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writes: hi,my one year younger sister has boyfriend and she is not virgin...she enjoys sex with him.i have a girl friend now but I m virgin and now i want to learn how to carry out sex in order to get max. pleasure...I know that my sister can teach me, as she is experienced and she knows how to get max. pleasure.how should i ask her help? i feel shy?please suggest me any scenario or how should i start discussion with her and take her help?I also want to see her carrying out sex,so that i can learn more...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Are you crazy??? why in the world would you or any one want to watch their sister or brother or any family have sex!!!
please dont ask her anyrhing even if you to already talk about anything.
every person who ever had sex did it for the first time, first. so u shouldnt be worried about your performance, this comes with experience, i take it you know that the penis goes into the vagina thats basically all you need to know, find out about pleasure spots clitorus etc, stimulate her with your tounge or finger its called forplay, when you are both ready but dont rush insert your penis into her vagina, im sure you'll figure out the rest. dont worry over time and through open communication with your partner you will get it, but dont go asking to see your sister have sex, experiment cautiously with the consent of your partner ofcourse find out what she likes and what she doesn't also take note of what the other readers said.
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Alright, you should definitely not ask your sister if you can WATCH her having sex - I'm sorry, but that is borderline disturbing and there is no way she'll help you at all if you pitch that to her. And how do you think your girlfriend would feel if she found out you wanted to watch your sister having sex??
As for asking her about sex, what kind of relationship do the both of you have? Do you already talk to her openly about things like this? If you do, just approach her casually, or in a jokey way. If you don't have a relationship where you communicate like this, it might be best to get your advice elsewhere.
I think the best way to learn about sex is with your partner. If you two arent at a stage in you relationship where you can talk about it openly and discover it together, chances are you shouldnt be having sex yet anyway.
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