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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend proposed but I feel unsure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years proposed! It was a complete shock. We had talked about getting married in the future and joked about it, but I wasn't expecting a proposal! I definitely love him, but I feel more anxious and embarrassed than excited. I ...

If he's really interested wouldn't he make more of an effort to see me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been out of the dating world for awhile so looking for advice. I met a man on-line, he lives fairly close to me, has a good job, I know he is really single, my age, no children, but the only days he would see me would be on Wedne...

I'm straight, my bi bff hits on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I am straight and a girl and my bff has recently come out as bisexual a few months ago. We all knew it by then, though. I don't have a problem with that at all, BUT... My problem is that she is hitting on me in public and when we are alone togeth...

What can you advise in this situation? It feels like I am option two.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks and it's been amazing. The connection is unlike anything I've experienced in such a long time. I started to fall in love with him the second I first saw him. Magic. We love each others company, the sex is t...

Should I be worried that I have puffy areolas? I am worried they will be a turn off for guys.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - So I'm 16 and I have really puffy areolas. I read somewhere that they level out as puberty progresses but I guess I've passed that stage already and I'm stuck like this. I hate it because I always have to wear a bra, even around the l the house I ...

Why am I only attracted to troubled women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've wondered this for a while. Why am I only attracted to troubled women? Or women who are either bad for me or I can't have? I've never, ever had trouble in the female department. In fact, I would say I've been very fortunate. I've always b...

How can I talk to someone who won't admit to doing anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is taking me for granted. I feel like he thinks he doesn't have to treat me well because I'm just going to put up with it. In the past, I have put up with it and I haven't said anything because I didn't want to ...

Should I face this now? Or wait, to avoid the stress, until baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - In the next 7 week I will be at my due date with my first baby with my boyfriend. Over Christmas my brother fell out with my boyfriend, and my brother kept telling me to dump my boyfriend as he wasn't what I thought he was and I'd be better m...

Heart broken. Is he just not "into" me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'd really appreciate other peoples views on my situation please . I've had great advice about this very man on here before. Finally seemed to be getting somewhere a month ago with him inviting me out most nights , I stayed over him cuddling me ...

My boyfriend, his Mermaid, and me. Was he disrespectful to add a mermaid? How should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I will try to make this short and sweet. My boyfriend (we have been dating for a 1.5 year broke up a few times for 2 weeks). He is a big tattoo guy, He has a sleeve and half a sleeve on the other arm. I don't mind them, as I think they look nic...

Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy? I mean, can he do something that makes, her feel like he is getting to like her too much, an then she runs, but down the road, she goes out with other men, an she compares, the ...

LDR. How do we make the most of our time together, and build our loving relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 9 months we are 5 hours drive away. We unsually alternate the drive up or down. Usually we see each other late late Saturday, spend all day Sunday and most of Monday together, however we haven...

Is it hard to find a person who is your perfect sexual match?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Do you think it takes goimg through lots of people to find your sexual match? I mean somebody you are totally compatible in bed with? Unlike any other? You can be attracted to many people but that does not always mean mind blowing sex wit...

Seems he's been messaging her non-stop. Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Okay so I know some people may judge me for this but about two months back I snooped on my boyfriends phone. I saw he had been exchanging lots of messages with this girl he goes to university with who he is actually going to be living with next aca...

How do I dump my online match?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I matched with a guy on Tinder and we started talking. He was really nice and our personalities clicked. But when we met in person there was no sexual attraction. Also, the fact that he's 31 and has never had a relationship longer than 1 month kinda ...

I've found love but is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. I am going through a pretty complicated situation right now and I am in desperate need of advice. In April of last year, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. I knew about a year before the break up that I was done,...

Am I being too fussy with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I am back dating. I am looking for a longterm relationship. I have a good amount of male attention as I know younger and guys my age find me attractive and Im open and honest and told a great friend. I do feel like maybe Im not getting things right ...

I need my boyfriend's support but he is distant and uncommunicative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we were dating for two months prior to this. Initially I was really happy with how our relationship was, we were really close friends before hand so it just kind of seemed to flow. But in the past month ...

He's a good guy but I don't like the way he talks to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

28 January 2016 (M) - I have been dating this guy since November, we are not official yet but have told one another that we aren't talking or interested in other people. Lately we have been fighting, fights that I may cause but its because of how he talks to me. For ...

I'm worried about spending time with my boyfriend's son. He has behavioral problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together a few months ago, relocated to a new city and all. We're both 27. He has an 8 year old son. I met him when he was a little younger, and we had a good relationship from the start. He se...

Does he want it to be over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I met a foreign man living in the UK over two months ago and immediately entered into an intimate and sexual relationship and fell for him. He is 7 years my senior and at the moment he is working day till night all over the country so I never get ...

If I have to ask "where is this relationship going?" the answer is probably "nowhere".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I am a 54 yo female, divorced for 6 years, no children. He is a 60 yo male, divorced for 5 years, he has a 20 yo son who lives out west, another son who lives away as a college freshman and a third son who lives with him who is a HS sophomore. ...

Would it just be better for me to be on my own rather to be with someone who is never around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a few years and were best friends before we got together. Since moving in together the relationship has become totally stale, I can concentrate on my career from home as I'm self employed but he works ...

I lied to my boyfriend about my past to get his sympathy. Should I come clean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - 3 years ago I was in a relationship with a guy it was a really difficult for me as the guy took me very casually and I took the relationship very seriously. initially I thought that I could change his habits and mend his ways but things got worse ...

How can I stop myself from mentally dating him and getting worked up about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Since starting her new job, my friend has been telling me that I’m well suited to one of her colleagues. Although I've never met him, she's also told me that he fancies me - based on what she’s told him about me and photos he’s seen. All this has ...

Am I just a "hopeful idiot?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - I am a 54 Year Old Man in good shape and I believe I am considered attractive. I had the good fortune to meet an amazing woman 2 and a half years ago through work. She is a waitress and she is 32 years old. I have made a point to keep in contact ...

Why do guys kiss and cuddle and then tell me they just want to be friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Why why why.... Okay guys why would you tell a girl you like her. Cuddle with her. Kiss her or even try kissing her. Then tell her that you dont want to be more then friends this has happened to me in more then one account and im getting quite sick ...

Why does my boyfriend lie all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Hi, used to ask for help around here 5 or so years ago, and back again to ask for more help! I have 2 questions really, 1st one- Why does my boyfriend lie? He doesn't go out and then lie about where he's been as if he's been out with a girl and...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's gaming female friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - My bf follows a lot of cosplayers/models on social media. A lot of the time, he usually has a picture of one set as his phone or computer background, which he changes pretty regularly. This never really bothered me until now. One of the things he...

Is he being insensitive or really think of not wanting to meet so he plays this *game*?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - So Ive been in a relationship with my BF for 7 months. He likes to call me by 30+ pet names and at one point started playing a game where I should say my real name is not my name or he will count strikes and skip meeting days we meet up on. He even ...

Is it a good idea to propose to her on St Valentine's day? She never revealed earlier why she broke up with me, previously.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - We went out for a year and then she broke it off. After about 4 months we started seeing each other. We have been seeing each other for the past 2 months. I am not sure why she broke it off. I am a healthy 65 she is 54. She has never been marri...

We never iron out our differences when we argue and I'm wondering if I should walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple years, when we argue or have a problem that needs to be addressed he will not, if I bring it up he gets angry then we are arguing again so we never iron out or differences... It's very frustrating!! ...

I used to want a relationship and romance but all the girls wanted was to be romance with no sex. now that I've tried sex only, the girls get all crazy and want a relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - I always manage to get the girl that want the opposite of what I want. I've tried meeting them at places where we have something in common like club or events and half the time they're okay with talking to me and I take them out to dinner and what I ...

Is this the end of the line?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I met a man over two months ago and immediately entered into an intimate relationship and fell for him. He is 7 years my senior and at the moment he is working day till night all over the country so I never get to see him. Our last date was 2 we...

He lied to me..he was cheating on his wife with me. Do I tell her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I was dating a guy for a month, I was not attracted to him physically but sounded a nice decent person with a great job and everything. I asked him so many times whether he is single and he said he is and he never married since he...

Tired of being Mr Nice Guy. How do I find women who will treat me as well as I treat them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - Well,in the last two months, to failed relationships, so girls, would you rather be ghost, or cheated on, at least cheated on, you know why, it ended, so at fifty nine, do I change, stop being romantic, no more opening car doors, helping putting on ...

My boyfriend said he has too much invested in me. What does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We were talking the other day. Some what if's type of conversation. I asked him if he would ever leave me or leave me for someone else and he said he has everything he wants and needs fr...

I don't even know my mystery guy's name! Does he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Hey everyone! I just need some opinions on a situation that has been developing between me and this guy at university, sorry if this is quite long! So back in around October I was at the pub with my friends and saw this guy, who looked like maybe a ...

He loves using the internet. Am I wrong to distrust him when he wants to stay up late while I sleep?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together over 3 Years, we have had a lot of problems but seem to hang on... I have troubles with trust because he is a internet addict, talks to other women in a way he should not and also has been on ...

Did I cheat and how do I fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've just gone through a breakup and I really need an opinion on what to or whether I actually did something wrong to deserve being broken up with. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago. We went for a couple of drinks during the first week and...

Could it be that we are sexually incompatible? 110 percent compatible in every other way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. During this time I have noticed that when we have intercourse he doesn't always reach orgasm. At first I put it down to us needing more time to get to know each other's bodies but now it is becoming...

Whenever we argue he gives me the silent treatment, sometimes for a week at a time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Hi I just wondered if anybody had been in the same boat and could give a little advice. I've been with my partner 4 years and have a child with him. The problem is whenever we argue he gives me the silent treatment for days, sometimes ev...

Is this the person she will always be? She hit me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I were studying together in an empty classroom when she decided she was cold and wanted to do jumping jacks to warm up but said it would be too embarrassing. I said: it's not embarrassing and nobody is here but me so who cares. I...

Suddenly he cannot get hard. How can I help him with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - A little background on us, we've been dating since the week before thanksgiving 2015. It was fun and very exciting to build this new relationship and the sex was great! But suddenly he cannot keep hard no matter what I try. I didn't rush him aski...

Am I afraid of being happy? Should I nip this relationship in the bud or let it grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Background: I haven't been in a relationship since I was in a multi-year-long tumultuous relationship in high school (my first and only). It was a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I have avoided relationships for almost six year...

She lied to me. Should I feel betrayed? First she claimed to be a virgin. Later she said otherwise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - Dear all Basically my girlfriend of about 9 months has always told me she is a virgin. that when we have sex it will be her first time. However, she has recently told me that she has had sex with more than 1 previous boyfriend, but said that...

My retaliation hook-up has been weighing me down with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - my.boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 years. we have a 3 and 4 year old. when we first got together I had just gotten out of a bad relationship. in a bad place. anyways, he and my best friend had hooked up and I found out. I forgave ...

The widower I am dating removed his daughter in law's jeans and put pajamas on her because she was drunk. Was this inappropriate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I don't know if the following question has ever been presented in this forum before. I'm starting a relationship with another widower and heard this perplexing event from him. Many of us are snowed in this weekend with members of our families not ...

Its been almost 3 years since we broke up. Why can't we move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - After 2yrs 10months of trying to get over him, I finally decide to. The next day he calls. I'm really in a state of confusion. Well I'm with someone else, for a year and three months nos. I love my boyfriend. Maybe not as much as I love my ex. But I ...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly making me comments and not explaining? I'm ready to leave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I don't know what to do or what to think and am trying to figure out what in the world is going on with my boyfriend. Maybe someone can help me out with this? We have been together for just over one year. Everything has been pretty good betw...