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Online dating: Help and advice

I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?

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18 May 2013 (F) - So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty y...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

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17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

Date asked if we could cut date short then said we'd go out for a drink but when the time came he never responded

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17 May 2013 (F) - I went on a date last week with a guy I met online. We got on well, but after a few hours he said he had to leave to go to a friend's party. He asked me if I was free the next week to go for another drink. I said yes, we arranged to meet on a ...

We agreed to be gaming friends, but I don't know how to act around him

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17 May 2013 (F) - We've been friends from online gaming for nearly 5 months, we got along so well, that strangely feelings started kicking in, after the first couple of months. But after a while the distance came between us, he lives 3 hours away, we met up a few ...

She flirts virtually, not as much in real life, I'm interested: not sure what to do

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14 May 2013 (M) - Very recently, I met a girl through a professional social network (weird, I know!). We started chatting, texting every other day, till we decided to meet. After the first meeting, I made it clear that I was interested in her romantically. (I said it ...

Had a very positive message from him on the dating site, then nothing. How long do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 May 2013 (M) - Hi there, so this story is a bit a complicated so it requires a little bit of background before I get to my question. So I transferred not long ago to the current university that I am attending. When I transferred I went to an official LGBT meeting ...

Fake profiles on match.com?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 May 2013 (M) - I'd like feedback from other guys who have used match.com. I've had a profile up for a week and already I've received quite a few winks from real hotties. I know sites do this to get gulible men to sign up so I expected one or two, but should I ...

He lied to me big time, how do I confront him with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - We've had this fling going on for 5 months, and we met online. He lives 3 hours away, but every now again we try to see each other when we could. After a big row nearly a month ago he was never really the same, after he the day before told me he ...

How do you talk to a girl you don't know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - How does someone get into a relationship when he has no friends? I've tried talking with girls on these social online sites but i find it awkward trying to start a conversation online with a person i've never met. I mean how do people do this?....

My friends are open about going on internet dating sites despite being married, yet I don't feel comfortable with this. Opinions please?

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10 May 2013 (F) - What do you think about this please. I have some friends they are a married Indian Hindu couple with a year old child. I have learnt from her that her husband goes onto Internet dating sites for fun. He was contacted by an escort who said she ...

He has wanted to do phone sex with me almost from the beginning. Now he wants sex face to face. How to discourage him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - I am a student. I have met a boy via facebook 5 months ago..and we started talking by phone as he wanted my number for helping me in my near exam as he was from the same stream as mine and was my senior. In the meantime my ex- boyfriend broke ...

Our online chats have left me feeling pretty intense. I don't want to screw up the first date!

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7 May 2013 (F) - So I'm separated for over a year and there is this guy who I know who has been separated as well for about a year. We've known each other in the past through mutual friends but barely ever spoke. I was on Facebook 4 nights ago and he commented on my ...

Is he still interested in me or is he saying this out of guilt or politeness??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - My ex who dumped me and moved interstate calls me a couple of times a week. I am getting mixed messages. When he phoned the last time we had a good chat about general stuff and he said it was really good to hear my voice and he said if I need a...

Our relationship has changed and he doesn't like me like he used to!

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4 May 2013 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for nearly 5 months, he lives 3 hours from me so we cant see each other much. (im 24 and hes 26) Our friendship has been amazing, purely of how much in common we have. We'd talk to each other every single day ...

Advice for online dating and dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - What are your tips when it comes to online dating/chatting? Pros and cons of online dating? I've tried two dating sites so far. Eharmony began with a long personality questionaire. After finishing it, you're presented with your best matches ba...

Should I love him even if I know him only in Facebook and we're not seen each other yet personally?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

3 May 2013 (M) - Hi friends, I am 17 now, boy. I just want to share my story and ask for help. Last year I met this guy(but only through Facebook). He was so far from where I am living right now but we are on the same country. When I saw his pictures I felt ...

He's 24. He was texting me. Then he just stopped. What can I do? Because I am aggrieved.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - I'm a 22 year-old woman who had been harbouring initial feelings of fondness for a man who happens to be two years senior to me. We had been Facebook friends since a long time, but had conversations once in a blue moon. A fortnight back w...

Sexy pictures? I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So what to do? Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. I need help i want to send my bf some sexy pictures of me. Problem is i don't know how to take these kind of pictures. Im a chubby girl with small breasts. I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So any ideas? I would like guy...

I'm confused if I ever liked this girl I met thru a friend or was I just using her as a shrink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

2 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 27,I was in a live-in relationship with a girl for over 3 years,my family knew about it and everyone welcomed her with open arms!I belong to a very priveldged family and with god's grace we have more that what we asked for! I loved this gir...

How to approach girl. Will I have to make a random approach on Facebook or is there a better way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 May 2013 (M) - Hey everyone, So a while ago I saw a photo from a female friend of mine on Facebook which was with her and this really attractive girl. Didn't think much of it. Turns out I saw her on the bus going home a few days ago, I couldn't approach he...

I really like this guy but just before our date I seen him walking with another women and they looked close. Should I tell him what I seen?

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1 May 2013 (F) - Hi i want to ask what to do. I met this guy online. we chat frequently (2-3days in a week). we went out 2 times. The first time it was nothing. we were just talking and having fun. he said it was fun meeting me. he asked me out on a 2nd date. on the ...

Could I fall in love with someone who is always abroad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - I have recently started doing online dating. I was just quite tired of trying to meet nice guys in clubs because it doesn't seem to be happening for me. A lot of guys were just plain sleazy and boring on the website, but I have started talking ...

From the sounds of things is this still worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - A couple of months ago, I met a guy via online dating and I have not felt this excited about someone in such a long time. I have been single for 3 years. In the early stages, we mentioned about the idea of meeting up and seeing what happens. He ...

Is he interested? I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I am ordinarily a well put together 36 year old woman but find myself in Unchartered territory. I have recently been having a flirtation with a guy (which is an alien concept as I have been on my own for a long time) in person he is ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

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29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear fr...

Desperate for sexual contact after long time single - what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Keeping it brief. Was in a 10-yr LTR that was sexless for last 5 years. My girlfriend always had a low sex drive, I loved her, decided I could cope but it eventually totalled petered out. After 5 years I couldn't cope without intimacy any more, ...

When to reveal a disability during online dating?

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26 April 2013 (M) - I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

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26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

Interracial dating question: is he the one with issues or is it me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I was on an interacial dating site as a black female born and bred in england and was approached by a white man stating he was interested, i asked the question, why interacial dating?, he replied "during the last 50 years english girls have lost ...

Would it be a good idea to message this girl even if I messed things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - This may not be such a big deal and people will most likely say I should just forget it and keep searching but I hate when I mess up and I really feel as if I missed a possible opportunity for something that could have been great. I've been doin...

On line friend, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Theres this guy and he used to annoys and teases me a lot. We started to chat on facebook and chat for at least 4 to 6 hours a day(not everyday but once in a while). Since we are going to different schools next year he just said that hes going to ...

I created a fake ad on Craigslist to see if my boyfriend would make contact. He did, now what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - A little background info first: my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. He always told me I was his first love and I'm the first girl he's even considered marriage with and so on. His family has even told me I'm the first ...

I love him still and want him in my life but have come to the realization that for now I have to let him hit rock bottom and pray that he finds his way back to my heart..hopefully soon enough.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - The man I love with who Ive been off and on (not because we argued all the time, just because he has not been ready for a relationship because of many aspects of his life). 1- When I say he's not ready for a relationship is because he isn't...

Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I confront him? He's my LDR and claims he forgets to text as he's "busy". But never explains what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid May be i'm blowing this out of proportion? I wanted to write here and check before i fight with my bf (of 3 yrs). My bf works in a different city, few days he stays with his friends and few days he stays here with me. I ask him t...