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Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to j...

I am 4m pregnant and BF still wants to party every weekend. Please Help!

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7 November 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunt. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is not taking my feelings into consideration. All he wants to do is go out all the time and wheb I tell him I don't want to go and that I am staying home but he can go he gets angry and s...

My dad is getting divorced for a second time... Is it unrealistic to hope he could marry 3rd time lucky?

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7 November 2009 (F) - my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i ...

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

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7 November 2009 (F) - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...

Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?

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7 November 2009 (M) - I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...

How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...

Is it okay for me to fall in love with my adopted cousin?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Is it okay for me to fall in love with my cousin? I am 14, and my cousin is the same age. I've been having nice thoughts about my cousin. It seames like she has the same feelings, but some times not. I cant help but having thoues She does ...

Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?

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6 November 2009 (F) - ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...

How do I talk to my sister about her taking my DVD and deteriorating it?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have just discovered that my sister borrowed my favourite DVD without my permission. Not only this; she also had the audacity to leave it on a rough surface, causing it to become very scratched. When I told my mum about this, she confessed that ...

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

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6 November 2009 (F) - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

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6 November 2009 (M) - hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 mon...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

Will she stop talking to me if I tell her how I feel?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I have feeling for my cousin but never told her. and I want to tell her but am to scard to. Im not shour that she will stop talking to me or not? Will she say that she feels the same or not? I love her and she loves me to but im not shour that she ...

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...

My boyfriend can't open up and I feel lonely in our relationship.

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5 November 2009 (F) - im living with my boyfriend for 11 years now,and feel that he dont love me anymore,we never go out together or talk properly to each other,this could last for weeks and then when we make up,it lasts about a day,and then its back to square 1,its like ...

I think my 14 year old sister is going to run away with a 24 year old man!

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5 November 2009 (F) - i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell ...

My fiancé won't spend money on the coming baby!

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5 November 2009 (F) - hey, im 30weeks pregnant on sunday, me and my fiance are living in a rented house since august. we have no baby stuff yet, the only things we have got is the things iv paid for. he works and earns £1100 after tax, because of this i cant claim an...

Is it wrong to love your cousin? If so, why?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Hi I am in love with my cousin. I have feeling for her and think she does to, and I have not told her that I loved her, and i am going to wate to ask har to have sex or do any thing lick to marriy her tell we get older. I realy whant to tell he...

I want him to leave but I'm scared I won't be able to cope with my new baby!

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4 November 2009 (F) - hi peeps i have just recently had a baby. she is seven weeks old and i am at my wits end and feel like my life is not worth living. my partner does nothing for my baby and does not contribute even though he lives in my house. he is too busy at his ...

I have fallen in love with my stepdaughter

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4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, let me see if I can get this all in. My step daughter and I have grown very close over the past year. She is a bit younger then I am (over 18). I can't help these feelings I am having for her. I have not told her about them and don't plan on ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

How do I convince my brother's friend that we should try dating?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I really really like my brother's best friend. We have been flirting with each other for months and a few weeks ago he asked me to go to dinner with him. When my brother found out he was upset because neither one of us had told him about it. He f...

Should I talk to my boyfriend about wanting more, and if so, how?

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4 November 2009 (F) - DEAR CUPID .. I have been on again off again seeing this guy. He has a seven year old daughter and a baby mama that he was with for ten years. I really like him when were together we have lots of fun talking and jus being "together". The problem is ...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

I really love my cousin!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi ok hear it goes I am 14 Years old and live in Utah of the USA my cousin is 13. I have always loved her. but i am confused about all this, I think that she wants me to ask her to have sex some times but some times not. I cant get my mind off ...

My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size

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4 November 2009 (F) - My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...

I had an abortion and now my sister won't talk to me!

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4 November 2009 (F) - Should I say sorry to my sister, I had an abortion in April and my sister got very angry at me, she is very pro-life and wanted to to weigh my other options. She did not talk to me for a couple of months, and it was really hard not being able to ...

Suddenly he just wants to be friends. What's going on?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Ok - here is my problem. I met a wonderful man about 3 months ago - we shared alot of information - by email, texting and talking on the phone. He asked me out on a date and alot of questions about how I felt about his current situation (having ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

While I love the way things are, I want room for more in the future.

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3 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes I'll try to be brief. Im 39 divorced with two childen in a relatioship with a divorced guy no kids who lives an hour away. Weve been together over 2 years having broke up several months back as he had never said he loved me and didnt ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

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3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I suspect I am not my girlfriend's first choice. She is so unhappy with her life!

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3 November 2009 (M) - My gf was crying again yesterday. She says that she has given up so much to be with me. She gave up her accommodation which was rent free for the last 4 years. This she regarded as her independance. She wants a house with land and outbuildings to ...

What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.

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3 November 2009 (M) - I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...

My first cousin got me pregnant!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...

Is this incest?

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2 November 2009 (F) - Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her bo...

I want to date the girl my mum used to babysit!

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2 November 2009 (M) - Hi.. I need help with a dilema. I'm very interested in a girl! But.. she is younger than I, not being a problem, but my mother used to babysit her when she was younger, and My mother, nor her father would agree with us dating. What should I...

My gay son is dating a married man with kids!

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2 November 2009 (F) - My son is 17, and came out as gay to us 2 months ago. Me and my husband have no issues with his sexuality. He's in college, studying business systems, and is doing very well. It's his choice of partner that's worrying us though - he told us ...

I told his kids how I felt about their dad. What did I do wrong?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I have known an older guy with kids for at least a month now and there are many things he has done and said that lead me to believe he was interested in me like he would flirts with me and once or twice he has held me in his arms and cuddled me. Si...

My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?

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2 November 2009 (F) - my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...

I can't stand the thought of my divorced parents with new partners, what should I do?

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2 November 2009 (F) - My parents have recently split up after 30 years of marriage. I think one of them has just started a new relationship and I don't know what to do. I don't want to have anything to do with the new partner but does that mean I can't have the same ...

Do you think I should hang on in here or move on? Hubby is not upset that I miscarried!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Please forgive me for a long post but my question needs a bit of background. I am 41 and I have been married 3 times. The first two were public school boys and successful businessmen. My latest is the origional bad boy, been to prison, always up to ...

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

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2 November 2009 (M) - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...

I want to change my life! Should I feel guilty for wanting that?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I am a 45 yr old woman,(age posted wrong?) I have been going through the need for change for a couple years now. I am depressed, lonely, bored and burnt out. I want to relocate somewhere else I would enjoy more. I want a new job. A new start. I have ...

I love my family, but I don't like them..why am I this way?

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2 November 2009 (F) - Is something wrong with me that I love my family but I dont like them? ...

He is a father figure to this boy..he calls his son. Not sure where I fit in here?

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2 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. I love him and we've discussed moving in together... The problem in our relationship right now is his "son". Six years ago, he began dating a single mother. Her son was only 3 months old when ...

How do I change my mom's mind?

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1 November 2009 (F) - im 16 and want my tongue pierced soooo bad! but my mom says no cuz its "trashy". 2 questions, how do i get her to change her mind and is it really trashy for a girl to have a tongue piercing? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy....

Dating divorced man with daughters...why havent I met the younger one?

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1 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. We enjoy each other very much, and when together have a great time. We love each other deeply. We've both been divorced within the last 2 years. The only problem is the younger daughter...

Is it okay to fall in love with my cousin?

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1 November 2009 (F) - Is it okay for me to fall in love with my cousin? Im a girl and i've been having nice thoughts about him. Im sure he doesn't feel the same way but i cant help it..please help me I never told him yet....

How can I live like this?

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1 November 2009 (M) - hi, i am 40 years old not married, i used to live in us for 3 years, but when i came back i couldnt live well here, life is hard and people are hard to live with, even my mom layer, at work in the street all life is so bad, what can i do ?...