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Archived questions from: October, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend gets nasty when I don't do what he wants!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

30 October 2019 (F) - My boyfriend gets nasty and angry if I don't spend the night staying over with him every weekend and refuses to come over to see me and take me out for the day because I wont do what he wants which is stayover and have sex all night and day. the ...

I have two dates and I'm not sure I want to go on a third, even though she is HOT!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

29 October 2019 (M) - To start of Im a 24 year old male that hasnt been in a relationship for a long time. I still consider myself a kid at heart (or better yet immature). Ive recently went on two dates with a girl who asked me out and frankly I see no connection and s...

3 guys are into me and I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

28 October 2019 (F) - I'm sixteen years old and my whole life I haven't really had a real crush, and I don't think anyone except one guy has actually liked me. This year, I have three guys that all seem to really like me. Guy #1: K I've known K for forever. His broth...

He said/she said Should the girlfriend worry about her boyfriend meeting up with a 19 year old to learn language?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

27 October 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, Background: my boyfriend has moved to my country to live with me. He does not speak the language here or have any local friends, so he is engaging in something called "language exchange". This is him meeting people who are interested t...

Am I settling to accept deep compatibility and companionship and a medium level of sexual attraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1641 days ago

26 October 2019 (F) - Hi all, I am looking for some advice. Basically, my question is how attracted do you need to be to your partner for a relationship to last? I’ve seen a lot of people asking questions about not being attracted at all versus intense passion, but what ...

Are we really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1645 days ago

25 October 2019 (F) - I’m soo confused I really need help! I’ve been talking to a long distance guy for a while. He challenges me really hard and normally I wouldn’t like that but there’s something when he does it I get mad but I still like it. He has more everything ...

Should I even try? He is not initiating contact

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

24 October 2019 (F) - So I need help. I met a guy and we went on a date after talking for a while. Date was good. We kiss but he wants to have sex in the back of the car and I told him I wanted to get to know him. But he licked my niple. And we spoke after that and ...

On the first date she said she loved me, then made love to me and said she doesn't remember a thing.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1647 days ago

23 October 2019 (M) - Would love ya’lls thoughts on the following story. This is part one of 2. I’m currently feeling drained and completely destroyed by a woman. Please help me decipher the type of woman she is and where I went wrong. Me: 38yrs old, above average...

Why does my boyfriend lie about his sister?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1648 days ago

22 October 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he told me all the time that he's the only child of his mom, and I recently found out that he has a sister that he never told me about because until recently he was so upset and he had to tell me about this ...

I want to tell my boyfriend how my past has affected me as to who I am but I don't know where to start

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

19 October 2019 (F) - Hey there, I have been with my current partner now for coming on to 8 months, he treats me very well and I am very much in love with him He has opened up to me before about the way he feels and some personal things he has had to deal with before, ...

How should I react and be around him when I go to his classes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

19 October 2019 (F) - Hi Cupid I have a crush on a guy at my local gym, he’s a personal trainer and I attend his exercise classes. He’s kind, friendly and warm and easy to talk to. The last 3 months, I’ve been maintaining eye contact with him, we both smile at ea...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in 4 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

17 October 2019 (M) - I realised my girlfriend has never really had much of an orgasm. She never expects one, and doesn’t really let me do much apart from normal sex until I cum. She is very passionate in making out etc. It’s got to a point I need to make her feel co...

New boyfriend friends with former FWB

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1651 days ago

17 October 2019 (F) - Am I overreacting to be upset that new boyfriend still friends with older FWB lover? He told me they started having sex after he split from ex-wife. But once he wanted to meet up with me, he told her they would have to be friends and she agreed. ...

Why would my ex lie and tell me he had no family when he did?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

16 October 2019 (F) - I dated my ex for about a year, it was a year full of ups and downs, tiring for me mentally. We always had alot of problems, but i was naive enough to be manipulated by him because he's my first boyfriend. Basically, when i first met him, he told me ...

Why am I so anxious about dating my g/f. I'm starting to think I have a commitment phobia

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1641 days ago

15 October 2019 (M) - Last night I asked a girl that I like very much and have very strong feelings for to be my girlfriend. In spanish we have a great interim between liking and loving called "te quiero mucho". That's where we are right now. We've been seeing each...

My future mother in law is irresponsible, especially with money.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

15 October 2019 (F) - I've been in a consistent relationship for 8 years (on and off for the first 2 years if you count them then 10 years in total). And engaged for 4 with our wedding in 2 years time. Over the past couple of years we've had nothing but issues with ...

Am I taking too great of a risk dating a twice divorced man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

12 October 2019 (F) - I'm dating a man who's been divorced twice. He is currently 40 and upon asking him, he said the first time around, it was because they both got married very young (I think at age 21) and they stayed together a very long time. He said they were ...

I'm having a tough time with my new, older boyfriend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1655 days ago

11 October 2019 (F) - Hi There is this guy at work and for some time now he has deffinately been trying to chat me up ,the thing is im on work experience. He is probably in his 40's.A few weeks ago we went out and it got more serious and eventually soon after we ended up...

Is it wrong that I found this behavior on a date odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

9 October 2019 (F) - I started seeing this guy and we've been on two dates now. He's 40 and works for the county. We met on a dating app and he said he would go out for appetizers and drinks, so we met up at a local restaurant. After I came in and he said hello...

Am I being an egomaniac or does this matter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1661 days ago

9 October 2019 (F) - Hi, I am a 38 year old female and have been dating a 45 year old man for 4 months. In that time 2.5 months has been long distance. We were recently having a conversation and I mentioned that a long time ago I was dating someone who a lot of people ...

My boyfriend refuses to distance himself from female friend who kissed him on the mouth in front of everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1662 days ago

8 October 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is extremely close to his best friend (a female). It has always made me uncomfortable but I do NOT think anything is going on between them - I know he doesn't fancy her, and I very much doubt that she ...

Moving in with a partner - How do you mesh two different views on cleanliness, organization, and design?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

7 October 2019 (F) - I've been dating someone for a couple months now and recently made things official. He wanted to introduce me to his best friends which are also his housemates, so I finally visited his place. Before I went over, he gave me a semi-serious ...

I jumped in too fast with a not yet divorced man and decided to cool things. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1664 days ago

7 October 2019 (F) - Woe is me ...not really but kind of- I met an amazing guy about 3 weeks ago while I was visiting family. I used to live in this city and I often consider relocating back so that isn't an issue. He and I hit it off well because we both are sober a...

Am I too old at 54 to meet any men who will want anything more than sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1661 days ago

6 October 2019 (F) - I’m recently dating after a divorce . He was interested in much younger women all the time we were together and had now found one and is happy . I took quite a while on my own and felt I’d really like to meet someone special one day. However I’m ...

My bf has become emotionally distant, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1664 days ago

5 October 2019 (F) - Hello all. I've been with a guy for a year now - he's nearly 38 and i'm 30. I have a three year old little boy and he is fantastic with him.= - he doesn't have kids and has never been married etc. He was very complimentary at the beginning but told ...

Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1662 days ago

5 October 2019 (F) - Hello, sorry for the essay in advance! So I am engaged to a man I have been with for 2 years. For context sake he is 12 years my senior, hasn't had a girlfriend in 10 yrs, is known to his friends being laid back and kind, and his father was not v...

My boyfriend went on a business trip and ghosted

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1665 days ago

4 October 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of four months left for a business trip to another state on Sunday. Everything was normal and he said he couldn't wait to see me this weekend. We usually communicate daily. However, he hasn't reached out once and all of my texts and ...

How do I handle my girlfriend's crazy accusations against me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

3 October 2019 (M) - My girlfriend nearly every day accuses me of “changing/ switching” places with “imaginary” friends of mine that look just like me. This of course is not happening at all and I am beginning to lose my patience with her false accusations. She wi...

I can't get third dates - Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

3 October 2019 (F) - I feel very discouraged from online dating. I have high self-esteem, and try to be open-minded while sticking to my values and boundaries. I look like my online photos. In fact, one guy i went on a date with commented that it was refreshing t...

I was goingto press charges against my ex, but now I am having second thoughts. How do I move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1664 days ago

3 October 2019 (F) - I dated this guy for about 10 years and I thought he was a nice guy until recently. I realize he is a liar and just toxic. I waited for about 3 years to gather enough information on him to press charges. Now that the time is here I am having a hard ...

I'm obsessing so much over my crush after a drunken kiss, but he's avoiding me and it's driving me insane.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

2 October 2019 (F) - Hi there. I'm feeling really desperate for help at the moment. I haven't eaten or been able to think straight for days. I wish I could control my feelings for this guy, but right now I can't stop it. I know its silly and I wish I could get a grip of ...

An old friend I always have feelings for has re-entered my life and reignited old feelings, now that I am on the brink of getting engaged. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

2 October 2019 (M) - Hi, I am in my 40s and have been dating a woman for the last 1.5 years. Let's call her T. She is close to my age. Neither of us have been married before. We have been speaking about marriage for a long time now and every day I consider proposing...