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Archived questions from: August, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I know I need to end things with my boyfriend but so much is going on now. Do I wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1331 days ago

31 August 2020 (F) - My boyfriend got really drunk on Friday. We were out. He drank way too much, too fast. He was a mess, I was embarrassed. One of his friends made a comment about him sobering up one day, and my boyfriend went to try and punch him, but the bloke got ...

Should I just cut this guy from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1334 days ago

31 August 2020 (F) - should I just cut this guy from my life? I really don't want to but have a feeling I should for my own good. So I'm completely in love with this guy. We were school lovers and he broke my heart. Then ten years later we got back in contact with ...

Am I the bad guy or did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1331 days ago

31 August 2020 (M) - I graduated uni this year and am leaving town at the end of next week.. I dated a girl during second year of uni, and then it was going badly/she was being shady and flaky and talking to HER ex (she slept with him after we broke up, and also went on ...

I need to tell my boyfriend about my medical condition and I don't know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1336 days ago

29 August 2020 (F) - I am female 41 years old from very religious family .I never had sex in my life . I had boyfriend with who I never had sex. I was not allowed to have sex before marriage . Unfortunately I was raped when I was in school . Now I am dating a guy ...

My girlfriend wasn't there for me at my lowest and now I've lost trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1333 days ago

29 August 2020 (M) - Please read and offer your opinion. I have been in a wonderful and fulfilling relationship for the past two years. We are best friends as well as lovers. We share so much and are aligned in so many ways. Chemistry, trust, communication and love are ...

No spark on the first date, should there be a second?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

27 August 2020 (F) - I went on a first date which I had been really looking forward to. It was a guy I met via a dating app and the chat before had been really good. However within the first 5 seconds of meeting, I knew I wasn't attracted to him at all. The date ...

Strong sexual feelings for future mother in law

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1336 days ago

26 August 2020 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for one year now. Through everything we've been through, including covid and family issues (my family) I feel like we have really been able to get to know each other and see that our relationship can work and we ...

Never had a long term relationship - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

25 August 2020 (F) - I'm 25 years old and I've never been in a long term or serious relationship. I'm happy with myself and with my life, I have great friends, a job I love and a fab family and on the whole I am very content with being single but I feel like I'm at a ...

I like him but my friends have bad things to say about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

25 August 2020 (F) - I like this guy a lot, we have a great connection, we talk like friends, we have great intellectual conversations too and we have a great sexual attraction BUT he was in high school with some of my now friends. And they have nothing but weird an...

Is there such a thing as right person, wrong time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1326 days ago

25 August 2020 (F) - I dated this guy for about three months and he ticked all the boxes for me. We were compatible, had everything in common and we had amazing chemistry. I'm usually very picky and don't often feel this way about someone, I've been single for 2 years ...

Should I continue seeing him even though he lied?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

25 August 2020 (F) - I went on a couple of dates with this guy, we met online. He's a bit older than me, runs a successful company and is handsome. On out dates he was very sweet, considerate and romantic. A really nice guy, who seemed almost too good to be true. For ...

My boyfriend's mother acts as if she owns him and its her way or else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1328 days ago

24 August 2020 (F) - Hi I really need some help! I’m really struggling in my relationship at the moment have been for a while. Apologies as this is going to be a long question! I’m struggling because of my boyfriends mother I’m finding her very difficult to deal with. ...

We live together but I am questioning his willingness to commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1326 days ago

24 August 2020 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year. It’s been one hell of a year with family issues, Covid-19 and some health issues but we’re still together despite it all. However I have been and still am struggling with my anxiety, somethi...

The man I'm dating leaves me in the dark about things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1341 days ago

23 August 2020 (F) - Hello. Been a while. The guy ive been seeing for about two months now has in every other aspect been great minus the issues im here to ask opinions on. He was in a 14 year relationship that ended a year ago. They have two children. He had the ...

Should I propose before or after living with boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

22 August 2020 (F) - Hello, I would like advice on cohabitation. My boyfriend lives with his mom and I currently live with my parents. He and I have been dating for 8 years. I would like to move out and live with him although I'm not sure if I should propose to him and ...

Why did He asked to finish inside me during sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

22 August 2020 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for two months. The day he came over and was saying weird things he normally doesn’t say. We started cuddling and he said “i don’t know how you’re going to feel about this but ... i have love for you” then about 20 minutes ...

Tips for dating a escort?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1334 days ago

22 August 2020 (M) - What advice is out there for dating an escort. She is in love with me that I am certain, I know I am crazy in love with her. We were friends before we started dating so I knew what she did for work but as things got more serious what use to not ...

How much emphasis do you put that innate attraction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1350 days ago

16 August 2020 (M) - Hi. I've been on a couple dates with this lovely lady. We seem to be on similar pages in a lot of senses, talk well and be at similar points in life, similar backgrounds and there seems to be a good commonality in terms of attitudes and ho...

Does intelligence in a relationship matter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1351 days ago

14 August 2020 (F) - Hello, I would like to know your opinion on intelligence within a relationship. Does intelligence between two people in a relationship matter? Does it matter if one person is smarter than the other. My boyfriend always claims that he's a nerd...

My partners daughter is a brat to me lately

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1353 days ago

12 August 2020 (F) - Hi all, I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years he has 2 children from a previous relationship and we all get on great.. usually. His son is 11 and a lovely lad, his daughter is 9 and a diva she is lively and loving and we have shared s...

Should I be concerned that my partner keeps their status on single on FB ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1355 days ago

11 August 2020 (M) - Hi Should I be concerned that my partner keeps their status on single on FB ? She asked me the other day if I'm the type that likes and or needs their relationship status changed on Facebook- I'm not I don't have mine showing and I'm not th...

Is your sex drive driven by emotion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1355 days ago

10 August 2020 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncle’s I wouldn’t really call this an issue, however I would like others opinions on it. So I’ll get to the point. I am 30 years old and have been single for a few years. I have dated a few men in that time but nothing ha...

He's the perfect guy but doesn't please me in bed. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1351 days ago

10 August 2020 (F) - Around two months ago I met this really great guy, he’s been super sweet and I could definitely see myself pursuing a life with him because he’s different from any guy I’ve ever met he treats me like a princess, he’s a gentlemen and has a great ...

How do I go about meeting a potential partner when I have social anxiety?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1355 days ago

9 August 2020 (F) - Hi All, Hope you are doing well in these strange times. Please could I ask your advice on seeking a partner/new relationship? I've been feeling fed up for some time now and just wish I could find a new partner to settle down with. I am ...

Am I high maintenance or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1353 days ago

9 August 2020 (F) - Hi everyone I had a date tonight that i just feel confused about. Would love to unpack with you all and get information. A guy I've had 2 dates with already invited me to his friends' "party". I was told it was saturday and assumed it would be ...

I'm dating a virgin and think I should break up with her because of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1354 days ago

8 August 2020 (M) - I am a 29 year old male, currently dating a 33 year old woman. We met just before the coronavirus lockdown in the UK. Things are going well and we get on with each other, however, I discovered around a month or so ago that she is a virgin. I am...

Adopting partner’s sister’s child after a short break up and feeling very conflicted

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

8 August 2020 (F) - I am at a loss of what to say. I feel incredibly overwhelmed and I’m not sure what to do or how to deal with the situation I have in front of me. My partner and I have been together for 7 years and not married. Before Covid hit, I decided to end...

How do I handle these fears without sounding like I’m trying to force his hand?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1358 days ago

5 August 2020 (F) - I have just turned 35 and I’m starting to worry that my time is running out to get married and have children. I’ve been in a relationship for 18 months now with the best guy and we are talking about moving in together within the next few months, but ...

Boyfriend hiding his phone snatches it away I'm concerned about his girl friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1206 days ago

3 August 2020 (F) - Hey everyone. I made a post on here in Jan addressing my bf platonic friendship with this girl (you can go to my other question for backstory). Essentially between then and now my feelings towards her hasn't really changed. I have anxiety and can ...

Two men not sure which one to choose

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

3 August 2020 (F) - My age is a big factor in this situation. I have 2 male friends who have a liking towards me. Well call one A and 1 B , A i have known longest but he isnt 'stable' doesnt have a regular job and can be up and down with things but said he wants kids ...

Was he being passive in trying to see me again? Should I contact him or let him get in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

2 August 2020 (F) - I went for a walk with a guy who was on my course (he invited me). We walked and talked for 2 and a half hours. We had a laugh and had some deep conversations. He asked who I went on holiday with and asked 'family, friends or boyfriend?'. Is he ...

I didn't disclose everything that happened and now its too late to tell my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

2 August 2020 (F) - Hi, so my boyfriend broke up with me and we were not together for a month (second time spitting up). I thought this was it for good this time. I slept with someone else during this time as did he ... both telling each other. Yet i did also kiss ...