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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've ...

My boyfriend impregnated another woman... what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - good day, please advise on my problem. I have a boyfriend of 3 years that i love so much and we have a baby 18 months baby boy, we had our ups and downs in our relationship but we always talk about them and solve them. I just recently found ou...

She used to have affairs with married men. Is she dating material??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - I met this really beautiful girl a couple months ago. She seemed nice and sweet too. Almost too good to be true! I asked her to lunch and surprise to me she said yes. We sort of started a relationship. I mean not too serious yet. Just movies a...

Why is he looking at sites with girl's underwear???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I know I'll probably be raked over the coals for this one because snooping is such a big invasion of privacy and betrayal of trust but here it goes. My boyfriend of four years has been over my apartment recently and he uses my laptop when I go to ...

I feel sometimes that I treat my girlfriend like a comfort blanket.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - I am a very self-oriented person who enjoys my own and other people's company, striking a balance between these two depending on how I feel. I love other people's company, but only when it suits me. I am the most important person in my life. My g...

His sweet words to me, so romantic, well, he's used them before with his past girlfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend was very romantic when we first got together. he used to send me loonggg text messages telling me how he felt about me and how he had really fallen for me and i loved it. as we got further along the line these messages died down, though ...

I don't want to be that jealous girl but I still feel so jealous and insecure. How do I get over this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hello I need some help or advice to get over my jealousy. I am with a guy, we have been together 2/3 months officially. We were seeing each other earlier in the year but it didn't work out as he had just come out of serious relationship but...

My girlfriend is worried that we aren't compatible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - my girlsfriend and i have been speaking and she says we dont have the friendship factor. we have been together 8 months and she is worried that were not that compatable. there is hardly any convosation when we are together. what can i do...

How to start a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - I really have no ideas for how to pursue relationships with women. I can never seem to get past acquaintance or friend... Any advice appreciated....

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...

My boyfriend never calls and it's starting to bother me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I know this isn't a life altering issue or anything, but it's starting to really bother me. My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together and we text every day. We rarely talk on the phone- maybe once a week. When we talk, and the conversation ...

I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota ...

Where do 30-somethings go on dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hello all.. I m back in the dating game at 32 and have met a new guy so far we have been out for a drink but i am rubbush at ideas at what things to do next.. cinema, meals ?? but then what? i want to have some fun and interesting ideas but i'm in ...

What should I do if he doesn't respond to my messages?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend sent me a text message this morning saying that he loves me, and a couple of hours later, he called me, but i missed the call. He didnt leave a voicemail message. I couldn't get back to him until a few hours later. I tried to call him ...

Have I given her the message that I'm only looking for something casual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Hey guys, could do with some advice here. Main question - do you think if you sleep with a girl on 2nd date that means you give the impression you're not that interested in a relationship/serious thing, but moreso a casual thing? I met this gir...

He's more into me than I am into him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hey... so... i met this guy about a month ago, and he's super sweet... the kind of guy that would make any teenage girl feel like the luckiest girl in the world! he's sweet, sensitive, he brought me flowers on our third date, introduced me to...

I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i mo...

So what is a good way to meet someone as it seems like I have tried everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So I have been single for years and really need to meet someone soon, I feel overwhelmed with loneliness. I should have no problems meeting someone because I'm attractive, educated, intelligent, and I have my crap together. My problem seems to be ...

I am gutted that he's only looking forward to seeing me because he thought he was going to get his leg over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hello all, well i'm 36 and after a crappy divorce am back with my parents, had one disappointing boyfriend since but have been single for a good while and would like to meet someone now.. well i have and we went for a drink last night, hes 31 and a ...

Two years on and things are a lot less physical

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello everyone.. :) Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years over. Our relationship are great. He is caring, lovely and responsible. But lately I realise that we have less physic contact, he sure hug and kiss me a lot, but he seldom go ...

The 'Honeymoon' phase in relationships....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi, Can I ask for honeymoon period in a relationship, how long does it usually range from? And what are the symptoms that one is still in honeymoon period? Thanks....

We stopped fooling around but to my surprise we still see each other. Does this mean he respects me? Or does it mean he is no longer interested in me sexually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - i'm in a situation with a guy which first started off as a flirtation. we fooled around a few times (pg rated stuff) but i've pulled away from that and expected him to ignore me since he wasn't getting what he wanted. surprisingly though we still ...

Isn't there usually a spark when you're dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - A few weeks ago, I started seeing this guy named Alex. He's a good friend of my best friend. She set me up with him. He turned out to be really nice, funny, cute, and we have a lot in common. Even though I had fun with him, there's just not...

Is it ok for me to have these romantic thoughts about Transsexuals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Hi agony aunts, i want to know if it's normal for me to be interested in transgender people sexually and emotionally. Right now im 18 years old, It all started a little over 2 years ago. I was looking at pornography on the internet and i h...

How do I forget my ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Im an asian (oriental) guy living in Dublin. Theres is this one guy that I like (he was my first gay love and he took my virginity), we used to be friends but he abandoned me nearly two years ago for some reasons and moved to spain. Now that hes ...

I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or...

Why is my boyfriend taking so long to reply to my texts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - my boyfriend used to text me back instantly after i text him then over time it started taking him longer and longer to reply even after school now it takes him between thirty minutes to an hour to reply to each text it really bugs me because we are ...

I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know ...

Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?...

Do you remember how/why you found Dear Cupid and did it help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Not a dating/relationship question as such, but just curious...Do you remember why/how you came across Dear Cupid and do you take that into account when answering questions? E.G. When you tell someone to move on/dump their partner, do you ...

Will he lose interest? Did we move too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I got drunk 2 nights ago and went to a guys place. He's someone I liked, and have met a few times, hes come over, and we've talked before and flirted. He asked me over and we kissed, he rrespectd me and we didn't do anything that night except ...

Is he just scared of being gay or is he just messing with my emotions for fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hi, im not sure if im just going nuts or what but i swear my best friend is screwing with my head. he knows im gay and he knows im in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who he is on and off with constantly. when we're just chilling out o...

I really want to change my promiscuous ways! Please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I was a very promiscuous girl, from 18-24. I would sleep withguys (oral sex mostly) without knowing them that well, it was REALLY easy to get me in bed. I couldn't form lasting relationships b/c of this. I didn't want to be with a guy i slept ...

How can I get my buddy to stop bugging me about my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hello Dear cupid-ers! So, I have a question for ya'll I would ask my friends but .. Its about them really haha! So, Ive had a girlfriend for the past year and a half and i love her with all my heart, she is the one for me without a doubt and we r...

He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning ...

Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...

Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another ...

I've been reflecting on my relationship, and I feel that although I love my B/f and want him to be happy, it feels one-sided, and I'm not sure I want to carry on in this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I need some help to weigh up my relationship, please. I feel I put in most of the effort and it is starting to get to me. We've been together 18 months. It feels like i'm always the one suggesting things to do, like going to the cinema or out for ...

He wanted to know why I asked him if he had a girlfriend, should I tell him it's because I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - l have been liking this guy for 3 months now, his actions seems like he likes me too. He finds excuses to talk to me, l catch him looking at me and he once asked me 4 months ago if l had a boyfrend of which l said yes because l was dating someone at ...

Is there something wrong with me because I'm attracted to innocent looking women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hello guy's, just a little concerned about my taste in women!, usually when i go out etc i have quite a strong attraction towards really innocent looking girls/women (quiet looking, really cute/doll/young faced) and while my friend's are after the ...

Is he gay? Is he into me? Why does he want to meet me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I met this guy on a random social network. I am from California and he's from one of the southern states. I am crazy in love with him. We talk so much. We text every single day. He leaves me audio notes and video notes on my phone. Now he tells me ...

How can I become a father-like figure to my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I have a girlfriend and all would be fine, but more and more she keeps hinting to me that she wants me to be a father-like figure. It reached a stage when she gets irritated if I try to be cute with her (e.g. calling her cute names or trying to be ...

I'm in love with my mom's boyfriend's son what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My mom's boyfriend's son and I really love eachother but don't know what our parents will say. They are not married so there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. What should we do?...

Should I go to a party in which my boyfriend's friend failed to invite him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's friend invites me to his wife's baby shower. Should I go? His friend stopped talking to him and answering his phonecalls for resons we both don't understand but he keeps sending me random messages to wish me merry christmas, happy ...

I'm upset with her actions but I love her so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - my girlfriend and I have been dating for over seven months, and the majority of it has been long distance. Over the summer i fell in love with her and i knew that i wanted to be with her in college. While at college she went out with people like ...

Do men like females who are very experimental sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Do men like females who are very experimental sexually? For example, my boyfriend and I went shopping and bought a huge jar of pickles. I said that he should f*** me with one of them. (I'm not always quite so strange, I was 1/2 joking, 1/2 serious, ...

My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding. I'm not sure whether or not he plans to, but so far he hasn't mentioned it. The wedding is not too far away, so I assume if he planned on bringing me along, ...

My mother is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact that I'm single. I just want her to stop and to leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I will be turning 26 this year and I'm single. Personally I'm ok with that. I figure as long as I'm living my life and enjoying what I do, the right guy will come along. I'm not in a rush But my mother on the other hand is constantly remin...

Does she want our friendship to progress or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - hey i`m not sure what to do there is this girl i like i`ve known her for 5 years i`m 22 and she is 24 we both like each other but she allways says she wants to get to know me better and progress our relationship but then never takes action she ...

How can I stop letting the past creep up on me and make me upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been through alot! we have a 7 month old daughter, i dont know where to start. few the past few weeks things with my boyfriend and i have been great! they couldn't be better. he is super nice he tells me he loves me every ...