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Dating: Help and advice

Relationship Insecurity Advice Please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Hi there, I was hoping for some tips or pointers on how to build confidence after it goes down when being in a relationship. I have a wonderful boyfriend, from the moment he committed himself to me he has been honest, truthful, and nuturing. ...

Simply homesick or seriously time to call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3691 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Hi All, I've been in a lovely relationship for 3.5 years now. Two years ago I took a big leap of faith and moved halfway across the world to be with this man (the first year we were both in the same city). Most days I am rather happy with this lit...

He treats me like his girlfriend but then says he doesn't want a serious relationship. I'm not sure where I stand!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 2 months now. When we first started seeing each other I asked him if he was just in it for sex as I don't want a relationship like that, and he told me no. I have also been honest with him and told him that I have had ...

How much are you expected to spend on your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Hi, I need an opinion and an advice, it's a bit long but I would really appreciate your help! First of all some details: I'm in a long relationship, we are about 6 years together (from age about 20), I love her but not sure how much she loves m...

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his ...

Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and b...

How do I just let these go and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - In November last year, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend where he then went out and got drunk.. Kissed another girl and took her number. The fight had started because I snooped on him and accused him for a whole year of still having feelings for ...

I try my best but he gets angry and irritated with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Why is my boyfriend behaving this way? I'm really upset.? My boyfriend is really upsetting me. He's get angry and irritated with me and is making me really upset. I'm a good girl. I try my best with him. I go to gym regularly to keep fit lo...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. ...

I'm pregnant, and it's not a good time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - I just found out I am three weeks pregnant - it's not the best time for it in that Myself and my boyfriend have just moved into his parents house for the year so that he can afford to start his own business. (I have a permanent job.) And right now, ...

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be befor...

She lied and said she wasn't a virgin. Now that I know she is one, I feel like I can't trust her if she would lie about something that big!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

29 March 2014 (M) - Can I be annoyed at this girl I've just started to date for lying to me about something big like this. She says she did it to protect herself, but I feel insulted she judged me to be like those guys... We got to talking and I asked her how ma...

My boyfriend seems to be touching himself while he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" ...

It's only been a week but I'm feeling a bit smothered

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I've recently started dating a guy. It's been a week since the first date and although I told him I want to take things slow and just date for a bit he keeps trying to get me to meet his friends and family and I think he thinks we are a couple. He ...

Full court press, then he backs off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I'm 21 years old and during my year at school I became friends with an individual, I'll refer to him as Frank. When I met Frank, he was very quiet and in general his demeanor was quite insecure. He was very nice and we became good friends but I ...

I'm annoyed at my B/f and his family's attitude especially when they know about our financial situation. Given this scenario, should I just not go for his mom's birthday dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I was invited by my boyfriend to join in with his family on Mother's Day as its also his Mum's birthday same date. I've known my boyfriend for 18 mths he is 39. I have met his Mum maybe three or four times and she seems nice so I agreed. However ...

Feeling fed up. Job going no where. Haven't met "The One". Has anybody experienced this situation and have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice. I'm 26 and just feeling really fed up with life. I spent 5 years in uni and trained as a teacher but I currently work as a sales manager. I didn't love teaching and jobs were few are far between ...

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both wer...

Should I have unprotected sex to please my guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please can you give me advice - my boyfriend and I have a great relationship, however he now wishes to make love without using condoms. I am not happy with this, as by his own admission he slept with a lot of women in the past . I just want our...

I'm worried I should have given it more time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for 3 months and it was amazing in the beginning he chased me took me to places I met all his friends. The only thing was that he ended a relationship for 2 years and after 3 months she started to date his friend so that ...

His colourful past adds to my anxiety about my body!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I'm a very insecure woman. Throughout my dating life, I've had nothing but rejection and hurt. As a teenager, I was constantly rejected in favor of prettier girls. I've always felt ugly. Then I had a long relationship with a guy for whom I made MANY ...

She said she was straight but I'm starting to wonder if she secretly has feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - basically I've been living with a bunch of friends for 2 years now. We all knew each other for an additional year before that. At the start of that year when we all met one another, I openly admitted that I thought this one girl in the group was ...

I'm a single mum at 25 and worried I will never meet someone to date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I know how pathetic this sounds but I am so fed up with being single! I am 25 and a single mum, and just wish I could meet someone. People tell me am pretty but yet no one asks me out! I was with my daughters father for 2 years and he was a lo...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

Sex when on my period?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend won't have sex with me when I am on my period. It's nothing to worry about to have sex on my period - what should I do??? ...

Feels like no one is genuinely excited about our engagement. There are challenges. What can I do to cope with it all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - It feels like no one is genuinely excited about my recent engagement. I've been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months and he recently proposed. We are in a long distance relationship, and there are a lot of challenges to us being together-t...

When do I know when he wants to become official? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I need some help haha. I have been seeing a guy for some time now, we constantly text all the time, and we have also spent some time together. I asked a couple of weeks ago what was happening between us, he told me he wanted a relationship however ...

How to impress a woman in exactly 5 minutes during a Speed Dating event?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - This question is mainly for men but the ladies can chime in as well. If you meet a woman for the first time and have only 5 minutes to talk what will you ask or say to her that would leave an impression on her? I am wondering what topics I can tal...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

My Gf finds flatulence disgusting. I am afraid to share a bed with her because of it. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - i cant sleep at night with my gf, we have been together for two years now but we are LD, we have reach a very acceptable level of comfort with each other, but i cant still pass gas in front of her, not yet. she finds it disgusting. Every nigh...

Is asking this question a good way to find out if girls are interested in me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - I have made a habit of asking girls I like "were you waiting for me". I do this when visiting a shop, coming to work etc., to gauge their interest in me, from girls I know. I have received emphatic "no's" and I have no doubt that means no, nix, nyet ...

Do you think I've subconsciously been making female friends to fill the space that my girlfriend usually occupies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - So me and my girlfriend recently started university at the same time but we are doing different degrees. I barely get to see her as her schedule is so busy which is tough as i used to see her basically every day at school. I've been making new ...

It's the perfect relationship, except I don't orgasm easily except with oral, and he just doesn't like it. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with the perfect man. He is very respectful, sweet, caring, treats me like i am a queen. He is successful, has his head on straight, independent, and I trust him with my world. And of course I am extremely physically attracted ...

Are we too different to have a future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Our relationship really is great. He's thoughtful, loving and great fun (who thought you could have all three?!) My problem is there is a certain aspect to his personality that I don't like. Now ...

What are the pros and cons of a long engagement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - What are the pros and cons of a long engagement? I have a feeling he will propose in a few months but I am not sure what my feelings are about it. I mean I love him, and I want to marry him. But right now, we're both earning very little a...

Time for a break or time to settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since we were 17. He was my first everything as well as my best friend and I really care about him. However, now that we're coming to the end of our degrees, we've started planning what we're going to d...

He's not ready to date anyone, and I want more. What do I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - We've known eachother for nearly 5 months, but in fairness we've only met a couple of times. So in person we still have much to know about eachother. However, our chats on facebook got us very close, which we ended up having a couple of dates. After ...

I feel like he can't see past our rocky previous relationship, but I want to move forward and start a new one with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Okay, I'll apologise in advance, because this may take a while. I met my partner when we first started university back in September. We got together in November and the relationship started off okay. There were a few things I felt uneasy about th...

I'm so worried I could not sleep .........

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - What is happening? I've still not heard from him:( I'm worried? I spoke to my boyfriend saturday afternoon and he said he was going to take a nap he will ring me when he wakes up. He didn't ring me in the evening, I tried to call him but I ...

The guy I'm seeing will be leaving for Germany soon and now seems reluctant for me to visit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Met a guy who I really like. He said it was his best first date etc. He's now met my family and we get on so well we could spend days together. Been dating 2 months now. However he's unfortunately going to Germany for 5 months next week for univ...

I couldn't get rid of the other guy, do you think the guy I like was annoyed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Should i call this guy or not? I'm not sure whether to call this guy or not. When we met, he told me that he would like to go to the theatre with me to see a show. The show starts next week ,and it is on for a couple of weeks. We...

If you don't have dating/sexual experience do you fake it till you make it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - If I don't have any sexual experience, how do I go about in my everyday life meeting girls, faking it til I make it? I see plenty of guts out in bars doing it all the time. It's about time I get in on the action while my junk still works!...

Should I worry about him checking out his ex on facebook ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We live together, have a puppy and were going to buy a house and get married next year. I just have a niggling suspicion that my boyfriend still has some feeling for his ex. Be it hate, longin...

Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...

My current boyfriend versus. my ex... help!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi, just going to skip to the point realy, My ex-boyfriend- i still have little feelings for him,but they aren't as extreme as some people think, i don't know what to do though. We hardly talk anymore and i'm still in teenage years so you kno...

She's leaving in two months and I'd like to be more than friends with her before that happens, but things are moving very slowly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

22 March 2014 (M) - I've recently been on 3 relatively great dates with a girl I met online who is visiting my city for the next 2 months or so. However, it's moving a lot more slowly than I am used to -- I usually date more sexually aggressive girls because I feel ...

Our friends found out my b/f was a virgin till very recently and now is angry/embarrassed that they know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of four months recently told me he was still a virgin at 26, (he told me at Christmastime) I was shocked, but I told him it didn't matter because it wasn't that uncommon. We talked about it and he told me the reason why he has never ...

How can I change my ways so that I can get dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and I've had next to no experience with guys (no kiss, no boyfriend, no dating). I have high standards but not too high; unfortunately the guys I've met except a couple, I really had no interest in. They either had a bad personality, or I ...

I'm 25 and afraid its too late for me to find love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hey everyone....so it has happened again, broke with my forth boyfriend. It took me two years to get over my third boyfriend but this time we broke up like 5 days ago and I am fine. In fact I am ready to jump back in dating scene. But my worry is t...