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How can I tell online date not to be so clingy

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31 July 2015 (F - hi ,im planning on meeting my online date this weekend we get on and everything has been going good , the only thing thats 'doing my head in' is he messages me to say morning and then couple of messages through the day and a chat at night then its ...

Used a fake name on a dating site. Then chatted there with a great guy. How do I break this news to this great guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

29 July 2015 (F - Hi all. In a bit of a small situation that I'm tryin to get out of and I would appreciate a little help. I joined a dating site last week. I started chatting to this guy who is great. Exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth since. Thing is ...

Shall I try to reconnect with this guy who I've had a big crush on for a long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

29 July 2015 (F - About 7 years ago I met someone at work that I felt a very strong connection with. Being a very shy and introverted person, I'm usually never the one to initiate conversation with people, but with him, I knew when I met him that I had to talk to him ...

What's an assertive, direct, funny response to their hot and cold dating behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

29 July 2015 (M - A recurring situation is I'll go on a date with anothe gay guy. thing seem to go well. They'll send me a thankyou message after, and continue small talk here and there. I'm pretty direct and will try to lock off a second date, thats when they st...

Husband on website talking about strap on sex, blood in his underwear! Am I just deluding myself into thinking he is not cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

28 July 2015 (F - So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no ...

Should I be cautious? I am not sure about his Tinder past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

27 July 2015 (F - I have been chatting to a guy online and we seem quite similar in our outlook. He said he had a longterm relationship and then went on the dating app tinder and slept with 5-6 women as only wanted something casual but realised he wanted more. ...

Is she trying to tell me that she is available? Or did she just want some consolation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

27 July 2015 (M - Hello dearcupids, 2 years back, i started chatting with a high school crush in facebook. She was 2 years junior to me. I thought she already has a bf, so i didn't flirt with her. I had normal friendly conversation. She replied to my every ...

Did potential date over react to my question

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

26 July 2015 (F - i joined a dating site a few month ago and have been chatting to a guy for a couple of month. everything is going well and we plan on meeting this week. we have since exchanged phone numbers and have emailed each other a couple of pictures and when ...

Did I cut him off too quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

24 July 2015 (F - Ok so i was dating i had met a guy online. We had been dating for around two weeks and from the first we clicked instantly. We had gotten along so well that we were speaking everyday throughout the day he had told his family and friends about me and ...

I feel he's not the man I thought he was. Should I still travel to meet up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

21 July 2015 (F - So I have been talking to a guy I met on a date site for 3 years now. We live over 2000 miles apart. We always tried to make plans to finally see one another in person but they never came through for one reason or another. He skyped with me once and ...

Should I tell him that I'm really 50? I lied on the dating website!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

21 July 2015 (F - Hi Friends here I have been dating a guy for about 2 months. We see each other every week and text everyday. We originally met each other on a casual dating site...and i guess both of us do not expect that that we are so attracted to each...

Why can't a man his age be upfront about things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

20 July 2015 (F - I recently joined a dating site, match.com, I met a guy who was in his early 50s, I am 40. We met 5 times in all and the last time we met he invited me over to spend the night, he was flirty and I took this as I sign he wanted things to go further,...

Would it be so horrible to have sex on a second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

19 July 2015 (F - Met this great guy online, like me he's been a single a year. We have a lot in common and have spent hours laughing on the phone for the time we've known each other. Our first date was great, we were comfortable with one another almost right away. ...

Are all online dating & social sites full of men who are players if they suddenly dump you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

15 July 2015 (F - Are all online dating and social sites full of men who are players if they suddenly dump you? Or is it they just get bored? Hi - I have read so many various problems on here over the last few weeks about guys who chat up girls online and the...

This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 July 2015 (F - Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...

Based on his past actions, am I being too judgemental here, or is this a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

15 July 2015 (F - I have been chatting to a guy who was married for 15 years and has been divorced five years and who has two thirds of childcare responsibility as his ex wife has a mental health condition. He told me he had an affair when the two children wer...

We broke up and he was very upset. In view of his hurtful actions should I contact him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

15 July 2015 (F - Hello, I broke up with my boyfriend in April, this I thought was going to be the man I was going to marry but things just got different towards the end. I felt he wasnt putting any effort as much as he used to. The more he did this the more I ...

What can I do? My Boyfriend's obsession with hot girls on Facebook causing problems

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

15 July 2015 (F - So this is more of a rant than a question, but I would love to hear some other peoples' opinions or similar experiences to mine. I'm 25 years old and my 34-year-old boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. I know, it's a young relationsh...

Have I messed things up with guy I met online?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

14 July 2015 (F - Hey guys..... So I met a guy online and I'm totally new to the online dating thing, and not sure If I'm entirely comfortable........ So we went on a couple of dates and things seemed to be going well, he said he liked me and I do really like ...

Guy sending me a girl's photo? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

13 July 2015 (F - Hello, so here is a guy that I saw at a party then he added me later on social media and talked to me. At first he kept asking normal question and convo lasted for a 15 minutes maximum. He talked to me again after a week or so and also did the...

Why is my boyfriend allowing his parents to control his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

13 July 2015 (F - So...I met this guy online about 7 months ago. We hit it off as soon as we met in person about a month later, and the rest has been history, except for a few insecurities that I am starting to have. He's my age (24..25 this year), and is gr...

Have I just been very naive in thinking that this girl genuinely liked me in spite of the fact that she has three or four other guys on the go or was it reasonable for me to assume that she had a genuine interest in me because of her explicitly sayin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

12 July 2015 (M - Hi everyone, so this is perhaps not a very complicated situation (or maybe it is) to call but I just want feedback as to whether or not I have been a bit unreasonable or naive in the following interaction or whether I am justified in my feelings. ...

Due to her being away we can only talk until she returns in September. How can I get her off my mind while she's away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 20 days ago

11 July 2015 (M - I recently went on a few dates with a girl I like. She is going away for two months and agreed we could pick up where we left off in September. I told her the long hiatus would be difficult for me, and she agreed we could talk over this time. I k...

Should I contact him? Will I look too keen if I contact him first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

10 July 2015 (F - Good evening I have recently met a man and we have been on two days out together - both of them he invited me to. We got on really well and he said that he liked me very much. We live about 80 miles away from each other, so can't see each o...

I discovered he was on sex sites before we met, what would you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

9 July 2015 (F - Hey everyone..... Just looking for some advice in regards to my situation please :) After a very very bad relationship, I remained single for the past 5 years or so..... Basically to build myself back up and also I just didn't have the time or...

Why didn't this man take his chance to take things further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

7 July 2015 (F - Why did he lead me on and then vanish? I recently met a man who was 51 on a dating site! He was consistent in his chase, then the spooning pics started and on our 4th date he gave all the signals that he was thinking of inviting me to spend the nig...

I didn't handle things well with this girl should I even try to contact her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

7 July 2015 (M - About this time last year I started speaking to a girl on an online dating website. We talked pretty freely and I was genuinely starting to like her. We had begun to make preparations to meet for a date, when I got an offer to move abroad for ...

Should I wait for him to message me subsequent to Tinder date? Or can I message him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

6 July 2015 (F - I went on a Tinder date today. Having been on a couple before that weren't brilliant, I was wary. However, this date seemed to go really well. We met for coffee, which he paid for and we chatted for a few hours. When we met he told me I looked great ...

Shall I just cut my losses? When I talk about us moving forward she just blanks me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

6 July 2015 (M - Hi all. I am a guy of 32,I have been speaking to a girl of 25 for the past seven weeks whom I met online. We have met up and get on brilliantly. She is funny and beautiful. Me being me, I can't get out of my head something she said when we sta...

Chatted to two different lads. 1st one - do I wait for him or not? 2nd one: do I wait for him to set up a meet-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 26 days ago

5 July 2015 (F - I have started chatting to some boys. One I have met through a social networking site- we speak over the site, but says he is too busy to meet up for another couple of weeks. Do I wait for him or not? I was also on a night out and met a lad who I'...

Is this man serious, just being nice, or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

4 July 2015 (F - Hi, iam on a dating website for 1 month now i met an Italian man who lives in my city his 49 years old i checked his profile and he checked mine then i started sending him messages like nice photo just normal messages. Actually he was the only man ...

We were once close. Why do you think he is re-connecting online now, after all these years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

1 July 2015 (F - I was friendly with a man for 5 years - we were both divorced and single. We became very close very quickly and I developed feelings for him and we became intimate within the first 6 months. He then told me that he didn't want a relationship w...

How do I deal with these negative emotions (lack of trust) while engaging in a possible relationship with this new guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

1 July 2015 (F - I have severe trust issues due to an absolutely HORRIBLE 5 year real-life relationship that I got out of 4 months ago. 2 months ago I met this man on xbox while playing a game and we hit off instantly. The connection we share is unlike anything I've ...

Cheating online boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

1 July 2015 (F - I met a guy on a dating site in another state in July 2012 who lived on the other side of the country. Well After September and talking everyday on the phone we said we'd be exclusive and 'date'. We chatted and talked everyday on the phone, sent ...

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