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Dating: Help and advice

We both love each other but are with others, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - me and this boy,he is one year older, were going out for about 2-3months. everyone knew we were meant to be, but rumors got to me, and my trust in him started to fade, so we ended it. then he realised how much he loved me and how much he wanted me ...

Best friend has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hey people, Recently we started back school and everything was going great until one of my best friends got a boyfriend.Now all she does is talk about him and text him in class were all becoming very worried about her because shes fai...

Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his ...

She broke up with me and refused to give me a clear answer.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me and refused to speak to me in person or even give me a logical reason behind her decision. We are both in our late 30's and have had many relationships before this one. When I met my ex, she was divorced for ove...

After our first big fight, is she still willing to work with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I had our first big fight last Friday, now I feel as though there's no comming back. Here's the situation; we've been dating for about 18 months and living together just over a year. She's currently 30 weeks pregnant and unt...

I'm 23 and she's 27

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My Girl says I'm more sexually active than most Men her age. Shes 4 years older than me and we've been together for 2 years now. We're both deep in love. She says I'm more powerful penetrating her. But I can only last up to 45 minutes before I cum ...

He cheated... whats best for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Ive dated this man for 19 months now. When we first started dating, after a month I found out that he was sneaking around with a married woman twenty years younger than him. It didnt bother me too much because I did just meet him and wasnt looking ...

She said that our loving caresses were wrong, even if I didn't take her virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Hi. I am 21, have a girlfriend. We have been together for 2 years now. We love each other a lot. But she is not convinced on creating a physical relation as this, according to her, would be ditching her parents. On her bday a month ago, I took her ...

Would you consider her a slut?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Would you consider her a slut? She has slept with 6 different guys Not including me..So Thats 7... Fron the age of 15- to almost 18 in a few months. One was a serious relationship but cheated on him with two different people includding a si...

How does a guy's mind work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - When guys are hot and cold, say your speaking to a guy online and one day hes being flirty and giving you a few compliments about how you looked that day, the next day ..hes doesnt seem to fussed. Do they back off because they think they've be...

Does he just need some space to get his head together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - hi,well i'm new here but have started seeing someone in the past 3 months,we both have been badly hurt in the past,neither one of us have been in a realationship in almost 2 years,his ex cheated on him and plays mind games with him regarding his ...

I'm confused, why would we agree to break up if we can't stand being apart from each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated for alittle over a year, we broke up 6 months ago it was a mutal break up mainly because we were both in different points in our lives. He is a lead singer in a band and was very focused on his music and I had to ...

Hate spending time with boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I'm really confused I've been alone for so long,and have been so unhappy.I finally meet a really great guy,and its all going wrong. At first when I thought he didnt like me, i found him really attractive. We started seeing each other as just ...

I want to ask her out before she starts liking another guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - hey cupid. my problem is i can't ask girl out. her name is ashley. by the way, this is at school. i started noticing that i like her. and later like 2~3 days, she started liking me (im sure about 90%). that was before the big test so about en...

Russian dating facts

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2 October 2009 (?) - So you have decided you can find the right women on the net, and have been doing a little research into Russian brides, what made you believe that you can find the right woman on the net? Today there are hundreds of Russian dating websites offering ...

I don't want to go through with the arranged marriage for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (?) - please help i am 19year old girl and my arranged marriage is getting closer and closer i am terrified and dont want to go through with it. i come from an indian family and my dad is very traditional and believes everyone in the west sho...

Is he expecting the relationship to move forward because he's spending money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I just started seeing this guy. Right now I'm unemployed so I don't have any money for outings. I've suggested that we do free or inexpensive activities like walking in the park, the beach, etc. However he says he doesn't mind spending mo...

God fails new ways to get amusement out of my dating failures

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - In 2 days im about to turn 19 and im going to collage, i have never had a real girlfriend. I have had countless attempts and an equal amount of failures all of which have fallen apart due to things outside of my control like their ex tricking them ...

If he was going to feel something for me wouldn't he have by now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I am going crazy. Just had to go to Dr. yesterday and got Rx for Xanax. I have lost 13 pounds in the last two weeks. This is why: I met a guy who really felt like my soul mate. We met July 31 and have gone out every Fri and Sat since then. The ...

Is sex all he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I met a guy on the internet about 3 months ago at first he was very clear about not wanting a girlfriend but he wanted to have sex with me so i stopped talking to him but about 2 weeks later he text me saying he didnt want to lose me and he wanted ...

Trouble getting over summer rejection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I could use some help. I'm having difficulty getting over a rejection from this summer. There was this girl I really liked, I mean really liked. She was/is everything I could ever want. She's extremely nice, caring, sweet, intelligent, ...

How do I NOT creep him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for only about 2 months, but I have known him for about... 8-9 months. I have always liked him since I met him, I want to tell him i love him, but I don't want to creep him out or anything. I know that I love him ...

Any ideas for two to sleep comfortably in a dorm bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I spend every night together, sharing a small twin dorm bed. He's a really heavy sleeper and I'm a really light one. I've been having a TON of trouble sleeping through his moving around since he likes to roll into the middle of the ...

How do I tell this guy that I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I have been crushing on this guy for about a year now, and I believe it may even be love at, well, second sight. We're really good friends now and he seems to be flirting with me a lot. I don't want to sound like another obsessed ...

Does it mean he likes me when he acts jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hello Before I dated a guy once and that was all. We did not meet again. Now I am dating the same guy and today we went out for together (this is our second date) and he asked me some questions like when was your last boyfriend, and how long did...