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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Is she cheating, or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I need some advice guys. My g/f is working lots of over time at work. She makes an extra effort to look good for work. eg. spends about 2hrs getting ready. She's gone on a diet. She went bowling on works nite out last week. The place shuts at 11pm ...

Could my friend be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend who i love sooo much kind of makes some stupid decisions sometimes. She's on birth control and that usually is enough to keep someone from getting pregnant, but if you have a condom why not use it to make sure you are protecting yourself ...

I really like this girl at school, but I've never had a relationship before, and not sure what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I am a 15 year old and i've never had a relationship. There's this girl I really like at school, but i'm not sure what to do....

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

Should I just be patient and wait for his call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved. He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I al...

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from ...

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of ...

I do not want to see him until my skin looks amazing - how to hide my blemishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi.I need help with something.I like this guy but i don't want to see him unless my skin looks absolutely perfect.I just would like to know which is good make up to use to hide anything like blemishes. I have porcelain skin which is why i'm find...

He is the most popular among girls but only seems interested in studying! How can I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically.. well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical chee...

I have a fear of rejection, so how do I make a move on some one I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - How do I make a move on a girl I like??? I have a fear of rejection. In the past few months, some mutual female friends have told me there is a girl who fights over me with another girl. They've also tried to get me to go to some sort of formal w...

Any tips on how to overcome my nervousness just to talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I like this girl at school and I've talked with her a few times however, I started noticing that I really liked her a few months ago and since then, it's really been getting hard to try and make the leap forward to trying to talk to her. The few ...

My new boyfriend hugged me, later that day I hugged him too but something doesn't feel right...but I do have strong feelings for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I have liked him forever well he asked me out and I'm so happy but its more akward around him now that I'm dating him I don't understand it we have been going out for a couple of days now and he hugged me a quicky but ...

I have mixed feelings about this, will my feelings change if he chooses me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi I am a young 22 yr old single mom. I am very scared because I met a married man who is ten yrs older than I am. I'm not scared because I met him but because when we talked for the first time it was for hours. We have so much in common and he is ...

He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he do...

His comments are confusing me...how should I take them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - hi id really appreciate peoples opinions on this, especially guys :-D my boyfriend keeps making comments and im not sure if he is being serious or not. i am 21 and he is 25. we have been together for 4 months but hes had feelings for me for 9 mon...

Why do we girls go for the bad boys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...

He promised he wouldnt, but he's still looking at other girls, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - How do i trust my boyfriend again after he has lied so much? My boyfriend carried on looking at other girls even though he said that he wasn't, he seen how much it was hurting me yet he continued to do it, and lie about it again and again. Now my ...

Please help me! I have two questions, one is should I try to talk with her again, and the other one is what type of stuff do you do when you get a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - hi i need some HELP!! i relly like this girl i met her last year through a friend i have onely met up with her 2 times but talked alot on msn because my mate was going out with he and she split up with him and i helped her throught it, i have not...

I want my boyfriend to hug me, hold hands with me, kiss me...how do I get my point across?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Okay I really like my boyfriend I mean mabye even love him and I really want us to hug, hold hands, him put his arm around me, and kiss ya know stuff like that. But the problem is i dont know how to get the piont across to him and he is not the type ...

He pursued me for about two months, then virtually overnight he changed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 42. He was very, very into me, and pursued me for about 2 months. He really gained my trust, and I liked him a lot. We started having sex (three weeks ago) and virtually overnight he stopped being on time, ...

I'm seeing two guys - and hate the thought of upsetting either of them! Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I have a partner of two years and we recently split (about six months ago) for a short period of time. During this time, I was really low on confidence and started sleeping with a male friend of mine. At first i thought it was 'love' (because i was ...

My recent BF could be facing jail for a crime committed while drunk. I love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???...

Why doesn't he call me his girlfriend? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a year and 7 months. We have the same interests (but not too many as to keep the relationship intersting), we talk for hours on the phone, he takes me to special places I've never been before, etc. I've hung out with his ...

Does he like me too, since he blushes when I am near and laughes at my jokes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear Who ever answers this, I like this boy. I'm not going to say any names but I love him!! He's smart, intellegent, funny, athletic, and handsome!! He is in 3 of my classes but if you count gym, he is in there to. I to...

I'm fairly good looking but don't stand a chance compared to other girls at the gym. Is there any hope to catch his attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ok. i really fancy a guy who works at my gym. we talk and have a bit of banter with each other whenever i see him - he was my personal trainer a few months ago. the thing is i always look terrible...hair tied back, red in the face and sweating ...

Smart / casual dressing style for a nightclub, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hey Guys Im 22 Years and have been invited to a nightclub, By a friend My ex is usually there this is not a issue because we are on good terms but i really would like to look nice, The dress code is smart/causal. I would like a dress or top in a...

Should I talk to my crush or will he think I'm desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - k suppose i talk to this guy who i have a crush on..is it a bad thing?? do u think he will think that i am desperate..will it make it less challenging since i made the move and he wouldn make efforts further right?? he would be expecting me ...

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend b...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi. i really don't know what to do anymore. i've benn fallin for my boyfriends brother harder and harder and now it's reached the point i can't stand the pain. ive been with my bf for a year now and i love him. at least im confortable with him. but ...

We argue, break up, get back together, argue, break up, get back together, argue...you get the idea. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy on and off for six months, we've had our fair share of arguments and we always end it, and i always try to move on but a few days later he texts me saying sorry and i always give him another chance. This has happened a lot, ...

We've been together 6 months and I feel nervous about telling her that I love her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and I have felt that I want to tell her that I love her, this may sound silly but I'm just really nervous so how do I say it to her?...

Does anyone know any dating sites that are actually worth going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - there is this boy in my year above but i proper fancy her but he thinks i hate him, how do i talk to him? as i never have really bothered, but i really want to, but the fact is, if i leave him a message on bebo or whatever, he wont write back as he ...

Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry...

I love my best friend but she's in a relationship. Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hey, I feel like I'm falling in love with my best friend. I met her about 4 months ago, and we spend a lot of every day with each other, get on amazingly well and have a deep connection, we both know we will be friends for ages. However, I've j...

My BF has a bad tempter but loves me. I am also dating his buddy who is nice to talk to and definitely my type. Please help me decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear all, I hope to receive some advice on this matter. I've been dating a guy, C, for 3 yrs now. He is nice, sweet and loving to me. However, he tends to say insentitive remarks and is fierce with me due to his bad temper. However, despite...

I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...

Was he cheating in the photo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of ...

Help! I lost my erection!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I have recently started seeing a girl, this is the first girl i have been dating for several months now. She is extremely nice and sexually stunning. After seeing her a few times we decided to make the next step to the bedroom. Unfortunately ha...

How long should I wait before I give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ive been working with a guy since last october, im really into him and i was unsure whether he felt the same, the people we work with tell me he talks about me, saying how nice i am and that he'd love to take me out. But yesterday was my last day ...

In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone ...

I broke up with her, she found someone else, now I want her back , help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Its been 4 months since me and my ex broke up, i broke up with her but i realized i made the worst mistake of my life but as soon as i went to get her back i found out she started a new relationship. I think about her day and night, and i don...

Do men in their 20's often cheat on their partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - Hi Guys, I'm just curious, how common is it for men in their 20s to cheat in long term relationships? If my very outgoing boyfriend who wants to be with me "for a long time" says he'll never cheat, what do you think are the odds he will fall ...

I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...

Hard-to-get or hard-to-pay-attention or just plain ol' uninterested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I finally caved and put up an online profile at the behest of my friends who swear by internet dating....and low and behold, I found someone! We are in related professions, attended college in the same area and now live in the same town, we have ...

I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand...

I'm a bit shy, so how do I ask this girl to go to the movies with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi, i need some advice, i really like this girl, how can i ask her out to go watch a movie? Also when i went out with my last girlfriend we were not very close, and it didn't help that i was a bit shy. If i was to go out with this girl, how can i be...

We are very much in love, but we fight constanly, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a question that has bugging me. I love my boyfriend to death, and i'd do anything to see him happy, and that's how he is with me. We get along perfectly, and we are 110% comfortable with each other. We do almost everything toge...

Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...