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Online dating: Help and advice

How should I message the guy I like ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

7 February 2016 (F - Hi ive just joined a dating site and ive seen someone i fancy on it ,its not quite as simple as that, this person isnt a stranger to me hes like an acquaintance ive always had a liking of him we spoke a few times over the years . im quite a very ...

Would a guy invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

4 February 2016 (F - Hello everyone! I am wondering, if a guy would invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex (my fear)? I don't know him in real life, we met online. He's charming and all that stuff. We've been texting about ...

How do I tell my family about this unconventional relationship I have with someone I haven't officially met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

3 February 2016 (F - I recently just entered an "unconventional" relationship with someone "Mika" I knew for about a year now. We met through my best friend "Jay". Jay and I met pretty much online, we met in person roughly a year or so into our friendship. Online, he ...

Is my premise possible? Is it decent folks, who try to live right, who are the people who get screwed over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

2 February 2016 (F - Maybe it's because I am feeling really low these days- but increasingly feel that it's the decent folks and the ones who try to live right that get screwed over. The lying, cheating, selfish ones live peacefully. How come?...

I met him on Tinder and am wondering what he is aiming for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 February 2016 (F - Hello everyone! I need some advice. I've met a guy on Tinder (an app that has a certain reputation) a week ago. He was quite friendly, charming and caring. We talked about our hobbies, school (we're enrolled in university) and just general stu...

On average how many weeks should yu message someone online before suggesting meeting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

1 February 2016 (F - I am a gay female,retrying online dating. On average how many weeks should yu message someone online before suggesting meeting? I have met people before online but the site I'm on now is different. We were matched 3.5 weeks ago and ha...

If he's really interested wouldn't he make more of an effort to see me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

31 January 2016 (F - Dear Cupid, I've been out of the dating world for awhile so looking for advice. I met a man on-line, he lives fairly close to me, has a good job, I know he is really single, my age, no children, but the only days he would see me would be on Wedne...

What are your opinions about the dating site plenty of fish?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 January 2016 (F - What do you think of plenty of fish? I have met a few nice chaps of it , but I have been trolled and bullied and told I was told I was overweight, ugly and a skank by random guys on pof, I am a normal good looking and a UK size 10. Im just getting ...

How do I dump my online match?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

29 January 2016 (F - I matched with a guy on Tinder and we started talking. He was really nice and our personalities clicked. But when we met in person there was no sexual attraction. Also, the fact that he's 31 and has never had a relationship longer than 1 month kinda ...

He's moving too fast and its turning me off. Do I just end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

28 January 2016 (F - Hi all, a bit of advice is required here please. I met a guy on an online dating app and we've been speaking for about a week. He told me I'm the first person he's been speaking to since his 11 year relationship broke down so I appreciate he is new ...

I like him but am not attracted to him. Will attraction grow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

28 January 2016 (F - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm after a bit of relationship advice. I met and have started dating a man through an online dating forum. We get on like a house on fire - same sense of humour, same take on life. We're both quite quirky so it's extremel...

My date was rude about his ex wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 January 2016 (F - I have been talking to a guy online for a month. Yesterday he said his ex wife had put on a lot of weight after two children going up to a UK size 14 (12 USA) and that he struggled to find her attractive and things went downhill after that. I said ...

Why did my guy betray me and stop being loyal while I was busy supporting my Dad during Dad's terminal illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

26 January 2016 (F - I have had the worst year of my life due to my dad's terminal illness. This has took a lot out of me waiting for the outcome to happen. I had what I thought was an amazing man supporting me. I've now happened to find out that through all these ba...

Am I afraid of being happy? Should I nip this relationship in the bud or let it grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

25 January 2016 (F - Background: I haven't been in a relationship since I was in a multi-year-long tumultuous relationship in high school (my first and only). It was a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I have avoided relationships for almost six year...

Online guy has me confused. I think he wants me to pursue him even though he gives nothing back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

19 January 2016 (F - Hi again all, the online dating drama continues! So I've been messaging a man online for a couple of weeks and he seemed really nice. He told me upfront he's looking for a relationship, as am I, but his actions since then have me confused and ...

Tried to help my friend but her mum's furious

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

18 January 2016 (F - My best friend was dating this jerk and I told her she should dump him the first day they started dating. Two days later he dumped her. He said, "I know this will not work out. I'm still in love with... (who is another best friend who has a ...

Why won't online disappearing boyfriend block me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

15 January 2016 (F - I met this guy through a site about over a year ago. After our first exchange of a few messages, he disappeared. Then after a few months he appeared again then disappeared. He appeared again but this time messaged properly and wanted to get to. ...

Would you get mad at your partner if he or she only replied "thank you!" a day after you sent a naughty text message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

14 January 2016 (F - Would you get mad at your BF of three years who is in South Africa right now visiting family if you sent him a sexually explicit message and it took him over a day to reply to it? Not only that but when he does reply it's short? The message de...

Am I an idiot to keep responding to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

13 January 2016 (F - Met a guy from a dating site 2 years ago. Met him on and off throughout and we just meet for sex. last time i saw him was about two months ago. I would of liked him to of wanted more then sex but i know he doesn't. The sex is alright but i know he ...

My first date from hell! What shall I do next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

13 January 2016 (M - MY FIRST DATE FROM HELL So I was chatting to a lady for a few weeks. I met up with her 30 miles away from where I live and we went for a meal. Everything was grate and we got on really well and had a laugh, we went to her local for a drink afte...

Should I go with the good guy or do I stay where I'm comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

12 January 2016 (F - About a month ago, my life got a little messy. I have been in a faithful, committed relationship for four years. My boyfriend and I have an apartment together, we own three cats and a dog. We've had a long history. We've been through everything ...

How do I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

12 January 2016 (F - I have a HUGE crush on a guy I met in Tinder. We went on one date and it was MAGICAL. We have been speaking for a long time, and I have so much respect for the person I have come to know on a virtual level. I am attracted to him mind, heart and ...

Now I know should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

11 January 2016 (F - Hi, I met this guy online. We been talking 5 months. He lives 2000 miles away. He wanted to come visit me however I have roommate so we mutually decided I go visit him. I was under the impression we were dating monogamously. Come to find out, he's...

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