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Gay relationships: Help and advice

He's asked me to hang on, but I don't know if he'll ever break up with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

13 May 2008 (M) - I am 27 years old, I met this guy 2 months ago, we talk everyday for hours and really like each other. He says he has a girlfriend in another country whom he can't marry for culture reasons and wants me to hang on. I dont know if he will ever break ...

I'm in love with her but she denied my feelings. She insists we stay friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (?) - Hello, I am a female in love with another female. The woman I am in love with has denyed she feels the same way. However I am convinced she does feel the same way, but because she is married and because of other circumstances she is not admitting it ...

I'm in love with one of my friends, I want to tell her, but don't know where to start!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I'm gonna get straight to the point I'm in love with one of my friends, and she's the same sex as me I have been for about a year now, but I can't tell her I really want to, I just dont know where to start Can anyone help me, give ...

Do these feelings mean I'm a lesbian?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi i was going shopping with my mates and i saw a lesbian couple kissing and i was all confused cuz i had never thought about that before well not really and i had this funny feeling all inside. when i got home that night i was a bit board so i w...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

We flirted then wanted to meet, but we got waylaid, now she's got someone else, should I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - A while ago I met this guy on an online community. We became close friends and eventually even more. It was then that I decided it would be best to let him know I was actually a girl, with a male avatar (kind of a role playing community). He ...

Where is the Moral Outrage?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their ...

I am questioning my same sex relationship now that the 'Honymoon Period' is over. Can you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - hi. i just need some advice. im 23 and have been in a same sex relationship for just on 2 years now. iv been extremely happy in the relationship and to be honest could not think of there being any better. I'v been in love with my partner exlusive...

I told her I love her but also to ignore the message! Problem is I do want an answer...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm a girl, and in love with another girl. She lives far away but we met in person and she was extremely flirty, alwyas touching me, holding hands, kissing me on the cheek, calling me love, slapping my butt, hugging me for really long, kissing ...

In love with an older guy who may not be gay and moved away

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10 May 2008 (M) - im am a 15 year old boy that live n ohio. Im n love with this boy that i just met and rite after we met he moved to florida. We talked last nite and i asked him y he moued and he said cuz he was bein a dummy and that he wanted to move back soon but ...

Am I bi-sexual? Why was my girlfriend so understanding? Should I confront my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 May 2008 (M) - Recently whilst sleeping around my friends, after a night of drinking, I awoke to discover him fondling me. I didn't say anything and just pretended to be asleep. The fondling progressed into him giving me oral sex whilst rubbing himself up against ...

Do I want to stop loving her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - For the past year i've been 'in love' with my female P.E! ive never been in love with members of the same sex before. i feel all funny when she talks to me, looks me in the eye or smiles at me. when i think of her my heart feels really weird and ...

I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for ...

I haven't clue about lesbian sex, but I want to try it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hey i guess i am bi..and i want to try having physical relationship with a girl..but i have no clue about lesbians sex. Do they cause sexual diseases? Do we lose our virginity by lesbian sex? I am sorry if my questions are lame. Please help...

I'm in luv but I don't know if he is gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 May 2008 (M) - I am in skool and im like in luv with this boy in my 1st and second period classes. I dnt kno if hes gay or not. And tha twist is he has a girl friend. But at tha same time he always flirts with me. Like yesterday he wanted me to smell his calone ...

Could my gay friend be bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My gay best friend and I were messing about on webcam the other night. We're dead close and have seen eachother naked before, and for a joke I was dancing around my room to music on webcam and it kinda turned in to a bit of strip tease which ...

Can you catch diseases from lesbian love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - hey i am bisexual and i have never had sex with a female..if i do then i was wondering if it transmits any sexual diseases..i am soory if my question is lame but i have no idea about the lesbian world...

Is he interested in me or is he playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - I'm a guy and am gay but not out. I've been going to this school for 3 months and there is this guy there that i really like, so much in fact that i get nervous around him when its just me and him around. He is in my English class and science clas...

My best friend is gay, but he wants to start a family with me, I'm confused. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - So my aboslute best friend is gay. I'm a senior and he is a junior we met two years ago but we are incredibly close. He has been gay for quite some time (since middle school) and has had many many male partners and was against dating girls because ...

I feel as though he's having second thoughts about us, is he giving this guy a chance to be with him and pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (M) - I am gay and in a relationship with someone that i love and care for so much. We have been together for a year. He was married once before to a woman but divorced after she found out that he was sleeping with a guy friend of his. Iam currently livi...

Should I be worried that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've just discovered that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual, although she doesn't identify herself as this. Should I be worried?...

They say, visit a doctor, but I really can't tell my mum! What do you suggest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Help me! I know discharge is normal but I get SO MUCH. I'm not sure if it's right. I have to put loo roll in my knickers all the time its awful. When i wake up, and then stand up, its realy heavy, as if its been 'collecting' overnight. I hate it b...

I dread when night time comes, because he always wants sex. But I'm in love with my lesbian friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I'm a 32 Y/o female. I got married in Feb 2007. I met my husband while serving in Iraq, he was in my same unit. we got back to the states and I got pregnant. we set the date to marry. I was't so sure. I so love this man, but it wasn't the same. My...

I'm married but find myself attracted to a female boss, is she straight or not? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was ...

Is eating cheating? As in having a sexual encounter with a another female.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Okay one quick question. If you are a married woman, and you have sexual relations with another woman is it cheating?...

I think I'm bi, but I feel I have no way to know

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual ...

I've only stopped having feelings for men recently and I do not want to reveal my inclinations until I am sure, how do I go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hi there, im 19, and female. i have been having feelings for other girls for around 3 years now but ive only stopped having feelings for men recently. I just don't find them attractive anymore, but the female sex is intriging me. I don't know if ...

Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend- or have a crush on them? by the way i am a girl and my best friend is a girl. help!...

I want more sex. Is it his age and will it get worse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

1 May 2008 (M) - I am in a bit of a bind and don't know what to do. I have been in a committed loving relationship with a man almost 20 years older than me (I am 24). The problem is sex. He would be happy with once a week or fortnight while I start to not cope after ...

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the othe...

Is it OK for girls to look at gay porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - is it ok for girls to look at gay porn? my parents said being gay was a sin but i like watching the men in the porn and i am worried for hell. also all my guy friends watch porn but say its not right for girls to watch it so am i weird?...

I found gay websites in my boyfriend's computer, should I confront him? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer...

He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do ...

Is my boyfriend bi-sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I think my b/f may be bi-sexual. Last night when we were partying together, he told me that when he was 14 years old he bullied another boy into taking his pants off and fondling himself while my b/f watched. Then another time, he said he let a ...

I'm bi-curious. How do I meet girls other than online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - hello im bicurious but i dont know how to meet girls i have no problem meeting guys but i would like to experiment and explore my sexuality so if anybody has some good tips on how to meet girls (except the internet) that would be great ...

My husband and my brother??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...

She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - I have a problem with my girlfriend of five months. She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control. She has always been very honest about her interest in porn. At first, this didn't bother me in the slightest as I watch a lot of porn ...

Is he gay? He's my first gay love help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Im 16 bi and I met this guy about 6 months ago, at first it seems like nothing special but later on I started to like him. Where not friends but know each other. He doesnt know that Im bi but I acted like one. He's my first gay love and would li...

What's her game plan and what is she up to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Opinion please. I go out with a girl for two years, I find out she has being seeing someone else by chance… I don’t know the full details but I say, fair enough and walk away heartbroken, but maintain my dignity. Weeks later she comes to me with ...

I just want to know if I like men...but I'm challenging that, to know for sure if I do or not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I am doubting my love for my b/f because of questioning sexuality. I asked a question just a week ago and people said that I should stick with him (and i want to) because I love him, but I'm questioning that now. I'm questioning if i truly am attr...

I'm becoming more interested in gay sex, what is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - This is a bit of a strange question but one I am curious about. You know how some men find two women together a turn on, well I find two guys together a turn on. I've got this problems which just seems to get bigger and bigger, I feel as if I am ...

Single and getting old and I really want to meet someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - I'm gay and in my mid-forties. I have been single for over 10 years, and I'm getting lonely. Because of my career I am socially closeted, which doesn't help. I don't have much of a social life, and as a result am slightly socially crippled and unco...

I've been thinking about trying guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - Ok guys i have tons of questions so bear with me. Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems. But i have LOTS of issues... 1. I want to expierament but idk anyone who would want to 2. I don't know any ...

Bisexual Husband? Curious gay? Fantasy humiliation? Love or abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - hello, Im in a relatiomship with a really sexy loving kind man who is a father of our 8 month old daughter. i love him but don't know what to feel about his gay fantasies. he says they are always through me. He gets turned on by feeling humiliation ...

Is my boyfriend gay, or am I just imagining it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Is my boyfriend gay? I'm confused. I have been dating a man 12 years my senior for 2 years now and have serious doubts about his gender preference. He loves to have me come by his place every weekend to 'care for him' and seems to like my company ...

I have found God and decided against my relations with me. Will this leave me lonely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - When I was growing up, I was sure that I would turn out gay. My first crush was for a guy who lived down my street, and later, in adolescence, men featured in my fantasies. Then a girl came along who blew my mind. We were together throughout our ...

Confused about sex and sexuality. Help please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - basically Im with a guy attracted to him, hot body, LOVE HIM makes me feel good, emotioanl connection, physical as well but never orgasmed with him, i watched a girl strip and O'd by masturbation...wats up with that? but then I experimented with a ...

Am I too young to be bisexual?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ...

I hate to have to pretend to my parents about my sexual orientation. When is a right time to come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I've trying to tell my mom and dad that I'm a lesbian for a while now. I just don't know when the BEST time is, and only someone that has allready come out/has a child that has come out to them can understand when. I'm so sick of havin...