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What am I doing to not want men to talk to me or want me romantically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 January 2017 (F - I am 21 and still never had a boyfriend or asked out. It really upsets me that guys almost never start a conversation with me. I have only had 2 cute guys reasonably around my age start a conversation with me and that was a while ago. Now, only old ...

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....

My boyfriend messaged another girl on OkCupid. Was this just a momentary lapse in judgment or should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - Ok so here goes.... I need advice you guys I'm at a lost with what to do. I (F/26) met my boyfriend (M/36) this past June. When we met I was dating my ex of five years. I broke up with him and two weeks later started dating this new guy I'll cal...

Could it be her using fake profiles?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - I would like your opinions about what has happened four times in the last four months, i have been on a dating site for few years now, I've had two girlfriends,so the one ghost me a year ago, I've ask a few women friends of mine about this, well I ...

How can I get rid of our anxieties and start to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - I really like this guy I met online. We have spoken a lot and he's asked to meet me. I am extremely shy and it (has) taken me a while to get comfortable with meeting new people. Sometimes it stops me meeting people because I get so worried about ...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

He still has a dating profile up ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - My new boyfriend ( of 2 week ) still has a dating profile online , hes open about it and says he has 'friends' on there . should i tell him he needs to prove theyre friends by showing me the conversations hes having or demand he deletes his profile ...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Uncertain what the silence could mean

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 January 2017 (M - I met this woman on OKCupid and we started writing to each other. I noticed that she logged in only once a week but she did respond whenever she logged in. The messages were also good. If I wrote 2 paragraphs her reply was also 2 paragraphs, if I ...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

We've Texted, met, dated. What do you think is going on with him? 3

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Meet this guy 40 like me, tons of stuff in common brillent chemistry. We've been talking for about 5wks now, been on 2 dates. He calls me not only to set up dates but to talk. He texts every morning to wish me a good day etc. He texted me yesterda...

Why in the world can't I move on?! ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I have been through a couple of serious breakups in my life but for some reason the one that happened recently has seemingly destroyed me. I dated someone for a very short period of time albeit knowing him for over 12 years. We were only together...

Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . ...

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

Is he not interested or just bad at texting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Recently I've been talking to a guy, we live a long distance from each other so our main form of communication is texting. At first we texted frequently and the conversation flowed. However after a few weeks he kept taking longer and longer to ...

I did the most stupid thing I've ever done. How to repair the damage? How can I make it up to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - Im an idiot for what i did . Theres 2 guys , one texts a lot and makes a lot of effort through texts the other could make me wait a few days for a reply . the one who texts me a lot i see a future with but he drags his feet wanting to spend ti...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

27 December 2016 (F - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

How Long Do I Wait? Does he want a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - We have been talking for about 5 weeks now. We are about a 2 hours drive away from each other. We are not in a relationship, just been talking. He has already said he loves me we have sexted and we are planning on meeting up soon. I want to...

I feel fed up not knowing where I stand!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - I met a guy 4 years ago through a walking group. We were both interested in each other but for some reason we never got together. I told him I liked him and he had some sort of anxiety attack and panicked in front of me saying he wasn't interested ...

Do girls start to like guys if they spend this much time together? Or will I remain as just a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 December 2016 (M - Hi everyone. I have question about this girl I like. Main question is does she like me? Background info about the situation. I have moved to a new country 6 months ago. I met this girl 4 months ago at a meetup. Meetup is where you go meet rand...

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