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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like I need to get away from him but I'm doomed alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to think anymore. Ive been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. When we met he gave up going out to bars every night because I wasnt old enough (him being 10 years senior my new adult status). A few of his female friends were ...

I'm not sure if he really is into me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am 21yrs an hav a 7mth old baby, my baby's daddy an i are not the best of friends now, but presently i occasionally see my ex beginning since over a year ago, i havent seen him since i was pregnant though but we do hav plans to see each other ...

Why haven't I had a boyfriend yet. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - hey :) i am 15 and i would say i am kind bubbely and chatty.But my freinds say i am stuuning i dont think that though and they say i have everything eg the looks,the body and the persanality but i dont agree! Becouse i have never had a boyfriend ...

We aren't together, but I still feel let down. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Im really attahcd to a guy that lives about 2 hours away. Im going to university next year and il be living about 20 minutes away from him. Im so attached to him, i think about him all the time. I met him at a festival and we got on so well, inst...

Now that I'm pregnant, he doesn't seem around anymore! How can I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I am expecting a baby In December. Our life used to be great together, we would have so much fun and i felt so loved and cared for. We spent all of our time together and he treated me ...

I have lost my self esteem. How an I get it back again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and have real self esteem issues. I have been with my boyfriend for just under a year and for the first half of this year he built up my self confidence from basically nothing. Now I can feel myself slipping back to where I was. I ...

Does he really care for me? Or are my friends right about him being a 'player'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Over the past few years I’ve developed strong feelings for a friend of mine. We originally met over the internet, but we’ve met up a few times since, sometimes I go to see him, and sometimes he comes to see me. Every time we meet up, we act like ...

Is this truly love? Or is it just the flavor of the week?

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6 October 2009 (F) - hey i know this is going to sound very stupid but i think i am inlove with the guy i met during the holidays.well the thing is when i first saw him i was very attracted to him my heart shot through the roof! somehow along the way we started datin...

Had his baby and I still can't get over his cheating. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years cheated on me i then found i was pregnant, we now have a 7mth old baby and i cant get past the cheating, he has alot of excuses the ones we hear all the time like it wasnt suppose to happen, it meant nothing etc... but ...

10 Things that Women should never allow any Man to talk her into...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Men can be pretty persuasive. They've been known to talk women into almost every poor situation imaginable under the disguise of love. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times that when a man starts a sentence with "If you love me", what ...

How do I fix this after cheating with her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving...

Does she still have feelings for him? Or should I forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - I broke up with my gf of one year on our anniversary. i was apologizing nearly 3 hours after i did it and wanted to talk to her and make it better, during our one month split, we were still contacting each other and she even let me keep some ...

Should I go back to her or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid Im stuck and dont know what to do, I'm in a realtionship I thought I was happy in and now my world has been turned upside down. My ex has come back to me wanting me back. Now the long story. We been together 3 years, Was very goo...

Is it good that my g/f tells me whenever guys hit on her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hello dear reader. I’m 4th year of Med school I’m 22.Yeah my studies are really difficult. So I met a girl this summer don't know how to explain: but everything just went too fast. We kissed first day, we had sex 3 days after. And we went to have ...

To get attention do guys send random text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Do guys send random text messages to get a females attention? Mine broke up with me, after cheating twice, with the same girl... it ended a week ago... I have not spoken to him and then this morning, he sends me a text that said "lets go to the h...

Was I too forward and ruined things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hello Some advice needed men/women!! I need to know if i have been too forward and ruined things???? Ok i met this guy and we would bump into eachother a lot! he would always come over to speak to me, he would stop what he was doing to come and talk...

What do my dreams mean? Is it guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - i recently graduated from hs. there was this girl who ws infatuated with me since 8th grade except i didn`t know her as well. we had classes together she was shy. one day she told me her feelings but i didn`t respond it caught me off guard. i guess ...

She just wants sex, but I want marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - i am 30 years old man and one of my best friend's sister likes me. she is very hot sexy and her figure is very attractive. i also like her and i want to be married with her but she does not want. she want to have sexual living relationship and ...

I know I can't ask him to stop having contact with her. Any suggestions?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am getting married very soon and currently my fiancé and I live apart due to selling houses etc. My fiancé has a close female friend whom he has known for over 15 years. I also know her as we all used to work together. My fiancé and her have ...

How can I get my netfriend to be in love with me rather than just lusting after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, Im 24yrs old and met this great guy on the net.We had started off with cybersex ,but our chemistry was so bang-on.Its fireworks each time still.Moreover he's so romantic.he leaves me the most amazing messages each morning telling ...

Do you think she has changed her mind and wants to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hey I am 21 years old and this is a question directed towards the girls... (but if you are a guy who has had the same thing happen please feel free..) My best friend is a girl and we have been friends for years. We have always back and forth ov...

What does having a casual relationship mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night an...

I'm really frustrated that I'm a virgin at 20 when I had the chance to lose it to a really hot girl when I was a teenager!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, hi. long story short. back in the 7th grade, a girl asked me out. this girl was hot. big boobs, nice glowing skin, nice butt. she was one of those girls that was very sexual and flirtatious with the boys. anyway, she wanted to go out w...

After being in an abusive relationship I'm scared that maybe all guys are like that and I deserve that kind of relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I am 16 and I was recently involved in an abusive relationship with a guy a year younger than I am. I normally don't date younger do to their immaturity level because however I am on a higher level then most my age. Everything was perfect ...

I feel stupid for letting it get so bad, we have to fix this or we break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'm not really used to this whole blogging your feelings thing but here it goes: -takes deep breath- I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I truly do love him. He is honest(tactless but honest nonetheless), a great provider, and sh...

Is this girl playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. After months of no contact, my ex called me and said she missed me. I still have feelings for her, but I feel strange because she can't just come back to me right? When I think of it, she's way higher class than me, and I get ...

My boyfriend is turning 21 soon, and I'm stressing out here! How can I make it super special for him?

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6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is turning 21 in a month's time and I'm stressing out here. The issue is, I want to make this day super special for him. I have a lot of things planned for the day...now I don't know what to get him. I know dat some would ...

I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ...

Do nice guys even still exist?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know ...