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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

Am I just a convenient arrangement for him? Or am I being over-sensitive and too demanding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Am I just convenient? I have been dating a man for just over three months. He is 36, I am 34. At first everything seemed brilliant - he was attentive, complimentary and in constant contact. We were seeing each other for about two months before w...

Where do I go from here? Broken hearted. How long should I wait for to contact my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of one year recently broke up with me. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost the entire time, although I've bought plane tickets to visit her several times, and she came to stay with me for 8 weeks over summer where we ...

Does he like me or am I just "plan b" if he doesn't get her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - ok so my ex and I broke up and during this relationship my other ex(joe) and I stayed good friends,we often wrote on Facebook, he was often flirty and it seemed like he was waiting for me to become single again.(he is/was making out with a girl h...

Does this girl like me or is it just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - We work together in the same office. She likes to leave silly drawings on my desk, and has even drawn on my hands and arms at times (in front of other people). She can be quite touchy-feely and likes to hug me or pretend shove me. She texted m...

Could this be true? My friend is trying to convince me that "yes, this guy does love me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Alright so I have a slight problem. There is this guy that I really like... He and I have just met at the start of grade 10 and We've somehow become really close, we talk a lot, and we walk home together everyday, or when we can. Recently about two ...

Why does my boyfriend's behavior change every time his female cousin is around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have a question if my boyfriend starts to act funny with me every time when female cousin of his comes around I mean to the point that he avoids my touch and doesn't wanna kiss me or he turns to see if she is in the room or watching him should I ...

Boyfriend likes me to refer to him as daddy is this a red flag?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes likes to refer to himself or have me refer to him as "daddy". Is this a red flag that he's someone i should never have a child with, or am I overthinking this? ...

How do you feel it is or isn't appropriate to express affection to your loved one around family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I'm in a serious relationship for the first time in my life. Our families have never met or seen us together but they will soon. His family is very openly affectionate and so I wouldn't worry about sitting with an arm around him now and then or ...

Why does he want to have a baby with me and not get married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for nearly a year, and living together for over 6 months. He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's. We both have been divorced. He recently expressed that he wants to have a baby, and we agreed ...

I've developed feelings for my girlfriend's amazing new best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i ...

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (?) - Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...

Guys don't mention rings this casually, do they? Why would he do this at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I was relaying things that happened at a wedding I attended Saturday to my boyfriend via text. The bride and groom entered the reception hall on a Harley. My boyfriend sent a joking text asking if the bride's wedding ring was chrome. He then...

I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...

Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...

Should I choose to not marry him? And take action to get him to give me my money back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - ive done something really stupid and need some advice as to what i should do. My boyfriend who i havent known all that long is from a diferent country. Possibly quite jealous and possesive. He works and so do i, but i make more money than him. he ...

In Turmoil. How can I resolve my Commitment issues? my girlfriend has given up on me :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - Hi Folks, Commitment issues of my own have caused my girlfriend to give up :(! I'm after some advice, not sure if anyone can help, but basically the story goes like this: My girlfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We had a long ...

Seeing the guy I like again soon.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I'm 18, and I've known this guy for almost 2 years now. I have of course liked other guys before him, but this was totally different. I pretty much feel like he's the one (in the back of my mind at least) but we go to different colleges now, and ...

After 2 bad break-ups I don't want to get serious with anyone because I don't want to be in love again, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - This post won't be very long, I just need a little input and help. I've had two VERY bad break ups within the last 4 years (I'm over them, by the way) and I've been sitting here thinking about why I'm not in a new relationship. I've been on man...

My bf is convinced I'm in love with my friend (which I'm not!) and now he wants to speak to my friend's pregnant and emotional wife to see how she feels about our friendship!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (I will name "Ned") for about 17 years. "Ned" broke up with me about two and a half years ago saying I wasn't "the one" and he wanted to find her and didn't want to waste more time with me. I had wanted to get ...

I'm afraid to bring it up, but how long do I wait to see how this relationship plays out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. We've been together just over a year. I know someone said you can't love the potential, you have to love the person where they're at now. But I find myself doing both. He really does need me for several reasons. And I need ...

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only been going out a few weeks, (i know im probably being silly about this but i want to be sure). we talked a ton before we went out (we were friends for 2 years). so over the past 5 weeks or so we would talk every night, ...

What am I doing wrong? Will I ever find a guy who really truely cares about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm 15 I had a boyfriend before, and many "things" with guys but it seems that after a period of time they stop liking me for no reasons, please don't give me answers like "your 14 your too young, and you'll find someone your only young." maybe its ...

After everything why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I was messing around with a guy for about 11 months. He was actually my friend before it began. At the beginning he was sweet, complimented me and all that, but at the same time he was messing around with other girls. I wasn't tripping because he ...

What do I need to know that can assure me I am making the right decision to take her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - My gf dumped me because she said something wasn't there, i took it like a man and didn't whine and ask why like so many of us guys do. I just said you're right this isn't working, and of course in the same conversation we were having about breaking ...

Question for the guys-Could this have happened...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - This is a question for the dudes, something that happened to me years ago, but it's sort of unclear at this point what actually went on, and I'm wondering what you all think of this, if my interpretation of events seems likely/something you would ...

Does he like me? Or am I jumping to conclusions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I know I may be jumping to conclusions, but, there's this guy in my a few of my classes. Actually only 1st and 4th. Anyway, he has a girlfriend, and she's in my 1st and 3rd period and whenever I am near her she gives me these dirty looks for NO ...

We have decided that we will go back out with each other in 2-3 years. Should I just move on now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Well me nd my bf (now ex) decided to break things off when his baby momma threatened to put him on child support if he didnt go back.And im only 16 and he is 21 so we decided it would benefit both of us if we waited a few years to go back out. Well ...

He has images of ex's on his computer, but still says he loves me. Am I right to be bothered by this?

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30 October 2011 (F) - Ill keep it short, I've been with my boyfriend just over a month, but he says we might have well been together a year, because everyone saw it comning but us.. and we both really liked each other... Recently I've noticed that he still has a ...

Does he have masturbation issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are very much in love and are seirous about our relationship. We haven't had sex but that not an issue, we'd both rather wait till we're older. He said that recently he's been sexually frustrated.- he feels horny all ...

We meet as friends but I still have feelings. Will I ever be able to heal my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi, First sorry for my poor english language. In the last 2 years I,ve read questions and answers in this site hoping to find an explanation for my relationship but I,m still in ,, middle of nowhere,, and I can,t get out the pain from my c...

Dating a man a family member used to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Am i wrong for falling in love with a guy my aunt use to date while back? we been seeing each other for about 9months but what should i do because i really dont want to go through with it now that our secret is coming out and dont want my family to ...

I seen alot of potential with this relationship but he has backed off. What did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Did I do something wrong? I have been on five dates with a new guy over the last month or so, and I felt things have been going really well. On our last date, he seemed a little off with me, not nearly as hands on as he has been in the past. W...

My friend likes me but I don't have the same feelings. Should I go out on one date with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm sure this is gonna sound really pathetic and that the answer is obvious but here anyway. There's a guy who likes me I mean really likes me. We are friends so when he asked for I my number I thought nothing of it, he misinterpreted this that I ...

True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...

Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...

Can anyone help me with my confusion? I was positive that I was straight, now I'm not sure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - i'm here because i'm confused about my sexuality and i don't know what to do. For awhile now i have been thinking about men, specifically kissing and having sex with them and even having a relationship with another man. I try not to but when i g...

My Gf has major self esteem issues. will she ever change or go back to the way she used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - my fiance of 4 years has always suffered from self esteem issues, an eating disorder and was raped when she was 16. now because of this she dated men who treated her like crap because she thought she deserved that. she has had no support from her ...

Did I do anything really wrong? B did have a gf, though in the past we had some major chemistry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - What would a guy think? I met this one guy X after I met his friend, B. I knew B for four years and he had a thing for me but I was always unsure of my feelings. I decided to go for B after a year of not seeing him. We talked for a while when I g...

How do I ensure I don't mess up this relationship? I've had a track record of having a crush on a new guy every single year.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Dear Everybody who reads this, I am an idiot. For as long as I can remember I've had a track record of having a crush on a guy every single year. If I got over one, I'd get one as soon as the new year came around. When I was younger I was really i...

Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...

Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...

Do I wait and see? How do I find out whether or not she is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I feel I'm inaccurately reading signs she's giving off. I'm not sure whether she is playing hard to get or just isn't as interested as I am in her. How do I go about this? Do I approach her and ask her if she is into me? Do I wait and see how thi...

Fickle? what can I do? It took me courage to ask. She said yes. Then she just changed her mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - Hey peoples So here's the deal. Recently I told a girl that I really like her and she responded with the answer I had hoped for. Everything was great we made a plan to meet up and talk about things and see where things go, but 2 days late...

We have broken up but still aren't over each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - About a year and a half ago my boyfriend's father passed away in a car accident. SInce then there have been a lot of family issues that came up, along with the normal formalities of a death. Everything between us carried on as normally as it c...

After some tough times and relationships, when is it going to be my turn to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - In my life so far I have tackled being bullied when I was young and growing up for being overweight suffered with really bad acne and I got teased for being ginger.my dad left at a young age and hes not been bothered since. Ive got a daughter whos 6 ...

Does who I am attracted to matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - ok...i noticed mostly i'm attracted to white guys and i'm african not afrrican- american...i'm from nigeria...is this ok?...

How do I assess his intentions without bringing up the word "commitment"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - I met this chap and he likes me and I'm beginning to lower my guard and like him back. At first, I wasn't too keen only because of the fact that he's almost 7 years my junior. After we spoken and got to know each other I'm considering giving him a ...

Does he seem interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - So i'm in this Film Club where we watched the movie "The Birds" by Alfred Hitchcock. While my best friend and I were waiting for this movie to start, my friend noticed the guy I like came in. I could not stop blushing! During the intermission, I wa...