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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He has suddenly stopped communicating and I am supposed to visit him soon!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hey. Ok...so I worked at this place over summer and I met this guy who also worked there...and we kinda got together towards the end (went on a few dates). Then, however, he had to quit and go back to uni, as did I. However, my uni is in London, ...

I always have revenge sex with friends and relatives of my exes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Okay this may be a long one here... I am going to describe the only THREE guys that have ever actually meant something to me in my life out of everybody, now I have been in relationships with a few guys but these three I cared about more than oth...

Why not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - My guy an me had a great sex life until 2 months ago. He then could come, lost it with me. I find out he has been getting himself off. He has blamed loads of things. I have now given him ultimatum as ( he says I turn him on?!) but today he can get ...

Do you think I'm the problem with his climax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi, my man used to cum in me, using condoms, all the time. For the past 2 months this has not been happening - hes been blaming this on his night work, hes tired, if we argue this is the problem, its the dog etc. I have tried my best, but only ...

Dating a separated guy, who's wife wants him back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a very loving relationship with a separated guy for just about 2 years. He was only living on his own for about a month, when he and I met. He and his wife were kind of separated for many years (not sleeping in the same bedroom) prior ...

How do I get her off my bf ?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the deal, there's this girl in my class who pretty much hates me and likes my bf. So for revenge she decided to take advantage of my shyness and start hitting on my bf! She keeps clinging on to him and hugging him and all that and it ...

Do you think I am a slut?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Do you think I am a slut? I have been flirting with this guy for years, he likes me because I am shy, we have kissed a couple of times, we get on really well and very recently we were kissing and as we were kissing he asked me to make him cum, wh...

This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have a complicated situation. I consider myself to be clear of mind and a high thinker. But this problem I simply cannot solve. My former flame and I were together for a short time. A year and a half. He was my first and only everyt...

Why it is Important for him to earn your Love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - The other day I had a thought and decided to write it down. I had several women write to me regarding this thought and so I decided maybe I should post it here for those of you women who wonder what it takes to make a man stay with you forever. T...

Suspicious acts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - If my boyfriend shaves before he sees his female co-worker, is he pursueing her? [Moderator note: The following was posted as a seperate question on the same topic from the same user] My live in boyfriend shaves everytime he is going to work with...

The good ones are taken, the ones who are available I don't want. Is this a normal part of the dating game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have been single for 2 years after my divorce. Why is everyone I meet or have a really strong chemistry and connection with is married or has a girlfriend. We end up just being friends, but it's hard because we both know that if he was single we...

I'm thinking of joining a dating site to get some practice in as I'm not that great with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - hi everyone, im a 25 year old final year dental student in the uk. i play a lot of rugby and go to the gym regulary, about 4 to 5 times a week. ive never realy had a girlfriend and im not that great with girls. so my thoughts are if im bad at ...

I lost my erection, now she thinks I'm not attracted her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem. Last night while in bed with my girlfriend, she started trying to arouse me. It worked, I got an erection and everything, but then we had some trouble with penetration. She was on top, and after a minute of her ...

Aries male crazy over a Saggittarius girl. Need Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Classic Aries male in his 30's and I have a professional relationship with a classic Saggittarius female who's been driving me crazy. This girl could possibly be put on earth to be my soulmate. I love everything about her. Now the problem is two ...

Is my boyfriend lying when he says he doesn't want me to get a boob job?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Okay I want an HONEST answer from the guys here. I have small breasts, like B cup or so. There is enough there for a bit more than a handful, and I can make them look bigger with a push up bra but I hate to do that because I am aware that I am ...

Should I tell the guy I've been dating for two years that I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Should I tell the guy I've been dating for two yrs tht I'm in luv with him? When we text message each he sends me hearts and smiley faces. I asked him if he loved me and he said he has a lot of luv for me. What does tht mean? What should I do ...

Could this be the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Hey people I have yet another question that I have no idea how to answer myself. I apologize for any typo's in this question but i just got a new netbook from school and the keybord takes some getting used to. I am 15 and Marry (not real name) is 14 ...

Whta's the difference between a guy who has genuine feelings for you and one who just finds you attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I've asked my friends about this, but the only advice they give me is along the lines of "of course he likes you, all men do" which really doesn't help me. How can you tell the difference between a guy who has genuine feelings for you and one who ...

Why does everyone associate being lonely not having confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - My question is why does everyone associate being lonely not having confidence? I think that I am a lonely person, but I have plenty of confidence. My issue is just that I cant get anyone. I have a high IQ im athletic, I have 3 businesses, I...

Is it supposed to be this hard to hang out with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl a while back on a movie set we were both production assistants. Well we chatted during the downtime for about 2 hours. she was really cute and cool. Well, after hitting it off with her i felt bad cuz she was leaving for Tanzania for ...

Dating one, but in love with his friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm also in love with my best friend...but I'm dating another person. My friends have tried to help. Lets call him BFF is dating Lisa and I'm dating my bf. BFF and I have so much in common and we get into tickle fights every day we see eachother, ...

How do I tell my dad he is ruining my love life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I currently live with my fiancé and everything is great. My family lives in a town close by about 45 minutes away. My dad got a job in the town we live in so he doesn't like the commute. He asked if he could stay at our place if ...

Do you think a relationship with him is possible?

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23 October 2009 (F) - Hi and thanks for taking the time to read and comment on this i really appreciate it! Ok so here goes last week i went out with a group of friends, we were going to see a gig but it was still early so we went into a near by bar for a drink. we ...

I feel obcessed with this woman and making sure she gets what's coming to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do or how i can stop myself from feeling this way. I've had a pretty shit year with relationships. My boyfriend was living with a couple who verbally abused him and treated us like shit and him like a slave. You couldn't bel...

I know this is long, but I really need help. any advice or insight will be incredibly appreciated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - This is the backstory to the question. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years. We love each other very much. We have a stunning amount in common and a very powerful connection ie ( knowing what each other is thinking) calling ...