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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Too young to be in a committed relationship - I want to play the field

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 724 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I have been in a steady relationship for almost a year now, although I think I am too young! I am only seventeen and want to go out with my friends an have a good time. I really like another person and I know he likes me and I don't know what to do ...

We both live in Lousiana and not sure if its illegal for us to date ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - ok please dont judge,i have been seing this girl who is 16,i am 21, we have been seeing each other for the past two yrs,we have not had sex,she wants to wait till marriage and i respect that.her mom has decided that she is too young to be ...

I didnt realise I had feeling for her, but think we are more than friends now, should I say something ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - hello all new to this, so ill majke it quick! a few months ago my best friend was in a relationship with a girl which ended peacfully. a few weeks after this i ran into his ex at the petrol station and we arranged to go out for a drink to catch up...

Cant stop this insecurity of his past girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and everything is going well except that i cant get thoughts of a girl he slept with before out of my head...they were good friends and are no longer in contact because she 'used' him while she ...

Is he just being freindly or does he want something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 724 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - How do i know if a guy like me or not.? Recently I've moved back home after being away for six years, I'm staying with my family until my place is ready. So I'm around the house alot and see old family friend nearly everyday. But awhile back I ...

We talk and chat alot, but she didnt text, not sure if this a big deal or not ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I met this girl at the gym who I liked the look of. She was on her own and I went over to her, havign seen her there a few times before. We got talking and seemed to get on really well, and considering it was the first time I'd spoken to her, we ...

We had some real good times together then I told him how I felt, hes now backed off and said it wont work!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I hav been seeing a guy for 4 weekends now and at the start he persued to be with me.There was an attraction there for many months before we eventually got together.He said at the beginning that he didnt want a relationship.The second week he was ...

One minute shes flirting, then she pulls away, Im not sure what to do anymore but I really really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - This is a pretty complicated relationship problem that has been bugging me for the past 2 years or so. There is a bunch of background details, so bear with me. I'm 17, a guy, and I just can't get over my ex. She lives in a city next to mine, and ...

I feel afraid of making a final commitment, anyone have any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I've been in a relationship for the past couple of months. Things have been pretty intense and we have a very good connection. We've talked about a long term future together - marriage, family, etc and I've enjoyed these conversations. My problem is ...

All this activity I see online. Could he be lying about not having instant messaging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - My b/f of more than a year got his first lap top/computer a few months ago. He set up a yahoo account. I know the e-mail. I put it in my buddy list for aol and aim without the address at the end of course--meaning without yahoo.com. He dropped me ...

She offered to be "just friends"; I suggested we start over completely. Can we get back to BF/GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 726 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfiiend of two months broke up with me a week ago. Since then I've been crushed. Up until the last week of our relationship, everything seemed to be going fine, if not somewhat torrid. The last week, I knew something was wrong, but I didn't...

How can I really stand out, he went from being really into me then all wierd!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I don't understand what happened, but he seemed like he liked me lots and l liked him. We were together almost a month. Then he went away for a weekend came back and it was all weird, he said he was really busy working etc and we couldn't get ...

We had sex which was great, but when she was on top it hurt her, anyone know this could happen ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 724 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hey, me and my girlfriend have had sex 3 times now...the first time it hurt her, but after that it was awesome...on the third time we tried to try something new, instead of me being ontop she wanted to try being on top, but once she was on top, and ...

He said im a tease and asked for sex, im not ready as im not sure if I've mistaken friendship for love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Sorry, so long... I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now(Friends for 2 yrs in col before got together) and we are extremely compatible in many ways, except he has slightly different interests to me when it comes to careers, as i am...

Im having an affair with a younger guy for 3 months, not sure if he wants something more permanent ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm ...

We are both from different backgrounds but like each other alot, should I though just stick with his friendship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely infatuated with my “friend” and him with me. We met while I was working abroad (for six months) and quickly formed a friendship. Three months later, we began to date, knowing too well that my time overseas was limited. Four weeks ...

I'm paranoid and jealous because he ignored me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 727 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have recently started a relationship with a guy i have liked for years and i love been with him but he always cancels our plans and he is know as a whore but i believe him when he says hes not but he is a big flirt and 2nite at a gig he ignored me ...

Do I walk away or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 727 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for 6and a bit years now and we have a beautiful little boy (nearly two years old). the problem is that i no longer feel anything for him - no matter how hard i want to or try to. we are in the middle of buying our fi...

How can I entertain him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 726 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Ok I feel like if my boyfriend is not happy all the time when he is with me, that I have failed. I always want to entertain him, but I cant all of the time..I feel boring. What do I do?...

Should there be more???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Iv been dating this guy for about 1 month. We are already saying we love each other and I dont think I really do. I like him soo much.. but i have no idea why! Is it normal not to know why? And I always think to myself, ok what is so special about ...

Having sexual feelings towards my mate but I love my girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - I have a girlfriend who i am really happy with and love her to pieces but i have recently been having sexual feelings towards a male friend of mine, I know i am not gay cos i am in love with my girlfriend but i am having sexual feelings about my ...

Whats the best way of flirting???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 726 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - whats the best way of flirting with either sex and score? eye contact, body language? what exactly should we do when flirting and catching someone elses eyes without comming across as a fool? mwah....

Im pretty shy around women, and know how to tell if they fancy me or are flirting ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - Hi. I am a 20 year old male and resides in the UK and i am having trouble with the opposite sex. I have never had any females friends, let alone girlfriends and i feel left out when my friends go out together with their girlfriends. I am a very sh...

am I in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - am i in love? i have known this guy for a few years now and when i talk to him he makes me laugh and i can confide in him.but he is in the "popular" kind of people.. He makes me soo happy i just want to run up to him and kiss him, i dont know...

I am not sure what to do about his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 726 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and six months now. His family refuse to meet me because im not indian. he is 21 and i am 18.his mum calls all the time telling him to go home and do this for her etc. his family are really horrible ...

Ive been with my guy for 2 months, I know hes not the one but hes head over heels what do I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - hi please help im having problems falling for my boyfriend....ive been with him 2 months now, and hes a lovely lad. he'd do anything for me even if he went out of his own way to please me he would, he deseves the world.....hes that head over heals ...

Did I not show enough interest because I was studying, make him change his mind ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Hello My name is Astrid and I'm 29, This year I have been working and studying to sit national teaching exams, I met a guy who was interesting to me and we went to dinner a couple of times. I was very stressed studying so I didn't go out very muc...

Should I go out with him, even if I don't yet know how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - There's this guy I like. He's 17 and I'm 14. We have been good mates for a while. I fancied him first and later found out he liked me too. We started flirting and stuff. Then I didn't see him for a few weeks as he has work, and I started to wonder i...

We're getting pretty serious, but I haven't told my folks yet that he's not Chinese!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 728 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I'm 20 and in an inter-racial relationship. My boyfriend is 27 and I adore him. The problem is that we've been getting pretty serious and he talks about a future for us but I'm scared. I've kept our relationship thus far from my parents because ...

I am more attractive than him and he is jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I've never considered myself shallow but I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and four months now and I've always held back when it comes to him. And I've had people ask me why I'm with him because I'm far more attractive than he is. I never ...

What is going on with this guy???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 724 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - What would you make of a guy who appears to fancy you, that is keeps looking at you, asks what's on your sandwich, seems to come up with issues as if he is comparing his likes to yours, but then does not come to you when he is upset or distressed. ...

Sexual problems with my girl at 15!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - Ok so i been going out with this girl and it may hav eonly been for a short while i think we've liked each other for ages but her friend liking me stopped us going out. Im 15 and shes 14 and today i fingered her and she tossed me off. and i know ...

Is a relationship ok when it has no sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 723 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - I met my boyfriend in late Jan through a mutual friend of ours. And while I wasn't attracted to him at first (I'd just gotten out of a relationship and he had a grilfriend) we continued to hang out and see each other because of our our shared ...

Why do guys say im a good girl and they are bad guys ? Is it so they can break up easily ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Should I tell a guy I recently dated how I feel? I dated a guy for about a month, and then he left for vacation, then he never called me when he got back. When I saw him at a club he acted like nothing was wrong and asked me to dance. I told him ...

What should I say to him to find out if he feels the same way ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - heya right here's the problem me and this lad friend have been gettin on extremly well i fancy him but dont know if he feels the same way there have been lots of rumours lately about us fancing each other but these didnt bother him at all but they ...

He's too tired to see me; does that mean we're not dating any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating my neighbor, which was a big mistake but hey, it was his idea. Anyways everything was fine when we first start dating but for the last week he’s been to tired and doesn’t even want to see me. (Remember he does work 10 hours in ...

How do I handle my moody, insecure bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 722 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - how do i handle my boyfriend.we have been dating 6 weeks and we really like each other.the only thing is that he seems to want to control the relationship.i think he is insecure.whenever i have talked about past relationships and boyfriends he ...

Does she like 'me' or is she nice for other reasons? How do I know for sure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I really like this girl and she acts as though she likes me. She is with a company trying to get me to buy services from her company. She flirts with me and smiles the whole time we talk. She came by my office a couple of days ago to drop off ...

I met a nice guy a month ago, he now tells me he cant father children, I want children so should I end it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Met a nice guy but a month into the relationship he tells me he can't father children due to medical reasons. I'm not sure whether to continue the relationship, am i being selfish? I would love my own children....

He was interested for 3 weeks but now he isn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - is it normal for someone to act like they really like a person and then just a few days later stop? I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and everything was really good and then all of a sudden he got weird. I have this feeling like he met ...

I like him, but the approval of my friends matters more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hi, please help me. recently iv got to get a know a school mate really well, i havent told anyone but ive started to grow strong feelings for him. im adicted to speaking to him and i can tell him anything because he listens to me. hes the nicest m...

Wanted: a virgin female I can lose my virginity to. Where are all the decent girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

27 July 2006 (?) - i want 2 meet a virgin lady i say lady cause 95% of the girls i meet drink, smoke and go out every weekend and get pissed. And that just aint me i 19 but very mature for my age and,i'm one of thoes people who can pass for older, and when i do meet a ...

He's ready to move to be with some internet girl--isn't that just what 40 year old divorced people do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I resently logged into one of my exs profiles on the internet only to discover he’s been messaging a girl who lives almost half way across the country. I thought I was funny when he started talking about moving there to go to college. (He’s never ha...

I get the feeling he may just want me for sex... But I want more than to be his f-buddy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - This is hard to explain so bare with me…I’m 18 and have been single for 2 years. My last realationship was pretty hard to get over , I have trouble trusting guys and I’m very scared to make the 1st move. I’ve had crashes, kissed people and had s...

Bus stop, wet day, she’s there, I say,..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I will be honest with you , i am a single 29 year old guy,very shy no friends and at the end of each work day including weekends i stay home i never go out to party. On Monday this girl walked on the train, our eyes met and she smiled at me. her ...

My officemate is 4 years older than me and I want to ask her out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I've started to become attracted to my colleague at work since I've got to know her better. I talk to her quite often and we get on very well. However, I have not dared once consider asking her out as I do not want to jeopardise our friendship if ...

My BF promised he would cease all contact with his ex, now he's meeting her for a coffee! Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - OK, this is definitely the last time that I am going to post a question about this, but it's driven me to distraction for the last time... My boyfriend and me have been together for over a year now. During the course of this time, there has ...

My BF tells his exes on MySpace he loves them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I know this may sound silly and i may sound over obssesive but I'm really in love with boyfriend. I'm so happy but the thing is I never use the word love lightly... I have only ever used it twice in relationships one was with him and the other was ...

My BF isn't texting/calling me anymore! Is he losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and for the first 3 months, and even before we were dating, he talked to me almost EVERY day. At first he said he didn't want to ask me out because he worked so much and he was afraid he wouldn't be able to ...

How do I approach a guy in a challengable and unique way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Sometimes see some cute guys in the bookstores/cafe houses and libraries, most time they come over to me and say hello, I never approached any guys at the first meeting. People say guys wont interest in a girl if she is too spontaneous! They will ...