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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

She wasn't clear about the date but took my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3080 days ago

31 January 2015 (M) - Hi there, today a little problem came to me, about reading women´s behaviour or what they mean. Short story: I met her at work and we had a couple of small, funny conversations occasionally.... today, I grabbed all my confidence and asked h...

How can I learn to not react? Should I continue to put up with his actions? My bf is neglecting me and pushing me for a reaction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I can't take being neglected anymore. My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We've hit a rough patch and things have been horrible. He ignores me knowing, full well, how I feel about it. Then I get mad and start bitching and he laughs at me....

Would a man stay with a woman for nearly 4 years if he didn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - If your were scared of commitment, would you be with someone for nearly four years. but not live with her. Get close and then pull away again and then repeat. Despite illness on both sides, the rows maybe a couple days of calming down but...

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / g...

Will I get hurt? He has troubles with his ex and he gets angry sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3075 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been dating since. We get on so well, and have become best friends. When we met he had just had a major surgery and was recently divorced. Since getting to know him he has had such a hard two years. He h...

How do I back off in a LDR? How can I encourage him to chase me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I am the female, 23, and lately boyfriend, 21, has been acting distant. We've been together for a year. He would text me good morning beautiful and all those things but for the past couple of weeks or so, they are nonexistent. Whenever we te...

Should I agree that it's OK? My Girlfriend wants to wear transparent clothing that will allow her breasts to be seen to others in public.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Should I let my girlfriend to go braless in public? Will it be okay to allow her? she wants to wear very short dresses, and dresses that allow her breasts to be seen through the fabric and be transparent and be viewable in public. She says she wan...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends...

All the signs are there to say he is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is the kinda guy that is usually so nice and understanding and not the typical asshole, even when we're super bad and he knows im upset he tries to make everything better. Takes his blame and even some of mine.. and just complete ...

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for ...

He's a great friend, but kind of a bad date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3154 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I had been seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months. For various reasons, I thought he might eventually be ready for a real relationship but I finally came to my senses and realized that it will not happen. The last time I saw him (about t...

How do I assure my girlfriend that I'm not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend constantly accuse me of cheating. It started a year ago, when we split for a few months. I dated another girl and she and I hung out often. I genuinely liked her, but never planned on settling down with her. Fast forward, my gir...

How do I handle my g/f going silent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 January 2015 (M) - Thanks for reading I'm a bit on tender hooks today and need an outside opinion Been with my gf for a year - she's 21 and I'm the first guy she's slept with. We've had such a good time and all was great. Aside from when her nan died she went ...

All my friends have said to ditch him but I'm genuinely in love with him. I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy. We started off as friends, but one night we got very drunk and slept together. We carried on sleeping together every time we got drunk. But then we started doing more, so he'd ask me if i wanted to go for lunch or to the ...

He seemed really interested in me, and then vanished off the far of the earth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - Hi there :) I met a guy about 2 months ago and we really hit it off. At first he was super keen and was constantly texting..ten over Xmas/ new year he went home to his parents and I hardly heard from him. As soon as he was back we started to speak ...

How can I stop making my current boyfriend pay for the sins of my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - [MOD NOTE - OP's title] My last boyfriend cheated on me and broke my heart. I never want to go through that kind of pain ever again. Because of this, I am having a very hard time trusting my current boyfriend. My boyfriend has done nothi...

How will I deal with culture shock if I move from the Usa to England?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for years (5+) and been dating for 2 of those years. For a while we have told each other that we seem right together and cannot imagine the future without each other. A month or so ago he began slipping i...

I'm wondering if I feel enough for her for it to become a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

28 January 2015 (M) - So I've been seeing this woman for a few months now. Maybe a dozen or so times in all, variety of dates - long short, just us and a couple with friends across 4 months. We're not a couple yet, nor had the 'talk', but we may well be that ...

Am I in the wrong with this about a guy I was seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I were kind of seeing each other for about 3 months. He introduced me to his family and friends. He would ask to see me most weekends and invite me to events. I remember this one time we were out, and I was talking to another guy and he ...

How do I fight to keep this woman in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - She was married to her second husband for 18 years. She loved him deeply. She is a sensitive woman whom loves with all her heart. During their union, she had a rare liver disease and underwent 2 liver transplants. The first was rejected. Afterwards, ...

I am confused about lots of things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Thought id message in as id heard about this site, feel confused about lots of things so just wanted to see some other peoples opinion on this. Basically i am worrying about the future as i am coming up to 35 years of age and really hoped by now...

Why is it hard to meet somebody you fancy and get on with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - This is something that I cant shake . I can not seem to meet a girl of which I both find attractive and also get on with. I tend to meet a girl now and then and maybe think this one is one I like , but then something will put me off and I will ...

His parents don't approve of me, a single mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - So here is the situation and I will try to keep this as short as possible so thanks for bearing with me. At the age of 22 I started dating this 25 year old man and we became "official" in August of 2014 after 2 months of dating. He says ...

He went from being a jerk to Prince Charming overnight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Me and my guy live together for about a year. However I was thinking about moving out because We never do anything special and we never go anywhere. In fact it's usually always on his terms on what he wants to do and even when we argue he needs to ...

Does he not appreciate my virginity?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have very different sexual backgrounds: he has had many partners but I have never had sex with any of the people I have dated. I'm 23 and I have always wanted to have sex with "the one" aka the person who loves me to death and I ...

I get attached and invest too much too soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3374 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with getting too attached too quickly. No matter what kind of guy I am dating, whether he's a great guy or one who doesn't treat me well, I still really want it to work out. I settle for guys who treat me poorly just because I don't ...

He is an Australian, and only here for another month and I will never leave America

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Major Agony ?? I met a wonderful boy 2 months ago and we hit it off very well. We like sane things he is kind and hardworking. Good guy. We waited a few weeks before sleeping together but that hasn't changed him or us he's still great The...

Sex has become a no go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Been with my boyf a year and a half. Everything is great. I love him dearly we live together after recently buying out first home and plan to get married next year. Our only issue ... Sex! For approx the first year of our relationship we ...

My gf is a liar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - My gf lied about talking to her ex. I'm going to try to be as factual and unbiased as possible about this, and not include any of our history. For ease of explanation let's just pretend I'm psychic. Last night (Sunday), we're laying in bed an...

He is never on time, the compliments have stopped. Is he losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 months. Everything was going smoothly, we both agreed to take things slow as we both have difficulty opening up to new people. He always complimented me, he was always punctual. Lately this has changed along wi...

I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Can anyone offer some well needed advice please? I've been with my fiancé for 10 years - I got with him when I was 20 and he was 29. We are getting married in August. I do love him otherwise I wouldn't be with him but I keep getting doubts as...

I met the perfect Christian guy, but he's gay and has a boyfriend! How do I get over him and stay strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm a Christian girl and I met this Christian guy through a mutual friend at a party last Halloween. He was really nice and as I got to know him I totally fell for him, he was very respecting of women and he does things like help poor people. We get ...

He's too independent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Hello, I´ve got this boyfriend for almost 4 years..we love each other, but I´m starting to feel we are different, event when I thought we are the same.. We fight in the recent time almost every day and I´m tired of it, he´s tired of it, we just don...

My boyfriend of one year, is addicted to skype sex chat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for lil over one year, we spent alot of time to gether, went on trips, had a very fun snd relaxed relationship. Im 28 years old and he just turned 27. He had girl friends before me but never had sexual relationship. ...

I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me but I'm afraid it will scare her away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - It's a long story so be patient with me. I met C when she was 17 and I was 25. I had no idea how old she was because she moved in the same friendship circles I did. We went on a few dates and there was this spark. I fell for her instantly. She was ...

How can I be the partner she deserves, when my mind is still filled with thoughts of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I came out of a tumultuous 2-year relationship only a handful of months ago. I loved her so incredibly much, but we were constantly breaking up and getting back together (never once was it my decision to split) over petty, insignificant fights, ...

I am so frustrated, all I am to him is somebody for dinner conversation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - My bf is significantly older than me. We have been dating for a year or so. He does not want to make love at all. He has an excuse for every time of day. No he does not have ED. When we first got together there was constant affection. Now he will ...

My boyfriend doesn't understand that clinginess turns me off!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Hey, so, I've been having doubts about my current relationship. We met on a dating website 5 months ago, and started dating 3 days after we met... In all honesty, I only accepted going out with him because we had sex, and I then felt obligated to. ...

I found out my b/f was watching anal sex pornography and told him it was deal breaker. I still think he's watching it and lying about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year and I've known vaguely that he watches porn for most of our relationship. However, it's only been recently that I've really started to have an issue with it as I've never really looked it up (so ...

I can't give girlfriend a vaginal orgasm and it upsets me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of 8 months has had 15 previous 'lovers' compared to my 2, and she slipped up to day when we were talking about orgasms, she said she has had a vaginal orgasm but not with me, i can make her orgasm through the clitoris no problem ...

Was this guy showing off in front of me? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Well, I go roller skating somewhere every Saturday, and there's this guy there that I really like. My dad knows his dad, but I've never talked to him before. I don't know if he likes me or not, but last week he was really close to me and he was ...

Dating a month he has to go away. At first he was ok and now he's pulled back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website and we've been dating for a month. We both felt an instant connection and it's something I havent experienced before. We click really well, we share the same sense of humor and really enjoy spending time together. ...

Will my boyfriend cheat on me if we don't commit and have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Hi there, I've been thinking all this while about my current boyfriend, who is 31years old. I am 23. Let me brief you all before i ask for help here. So, my current bf used to be my ex-boss in my previous company where I worked. He casually asked me...

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Go with another guy? Or become single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I am in a long-term, long-distance relationship for almost 6 years. I am finishing college this june and don't know what path to take next. I am very ambitious and have big career goals. My boyfriend has a well-paid but unstable job that requires ...

I'm scared I'm dating this guy for security but nothing else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I am not sure if I ever want to get married or not. I hear a lot of people say single people are lonely and also that marriage is not for everyone. I can be very erratic in my decision making and change my mind many times before I get to where am ...

Why is he sort of giving me the cold shoulder now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I were kind of seeing each other for about 3 months. He introduced me to his family and friends. We used to speak every day, and he would also call. He would ask to see me basically every weekend and invite me to events. Due to my busy ...

I'd like to date this girl but she wants either fwb or just being friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - Hey guys, Thanks for taking the time out to read this... Basically about 3 months ago, I found myself in a situation where a girl I know was coming to the end of a relationship with her boyfriend. We used to speak to each other every night ...

Those three little words, who should say them first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have our 3 month anniversary this week so I have been wondering...who should say, "I love you," first? I have heard that it should be the man, and I would really like it to be that way...but I am nervous that he is waiti...