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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend follows a LOT of women on Instagram and it bothers me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

30 September 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I met through an online dating app. We chatted a bit and then he asked for my Instagram handle. I thought that was weird and gave him my number instead. We had a bit more text conversation getting to know one another, and then he ...

My life is a disappointment and is nothing like how I wish it was

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

30 September 2019 (F) - Hi everyone. This is more of a life question than relationship question and I know this is not the place to ask but it’s been on my mind ALOT and I don’t know what I’m doing anymore. Here goes...when are we deemed too old to get married? To have...

How do I tell my girlfriend, "sorry, my life has been a lie, I'm gay and a cross dresser"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

29 September 2019 (M) - I'm gay and I don't know how to tell my partner or even how to live as a gay man. I've been attracted to other men for as long as I can remember, but I've only dated women, or had relationships with women. At first I told myself I must be bisexual...

Girlfriend hangs out with male friend and and don’t tell me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

28 September 2019 (M) - My girlfriend soon to be finance chills with my best friend but i didn’t know about it . We broke up for like 2 days then she goes drunk and she tells me her sister went with her but i can’t ask her sister about it because her sister will lie for ...

I cheated on my boyfriend and even though things are going well I am wracked with guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

28 September 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years. At the start everything was great, he was a tad jealous and moved quick quick which I said I wasn’t as comfortable with so everything was smooth and going well. As time went on I wanted to see each...

Insecurity & lack of trust in new relationship due to texting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

27 September 2019 (F) - I feel insecure about my new relationship. Is it all in my head or do I follow my gut? My boyfriend and I met online a few months ago. We met before in college, and when I told him about this, he remembered as well and we bonded over it and thou...

My girlfriend isnt bother by people invading her personal space.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

27 September 2019 (M) - My girlfriend seems to not be bothered by people getting too close up in her personal space . When she looking for things or working she doesn't seem phase by people squeezing through her or their body brushing up against hers without even flinching ...

How do men feel about establishing exclusivity before sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

26 September 2019 (F) - How do men feel about establishing exclusivity before sex? Ideally, I prefer to only have sex with men I'm committed with, but I know that realistically both partners should know if they are sexually compatible before committing. Is it reasonable to ...

Should I go on a date with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

26 September 2019 (F) - I met a guy on Facebook a week a go. He messaged me first saying hi and I responded and we chatted for like an hour and told him I had to sleep to wake up early the next morning. He ask me for my number and I have it to him.the next day he texted me ...

I’m not sure if he is right for me with his way of life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

21 September 2019 (F) - I have a 'friend' who i havent seen in over 1 year we wernt really close but did have 'fun' times a couple of year back. He has got back in contact and wants to see if there could be a chance of a relationship. The thing is ive changed with what i ...

I started a lie that my dad was dead before I met my boyfriend. I don't know how to tell him the truth

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1683 days ago

16 September 2019 (F) - I grew up with an abusive alcoholic father who would beat me, my mum and occasionally my younger brothers. I grew up with low self esteem and anxiety relating to this situation. At 14 my mum left him, he threatened to kill himself if we chose to ...

How do I broach the subject of not wanting to get married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

16 September 2019 (F) - Ill try to keep this short and simple. The title probably sounds terrible. So, Im a 30F, my boyfriend is 7 years my senior. We both have children from previous relationships and we are both divorced. Ive known him nearly 2 years, but we only started ...

I really like the co-worker who I slept with but she's non committal and there's this other girl who's interested in me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1684 days ago

14 September 2019 (M) - I’ll get right to it, I have a friend that’s also a coworker and we’ve been friends for years, and honestly I’ve always wanted more but haven’t expressed myself. Until recently, I expressed my feelings and we talked and it was just a line that we ...

What should I tell the girl I'm seeing about my separation/ soon-to-be divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

14 September 2019 (M) - Hi Seeking advice. I have been separated from my ex wife for 12 m months now and have just applied for a divorce with the court hearing to be taken place in November. I have met someone, whom I really like and see it going somewhere. We ha...

The Guy I'm Dating Apparently Abused His Ex Girlfriend. Should I Dump Him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1685 days ago

12 September 2019 (F) - So I met this guy on Tinder and I've been for a drink with him. It went pretty well and he's really attractive TBH (tall, dark, handsome, muscular, works in IT which I also do.) There are a few things about him that bug me a bit like it takes ag...

Does my gf cheat or just have a guy friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

12 September 2019 (M) - Hi Everyone, I have a question to ask. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. We live in different towns about 10 miles apart. One of my good male friends works in that town also. My gf and I get together 3 or 4 days per week. We have ...

Should I stay with my long term partner or leave to travel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

10 September 2019 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4.5 years. I am 29 and he is 36. Over the summer I spent 4 weeks in Cambodia for a summer job, leading a team of teenagers in voluntary work to help deprived communities. I came home feeling empowered (I had no idea I ...

Am I attracted to the wrong kind of man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

9 September 2019 (F) - Am I going for the wrong type of men? I've been doing some self-reflection lately and noticing similarities in the men I date. I would say 75% of the meetups and communications are initiated by them and we would see one another 1-2 times a week...

Dating someone with aspergers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1692 days ago

5 September 2019 (F) - I've been dating someone with mild to mid-level aspergers for a couple months now. The first few dates were great. He was very engaging, talkative, and passionate. However, the end of the date was always super awkward. It's like he wanted to kiss me ...

How do I communicate with my boyfriend about how I feel towards this topic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

4 September 2019 (F) - Hello, I am a 23 year old female and my boyfriend is 26. Recently I feel like my boyfriend has been acting strange. I have noticed some changes. He is a really nice guy and good to me and my family. He is also good with his family as well. A littl...

Do you think he’s met someone else or just gone off me or is he busy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1695 days ago

3 September 2019 (F) - So I'm very confused and wondering what you would do? Should I just forget him and move on (I dont want to) or ask him where we stand or do nothing? Or any other advise... So I met this guy we just hit it off...I'm newly quite single and not s...

He's avoiding defining the relationship even though I know he likes me. How long should I keep patient?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1686 days ago

3 September 2019 (F) - I have known this guy I am dating for only 2.5 months. I met him on vacation to Texas and then three weeks later, moved to Texas. Not to be with him but because the friends I was visiting allowed me to come live with them for a fresh start. Anyw...