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I want to be strong for him at this time of terrible grief, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

23 June 2017 (F - My boyfriends brother died suddenly last week and it has hit the whole family hard. I am trying so hard to be strong for my boyfriend but every time I'm on my own I beak down in tears myself because I feel so sorry for him. He hasn't spoke much ...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F - Hello, I met this guy online, nearly 2 years ago. He's korean and I'm polish. There are quite a few things that my parents refuse to accept about him and they constantly try to make me break up with him. The main arguments are his short height, th...

Family puts too much stress on me. Should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 June 2017 (F - Hi, I’m sorry if this going to be a lengthy question, I just want to give you all the facts to better explain the situation. I met my current live-in boyfriend almost 5 years ago while I was on the rebound from another relationship. I...

My parents are so strict and I can't talk to them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 June 2017 (F - My parents are really strict and I do not know what to do. I am almost 19 but my parents will not let me date or even be friends with any male. They go through my phone and I have to leave my phone in their room at night. I do however have a ...

Do I ask him about marriage? children? He says he doesn't ever want to marry again

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 June 2017 (F - Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to think about having children and getting married? We both have a daughter each, and he has been divorced for the last 3 years officially. He is 10 years older then me, and we met while he was in the process of g...

Is my son over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 June 2017 (F - My son is 20 and my older son 27. They started college around the same time. My oldest is going to a for-profit school for culinary arts; meanwhile my youngest is attending a community college on a full pell grant.. my oldest needs the car to attend ...

I even left my daughter at home for 4 days for the sake of my affair and now he's disappeared. I feel so lonely!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy in Vegas over two months ago. He approached me and my friends at a club. I told him from the beginning I was married and he respected that . The night went on and everyone was having a great time. He would dance next to me because he ...

Unhappy newly wed, unemployed and losing my mind, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - This is a bit long so bear with me. I am 30 years old, newly married to my bf of 2 years and unemployed. Yes, this information is necessary. When i'd met him in 2015 i'd quit my hectic job in consulting to something with less travel...but...

I like him but didn't want to date a guy who has kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 June 2017 (F - Hey guys, just in need of a little advice! I recently started dating a guy I somewhat work with. I work at a car dealership and I'm in new cars and he is in used.. I say kind of because I'll probably run into him once a week durin our Friday meeti...

I don't want a strained relationship with my cousins

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 June 2017 (F - So, I want to say this to get it off my chest. I used to be close to my cousins on my mom's side. I would hang out with them a lot at family reunions when I had the chance to. Laugh and enjoy the moment. Now, they don't talk to me. They igno...

I changed my mind about having children, he wants children would this be the end of our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hi everyone, this one is a difficult one for me. I recently got engaged to a man I love and think the world off, the time we been together we have had minor disagreements, but other than that the relationship has progressed smoothly. Lately I have ...

Do I stand my ground or make up with my mother?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 June 2017 (F - Hi folks. I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment. I have my child's christening coming up this week and haven't invited my mother. Now I know that sounds awful but here's why (sorry for the essay) Basically all our lives my mum...

He says he wants to be friends but to be patient. Is he playing games with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 June 2017 (F - When I was 22, I was in a very serious relationship. After his father died, he broke up with me. We didnt speak for a number of years. We both married other people, and had children. We found each other again, I was divorced, he was happily married, ...

He has Mommy issues 2. Should I move on? Or wait for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - I was with this guy for about a couple of months, we met on a dating site..he has Mommy issues, he is in his 30s amd his mom lives with him but they constantly fight she belittles him and he just takes iy because she has no where else to go.. He end...

Feeling un-easy about my gf going on cruise. Am I going to be cheated on during the cruise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect ...

Should I be worried? He's 18 years older than me, separated and with kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months now and I'm head over heels for him. He is the same towards me. The only thing that worries me is he is 18 years older than me and is separated with kids... Advice please?...

Should I commit to moving? Worried about his cheating in past and about leaving my family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is 27 and I'm 21, so naturally he has more experience than I do. 6 months into our relationship, he confessed that he had cheated on me, so we broke up...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

How can I make my Bf quit weed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend smokes weed and he lies to me that he doesnt. I know he loves me a lot and will never ditch me, but my parents wont accept him, if he doesnt quit weed. He knows that too but he just doesn't quit it. He wants to marry me but i can't g...

Should I continue my relationship? Or end this relationship? Should I heed my mother's advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me...Basically, there's a situation I'm in where I just need some advice and guidance. So, I'd be grateful to receive some answers. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly half a year now and I've known h...

Advice please? I'm 17, doing my A levels, and I really want to have a baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm only 17 but I am really wanting to have a baby. I've been with my amazing, supportive boyfriend for coming up to 2 years and he's everything to me. I'm currently having a really hard time at sixth form with my A levels, and have had to chan...

I need advice on how to handle this, please? My life is turning into a sitcom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm sure a lot of you will probably think I'm being silly. I've tried talking to myself about this, and I've realized that I'm not mad/jealous because I don't want him anymore, I'm just annoyed. I married my ex-husband A (he's 33) in 2013, we wer...

How can I find a guy? I have this huge fear of being alone and not married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I wanted to come here and ask if anyone has any advice on how to get over this fear - for the last 12 years - I'm 31 - I have a huge fear on being alone- not being married It's driven me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and men that...

How should I approach my parents and family about introducing my Bf to them? Especially as he's 10 years older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

3 June 2017 (F - Hello, I am 22 years old and in a relationship with a guy ten years older than myself and have been for almost 4 years. My parents have never really objected to me having a partner however them and older members of the family have always told ...

What advice can you offer for brides living in same home as their inlaws?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 June 2017 (F - My husband to be is a very simple minded guy. He hates critics, conflicts,and complaints. He tries to keep the peace by keep his patience( which i appreciate highly) or sometimes avoiding from it. We are going to marry in several months and we ar...

I feel deeply conflicted over my 8 year relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - I am deeply conflicted. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. That's right, 8 years. And yes, lately the 8 years have been wearing down on me. I am 32, and I want to be married. He says he wants to be married...

How can I control my moods and my tongue? At times I'm vicious with my tongue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - How do I control my moods and temper?.. My life has been anything but easy I had a compulsive liar for a mum and my dad never seemed to care .. I went on to have two children that were born with a life limiting conditions. ..my eldest son died ...

Being threatened by loved ones if I stop taking medication and forced holidays

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

1 June 2017 (M - last year I was diagnosed with depression and have been taking sertraline which was recommend by the doctor, ive had a difficult life and things haven't gotten any easier. my grandfather passed away from cancer five years ago which really affected...

I feel low and down when around one of my family members

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

1 June 2017 (F - I just automatically feel so low. It’s not even something I can control or choose –and I read a lot of self-help/improvement books… It just happens. And usually as soon as they go out, I feel like a great physical and mental weight has been ...

Have I the right to feel narked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 June 2017 (F - I have met someone and seen him a few times. I knew it was his birthday coming up weeks ago. I have asked him if he wants to come over the day before his birthday which he has said he would love to do. I mentioned my daughter working at a race ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 May 2017 (M - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

My mother says it will ruin my reputation if I am with this guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - Me and this black have been talking and i told my mama about it and she doesn't approve. she mad me feel horrible about the whole situation and I told him that we were gonna have to be friends. I dont know what to do because i dont see what the big ...

He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

How do I determine if this relationship will ever turn serious or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

29 May 2017 (F - I have been in an awkward type of relationship with a man that is 14 years my senior . I Have known my Partner for 13 years now and we have an oops baby that we both love to bits and pieces. we started out as a one night stand that became a fr...

My daughter feels I am being inconsiderate having my lover stay over

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 May 2017 (F - hi all, I have been on my own with my daughter since she was 6 months old and in that time i have never introduced her to any potential partners, i have chosen to stay single. my daughter is 18 years old next month and also has a boyfriend of nearly ...

How can I erase this mental abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 May 2017 (F - How can stop measuring my value by a man- since being young my parents and grand parents have lived a life according to what society thinks is right. My mom married my dad and stayed in a physically abusive relationship only because she didn't like ...

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