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Archived questions from: July, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Did I have a right to know about the abortion?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 998 days ago

30 July 2021 (M) - I recently found out my ex-girlfriend had an abortion that she kept secret from me. Did I not have a right to know? We only went out for about 5 months before things went stale and we split in April. Last week I bumped into one of her friends i...

Did she really forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

30 July 2021 (M) - Hello. I'm a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend is 22. So, it's a 3 years gap and we are both okay with it. We dated for 3 months now hitting 4. And to be honest, I had a great time spending my time with her and her the same and we felt like we have ...

Insecure about my girlfriend and other men am I overthinking and being unnecessarily insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1001 days ago

29 July 2021 (M) - Thanks in advance to anybody who reads this all the way through, it will probably turn out to be lengthy, and I appreciate any meaningful advice or insight on this. BACKGROUND: I have been in a relationship for about 10 years with a woman my age. ...

Girlfriend keeps talking about her ex - Will we ever work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1003 days ago

27 July 2021 (M) - Is it normal for your partner to talk about their ex so much? I’m guessing not. Been with my girlfriend for 2 months and I’ve lost count of the amount of times she’s mentioned him already. They still message each other a lot and she even gushed ...

Messed up relationships have made me afraid to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1005 days ago

27 July 2021 (F) - I know no one owes me anything in this life. I guess I made the mistake of expecting some level of loyalty? I was with this man for three years. I chose to help him during his health issues. Making a long story short, I had been struggling with my ...

Am I self sabotaging because I can’t trust men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1006 days ago

25 July 2021 (F) - I met an older guy a few weeks ago through work. He messaged me and we just got talking none stop. I found him really nice while working with him, even though it was briefly and he was saying all the right things. We went on a date and I met h...

How pushy is too pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I was good friends with a cute guy a few years younger than myself. We lost touch but then at New Year I wished him a Happy New Year which he sent a sweet message back. The other month I sent him another message but this time he didn't reply, but I ...

I don't like that my current boyfriend was into threesomes

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted he's had a threesome in the past and I can't seem to look past it. It's just made me look at him in a completely different light now. I know everyone has a past but I can't help but feel embarrassed FOR HIM over it. ...

I don't like that my 16 year old daughter is dating and having sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I’m struggling to deal with the fact that my daughter is having a sexual relationship, does anyone have any advice? She turned 16 in May and is legally allowed to but it doesn’t make me feel any better about it. I just feel like she’s rushing into ...

We broke up because partner wanted me to foot the bill for his sister's wedding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I’m struggling with something and I know it’s for the best. I’m not sure how to feel about it. Three years ago I almost filed for bankruptcy. I was very depressed but about two years ago, I met someone that was a good listener and all that. Aside ...

Is it right for my 15-year old son to date an 18-Year old girl?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

16 July 2021 (F) - My 15-year old son has recently started going out with an 18 year old girl. Is it just me or does this seem really inappropriate? Don’t get me wrong she’s a nice person and he seems to be really smitten with her but she is technically an a...

I haven't seen my b/f in 2 months and he keeps making excuses

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

10 July 2021 (F) - My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to see me I haven't seen him for two months now he lives local he keeps saying he's busy with work. He takes 5 days to answer a text as well I want a relationship and it doesn't feel like one anymore. I get ...

I need to let go but I don't know how

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

9 July 2021 (F) - How do I get over this guy (essentially a super attractive "Nazi")? (This is kind of a way for me to vent to gain some clarity, so it will sound a bit like a monologue). I've known this guy only online, for just over 6 months. We separated due ...

Why does he look at me when touching my breasts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

9 July 2021 (F) - Quick question. My boyfriend loves to play with my breasts and I sometimes wondered why he keeps looking at me when he touched my breasts. And I feel embarrassed when he looks at me. Every time I tell him not to look at me, he just smiled and will ...

Things have never been the same since I cheated on my boyfriend. He just does whatever he wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1021 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - My boyfriend is disappearing off on a lads holiday next month the same weekend as our anniversary. It’s really annoyed me but he doesn’t care a bit. To be honest our whole relationship has been tainted for a while and it’s all my fault. I cheated ...

Unemployed boyfriend expects me to take care of him and pay his bills

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - Thanks for listening! So, my fiancee and I have been together about 2 years. He is currently unemployed no fault of his own and looking for employment. However, he acts like I should be paying for everything. I don't mind helping out some...

The man I'm going to marry still wears his deceased wife's rings around his neck. How do I approach this subject?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1012 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - Ok so this may be a difficult one… I’m getting married next summer (provided there isn’t another sodding pandemic). My husband-to-be is a really wonderful man and I’m so lucky to have him. However… He still wears his and his first wife’s w...

Girlfriend gets defensive when we have discussions even when I am supporting her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

8 July 2021 (M) - Sometimes, when I am talking with my girlfriend, she will bring up things that have been on her mind about future plans or some idea she has. I love having these conversations. It feels good to talk about the future with her. But, when she brings ...

Is she just teasing me or playing overly hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

7 July 2021 (M) - I’ve been going out with a girl for a few months now. Things are going really well and I really like her but she keeps sending me mixed messages when it comes to sex. We haven’t slept together yet, which is fine. I’m not desperate to jump into bed ...

I feel insecure about my partner's female friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

7 July 2021 (F) - I'm feeling insecure about a female friend of my partners. In all honesty I'm naturally anxious and have low self-esteem however I've been working on this in therapy and feel I'm making huge strides, even my partner has said as much. But this one...

My boyfriend doesn't believe that I'm a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

6 July 2021 (F) - I'm 24 years old and I never had sex before. Not even dated any men before. I started dating this guy 7 months ago and on May 1st we had our first sexual intercourse. It all started well but when we tried the 69 position he kept telling me he saw a ...

Engaged to someone new, but still thinking of my Ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

5 July 2021 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been engaged to my boyfriend of 1 year for a month now. He is great, kind, loving, romantic, hard working etc. etc. of course with a few shortcomings that we all have. Recently though, I have become obsessed with thoughts o...

My boyfriend was raised to believe men are superior. It causes problem in our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

4 July 2021 (F) - Hello A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We have different cultures, different religions, and were interracial. At times it is challenging. I respect his culture but sometimes I do get a bit frustrated with ...

Boyfriend's gift upset my father and I just want to fix things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

4 July 2021 (F) - For my birthday my b/ of 2 years paid for me to have my nipples peirced which I have longed for for some time now. I mentioned it to my sister when we met up and word of it must have gotten round to Dad. He like totally went ballistic and when I ...

I missed out on a special moment with someone I love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1022 days ago

4 July 2021 (F) - Hi everyone, Long story short, this man and I have developed feelings for each other over the time-span of over one year. I've never felt this way, and I've never had a man feel this way about me simultaneously--this context is key in unders...

How do I make my life better to get out of this misery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

3 July 2021 (F) - Hi all. I'm 41 years old. In 2013 lost my soulmate through suicide. Since then I've never met a good guy. They come with lies and I end up finding out that their in committed relationships thats when I just let go cause I just cannot share another ...

Mixed messages from my date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

3 July 2021 (F) - I’ve been on the dating apps for a few months and met some nice guys, but didn’t really click with anyone. Then I met the son of a family friend recently at a family dinner. We’re the same age and he had just moved to the same town as me. We ...

My boyfriend dotes on me so why am I so paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

2 July 2021 (F) - I’m so paranoid about my boyfriend leaving me that I’ve been waiting on him hand and foot and being overly sexual with him. Before you all start calling him a pig who treats me like shit, he’s not. He’s the sweetest, kindest, most caring man ...