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Online dating: Help and advice

He’s been chatting with women online and now has booked a solo trip to a country where one lives! I need opinions on this!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

25 April 2016 (F - Hello everyone, Me and hubby have been together 7yrs and married for 3. We have a 4 yr old daughter..He has been talking to women who he has friended from social media. He doesn't know any of them. But to some he will start talking in a way...

Is online dating just not worth it? I know not all men are pigs but I sure keep drawing them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

24 April 2016 (F - Is online dating just not worth it? I tried it many years ago but with a friend, thinking we could double date, keep it safe etc. We were not planning on nearly every man pushing for three ways and insisting on "at least" making out with each other ...

I met a man I've been talking to online and he hasn't responded to my thank you message, what did I do wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

24 April 2016 (F - Hi , First Thanks for always been helpful. I am very confuse about situation. I talked online with a guy for almost two weeks. finally , I met him yesterday.we met for coffee around 5.30. we had long conversation. he was talking continue. I felt...

I need a virtual shake to get back to reality and stop chatting online with men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 April 2016 (F - I'm worried about some behaviours I have started to develop and want to ask advice. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years with a kind and successful man. We moved away from our home last year for his work and I gave up my job to move. I'...

Is the suggestion we watch a movie at his place for our fifth date normal, or a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 April 2016 (F - Is this a bad sign? I'm interested in a guy I met through an online dating site. I've met with him four times already now, we've had coffee, a dinner/movie date, picnic at a park with drinks then at a lounge. For the next date he suggested I come...

I'm dating someone who isn't responding by text as fast as he used to, is this a problem or am I over-analyzing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 April 2016 (F - Dear Cupid I'm dating someone younger to me for past 1 month, I like him and he says the same. Earlier he used to text often and responds back quickly , now most of the time he doesn't initiate text and if I text I get response but mostly after...

He seems to have lost interest, how can we get the positive energy back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 April 2016 (F - I met someone recently and it seemed mutual that we were both hitting it off. Looking back at the beginning when we first started texting, the messages seemed more fluid and open between us. Currently they don't look or feel the same. Even though we ...

Is it bad for a girl to initiate dates? And how to tell if a guy is losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

18 April 2016 (F - I have a series of questions I'd appreciate advice on. I want to know if it is bad for the girl to initiate the dates in the start of a relationship or should the guy take charge and plan dates for the two of them? Also how can you tell through...

I'm in a pickle about what to do. Am I expecting too much, or is he not putting enough effort in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

16 April 2016 (M - Hi bi guy here and really need help please read all. So back in September I met this guy via an online dating site. I was drunk and he was at work but it was a good meet. We started seeing each other regularly and everytime he was opening up about...

Life is flying by, do I take a chance or wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

12 April 2016 (F - Hi i joined a dating site 2 week ago and saw a guy i know of and on rare nights out over the years we have spoken and said hi to each other ive always had a liking of him , its been 4 years since i last spoke to him. I messaged him on this dating ...

I regret texting a girl while I was drunk! How to recover this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

11 April 2016 (M - I started dating a girl few weeks ago, we really liked each other, she is 4 years younger than me , she is very decent, nice and has a great personality, the thing is she is super busy with her full time job and her master degree , she also has ...

Is he saying these things because he’s genuine? Or to get laid? How do I find out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

8 April 2016 (F - Dear Cupid I met a guy in dating site, we are dating each other for couple of weeks and we went exclusive. He is not handsome, but I kind of like the way he carries himself and talks. So I like him, he is younger than me and he never dat...

Do I expose his lies or just blank him ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

7 April 2016 (F - Hi everyone 4 week ago me and my ex decided to give our relationship another go he spun me lines and i fell for them. My friend is on a dating site and saw him on there so told me im glad she did , im tempted to message him and tell him liars al...

His New GF dumped him. Why he would choose to apologize to me after all this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

7 April 2016 (F - I'm confused about my ex and the sincerity of his apology. He treated me terribly but ended up apologizing to me 8 months later. When I first met him, he was intially really sweet and kind towards me but after about 4 months, I discovered that ...

In debt and I'm feeling low. Is there a way to get through all this pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

6 April 2016 (F - I feel my life is going down a dark hole. me and my ex decided to give our relationship another go but hes made no effort and is on a dating site , he doesnt know that i know hes on there (my friend told me so i checked it out myself ) i have 1 ...

He's a former coworker, but is he interested or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

6 April 2016 (F - I recently hit it off with this guy through email. We are old coworkers who reconnected, but haven't seen each other in several years. I noticed as time went on, he kept asking more personal questions, and even brought up the topics of marriage...

I gave him an ultimatum, but am wondering if I’m being an idiot for giving him a last chance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

5 April 2016 (F - Me and my current partner have been together for nearly a year now. i moved from manchester, fifty miles to be with him. we live together, our sex life is great, everything is going smoothly. we've discussed our future, kids, marriage etc. Howeve...

I like him a lot. How can I show him I'm worth a chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

4 April 2016 (F - ive joined a dating site about a month ago i got chatting to a lovely guy we met up had a great date and made plans to meet again. I took my profile off public so i wouldnt get messages off anyone else , but this dating site is saying I'm online w...

Should I text him to rekindle what we had? Or should I leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

2 April 2016 (F - I met a wonderful guy off Tinder at the end of January, we had been texting constantly for 6 weeks and have been on 4 dates and we kissed on dates 3 and 4. All the dates went really well and he even said that he had a great time. After the 4th ...

Met this girl online but now I feel I've lost a new friend. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

2 April 2016 (M - I recently made friends with a girl online and we really got on well to start with but past week we have had arguements around me being moody because I get anxious when waiting for a reply; I end up being rude. She is in a relationship but has chea...

How long its acceptable to wait, between texting episodes with my LDR? Should I wait for him to text first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

30 March 2016 (F - Im currently seeing a guy who i go to university with, we're not in an official relationship but have agreed not to see anyone else. We're both at home at the moment as its the holidays but we live a long way from each other so haven't seen eac...

After we had sex I assumed he would not be back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

30 March 2016 (F - I met a guy on a dating site. We met up and ended up sleeping together. This was my first time involving myself in something like this. I watched him during the date and he is mature, understanding and well-balanced. I had a feeling that we would ...

Truth or fake? Wish I never catfished him. Do I tell him the truth and end up with losing him, because he feels betrayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

29 March 2016 (M - So I had this crush and I found his boyfriend on online. I started talking to his boyfriend but used him to get info on his now ex. As it turns out me and him click I really like him as a friend and now after nearly 4 months of talking I feel bad...

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