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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

We both are in a relationship, but I like him, but I don't know if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I like this guy but he has a girlfriend, and I have a boy friend, but I think he likes me but sometimes leaving me confused.When I look at him I quickly catch a glance of him looking at me but then turns away. Then he gave my friend hes mobile ...

First Valentines, what should I get her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I'm debating what to get my girlfriend for Valentine's day. Flowers are obvious but... what else? We have only been together for a few months. We both talk about massages and how neither of us has had one. There's a place here in town tha...

Did I leave things go too long with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - A few nights ago i went out on a date with a girl, which was kinda cut short as she bumped into some of her friends while we were out and the evening didnt really go as i planned. In the end i left her with her friends (stupid i know). I spoke to ...

I'm not sure if I pleased her, opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - hello guys its not that i have any big problem but theres just something i want to know and make sure of. i want to know if i was able to please my girlfriend. i finally got to suck on my girlfriend`s breasts but i dont know if i did it right.....

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been frie...

Falling for her again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I asked a friend for a relationship last year (about 6 months ago) and she said no. I respected her answer and kept distance for several months as I tried to heal and move on. We are still friends and I enjoy that. Now, I am falling for her...

My bf gets mad and stresses me out! Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I always quarrel,he just gets angry at me. he wants to see me everyday day but he sometimes kicks me out. I always cry, he stresses me. should I carry on with him or what? ...

Very troubled here as I don't think I want be with my bf anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Sorry this is a bit long, but I wanted to put all the detail in. So I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. When we first got together I really loved him (I had liked him way before we got together). But recently I don't feel anything ...

Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 780 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I ...

I like her a lot, she has a girlfriend but do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - So I met this girl about 3 or 4 months ago through a mutual friend of ours at a bar. We talked all that night and ended up kissing at the end of the night. Later the following week, I found out that she has a girlfriend. I was really confused and ...

Did I make things worse and end up pushing her further away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - after getting into an argument with my crush because I guess I hurt and lied to her. she kind of went nasty. she said mean horrible things to me that day and said to never talk to her again. i still had feelings and tried talking and apologizing to ...

Can I get this relationship back on track? Can I change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - sun won't shine, moon won't glow. Would you ever take back a cheating ex? Would you ever take back someone who hit you? Someone who slept with you even though they had a gf/bf? Even if you were the one who cheated first? I had this ex...

Tells me his secrets, but complains to his friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I like this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we talk on Facebook; we get on quite well and he recently revealed to me that he used to be depressed and has scars from it, he asked me not to tell his friends so that might mean they don't know? T...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

I cant seem to have relationships like other people....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

31 January 2012 (?) - Hi, I'm lonely and frustrated. I am a natural redhead, men think this either makes me easy or a bitch. I'm neither, i rebuff their advances, i have a preference for women you see. After qualifying as an optometrist i moved to a new city to work. I'...

How can I relax and not sabotage this potentially wonderful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. A quick question, I am in a relationship with a stunning gregarious woman. We're to married in August and have talked about having a child together. However, I live daily in fear that things will turn sour. I try not to look for reasons ...

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

We have two children together. He's my fiance. Should I forgive him for kissing my younger sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - so my younger sister confessed to me that my fiance kissed her!! she seemed pretty upset and she didn't know how to tell me she said she pushed him away and told him that was wrong and was freaking out. he told me he didn't know what he was th...

Do I have an anger problem or are my reasons rational?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - So me and my gf have been dating for like a year and 2 months. Lately i have been getting kinda impatient with things that happen. It is pretty much simple small thing like not talking to me over the phone, acting a bit foolish, and little things of ...

The reason why so many relationships fail

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...

I think he likes me, but I don't want to date yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. Long story short, my best friends friend has started talking to me, at first it was just day to day friendly chat but now he's starting to flirt and wants to take me out for valentines day. I dont want a boyfriend yet, but i dont know if he's ...

How do I tell my parents I'm going to date the boy who used to bully me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hey, i like this guy, and i am going to try it out with him. except a month ago this boy was bullying me only because he was with this new girl who did not like me, he was only doing it cause he was under peer pressure. he has loved me for lik...

Which plans should I cancel; those with my mum or my date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - What should i do? It's my mum's birthday tomorrow, and we are supposed to be going shopping in the afternoon, and the cinema at night, but this guy i am dating said he wants to meet tomorrow too. Should i go to the cinema with my mum in the afte...

Is it appropriate to invite this new woman out on Valentine's Day or should that be reserved for couples?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Long story short, I've known this girl for about a month. In that time, we've seen each other nearly every weekend when we go out with our mutual friends. I get the vibe that she likes me, and I think I'm starting to reciprocate those feelings. ...

My gf is really 21 but looks 14!! Is it wrong to date her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - i am 29 girlfriend is 21 but she looks about 13 or 14. is it wrong to be going out with her?...

Asked her out on a 2nd date by text and there was no reply! Feeling a bit awkward, so how do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - I went on a date with a girl from work. I liked her and I text her the day after asking for a second date. I have recieved no reply over a week later. I can take this and i know it happens. the problem is that im likely to see her at work. we...

Which woman do I pick? My long term gf or the new woman, I feel sexually attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hi im 32 im a gay woman and been with my girlfriend over a year. dont live together yet but we are engaged. thing is we had some ups and downs and i just no longer fancy her and lost my sex drive months ago. i love her so much and enjoy her company ...

My boyfriend is beginning to think I am not attracted to him, anymore! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has a high sex drive and i dont, which makes it hard to want sex as often as he does. Im an very emotionally and physically attracted to him, but somedays i just dont feel like having sex, as to him he wants to have sex at least once ...

He seemed interested and then did a complete 360! What happened here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I went to our employee christmas party,it was employees only so we were all sorta hanging and mingling with each other,well after a few drinks I was feeling rather comfortable with a coworker guy friend of mine. he and I actually flirted with each ...

Are all FWB relationships conducted, in this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this question is for people who are in a fwb arrangement. how well do they treat you. I am in one. have been for 11 months now. he never comes round apart from the obvious when he is horny. he is not speaking to me at the moment because ...

The dating game and its manoeuvres! What next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (?) - I was just wondering that how early on in the dating game can one broach the "intentions". I've been out of the dating game for years and at the moment I'm only looking for a serious long term relationship. I'm 30 something and so I want to make ...

My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me!

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30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job. He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to ta...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

Talking to mom about the girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So for 2 and a half months, almost three I've had a girlfriend and I really like her. The problem is that I don't know how to tell my mom about her. Every time I try to talk to her about it my neck gets hot, my body goes numb and I start to ...

Exit strategy please

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - I have got involved with a woman, from my karate club, then i thougt something was going on with her and my instructor, she denied it. As time moved on i felt there was something, eventually she broke down saying there was but he had been ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

My bisexual girlfriend wanted to have a threesome, but the way she worded it makes me feel bad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend told me she fancied a girl we met, and suggested we hit on her together and potentially have a threesome. I said I wasn't interested at the moment, but the issue has been bothering me a lot since. The girl in question was seriously ...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

Could I meet the right person in college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - I'm a senior in high school and really want a girlfriend. I'm very nice, sweet, tough, have confidence and sometimes I feel like a good guy for the ladies. I never had one and I see a lot of my friends dating. I going to be separated from my high ...

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

What are my chances of seeing her again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Ok i was on a date with a girl a couple of nights ago and everything was going well. We were just in this nice bar place, when some guy friend of hers from her school days recognized her and walked over to say hi. I thought that would be it, hello, ...

Guys I talk to think I'm flirting, but I don't even know how to flirt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - One of my friends keep telling me not to talk to boys the way I do, and he says that I "don't know what I do to other guys." I've tried asking him what he meant, but he shrugged it off. I'm almost certain that he's talking about flirting, but I ...

Are people that have been in relationships with an alcoholic in the past afraid of commitment and trust ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Ok I have a question , I was dating this woman for 6 months and things were going really well and we took our time in the relationship , she had basically told me about her past life , it wasn't the best , at 16 she was sexually assaulted , at ...

Sexy birthday treat ideas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi every1! Am looking for some guidance lol my man turns 37 on Thursday and I want to give him a surprise but I have NO IDEA what to get him.. What do u get the man who has everything.. And he doesn't help saying he doesn't want anything.. Just me ...

How can I build up my friends confidence about dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Lately my friend has been dealing with a guy whos not into her as much as she is into him. ive been helping her stay happy cuz she really likes him and cant let him go. then she sent me a message like this "Uk what I figured it out no guy wants to ...

He was flirting with me but now says I'm not his type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010. He had asked me what his chances were for taking me out to dinner was and I had told him that his chances...

I'm so keen to find somebody I scare them away on the first date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - to get straight to the point- i get too carried away about girls on the 1st date that im left gutted when they dont want a second. I work in a very male dominated industry and all my friends are couples. i have lots of interests and am always bu...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...