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How do I close out this sad chapter in my life and start anew?

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17 July 2018 (F - Hi all I am from conservative indian family. I am 24 and financially independent. I met my ex 6 years back on school. We fell in love . The relationship was intense and serious. All my school and college friends knew we were together. His pa...

My in-laws are very interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 July 2018 (F - Hello, I’m looking for some advice me and my husband have 3 children 8, 6 and 7 months and his parents and grandparents are very interfering, we live 5 mins away from them both, they constantly come around unannounced, which is frustrating as we ...

I'm sitting here alone and pregnant, can I get any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I dated this guy for almost six months during the time I got pregnant.Issues between me and his mom became apparent when she and her daughter begin writting shady comments on my fb page I finally confront both of them and his mom end up call me a ...

Everyone tells us moving in together after 2 months of dating is too soon!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 July 2018 (F - What's the consensus for knowing when you're ready to move in with someone? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a little over 2 months, but we see each other every day (we work at the same company), spend hours/weekends at a time togeth...

My best friend is dating my younger sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 July 2018 (F - my best freind has started going out with my little sister (20) and im realy jelouse about it. some back story, me and my best freind we'll call him Tim, we're both 27 and have been mates for about 26 years. anyway about six months back my l...

Why doesn’t he answer his phone when he’s with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 July 2018 (F - I have been dating a guy for 5 wks we have had a great 5 wks (I know it's only 5 wks) but one thing that bugs me is when we are together he won't answer his phone if a message comes through and often put it on silent. . Why is this ?? He says he ...

In a financial crisis, who do you give your last dollar to?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 July 2018 (F - At the age of 16 years old I knew I never wanted a man with a child. When I met my husband, he had no children which was a plus. Of course we started off as friends but before we actually got into a serious relationship, he slept with one of his ...

My ex is poisoning my children against me and interfering in my visitation with them!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 July 2018 (M - Just a quick question about my ex and my children. I had to take my ex to court in order to see my children. I have a good arrangement now and I love having my children. However I always set up really good weekends when I have them, prope...

How to save this marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - Im currently 6 months pregnant and feel so lonely and depressed. I have a very weird relationship with my husband. We rarely spent time together because of our different schedule. I went to parents home in the morning while he still asleep and went ...

Should I move away and start a new life close to my daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - I split up with a long term ex (17 years) because he treated me so badly that it ruined my self esteem and this impacted on my career and relationship with my daughter. I realise now I put up with his behaviour because I grew up in a dysfunctional ...

Is it ok to fall in love with your cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 July 2018 (F - My whole family went to Minnesota to visit my aunt and cousins! My cousin is a boy, 16 Years old and I’m 15 Years old and a girl. When I first saw him it was like love at first sight....sometimes he would roll his tounge at me just to be funny or...

How do I stop getting erections around her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 June 2018 (M - My second cousin (a female) and I spend a lot of time together. We are both 13 years old and we share a lot of hobbies. We are both cousins and friends. The problem is that I keep on getting erections around her. I will admit she is extremely...

Everything was perfect... until he lost his nan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have been friends for about a year. We had the most amazing relationship. We both had said that we had a stronger bond than we'd ever had with anyone else. We tackled any ...

Something's not right with my mother and I'm very worried about her mental health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - I think my mother has ADHD,I'm no professional so I may be wrong in diagnosing her but something is definitely not right..she's a wonderful mum but I'm starting to feel very frustrated with our relationship, I apologise in advance if this is long ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

Is it for sure that I will get a green card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - I got a divorce 3 years ago because my husband was emotionally and physically abusive. I have a 4 year old daughter, and i always do my best to sacrifice the best for her. I live in the middle east, and i always have to go to Texas, USA for months ...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back ...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 June 2018 (M - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

How do I ask for a sex toy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

24 June 2018 (F - I want a sex toy because, I'm a 17 year old girl now. I know after I ask I'm going to say, think of it this way, I'm still a virgin. Most people my age aren't anymore. But the problem is, I have to ask my dad. Not a mom. How do I do this? I'm ...

What if I fail ......

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a ...

How to tell my family that I may never get married..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

23 June 2018 (M - Hi. I'm a 36-year-old guy living in a traditional society. Physically speaking, my interest in women is almost nonexistent, as have been scarce my sexual experiences with them. Until two or three years ago, I used to go on many dates with girls, i...

Is my sister crossing a relationship boundary line? I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

22 June 2018 (F - First i want to start by saying that setting boundaries in relationships has always been confusing for me. Some background info on my gradual Relationship with my sister.. She's always gotten mad at her boyfriends for being friendly with me. Me ...

What do I do to get my brother to forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - I really made a huge and stipid mistake and now feeling guilty,hurt and embarrassed.I could not accept my past and move on.I have a brother and I'm really close with him.He has a close friend(jack) and he tells about him causually.I had seen him but ...

Is a B-cup too small?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - Is B-cup too small? Everyone in my family has A-cup boobs, but I am a B-cup. I am not growing anymore, and all my friends and family make fun of me and call me flat. It hurts me a lot. So, on legitimate average? When is a boob size too small, or too ...

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

20 June 2018 (F - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've tak...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 June 2018 (F - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

Should I say I was annoyed about the way he set up meeting his children?

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19 June 2018 (F - Should i tell him I felt annoyed? My boyfriend of 5 mths recently invited me over to meet his children of 21 and 16. They were having a takeaway night so thought it would casual. We arranged a time and I went over. I knocked the door but got...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I worry so much about my baby, I just need a balanced view.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hi All, I've posted a number of times before and you've always provided me with great advice. My child's dad and I split before he was born ( 16weeks pregnant). Our son was planned - tried for a year to conceive him..split after ten yea...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

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