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Online dating: Help and advice

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

30 April 2015 (M - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

He's fine in person but is awful at texting!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

30 April 2015 (F - I was just hoping for some general advice. My boyfriend is incredible, and I'm head over heels for my relationship. We're both in college, so I know we're young, but I've never been happier with a significant other. He treats me like a princess. The ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

30 April 2015 (M - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

I want to say something to him and at least find out if theres any reason why he thought it was ok to make a plan and then disappear.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 April 2015 (F - I met a guy online several weeks ago and we went out a few times and had a great time. Recently we had plans to go out on Tuesday but then he cancelled last minute, apologized and said it was because he was asked to pick up an extra shift at work ...

Online dating is making me a nervous wreck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 April 2015 (F - I joined an online dating site and have gotten a few messages. Most of them are "hi" or "hey", not never interesting in my opinion. But, I came across someone with an awesome profile, seemed just as outgoing as me, VERY attractive, so I said "why ...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 April 2015 (F - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

Do you think we will work out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

28 April 2015 (F - I recently met this guy online. He seems like an honest decent man. We have been talking to each other for only 2-3 days but I think I already have a huge crush on him. Well I think he likes me too; he'd like to say something more about him when I ...

She told me she needs to be alone for a while. Did I come on too strong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

28 April 2015 (M - Hi folks looking for some advice. I started seeing this girl "R" in feburary after meeting online- we went for a meal and clicked right away- we talked for over 7 hours and when it was time to go we shared a kiss which was truley amazing. A fe...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 April 2015 (M - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

Friendly or flirty, how to tell the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

26 April 2015 (F - Hello there I have been a member of a Facebook group for a few months. The group is for people who are interested in history and has a couple of thousand members. It's a great place to chat to people about our interests in history, share p...

Forgive and love him like before? Or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

24 April 2015 (F - I was dating a guy and I got completely involved in him. We started dating in 2011. It was a long distance relationship. In the beginning I thought it would not work but I have no idea how hard I fall for him as the time passed by. We used to talk ...

My question is should I have unprotected sex with this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

23 April 2015 (F - My boyfriend has restricted me on his facebook account so I can only see his public page he says he no longer is interested in facebook and does not use it very much -which is a lie because when I go onto facebook on my account I can click on his ...

Now that I'm not begging for his attention and constantly being available, he's accusing me of being distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

23 April 2015 (F - I'm constantly in a battle with my boyfriend about text ettiquette and his attitude to communication in general and in return he says i just seem to want all of his attention, sometimes he needs his space, sometimes he just does not want to talk. S...

Met him on tinder. Met up with him. He said some weird things about him being dangerous. Should I text him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

20 April 2015 (F - Hey! So I met this guy on tinder, I've seen him out sometimes. We started chatting a bit for like 2 weeks and saw each other when we were out but didn't talk to each other. Then he started asking me what I was doing during the evenings a coupl...

I'm annoyed with how long it takes J to text back. Would it be wrong to start dating M while dating J?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

20 April 2015 (F - I have been dating someone (lets call him J) for about 2 maybe 3 weeks, and it hasn't made progress yet. Before I started dating J,I was hooking up with a guy( lets call him M) I knew from high school, but stopped since I thought that me and J was ...

I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

19 April 2015 (F - There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

My online girlfriend got married, should I leave her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

18 April 2015 (M - Should I leave my online GF of almost 3 years, after finding out she is married just a few months ago? she has 2 children at home,and she can't really talk or email because her husband is around,and we haven't spoke by phone since January,and not a ...

Why would that girl and Mr. Admin talk about me a year after I left the site?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

15 April 2015 (F - I'm interested to know your points of view on this. Here's a little history: About two years ago, I joined a chat site where people go on to chat about movies. The admin of the site and I clicked immediately and within a few days, he made m...

Why is it so difficult to meet women on a dating site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

14 April 2015 (M - My name is Ryan and I'm wondering why it's so difficult for me to meet a woman from a dating site. I know they are being very careful cause of not knowing me well enough still I don't understand why so many of them are like that Another question I ha...

What kind of man would treat a woman who is all about him like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

13 April 2015 (F - Im hoping someone out there can help me thru this or someone reading this has been thru the same thing where I can find out what steps I should take to get over this and move on with my life: I met my fiancé online almost 3 years ago. Withi...

I've fallen deeply for a man I haven't met yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

9 April 2015 (F - I need to ask for advice about something very special and a very complicated situation. Two years ago I got divorced and after had been enduring a very tough relationship. I always knew I would eventually move on and find someone who would deserve ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 April 2015 (F - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

Text overload and being clingy may have scared him off!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

6 April 2015 (F - Hi there, I am looking for some honest advice and interested in hearing views from men as well, if possible. Basically, if a guy really genuinely likes a woman and is 'into her', during the early dating stages and she freaks him out with text ov...

He never texts me first anymore! Does he like me still?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

5 April 2015 (F - I have been seeing this man for over two months. At first, we would text all day everyday and call and video call often (him texting me first most of the time). Now it's been little over two months - he doesn't text me as often first but always...

Am I just wasting my time hoping for a long term relationship or should I give him the space to figure out what he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

5 April 2015 (F - I met a guy, who is new in the city 4 weeks ago through a dating site. He is 44 and divorced in another country nearly a year ago. On date one he told me that he wants a chance to date and meet women, but that he does not rule out a long term ...

Did I just get hot and steamy online with a married guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

4 April 2015 (F - Hi everyone, I'll try not to ramble too much. Well basically I play the online game World of Warcraft and I talk often to a guy on there who is two years younger than me. Although we are from very different social backgrounds I do enjoy talking to ...

Are these really flags or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

2 April 2015 (F - I have been corresponding with a guy I met through a dating website here in the UK. He approached me first and we have continued to email - sometimes quite lengthy and deep emails. He has been abroad on an adventure holiday in the desert for the ...

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