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Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 February 2017 (F - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 February 2017 (M - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

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18 February 2017 (F - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

My family expects me to get married, but I'm more attracted to men and gay marriage isn't an option. How do I convince them I'm not the marrying kind?

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16 February 2017 (M - Hi, I'm much more into men physically/sexually speaking. The hitch is that I live in a traditional and homophobic society.My family want me to get married any time soon. How can I "convince" them I'm not the marrying kind, without telling them I'm ...

A straight friend wants to have sex with me. Should I?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 February 2017 (M - Hi.i have a friend who i would like to have sex with.he is straight i am gay. What should i do?ahead thanks....

I am a transgender man, dating a woman but I prefer sex with men.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (M - I am a transgender man and I have been dating a very respectful, understanding woman for a few months now. We have reached the stage where she wants to define our relationship and move forward together, though I feel conflicted on how to progress or ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (M - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

I'm 15 and I do not want to break up with A as I love her very much, but my mother strongly objects to our relationship. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - So, I will give a bit of background first off. I have known this girl, I'll call her A, for three years. In early 2016, i started feeling different about her, and I begin to have romantic feelings about A. I already knew from asking before that she...

Isn't this cheating? I'm distraught and stunned that he visited at least three mens' homes to masturbate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I just found out my husband of 23 years, who has not had relations with me by his own accord for 12 years, more than half of my marriage, has been registered on gay and swinger websites. I found out all this on my own and have filed for divorce....

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

Three times she has said she will change, I am sick of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hello, I'm in the midst of a troubled relationship. I've been with my partner a year and a half on and off. I moved 2 hours away to live with her and now things are rough as we fight a lot, I'm in the middle of nowhere away from my friends and fami...

Is he flirting or is it just banter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 January 2017 (M - Okay so there was a point I really fancied this guy but then he gave the impression he was straight He recently snap shot two pics I took and drew a penis on them to make it look like I was sucking dick.... then text" bravo you don't like (the ...

I want to move and live with my partner in Colombia but afraid of losing my job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

29 January 2017 (M - Hey There, Perhaps this is not the right platform to ask such a question, but I am going to try I am a gay person who is planning to move to Colombia in order to live with my Colombian partner. We thought that we could get married once i arri...

Really nervous about trying a strap-on for the first time. Do I bring up the topic before or during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - Hey dear community! I've a girlfriend (she's 25) for a while now (about 1.5 years) and all in all its pretty awsome. The sex is really amazing, far better than anything I ever had and she is feeling the same. We really care for each other, even...

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