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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I wait for him to make the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - He definitely knows now that I'm interested in having sex with him. Should I wait for him to make the next move?...

Do you think I am frigid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Well im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, i cant seem to pluck up the couraage to kiss her. We hold hands and she will get close to me in the cinema, but we have only kissed once (when i was drunk and she was not) we've been going out for 6 months now do ...

How do I get past my mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - im12 and going out wid a 15 yr old boy i've never met i need help he wants me to meet him and i dont no how to tell ma mum and to meet up hhelp me plz ?...

All his ex-GF's are gorgeous. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel so dumb and childish asking for help about this... My boyfriend's exes are all beautiful. Really beautiful. One of them was chosen the most beautiful/hottest of the class when he was in high school, the other one has tons of admirers, and...

Should I call it quits with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - HI, im 13 and my boyfriend is 16... know that were out of school for the summer he hardly ever calls we've been out for almost 2 weeks and he's only called me once. and we used to go out somtimes.. and know i dont know what to do. he used to also ...

He is so nice to me and I'm afraid the only reason why I want him is because he won't hurt me... unlike the others...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - im stuck i was seening someone for a while and he knew that i had been abused very violently by this last person then a couple of weeks ago he assulted me and i got in touch with an old friend who is male and he has told me that he wants me to be ...

Do you think that my call could have been the beginning of a relationship or does he really means when he says "friendship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - A guy and I met almost a year ago in a meeting. It turns out he's military and had to go back to his base shortly. Since then, we´ve being in touch by email as friends , share joke pictures, thoughts, etc. Last week he wrote me a note saying h...

I'm afraid that if I got into a relationship with him again he will dump me for somone else again, as it happened in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - 3 years ago my ex dumped me for someone else. At the time I was heartbroken and it took me months to get over it. Now, 3 years later, he's dumped her and we have started meeting up occasionally and I have had sex with him a couple of times....

I added him on Facebook. Now I need to tell him why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hi! I have sort of a question about whether to do something or not. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to an all-girls school. We have brother schools in which we are "supposed" to socialize with boys from. This is going to sound like a really s...

How do you make it obvious to a guy that you like them more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Havent been in the dating game for over 2 years. how do you make it obvious to a guy that you like them more than a friend? but you dont want to scare them away and lose them....

My friend's boyfriend likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i like this boy alot and he lkes me back alot he even carved my name on his arm!!!=0 but heres the thing he has a girlfriend man!! and shes mai bestfriend he ganna break up wit her n he said hes going to ask me out!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

He didn't add me to his list of friends. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I dont know wat to do.. i am dating, well i dnt kno if he is my bf. but i asked him to add me to his facebook and he never did. and i was snooping on his facebook like looking at this friends. and i saw this one girl's profile. well there is like ...

I don't want to ruin our friendship with my feelings for him-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Well, I'm a tomboy, crazy, adventerous, deadly tomboy. For the longest time, I've had guy friends. now I do have girls that are friends but then one started saying that one would look good with me. That got me thinking,'Yea right,' Hes pretty b...

Do you think a 20yr old guy is too young to be dating a mother and become a father figure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I am a 20 year old guy who is still living with his parents at the moment ( i am currently looking for a apartment to move out). i have a decent paying job and i have begun dating a 25year old mother of 1. My parents dont think im ready to do this, ...

She's going out with my mate but I still like her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - hi i need some advice i still like this girl BUT me and this girl used to go out last november we did not know each other much and still dont and that is why we broke up, 4 days later she is going out with my friend and has been going out wi...

Is this a medical issue or is it that my girlfriends have been satisfied quicker than I have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Dear DearCupid, I have what feels a serious problem, I'm in love with this girl, we have been for nearly 2 years(in a relationship). We began to have sex in October last year. I love her so much; but a problem that we seem to have is that I can sa...

Love and lust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - Hey, i have a HUGE problem. I live in south america, and my boyfriend live sin england. we have been tgether for a year now. we love eachother we do. and he has propose dto me, but we are only so young! 17. and i want that, cause i like the saftey ...

My divorced BF wants to take our relationship to the next level, how will I tell him I'm a virgin at 38?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong ...

Kissing... a big problem. Any help with the tecnique?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have tried thousand times but till date am just a loser.though my bf have been very supportive and helped me but i just can't give him a smooch. Its not that i don't like his taste,though it was a problem earlier but now its been long time tha...

Am I being too picky? I think he's capable of doing some of this household maintenance by himself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 40's. I am an Aries and a giving person who loves to make others happy. I was married at 25 for 8 yrs, and divorced. I have since dated 2 men each for 3 yrs and the one presently now for 2 years. The first BF had a drug problm, the ...

She was drawn to me because of my guitar playing. Should I send her song lyrics, nothing too sappy, just light and funny! I don't want to push her away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a litt...

A relationship failure should not discourage us, life goes on!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Being taken for a fool. When i was 16 I met a man of 21 and thought he was the bees knees. He lived at home with his parents and every time i phoned him his dad answered he got the message that I lefta nd every time his mum answered my call he never...

Knowing about her past makes me feel inadequate, but I love her! So why do I feel like running away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My problems kinda about jealousy... So i'm really, really close with this girl. we're not ''official'' but only because I wanna give it time, we do everything a normal young teen couple would do. My problem is with her past...It isn't that sl...

I got a present for my boyfriend! Should I mention it or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I got a present for my boyfriend. I'm so excited about giving it to him, but at the same time, I don't want to tell him what it is until I see him. Do you think it's annoying that I told him I got him a present but I can't tell him what it is? Is it ...

When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...

We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get ...

He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife...

Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...

So, do I tell her, risk a very painful let down, or leave it, and let my friend go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, So for months now I've been absolutely madly in love with a girl who I'm very good friends with... She's had a long term boyfriend who's just broken up with her, and I really want to tell her. Two problems: 1. She's way out of my league....

Is it wrong for me to date my friends' brother even if she said it was ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, Here is what is going on. I am really good friends with this girl, we will call her Erin. We have so much fun together and always love being in each other's company and everything. However, she has a 19 year old brother. I am a...

When is my best shot at taking the plunge and asking her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I like this really pretty girl. She is really beautiful, no joke. I used to be on the heavy side, but after meeting her and becoming her friend, I have been motivated to lose weight and get in the perfect shape. I wanted to do the because I wanted ...

Should I call or just wait? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I haven't talked to my bf for about 3 days. We didn't get I a fight but I was kinda mad cuz when I called him he said he'd call back but never did. Then we text that same day for a little bit but havnt spoken or texted since. Well its been three ...

He's 25 and I am 16... should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i'm in love with this guy. we're in love with eachother. i'm 16, he's 25, almost 26. we're like, almost 10 years age difference. we wanta get married n 2 years, right after i finish highschool, i wanta take a year off after that anyway, and move ...

I'm crazy about him but he likes another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - lately i've been crazy about this guy that i really liked but seems like he doesnt like me that way anymore. we stopped talking like he used. and he started hangin out with other girls. so im guessin that im just hurtin myself. but my feelings are ...

He treats me like a child and is controlling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i go out with this guy who i thought id really like. i had fancied him for ages as he's really gorgeous and kind. about a year ago we started dating. at first it was absolutely fantastic and the sex was the best ive ever had, but about six months ...

How do I know if he's serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - what if this boy asked you out but you dont know if its serious and you told two of your friends and you dont know if he is still going out with this girl and your afraid that your not going out with him and his girlfriend might geet mad...

Guys, any flirting tips for girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - guys, how do u like girls flirting with you?? and girls i can really use ur help! this guy i like, hes very open minded and experiences, but i have never had a bf, hes all flirting i dont know what to say back to his flirting...and i know u have to ...

I love her but my friends think she is ugly, shall I go out with her or leave it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I love a girl and im 90% sure she fancies me. All my friends are friends with her but they think she is ugly. If i go out with her they will probably take the piss. Shall I go out with her or leave it?...

He's going to Peru for a year, should I wait for him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - well my boyfriend is going to peru for a year becuase he needs to learn better spanish (he's hispanic) and his grandmother is sick or something. im 13 and weve been together for 4 months now. i dont know if i can wait for him like that. cuz im going ...

Was he flirting or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - GUYSnGALS i need ur help...there's this guy i know before but im getting to know and talk to him very much...aswe were getting to know things about each other what we liked, disliked...he asked me whati like in aguy and viceversa...it turned out ...

Talking about sex embarrasses me, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi im in my late 20s and have been in a relationship for the past three years but when im out with the lads and any talk of sex comes up anything at all relating to the subject i get really embarrassed and my face turns bright red i also ge...

Bi and confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I am a 16 year old guy who is Bi. I have a Girlfriend and i have recently started seeing this guy. I dont know what to do, i know i am cheating before anyone says it, and i know i am a horrible person. But what should i do. I am very confused...

Should I not want to date other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I met and started to date a guy 7 months ago. When we started dating I made it very clear that I did not want a boyfriend and was not interested in a relationship at that time, as I was just out of a bad relationship. I also was very clear with ...

I tell him he's cute and sexy but that's not enough...any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend thinks that I don't find him attractive anymore, but I tell him he's cute and sexy and all that, but that's not enough....any suggestions?...

Can anyone tell me why he wants me to move in with him? What ever happened to marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I am 43 yrs old and my boyfriend 42. I have been going with him for over 2 yrs. We get along well and have share the same interests. We both have been married and divorced under good terms with the ex'es and both own our own homes. We have no ...

Why does my girlfriend role play?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - This may seem like an odd question but it deals with the relationship I am in. My question is, why do people Role play? More specifically online role playing with other people. My girlfriend does it like routine every night and she always seems...

I'm scared this guy will go to the prom with this other girl! Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I like this boy. Thats the basic! me and him have known each other since he was born, we've been through school togther as friends and now i like him more. We've been talking more and some of my friends suggested he liked me, but i saw him the ot...

Moody boyfriend, any tips for making the relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hey Everyone . I've Been With my boyfriend for about a month and a bit. Things started off great, but that soon changed. He would go in a mood with me for the stupidest thing. E.g The other day he asked me why I was acting diffrent all becaus...

I told him I cheated on him to see how he'd react, since he cheated on me in our first month together. How do I fix this now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me in our first month but he says he pulled away straight away and the other girl admits it was her fault. We have been going out for 9 months now and i told him a couple of months ago i cheated on him just to see how he ...