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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Either make me your girlfriend or leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Hello so Ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years and not to long ago we went back to campus of our school. And all the sudden he brks up w me but acts like nothing happened and invites me over keeps in touch but less and also hangs w his friends ...

How can I keep her interested when she lives so far away?

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8 October 2009 (M) - hi everybody, i met this girl and i fell in love with her in 2 days. i like everything about her down to the fact that she likes elvis. i never believed this could happen this soon and now that it has i constantly fear that i will loose her as fast ...

Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?...

He can never see that I feel more for him than just as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Have you ever been so confused? I really like this boy and I have for absolutely ages.. we have been through so much together.. but he can never see that I truly feel more than a friend for him. Recently, We have fallen out. And somewhere deep ...

Does being too nice drive women away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...

Should I try to help him with his drug addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Ok so here's the thing: I like this guy that keeps saying he likes me and wishes he could get the courage to ask someone out. I have good feeling it's me but we have been like brother and sister for about 7 years. He does do drugs and he has...

He liked me before, how do I tell him that I like him NOW?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Hello, i need help :( i am so in love with this boy, ive known him for about 3 years now, the thing is though, i am soooooo shy, me and him have always had this connection though and he has liked me before but i didnt and then i did but didnt kn...

He says I'm not giving him enough space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - we have been dating for 2mnts , last night i went to his place after a party he wanted sex but i was having my periods so he suggested we do it from the back, i refused . after i got back home in the morning he did not call me the whole day so i ...

Where should I meet my internet/text boyfriend? His place or mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - ive been txting a man ive met on the internet for almost 2 months now and i am meeting him next week. he lives few hours away and i need to know the best way to approach this meeting. i am not going to sleep with him on the first night so i am ...

Been with boyfriend for 5 years and he still hasn't proposed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - hey all!! Well my issue is that I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and he still hasnt proposed. He came to FL where I was living to train for work, that is where I met him, he was asked to help take over a family business in NH so he ...

We both have insecurity issues. How do we get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and I really love eachother, however there is a slight issue. She is close friends to another guy and sees him as her brother but then they used to like eachother in the past, although it was at different time. They would phone ...

Why does he think that it's ok to treat me like I'm useless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Good morning, I am going to try to sum up a relationship that I am in because I am simply going nuts trying to figure it out. I moved in with a guy about nine months ago and to be honest the relationship started off in a rocky way but I believed t...

Does he like me? Or does my shyness make my unapproachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Ok so a few quarters back I started liking this guy and he showed interest too, then i finally talked to him at the end of that quarter. I don't know if I went into it too fast and scared him off or whatever happened (might be because I'm 8yrs older ...

I'm dating an extremely busy guy, what do you think, should I just let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - The situation is this: I'm dating an extremely busy guy, who has a lot of things going on in his life right now. I don't really know what to "call" our situation. He kissed me on the head (I don't know what this means. People claim that it's ...

How much time does he need to know whether this relationship is the one

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a divorced mom who was marred over fifeen years. I did the on line dating, which was no fun until I met a wonderful older guy a couple of years ago and the relationship developed well. He introduced me to his family members ...

Male attention makes me timid and self conscious. How can I get past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - What's wrong with me? Every time a guy seems interested in me I get really shy and self conscious. It's like I go from being confident and independent to completely timid. And if a guy looks at me too long I automatically blush. Also, if a guy gives ...

Hurt once, never again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - In my thirties now, I feel I'll always be connected to a friend of mine who was a quick love 4 years ago. We remain friends and sometimes we see each other. He's a good man, but when he's with a new relationship I feel devastated; he broke up with ...

Is she just not that interested, or is there something else going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - I recently met this girl over the summer.shes a single mom with a rough past.Im a single man with a baby on the way. shes also living alone and struggling.(had to put that out there)At first she seemed only somewhat interested IN ME ,but as time ...

She treats me badly, but I still love her! How do I confront her about the issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - I really don't understand what is going on right now! I am a female, and 14. I had fallen in love with someone who is a few monts younger then me and she is also a female. I am bi and I already told her all that. I already told her I loved her too. ...

I don't know how to decide which guy is best for me. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm in a bit of a pickel. Here's the story: There are two guys that like me and one that I just started to like. One of them(Alex) I've started to like since August and I like this guy. He's boring in school and funny outside of school. The ...

How much rejection must I go through before striking gold?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - I'm beginning to think I suck when it comes to dealing with women. Lately, i feel like every time I show any interest in a woman it never works out. Which is odd to me considering how everyone always tells me I'm funny and good looking. So inspired ...

Why does she dress that way when I'm not around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - hey wats going on i tried talking with my girlfriend about why she dresses better and more revealing when im not around and she got realy defensive and didnt let me finish she always does that when i try and talk to her about something we nead to ...

He is calling me chubby and it hurts

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who I have not been dating for very long tells me I'm a little fat around the midsection and rear section. This really hurt my feelings when he said this. We had just made love and he told me I was not fat just a little chubby an...

Where do I go now? He wont commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - I am 32 years old, divorced with three children. I start dating a divorced man with one child over a year age. For the most part the relationship is great except I have always wanted more of a commitment than him. We are faithful to each other ...

My bf rips my thongs on purpose. how can I make him stop.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

8 October 2009 (?) - ill make this short and simple. my boyfriend keeps literally ripping my underwear everytime we have sex! we will get into the mood and he will legit RIP my thong off! im getting rly irritated because i keep having to buy new ones! i have told him ...

Love problems, I love her but she don't love me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - Hi! I'm a guy from Texas and there is this girl I really like. I know she doesnt like me, but I still want her to. I know nearly everything about her. She's got the looks and the kind heart. She's strong brave and courageous. I love her soo much. Bu...

Met on the net should we date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - Hey, I just came across this site and I thought I just put my question out there. Oh and this is a Long Distance Relationship Question. I live in the US and she lives in Canada (555 mile[996 km] separation) I'm going to tell the story and then a...