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Online dating: Help and advice

Should I include her in my future or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (F) - About 6 months ago i met this really great girl through the internet. We met on a dating site, but we were there just to find people to chat with (wasn't strictly at dating site) because we had both just come to terms with our sexuality. An...

What do guys in their 25's think, and how do they think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I need some help from the guys, girls can help too. My question is what do guys in their 25s think, and how do they think? I am very close to this guy, we talk over msn almost everynight, and everybody knows that we are very close friends. To the ...

My 'perfect' man with a girlfriend....Is he giving me signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hello newbie here!! I have been single for over a year now and recently been email/facebook flirting with a guy who is quite local to me. He instigated it by emailing me first off (approx 1 month ago). I originally know him from university altho...

Should I be worried about the girls he chats to on the pc or should I just brush it under the carpet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Hi, any suggestions or help would be gratefully appreciated. My partner and I have been together for 3 yrs and had a baby son 4 mths ago. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do, mainly to do with money as we own a house together and...

Split up after I joined a dating site, but I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - How do I get over my ex? We went out for five years and I would have given the world for him. Things have been a bit rocky for a while now and we had a blazing row about 8 weeks ago. basically he hadn't spent any time with me for weeks as we dont ...

I think my husband is having a cyber affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having a cyber affair from his work computer which I cannot access. He is on travel, and appears online claiming to be working very late at night. How can I go about seeing that he is telling the truth or not? ...

I don't want to tell him I like him. Not yet...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Hi! I really need some help. I kind of like this guy...He is soooo cute, tall, green eyes...He is also charming and smart, funny, etc... We have been flirting for a while but I don't know if he likes me too... I don't want to tell him I like hi...

I met a guy on a dating site. I'm nervous. Am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am looking for some advice. My partner left me 3 months ago when I was ill and although I have my own friends, i joined an internet friendship and dating site for company and interaction but for friendship only. Howe...

Should I stay or go....internet cheating???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I recently got back into a relationship with my ex. We've known each other for 3 years and were apart for 6 months. We've been back together for 3 months and everything was going so well until I looked at the cookies on my computer and noticed ...

I want us to live together but how can that happen if he is reluctant to even see me?? He says he feels pressurised, I think he is not used to being in a serious relation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now. He's 23 and i'm 22. I met him online and we met almost instantly despite me living in Manchester and him in London. 8 Months in to the relationship I decided to move down here to be with him. ...

How do I phrase it so he knows he is losing a good woman - does he even care??? Do I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Please give me some honest advice - I am with a guy and I have written before - we have been together three years this past week he has been acting weird - I was upset with him cause he was using the phone I pay for to text his ex-fiance - Anyway, I ...

Do you believe that he was genuine when he said that he cares about me and he likes me? Why do you think he is avoiding me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - There's this guy that I really like, lets call him D. We met on an online game. I felt that I had a connection with him, so we exchanged pictures and email addresses (well, he didn't have one before so he made one especially for me). He's from ...

We've been texting each other and are now ready to meet in person. Any tips to dismiss the awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - ok I've been talking to this guy that goes to my school. He is sorta cute. He's really nice and I'm pretty sure he likes me and I like him too. We have no classes together but have the same lunch and for about a week or maybe even two now I'm been ...

My blind date - does instant chemistry every happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - about to meet a girl on a blind date soon, we have chatted online, not on the phone yet, and we seem to have somethings in common, advice for a sucessful blind date? we are meeting for coffe, thats it, short and simple. I've met girls via the ...

Why does he love me hot and heavy for awhile, only to be cold to me later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I met this guy who is my same age (45) on internet dating service. We had everything in common, get along great. He pursued me, and acted crazy about me. He has told me he loves me many times. He surprised me and bought me a razor phone, and I dont ...

Is my hubby having an affair with this woman on his myspace page?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I need some help I Have been with my hubby for 8 years and just got married last year. He has a myspace account and there was this girl leaving him message about how fine he was and she had him as her number on there and i asked him who this was he ...

I haven't seen him for a year but we email. Should I call him and what do I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - We have been keeping in touch by email, but I want to call him and I'm pretty nervous, I call him the other day and I just was like chicken s**** and pretend being some else. I felt so bad I couldn't find the courage to talk to him, cuz I didn't ...

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend visits local dating sites? Is he bored with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - So one day my boyfriend asks me to go onto his computer and check to see if he had gotten any new emails, so I went onto his computer and checked it for him. Also he had his internet up and so I just clicked on it. I noticed that his history ...

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with...

Hard-to-get or hard-to-pay-attention or just plain ol' uninterested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I finally caved and put up an online profile at the behest of my friends who swear by internet dating....and low and behold, I found someone! We are in related professions, attended college in the same area and now live in the same town, we have ...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

I met him online, does he just see me as a sex fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up ba...

He is eager to recreate the one night stand, is this normal interest? Surprised by the repeated invitations!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most amazing ...

I feel guilty that during the while he left me alone I had online sex chats, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi guys.wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago....

I'm beginning to lose the urge to want to be intimate with my boyfriend of 7 years, and I find myself attracted to a young lady in the net! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been living together for the past 7 years. i love him, and am very used to have him in my life, but i'm beginning to lose the urge to want to get intimate with him. we're very busy with our work...sometimes we don't even ...

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex ...

We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...

My mate wants to talk to this boy to find out is he likes me, but he is never online.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hey ok i like this lad and its getting really confusing on whether he likes me or not. My mate who reckons that this lad lieks me has got his msn and stuff and we have come up with ways to see if we can egt him to admit it to my mate. But there two ...

A girl keeps messaging my husband - should I be suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupids, my hubby was on facebook when a chat popped up from 1 of his friends saying 'can u chat?'. He quickly got rid of the message and acted like he didnt care. A few mins later his messenger rang as it was this girl again but he just ...

He deleted me after he found out I was his next door neighbor! Do I just leave him alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i really like my next door neighbour and i have done for nearly a year now, last sunday i spoke to him for the first time on msn but he didnt know it was me and we were speaking for 4 hours and we swapped numbers then when he found out ...

Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every ni...

Why did my online boyfriend delete my photos on his myspace profile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i have an american boyfriend, and i am from philippines. im 24 and he's 20. our relationship is still going on but always argue with something. im just really curious, after 5 months he deleted my photos on his myspace profile. but still says there ...

Things have gone downhill since we last met! What is happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - ok i met this guy about three months ago we chat all the time whether it online or on the phone and we txt now and again.. we have lots in common even play the same online games..he came up for a visit a few months ago and things were good we ...

I would like it to be more than an online friendship.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i've been speaking to this guy online for alomst 2 years, and earlier this year he told me he liked me, i like him too but i said it would be too complicated because of the distance and our personal circumstances. I'm 20 years old and he is 24, ...

Why did my boyfriend keep naked photos on his phone of a girl he possibly cheated on me with? Did I do well in secretly deleting them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, Ive got a bit of a worry on my hands. Ive now been with my boyfriend for 9 months, after the first few months, or during i should say, he was very on/off with me and he hurt me a lot as he never really made any time for me during the week, but ...

What determines if a guy replies to an email or not? (several questions inside)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - What determines whether a great guy friend replies back to a woman's email the same day. Whether he sees her email and then replies to her after 2 days. What is it when a guy sees 2 emails from a woman in 10 days and decides to reply to both of ...

He told me to move on, but I'm finding it hard and I'm sure he still cares.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - last september i got chatting to a guy online that i met through a dating site we eventually met and have done six times as he works abroad and isnt in the country much. Anyway wen we first met we met three times which two of the times we stayed in ...

I pardoned the fact he engaged in sexual talks with women online, but I feel insecure and jealous now, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Just before my boyriend left to return to his home country, i found he was talking sexually to women on internet. He begged me to give him another chance, and i dont want to lose him over that...however, im insecure and jealous now and cant trust ...

Please help me help my sister!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Heya. My sister, Steph (16) met a guy on the net last may, and she is obsessed with him and wants to meet him! Im really worried that he will turn out to be someone other than what he is saying he is! Please help me help my sister!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...

I worried about my internet boyfriend emailing other girls! What do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we met on the internet and in person only once.Recently he asked me to check his mail on the internet while he was away and I found a message from him to another girl and he was wanting her ...

Should I hang on to my online guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto thi...

How do I decide my feelings about this MSN relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - right there this lad who i know likes me and we talk a lot on msn but when he rang me the other day it felt so awkward i think its because i am not sure about my feelings towards him will we only ever have an msn relationship and how can i decide on ...

How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ...

My online guy is flying to come see me! I'm so nervous, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - i met someone online and we have gotten very close and we have everything in common....and he is planning to fly over to where i live and come meet me for the very first time...and i am nervous...what should i do please help me!...

When you meet an online partner in person do you rediscover yourselves or do you carry on from the present stage??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 27 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm just wondering if anyone that has been in an online relationship for several months and then met, does the honeymoon phase return when you meet in person? Or is it just like being with someone you've been with forever? than...

How can I tell him that he shouldn't expect me to be ready for anything sexual? My online date thinks I'm joking!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

15 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I've met online, we've been talking on messengers and on the phone for about 8 months now, and now we've been talking about meeting. But, he seems to think that we'll have sex when he visits. He knows I'm a virgin, and that ...

Met him online and we've spoken to meet in person. Problems are his age and long distance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - I'm 25 and gay, and I met a guy online, who I really connected with. The problems are, he's 18, and lives halfway across the country. We've spoken of meeting, and I think it's mutual that we both want to. I'm still apprehensive, due to his age, but ...

Online he really does seem like my dream man but I’m not sure if I should accept his invitation to meet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - There’s this man I really like and I haven't even met him yet!! We talk to each other through email and he seems so witty and it's like his personality shines through his writing. We first began contact in December because he sent an email to me b...

Part of me feels I should telephone to explain, but the other part wants him to pursue me... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Met a guy on an internet chat site. We've been in contact for nearly six months,nothing heavy, extremely casual.But due to his work commitments and the distance it has been difficult to meet up. Today he texted me and said he was going to be coming ...