a week over a 6 month period last year, but for various reasons we kept it purely platon...

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit ...

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which w...

Is this normal? Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. What can I do?

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29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me? We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess. I'm ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

Have I messed up any chance of having a friendship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-my-feelings-for-her-how.html because I thought I had feelings for this girl I know. I mean I still think I do but this could easily get confusing and too complex so I'll ...

I want to get my ex out of my head and have a normal life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - I was in a very tumultuous relationship for 2 years. My ex and I really loved eachother but her behaviors because of her rough past caused many arguments. I, on the other hand escalated situations. We broke up in a major way 3 times but we would ...

I feel isolated and hopeless to ever have a good relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I have been in a second time around relationship with a passive aggressive man. I understand he will not take responsibility for his actions, and will simply be contrary in order to evade "giving in" to me. He had insisted that we become engage...

33 year old guy. Looking for relationship advice as I've only been out with one girl before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - I'm really sorry, but this is going to take some reading. Hope that's alright :) First of all a bit of background: I have very little experience with women, and am a fairly shy person. I'm a 33 year old guy, and have been told that...

My boyfriend has asked if I'm ok if he goes to Amsterdam with 2 single friends. I already don't completely trust him! Should I tell him to stay behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - HI all, Im in a sticky situation with my boyfriend of 3 years, and really need some advice! last year for valentines we went away to Amsterdam on a city break for a couple of days and had such a good time we went again in december, my boyfriend has ...

I'm ruining my girlfriend's life with my drinking but she won't leave me. Should I break things off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hey, I met a girl 3 years ago at a bar in which she happened to be a singer,her voice spoke to me,it was beautiful I used my contacts and got her work at a higher end place..we eventually started talking and then dating..her career graph is reaching...

Boyfriend broke up with me and is now dating a girl who looks like me and has my name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 years. Lived together (with parents) for 1 1/2 years. I go to texas for a week with family and during this time he tells me that he cant do it anymore and tells me he is moving out. He still loves me but his heart is ...

Boyfriend cheated once, now he has a second chance, will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up for about a month, due to the fact I had caught him cheating and chatting up other girls. It all started when we were about a month in, and he was accused of kissing a girl at a party, w...

Does he not want a future with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I just want an interpreation to a line my boyfriend said when drunk,although I know I shouldn't be paying much attention to it but still! So I'v been dating this gorgeous man for 3 years now and we went to an engagement party...

Should I take my nephew's advice and contact this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - 5 weeks ago my car was vandalised and a policeman came to my house to take a statement. This was a Wednesday. We started chatting and realised that we had lots and lots in common. I am 53 and he is 49, I am divorced and he has been separated f...

Acquaintance calls me clever. Are there any hidden messages behind this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Hello. My name's Bill, and I met a beautiful woman at a café. We chatted a bit, and as I made a pun in the middle of our conversation, she laughed in a good way, and told me that I'm very clever. I wonder if there are any hidden messages behind ...

'that was nice, good to see you looking good' How do I interpret these remarks by my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across; We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really...

Desperate for sexual contact after long time single - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Keeping it brief. Was in a 10-yr LTR that was sexless for last 5 years. My girlfriend always had a low sex drive, I loved her, decided I could cope but it eventually totalled petered out. After 5 years I couldn't cope without intimacy any more, ...

How can I forgive myself for letting him treat me so badly and make sure it doesn't happen again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I spent two and a half years in a relationship with a man who treated me horribly. This man was abusive, manipulative and sexually violent, and always found a way to make things my fault. He said horrible things to me and made me feel like I was ...

I want to break up with my secret b/f but I'm scared he'll tell my parents and ask for his christmas gift back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years... He is smart funny sweet gentle loves me a lot... My parents don't like him and made us break up but we got back together and they don't know. On top of that Christmas he gave me a really nice gift that I ...

We only talk properly when alcohol is involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 4 months and we have not had sex yet although we have come close to it. We are very shy when we see each other, which is everyday as we do a course together but in different classes. We have a hard time opening up to each ...

Why am I dreaming about the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So, mad question....i keep dreaming of the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??? im nice to her in the dreams...here's my story we have been together 4 years now i have 3 kids 2 are his my eldest from a sperm donor (lol) hugs my partner took on we ...

I'm afraid my insecurity is going to drive him away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I feel like I am very needy and insecure when I meet a guy. I recently met a guy about a month or 2 ago. He's awesome, we started of great he told me I was always putting a smile on his face. We went on our first date and we had a lot of fun. But ...

I want him to end the friendship yet he won't. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have a male friend who is currently going through a divorce. We were friends for several years, however, he tends to be a bit self absorbed and while I have listened to his problems for the past several years, he has not been exactly atte...

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing ...

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one ...

I feel hurt by his remarks -- am I wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I'm slightly upset and I should not know if I should be. It was my boyfriends birthday. I was laid off, but I had saved some money for this occasion. He knows this, and he is aware of my financial situation. Firstly, he wanted something v...

Should I be worried if my boyfriend asked a girl on facebook for her number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 5 months asked another girl on Facebook for her number. We go to different schools but see each other every weekend. I know this because I went on his Facebook to post something really sweet and it popped up in a little chat ...

Could my friend and I make things work as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Well, I have been there my best friend forever for 9 months. She just got of a serious relationship with a guy. He kept breaking up with her a few times before he proposed to her in front of me and they had a fight and he told her to go and do ...

Is it ok to kiss others if you are dating but not exclusive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Honest opinions on this, if you are taking a girl out on dates, so you are dating now. Is it okay to still kiss other girls, or does that count as cheating even if she isn't your girlfriend? I don't mean a lot of dates only about 2 maybe 3, but s...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

Should I be worried about her being a threat to our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Im a 20 year old female and i am in a relationship with a great guy. BUt I'm concerned you see a few months back the girl showed up out of the blue to see him before he got home from work i was at the house making dinner and she introduced herself ...

Could she still have feelings for me? Or has she moved on? Or is that she does not hold grudges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I saw my ex on Thursday night and it was strange because things ended very badly with us, I was an idiot and was reckless the way I did it. I know I acted very insensitively after too so I didn't help the situation. So of course I expected her to w...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

Creepy leery guys ask for my number. Yet NEVER do any of the 'normal' guys, who I see looking, actually approach me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female, single and have never had a boyfriend before. This alone worries me a little since literally everyone I know has had/ is in a relationship. Without sounding conceited, etc. I would consider myself attractive. I not...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

How to get my boyfriend to gain his feelings back ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - So once again my boyfriend and I are having issues. He told me he Lost feelings and interest in me .. He said he wants me to make him get those feelings back. I have no clue how to do that :( I feel that after I see him tomorrow I will be a single ...

The S.L.A.P. Theory Of Life Lessons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3996 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - The S.L.A.P. Theory Of Life Lessons By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Sometimes life will slap you down when it has a lesson to teach you. For some people, the slap may be a light swat, and for others the slap has to be a severe smack down. ...

I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dis...

Not attracted to my own race... am I shallow for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - So... I'm not interested physically or romantically to guys of my own race (black). I've never dated a black guy, and just don't find them appealing for a relationship. I have many black guy friends but that is all they are. And I feel horrible fo...