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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What's the biggest age difference that won't make society feel awkward?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - i'm almost 18. there's a guy i like right now who's 23. we have decent banter and tend to stare at each other, but that isn't going to work out because he just got engaged. there's another guy who's 30 and we have terrific banter and i alway...

Should I call his bluff and take a chance on losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - A very old friend has recently turned up again. We have known each other for years and he is a friend of my brothers. we have in the past had a kiss here and there and some flirting. Recently we have been talking alot and over the years have gotten ...

What is the maximum age I can go for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Right i am 16 years old and a girl and i want to know what is the maximum age limit i can go for before people think its weird. Because i know this guy who is 22 nothing has happened but he is soooooo nice (: But i also had an emotional affair...

Could he still be interested or am I just crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Hey aunts, I am 24 and rather inexperienced for a girl of my age. Earlier this year, I met a guy I really liked, but after a month I still was not ready to have sex with him and we parted ways (it was not cordial). Over the summer I saw him at a...

I like them both! Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - hello everyone ilike this girl who used to go out with my best friend at school but me and him haven't spoken for a while as we have chose different career paths. she is a year younger than me and we keep in touch over facebook and msn. i have ...

Was she showing signs of flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I am 14, female, and bi. I like a girl, I don't know if shes straight, bi or gay. These are the things she's done: When she sits with me, she starts off at the edge of the seat and within 1 minute she is sitting very close to me, and as if she ...

Should I worry if he doesn't want to see me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 8 months now; We saw each other every weekend and things were going great. He has been very slow with work and seems very down lately. I think he is pulling back a bit and doesn't seem like he is "so into me" as much. ...

How do I help him to bring this relationship to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My problem is that i am 33 but i look like 20.it is strange because every one wants to look younger as i do but the problem is that i can't the guy of my age to marry him.i am very beautiful,successful and educated woman.till now i didn't date any ...

How can I get back the attention she used to give me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now and for the first 9 months or so everything was perfect but lately she seems to be pushing me away. I understand she is stressed due to her ex not paying the full child suppo...

I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont ...

I'm 17..any suggestions on how to have phone sex with my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone i need some help. My long distance girlfriend of 6 months wants to have phone sex with me but the problem is i have no idea what to say while doing it, i don't wanna look like a complete moron while doing it. Like she asks me how bad ...

Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 October 2009 (?) - there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...

Going further making out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Girlfriend might come over to my house Saturday. I would like some advice on how to take it a little further without possibly scaring her. We've been together for about 11 months and have done nothing sexual at all. Ohhh, and by taking it further i ...

I get the feeling there is something wrong, but my girlfriend won't talk to me about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - hey guys me and my gf are having a little problem and its a bit stupid..==" neway today we were talking on msn and then suddenly she started to sound really sad and depressed so i asked if she was and she said yes and then i asked wats wrong and s...

I'm in love with my bestfriend....should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I'm in love with one if my best friends. It started last year: I had a crush on him ever since I got to know him. That crush slowly turned into to liking him a lot and wanting to date him. Then I realized that I loved him. Everything ab...

How can I tell if she likes me? She has shot me down in the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - How do i tell if a flirty girl likes me. She touches me and goes out of her way to find me often and when she hugs me she does it longer then with others. She has hesitently shot me down before. ...

If we spend a lot of time together but have never kissed, does this mean he has feelings for me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - If my friend and I go on trips together often, eat together also, just hang out a lot, but have never kissed, is he into me or not? He's never said he loves me, but, he always ask me to accompany him to places, to travel, etc...He's a pastor and I'm ...

How do I keep the door open for him in case he does agree to be in a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - So there is a lot of details in this story but I will try to keep it short and only give the facts. - I am 25, He is 32. -I am not American and came to the US 2 years ago. HE is American. -I am not religious, he is practicing Irish Catholic. -...

I'm too embarrassed to show my face to his brothers in case they think I am a boyfriend stealing whore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - so me and this friend of mine started hooking up... at the time he had told me he had broken up with his girl.... so we went out lunch , ice cream walk on the beach.... we start having sex .... so one day idk how but i found out he was still...

Is it OK to add her to my FB friends list without asking her first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Hi, right now i like a girl and i dont really talk to her. So i keep thinking if i should add her on my facebook friends list so i/we could talk a lot. But the point is if i should add her without asking or asking first. Whenever i look at her...

Is he just keeping his options open?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I need a advise..I've been dating this guy for about...4 months now..and he shows all the signs that he's really into me..calls just to see how my day is Funny,nice,romantic, I feel silly but cuddles after sex..looks into my eyes tells me I'm beau...

12 years later and still clueless in the sack? Is it time to pack my bags?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Here's my situation in a nutshell. Mr X and I have been dating for 12 years. We have never, ever, had good sex (for me). We have sex twice a week, he gets off every time and I get off once every six months only because I am so frusterated at that ...

Is playing hard to get a good thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - ok what does a guy mean when he says "your playing hard to get"?is that a good thing?...

What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas? Please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 1/2 years now you would think I would know what to get him for Christmas by now. I have read suggestions on other posts and they don't help very much. We live together at college so we share ...

I need tips and Ideas ASAP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - I just got a few quick questions here and I would love it if you guy's help me out with this one, ok so it's a new school year new people new class, in one of my classes there is this girl I am interested in getting to know her and what not, I ...

So hurt and Confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My bf/ex (not sure yet) just found out that we were pregnant about a month ago. We have been arguing like crazy lately over stupid things. His actions and the way he acts around me have totally changed. (IE wont cuddle, talk, or do anything with me ...

I can't forget about his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have always had trust issues but we have seen we cannot live without each other,he had a gf while we broke up 2 months ago after being together for 13 months. I never ever expected him to get a gf,but he did and thought i wouldn't ...

I'm in love with my cousin! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I ...

If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?...

I had lots of sex without any protection and I'm worried I might be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (?) - So me and my boyfriend (im 16 hes 18) have been together for about 4 months now. we have sex a lot, every weekend and sometimes during the week, and almost always more than once on these days. i am not on the pill and we dont use condoms, he just ...

Is there a foundation to launch a relationship from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet ...