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I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

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13 December 2017 (F - Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are ...

Just lost a parent and he’s gone away. Should I break up with him for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 December 2017 (F - Hi All, Just looking for some advice at what is already a confusing and low time. I’ve just lost a very close family member, a parent and I feel like my partner hasn’t been as supportive as he could. I’m not taking it well at all. We were very clo...

Troubled relationship don't know how to deal with my mother in law

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10 December 2017 (F - Can someone help me to identify what personality trait my mother in law has? She is not a very motherly figure. She has 2 daughter and 1 son who is my husband. She look up on the first daughter as she has luxury lifestyle,but behind that she ...

I want to help my niece but I'm not sure how to do so

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10 December 2017 (F - So, I have a niece that just turned 18 and I just turned 25, my sister had her early and our parents had me when they were a little older. So, my niece has always been very shy and quite. But she started to break out of her shell when she was in ...

My girlfriend and I only get to see one another every 3 months

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9 December 2017 (M - I'm almost have one year dating with my girlfriend and the problem is that we don't see each other often.we might take about 3 months before seeing each other. my girlfriend is 18 years old but her parents doesn't allow her to go out for funny wi...

His daughter found my text messages to him and now he wants to cool things

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6 December 2017 (F - Hi I met a guy whom Ive known for years .. he was married before twenty years ago . He has three kids two grown up another who is eleven he lived with a woman before but didn’t work out I’ve just been seperated six months and for years I ignored ...

How can I get over this embarrassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 December 2017 (F - This boy I like knows I was spanked and now I can’t face seeing him ever again. Me and my brother got caught skipping class. Mom was so pissed she had us stay in our rooms all afternoon. When dad came home, my brother got to go down stairs but cus ...

His family is getting me down. What should I do?

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6 December 2017 (F - Hi everyone.. i need help and opinion from you about my husband. We are newly married and still living with his parents house for financial security and cultural things. We plan that once we can financially stable we will move out and live on ...

My sons are using the house for dating. What should I tell them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 December 2017 (M - I’m a single dad of two teenage boys, one is 17 (almost 18) the other is 15. My oldest has a girlfriend and recently I found out they have been using my house after school for their hook up spot. I came home from work last week and found an empt...

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 December 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a ch...

Do I stay with boyfriend or leave and hope something will happen with this other man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

3 December 2017 (F - Hi everyone Looking for some advice. Im 32 years old and when I was 18 I met a lad (lets call him A) through a group of friends. I had just recently entered a relationship and A also had a girlfriend who he had been with a few years. There was...

I broke it off. Was I right? How do I move on?

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3 December 2017 (M - I was with her for 1 year. Everything was going great until 3-4 months in we started having problems. We both made mistakes and we’ve been on and off many times. We somehow managed to move past all of that and we fell in love. It’s then when we got ...

My boyfriend's mother isn't accepting of my children and myself

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 December 2017 (F - i met my boyfriend 6yrs ago I have 2 children from previous relationship and left their father due to domestic violence. We are happy and since meeting my boyfriend we have so much in common and my children love him like a dad. We met his mum and ...

I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

29 November 2017 (F - Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia ...

I think my uncle is hitting on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

27 November 2017 (F - I think my uncle is attracted to me. First of all, excuse my English please :( Unfortunately, it’s not my first language. So, the problem is that my uncle’s brother (well, probably my other “uncle”, huh?) is acting strange. Well, you may t...

Am I selfish for not wanting a relationship? My parents are desperate for a grandchild but I'm not so sure I'm ready

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - I'm just curious as to what others think about this situation or if anyone else has had a similar problem. I'm 23 and I've never dated nor been in a relationship (and therefore obviously a virgin), but that is mainly by choice as I have no desire...

My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!! Has anyone experienced this? What can I do to get him to back off? The worst of it is that he has stolen my husband's username ...

Should I tell my son that his girlfriend is cheating on him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

25 November 2017 (F - My sons girlfriend is cheating on him??? Both she and my son are 25 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 years with his BFF. I ...

Can I ever make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

25 November 2017 (M - I'm 38 year old guy. A year back my younger brother wife became close to me and we got too closer. Initially i thought she is giving this attention just due to the respect towards an elder brother. I loved it. But finally she was treating me like ...

Staying with his mum is taking all out savings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

24 November 2017 (F - Hiya.. I currently have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years.. we are in a very happy relationship- no problems and we get on like a house on fire.. we are currently saving to buy our first house and are currently living together at his mums ...

I'm in a horribly abusive relationship and I need a way out for me and my daughter

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24 November 2017 (F - Hi basically just looking for some advise plz, I really don't know what to do or how to. Basically I haven't been happy with my partner we have been arguing lately quiet a lot we have a small child but the arguments ain't in front of her as he ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

24 November 2017 (M - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

I'm trying to get it all together to be an adult and be ready for the world but my mom thwarts my every move!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

23 November 2017 (F - Hey, I'm in a frustrating situation right now. I am a legal adult and I want to become independent and learn how to handle school and work at the same time; however, my mom is dead set against it (even though she helped me apply for a job at Publix ...

I need to help my parents know I'm an adult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

21 November 2017 (F - Hi, I posted a question a few days ago and felt like after getting some responses, I feel quite insecure of my plan. So, I’m 18 years, 19 soon, brought up with an Asian Chinese background. So I got re-in touch with an old friend of mine who I lost ...

I'm like a weekend hobby for my boyfriend while his sister and nephew are his real family

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives 50 miles away and I only see him at weekends. In the week he lives with his widowed sister and works with her son to help him out as he is retired. The other week for the ...

How will having a baby affect someone with PTSD?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have spoke about our future what we both want , i work and he doesnt and that is due to him having ptsd . he has his good days and bad more good and he goes out everyday so he doesnt get low and it ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

19 November 2017 (F - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the ...

Would this relationship be wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - I've already asked this question but I didn't outback detail in to it so I'm gonna try again! Is it wrong for me to be falling in love with my soon to be step uncle ? I've recently turned 18 and he's recently turned 21. My uncle is marrying ...

Should I tell my daughter about her biological father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - This is a family question, my daughter doesn't know who her biological father is but from the time she was a baby my boy friend has been her dad and plans on adopting her. She knows that he's not her bio dad. Her bio dad had his rights terminated, ...

My dad intentionally tried to shame and humiliate me at my wedding.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - I've had a very distressed relationship with my family since I was born really. It's pure dysfunction. My mom is mentally ill and I no longer communicate with her. Leaving me and my sister to look up to and rely on my dad as a sole parent for most ...

How can I get over my parents' neglect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - how Can I deal with moving back home to parents that only care about money and are constantly berating me - I come from a Eastern European culture where my parents marriage was arranged (very toxic relationship) my parents hate each other but stay ...

Mum kept hitting me with a shoe

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

13 November 2017 (F - I can't talk to my mum and I think she's being abusive. So this is the thing right. My mum just loses it all the time. It's like there's a war going on in my house. It always happens when I come home from school. We just yell at each other. She ...

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