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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I want to make out with him, but I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - i have had a boyfriend for a month, and i really want to make out with him...but im worried that when it comes time, ill mess up and make a fool of myself. Help!!...

Is he worth being with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi, well earlier on today I had sent a message about how the father of my baby had proposed to me but I didn't know what to do or say whether YES or NO because of what he has done to me in the past. Well anyways in the morning I was cleaning...

I have a long problem. Please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) - I no longer know what to do. I feel as though my BF and I are getting inside this never ending suffering... Ok, I'm 19. He's 22. I have asked for help with this before, but even though he says it hasn't I feel this has gotten worse. He has is...

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...

Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hi i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies ...

My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...

I want a relationship with my friend with benefits. Please advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Okay, so i'm a highschooler. I've very recently started to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy at my highschool...i pretty much met him to hook up with him (bad me =[ ) but anyways, before it gets too deep into it...i'm...

Still in love with my first love. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Too make a long story short. I am still in love with my ex. We have a 5 yr history but our relationship only lasted 11 months because of his family and my church family not approving. He has a baby on the way but his girlfriend doesn't do anything ...

His mother STILL MOTHERS HIM and that makes it hard to accept our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hi, ok my problem is quite silly really, but i am with a realy great man in a relationship and have been for over a year now. i find it difficult to accept his relationship that he has with his mother. we are both adults, but she treats him like ...

Why do women love to be treated badly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Now this will cause a stir.. and to the girls on this board. i mean no offence but someone has to say it. Why do women like/love to be treated like crap? i'm 25 years old. i don't drink, don't smoke. and i don't do drugs. i'm by no means God...

His parents aren't happy because our familes are from different backgrounds. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am currently having problems with my boyfriend. Basically, im not sure if im over reacting on an issue that has come up. Me and my partner come from different backgrounds. Im white british and he is british asian. I knew when we started ...

How do I make him want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Im gonna be specific in this question and give detail, im 15, and i met someone a year older than me through a friend, we got chatting and everytime my friend was chillin with me, i would ask him 2 come round aswell, because at first i felt more ...

When I am near him I either become too shy, either go in a verbal frenzy. Why? And how to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I really like this boy who I go to a club with at school. I want to ask him out I just cant, Im normally really outgoing but when Im around him I either go really shy or talking loads and I really dont know what to do. Please help I would really ...

How do I get this boy to leave me alone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) - Theres this boy at School who likes me. He stocks me,fallows me and keeps calling my name. I usely ignore people I don't even like as a friend. I block them out. He keeps telling me how pretty I am and keeps asking me out. I don't even...

He's coming on strongly and I'm scared. I think I want to break up. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So I have been with my beau for about a 6 weeks now. He is very much in love with me, but I don't share quite as intense of feelings. He is a great guy and amazing to be with, but I would rather him just as a friend. The problem is I know we have ...

Am I setting myself up for a fall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - I'm in my early forties and started a relationship with a woman in her thirties studying in a nearby city; she's from abroad, and returned to her home country after we'd been seeing each other for several weeks. By arrangement, I went to stay with ...

Does he have 'Courtship Nerves'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Any body language experts reading? I've recently met a man at work and feel a powerful attraction to him. My instinct tells me he's interested too, but to be sure, I've been trying to read his non-verbal body language. He is a very self-ass...

I feel so guilty, I deleted a text from his ex girlfriend without him knowing, am I wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I feel so guilty, I saw a text from my boyfriend's ex girlfriend on Christmas Day saying she missed him, and I deleted it, so he has no idea she text. The background on this is that they broke up a year ago, just after Christmas. I have been with...

We've been together 6 years but he's told me he loves his ex as much as me, and he wouldn't be able to resist her if the chance came up. Do I stay or leave him??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 6 years and I have a Daughter from a previous relationship who calls my partner Dad(No contact with my ex).When we first got together he explained that he and his ex were still friendly and i accepted ...

I told him how I feel but he doesn't take me seriously, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this sounds rather silly but im a confused teanager, ive grown up to quickly. and theres a boy i like alot. were close freinds, and he said he likes me to. but hes got a girlfreind, who doesn't like me. hes breaking up with her soon though. ...

I've wanted her for just under 5 years, she's been in a relationship all this time, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - A few years ago in high school I met a girl who was wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, etc. We hung with the same crowd so we were friends and spent time together as a group. I guess I developed a crush on her. I always wanted to ask her out or to ...

When should I tell a man that I have HPV?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am a 21 year old single female and i was just wondering when to tell a man im interested in that i have an STD. I dont want to scare him off (im pretty sure i have done that in the past) by doing it too soon, but i dont want him to think i was ...

My partners daughter resents me, how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid. This has got to be a recurrent problem. I adore my partner. We met at work, and our feelings grew from there. She has 3 children, the eldest, a boy of 18, and the youngest, who is a girl of 8, have presented, and continue to pres...

Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a ...

How do I tell if he has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - For New Years Eve I am hanging out with a group of my girl friends, my neighbor, and a bunch of his friends. Secretly, i have had a crush on my neighbor for the past 4 years. It's not a steady crush because I have had boyfriends in between, but i ...

I don't want my ex to be hurt that I've found someone else, and I don't want my church group to think I'm a slut

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So I met my ex through my church youth group. We dated for a little over 3 years, but then i broke up with him. Only a few people in the youth group know that I have a new boyfriend. I'm afriad that if someone finds out, they will go and tell my ex. ...

My newly single neighbour is 15 years older than me, I'd like advice on how to get her into bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - I have known this very beautiful and fun woman in my neighborhood for about ten years. We have been friends and have enjoyed doing many things together. I am 20 and she is 35. About a year ago she was divorced and her ex is not in the picture. She ...

Should I choose the high school sweetheart or the stable friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am getting married in a couple of months. Today we had a high school class reunion and I saw someone I kinda liked back then. The thing is he kinda liked me too. He is still single and we started talking and I got to asking myself whether I ...

My boyfriend's Mom gets into our arguements and doesn't like me, do I tell her to butt out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend been dating for 1 year and 4 months. last night i got drunk and talked to him about everything and how i feel about him, even the bad stuff. so we got into a fight and his mom got into it. She is pathic... shes not a good ...

He likes me alot more than I like him, should I settle for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I have had the ultimate worst luck with men! From being in a serious relationship for 6 years, to being with another guy for 2 years who ended things with me cos his mother controlled his every breath and hated my guts for some reason :o@ Now I have ...

16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never ...

How long do I wait after my recent break up before accepting a date? I've received an invitation but I'm worried about my... public image.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - i have just broken up with my bf of 3 years, i knew it was coming long before it did - but this really nice guy now is asking me to go on a date with him, i'm not sure: is it to soon, will i make myself out to be bitch, i really need help plz, i ...

My ex wants me back but he's hurt me in the past, how do I move on and find someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So New Year's Day would have been mine and my fiance's two year anniversary. I recently seperated. He was the love of my life. He still wants a relationship with me and wants to be my friend, but it's so difficult. I am hurting so bad right now, and ...

We had one great night. We've lost all contact. Now I plan to go to her house to talk to her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. Here goes; It's the last day of a crummy year, and I'm laying it all on the line... As some of you know, a 3 weeks back (in fact, the 14th of December), I met a girl while out drinking with friends. At the end of the night, me and he...

Stuck in a very confusing love triangle...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been getting quite close agin.. ..i have been hoping we could get back together but am afraid of ruining our friendship if he doesnt feel the same way. However there is another problem my other ex boyfriend know that i ...

We kissed and I fell in love with him. But he's seeing someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Me and this boy, we have been mates 4 quite a long time now but the other night we shared a passionate kiss and i think i have fallen in love! But as young people, we have this thing called meeting (snogging) and he is meeting this girl which just ...

I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a ...

My boyfriend's gone away and won't get in touch...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is away at the moment but promised to keep in touch I have text a few times I haven't heard from him all weekend This isn't like him I tried to call him earlier and no answer My battery went so i tried to call off a friends phone he ...

How can I get my ex teacher to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am going to be 20 in nine months. I am in love with a former high school teacher who is going to be 30 in nine months. I had him as a sophomore for political science and economics. That is when I fell in love with him. To keep his company, I ...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...

I'm shy and need tips on flirting with a friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him. But now its like we barely know eachothe...

She dumped me and is with someone else but says she still loves me, do I try to move on or try to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - ok, I am not together with my girl anymore. she has gotten into something with another guy and everything. she broke it off with me. I still love her and i want her back. I could let this go, but she's not letting me. she still wants to talk with me ...

I always call her during holidays, I feel it's a one sided situation. Should I keep waiting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - My friend who I fancy for over a year now has still not contacted me over xmas. I always ring her durin holidays. I Don't Wanna ring her cause I just feel ltm it's a one sided thing. I really wanted to take her out. I'm nuts about her. Any ideas? ...

I told a girl I liked her over the internet and she flipped out, but I think it was someone else I was talking to, how do I find out if she does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - i was talkin to the girl im maddlly inlove with - and i sed hi online to her and asked her about ice skating, becoz i wanted to teke her out somewhere nice where i could tell her how i feel. Insttead she completely flipped saying how much stress s...

His ex gf is making me feel uneasy! Am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Been with 'my boyf 3 months. We're very happy. However, his ex he split up with him '2 yrs ago is makin me feel uneasy They have a dog 2geva who she see's regularly. So they call and txt regarding that. She vivited im xmas mornin. She sent him ...

How do you 'grind' dance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Okay.This is my first time doing this sort of thing so here i go. A guy i really like is going to ask me to a dance.(at least, thats what he is telling everyone) The dance is in two weeks. my school does alot of grinding and i just don't know h...

We just broke up. If you don't talk for a few months will he forget you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. Is it better to not talk for a few months, until I am over him? Do feelings just disappear or if its a real connection will they still be there? Or is it better to occasionally talk so he doesn't ...

My BF doesn't like kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a not-too-happy-but loving relationship for 4 years, with a 1 year distance relationship at the beginning. When I have finally moved in with my boyfriend our sex life became cooler after a few weeks. Now (3 years afterwards)he ...

Problems with her ex bf--he keeps contacting her and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I have been in my present relationship for a period of about 2 and half years. All is fine, we live together and in nearly all areas of our relationship we get on well, except one! Before we meet she had split with a guy 3 months previously who, she ...