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Online dating: Help and advice

I'm 16 and online dating. He's 2-3 years older. What did his weird remark about me mean?

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31 August 2015 (F - Hi guys. Just wanna ask your opinions too. I've met this guy about 2-3 years older than me and we're texting and stuff and we're just friends. He's really nice. We are also on the same chat site But the thing is we don't talk that often, let...

Am I totally crazy for "loving" someone I've never seen, and who lives in another country, and he has a Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

31 August 2015 (M - Ok, this will be a long story so forgive me. So, I am a 20 year old gay male and I've played this online game for years now and like 2 months ago I met 2 really nice people, a male and a female. Over these 2 months I've grown pretty close to them,...

Online dating. Is me asking her when we will get together a bad thing? She will not give me a solid answer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

30 August 2015 (M - I have been in a online relationship for quite sometime now and I wont say it has been easy, I have made a few mistakes and put our trust on thin ice so she has a hard time trusting me. We have been working on this together very diligently and duri...

Met her online, but now she's cited health reasons for discontinuing any further contact. What else could I have done? Is my hurt reasonable in the circumstances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 August 2015 (M - I posted a personal ad on a dating site. A girl from London contacted me, said she was very interested in me and perhaps progressing things further; and even despite the fact she lived 500 miles away from, she regularly visited my city to see frie...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

27 August 2015 (F - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

She looked completely different when we met. Were my expectations too high? Do you think I should give it some time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 August 2015 (F - I don't want this to sound horrible but here it goes I met a woman my age on a dating site and well...when we met she didn't look how I expected. What I mean by this is she looked a lot better in her pics on the dating site and on FaceBook. W...

Think online date is fake how do I tell him I know

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 August 2015 (F - im on a dating site and have been talking to a guy for a while but he keeps making lame excuses as and when to meet. he claimed he was coming bk from a sea side as his holiday was ending last saturday he picked the date but kept saying he was stuck ...

Why do I get cold feet and let good guys get away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

25 August 2015 (F - Hi - I am in my late 30s, still good looking - but obviously don't meet as many men as I used to. I wasn't looking for love - but suddenly through Facebook, this gorgeous guy from years ago, started chatting me up. I played it down with him - ...

Is there something wrong with ruling someone out if you don't feel instant chemistry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

25 August 2015 (F - I met a genuinely nice guy on an online dating site and we've gone on two dates. I had to psyche myself up for both of these dates because a) I haven't been on a date in a while and b) I didn't feel any attraction when I looked at his profile ...

How can my boyfriend be so unreasonable? He has the nerve to be angry because I slept with someone before him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

24 August 2015 (F - I'm having a huge argument with my boyfriend and I'd like some advice on how to handle it. About a month before I ever met him I was dating quite a bit, we met each other on a dating site so he was quite aware that I was dating people before I ...

Should I give away my virginity to an online stranger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

24 August 2015 (F - I have been holding out long enough. I am tired of dating guys that as of lately has led to nowhere (trust, I know when to exit the relationship-if you called that). I'm managing to stay focused on my career. Just received a promotion last week. Not ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

23 August 2015 (M - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

Should I give him another chance? Or tell him to jog on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

23 August 2015 (F - i'd like to see what people will say . i was supposed to go on a date from an online date , we've been speaking for 3 month . he cancelled twice ( one reason was he forgot it was his dads birthday and another his niece broke her arm and he took ...

Fiance on dating/sex website

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 August 2015 (F - I have found out my partner is on a dating website well its more like a website for people to meet up and have sex. The thing is he's 24 and its for people over 40! I seen it on his emails and couldn't quite believe it (he uses my phone to ...

Is this guy a keeper or a loser?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

18 August 2015 (F - Hello. I met a guy over the internet who is said to be a guy i used to go to school with his cousin. It started by me seeing the guy on my ex classmate's profile picture then i asked him to hook me up. He gave me his number then it went on from the...

Am I appearing to be too eager, via my texting actions, considering he never initiates a text conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

16 August 2015 (F - I hooked up with someone via tinder. Met twice; sex once. Both agreed to continue no strings. Both like each other. Think I like him more. I don't want this to be a short term sex thing more long term friends where he continues to see me as a frie...

Is online date getting ahead of himself with me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

15 August 2015 (F - hi everyone, ive joined a dating site and have been talking to one particular man for 2 month and we are meeting next week . the thing is i think hes pinning all his hopes on me . he messages me and calls me sexy (im far from that ) he also tells me ...

Is our relationship over? He blocked me and then he unblocked me. But he is not initiating any conversation with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

15 August 2015 (F - My boyfriend blocked me both on facebook and whatsapp after he claimed that he need time to make-up his mind on wheretheir he wants me or his EX in June. Now in August he unblocked me and never initiates conversation? What is the meaning of blocking ...

Why is he wary about expressing his feelings to me.?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

15 August 2015 (F - Hello i was chatting with my boyfriend whom i met on a dating site we have been chatting for 3 months and live in the same country but have not met yet .His subscription ended so he asked for my contacts so that we continue out of the site. One d...

I have been chatting with a girl I suspect is a well-known athlete. Should I reveal my suspicion or let her reveal that to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

12 August 2015 (M - I met a wonderful girl online. We chatted a lot about things dear to us like our hobbies, our pets, our experiences and our views on life. After a few times chatting I gleaned enough info from her to realize that she is actually sort of a celeb...

Should I continue ignoring her or should I explain her that I'm not in for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

11 August 2015 (M - hi cupid, I am in a sort of a dilemma here. Well, there is a lass that I know around my campus for over two years and about two months ago, we started talking more over social media (whatsapp,facebook etc). I always felt that she really liked me...

In these last four days was it impossible to meet for one meal? Is she playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

11 August 2015 (M - Hello,well hear goes,I've been talking to this woman on a dating site for two years, we finally met a month ago. Went great been texting,almost every day since,but a few days after we met, she went down south for three weeks, I didn't text her for...

Is it too much for me to ask him to delete his Tinder account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

10 August 2015 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for half a year now. Before he met me, he used Tinder to search for partners. After we got together, he deleted the app. I told him deleting the app does not mean deleting his account. He says his Discove...

How do I decipher the confusing actions of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

7 August 2015 (F - hello.. i'm pretty confused right now. I broke up with my ex for a month now, we rarely talked on the phone, most contact we have had was via email and probably like once or twice a day.. He asked me to phone him yesterday for just a general c...

Hot and cold? playing hard to get? Does this guy like me? Or just loves me as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

6 August 2015 (F - Hello, here is a guy at my college that i've met him in a party. He started adding me on social medias. And he also texted me alot and asked for my number 3 times until i gave it to him. He would flirt with me a lot and compliments me. He also som...

I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. Do I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

5 August 2015 (F - hy..its been five weeks to our relation..we stay in different countries..and never met...he promised to come n take me with him...but its two weeks he's gone for an emergency n he's no calling at all..n even msg hardly he does...but I really love ...

Should our second date be dinner at his place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

4 August 2015 (F - A few days ago I had a great first date with a guy I met online. We talked for hours then he invited me to his place to hang out a little more. Once we got there of course we ended up making out, but I didn't let things go any further (I had my ...

Am I crazy for considering writing to her on that app and saying that I miss talking with her!? Why might she have just gone cold on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

3 August 2015 (F - Just to introduce myself; I’m 22, female, gay and from Ireland. I got talking to a Swedish girl who was living in Ireland for a while on a dating app a few months ago. At first I didn’t take much notice, it was just like any other girl messaging me ...

Online dating - why do women never reply to email?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

3 August 2015 (M - I admit I've tried online dating because it's convenient and saves a lot of time and creates a certain comfort level for people because a person can always choose not to respond and feel no pressure. My problem is nobody responds. When I send a ...

Is this woman way out of my league?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

2 August 2015 (M - Hello, I've been talking to this woman for two years, she is 62, am 59, we finally met , a month ago, it went really good, we have been texting each other all most every day, but only on the dating site, I have gave her my number, but she only texts ...

Worried I'll disappoint him. How can I explain to him that I'm not very experiened? That laziness during lovemaking is not the issue.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

2 August 2015 (F - So I have this guy that I have been seeing for a few months now! Its not a LDR but we do live almost two hours from each other and with work commitments and other things we have only seen each other three times but we talk every single day! W...

Smitten for my online date. What should I do, wait for him, hoping he may text some day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

2 August 2015 (F - Please help, I met this guy via a dating app. He's 40. We met once and slept at the second date. We both liked each other but I'm new to this and newly divorced and he's very seasoned. I clearly seemed to eager and after he didn't reply to 3 of my ...

Is my online date the real deal? His suspicious behavior is concerning me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

2 August 2015 (F - ok , i was due to go on a date yesterday with a guy from a dating site. I have been chatting with him for over 2 months but he cancelled last minute - the time we were supposed to meet. this is the 2nd time he has cancelled on me. I'm finding th...

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