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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I ...

Every time we get really close he seems to pull away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Every time we get really close he seems to pull away. I know he was very hurt before by a girl he loved and who was very disrespectful to him not even going to his mothers funeral and they lived together for years. with me he loves but yet will ...

Why is he so tough and unreasonable all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I took the situation the wrong way and was hurt and angry. When understanding what really happened I realized I was wrong and apologized. He told me I was being disrespectful to him to not even say goodbye. Now he is angry and said he needs time. ...

Why would girls prefer the chasing of a guy instead of the safety of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know it's not like she cheated on me but ...

What should I do here for the best? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Well I feel kind of silly asking strangers for help but I don't know what else to do or who else to ask. I was a single parent for a couple of years when I met my current partner, at first it seemed like the ideal relationship, he showed interest...

Why does he tell me he wants me and to marry me but doesn't do nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Please help. What is it with me. I spilt up with my ex 6 months ago. I have thought bout him everyday missing him. Wishing he was here. Wandering what hes doing.wanting him back. He has just come to me and said that he loves me so much and realises ...

What should you do with your hands when you kiss a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - When you kissing a guy, what should you do with your hands? I always end up doing nothing with then when he is having a good feel but I am a little shy to feel him, will that come with confidence, even when he put my hands on him, I just kinda ...

I'm feeling a little unsure..I'm dating a "womanizer"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy at work for a while and we finally snogged, the thing is I am not the type of girl normally just to do that sort of thing and I think he now thinks we have this sort of work thing, it was good but I am very shy and to be honest ...

What is he REALLY saying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - hello i really really need your help. wt does it mean when a guy asks you to ask him what you mean to him, and then so u ask him and he says to me your a gurl?? is that him blowing me off or is that him not being able to tell me how he rea...

I care about him too much to be just a "hang out partner"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - So. I have a friend I've known since middle school and we have been hanging out together alot. I've expressed an interest in him, and he kind of backed away for a while. When I started kinda ignoring him he asked me out on a date and since then ...

Why is he such a playboy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I know this guy (22), you could call us friends I guess. We we drunk and ended up kissing one night. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I found out the very next night he tried to do something with a random girl! And we went to a party ...

"Maybe", "Let Me Think About It"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hello. Ok, for the last 2 weeks I have liked a girl that works in a pharmacy nearby my house. I am really bad at conversations and every time I try to talk to her when checking out, I end up looking like a completely and total idiot. Most of the ...

He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going through some shit lately. He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it. He tells me it's only because of the kids he loves me, so it's best if we keep just a friendly relationship. ...

My boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship! His best friend is a girl and anyone with working eyes can see she has a thing for him. My boyfriend insists they are just friends, though. But when he says ...

What can I do? My boyfriend is in love with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! I asked him to tell me truth if he still loved her and he said yes but he really doesn't want to be, they split up years ago but this is the only woman he's ever been in love with and the only woman th...

Have I been single for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, As a single parent of 2 teenagers still reeling from the effects of acrimonious and lengthy, energy-sapping divorce I have lost all sense of self and fun and ability to enjoy life. Since the failure of this relationship I have had problems with ...

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...

How can I last longer? It's driving me insane!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing ...

She's looking for a job in the states but I want her to come and live with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I am having this LDR for 4 years now... My girlfriend went to the usa to study and I remained in Holland where I have my own House, and a good job. My girlfriend don`t want to move back to europe because she has a better job opportunity in the ...

Can you suggest ways that I should confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I did quite a bad thing: I know my boyfriend's email password and decided to check his mail last week. I came across photograph's of a young man in his underwear with captions. Obviously I want to confront him about this, but without him finding out ...

Is it just a guy thing? Does he need time apart from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Do you think this is normal? Is it just a guy versus girl thing? He needs space when there is a problem I need to talk and get resolution. I called him 3 times, this a.m. and he said I am starting to push him away. Now I understand he needs time ...

Am I too controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - When he gets angry he needs to take time to himself. I think that things should be talked about immediatley and resolved. I just called him and he said that by me calling him I am pushing him away and that he just needs time to get over his anger. ...

He only ever sees his side of the story!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - We get along perfectly. We love each other but when we have an issue he won't work on it and runs away into his cave. I don't understand this. Why won't he try to work on it. We love each other and when we are together it is fabulous, it is when ...

Slow, slow, quick quick slow...?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if people had any advice for me. I tried going on top of my boyfriend last night but it just wasn't really working. I was a bit drunk but I didn't really know what motion I was going for, the speed etc. so any advice on th...

Do actions really speak louder than words when first dating someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Do you think its a bad sign if the person you are dating never commits to plans? OK, so I'm not a kid anymore, I'm in the later part of my 20's ... dating should be easier, more straight forward right? Well, I met this girl about a month ag...

I have feelings for my ex but also for another girl, who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - there is this girl that i like and she likes me back and now we are getting really close to each other, now the thing is i just have broken up with my girl for about a month and a half now, well now she is coming back to me and even said that she ...

I feel bad for treating him like this and he keeps on forgiving me, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I moved to Denmark half a year ago to be with my absoloutely wonderful boyfriend. but I have been acting strangely lately towards him I can't understand why or where that comes from. I was very depressed for some time because I had no friends, the ...

He proposed but his mom didn't approve so he broke things off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - hi, i and my colleague were good friends for nearly 1 year.later it turned to love.we both started liking each other.but he proposed me recently.even i said ok...we were close for nearly 1 week.but on feb 13 he told me that his mother wont ...

Bad reputation to see 2 guys from my office?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hey there! Just a quick question. I am separated from my husband and currently going through divorce proceedings. Basically he started sleeping with another woman and I found out about it - so that was that. Anyway since then I started dating a...

She says she doesn't want me to date her since she's sick - But I want her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Please tell me what is going on. I met this wonderful girl. She is like no one I have ever met before. And, I enjoyed talking with her more than any girl before, and I can't imagine that I could ever meet anyone where everything she says or even ...

He does sweet things..does that mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I just met a new guy and I'm beginning to like him but I'm not sure whether or not the feelings are mutual. We both recently got out of relationships and although I'm not looking for a new one, it still feels good to know that fee...

Would a romantic getaway be our chance to deepen the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I have a relationship with a gorgeous older woman. She is over 15 years older than I am. I am considering inviting her on a romantic weekend away. I am debating about whether or not it is a good idea to ask her on a weekend away. Is it a good ide...

Ladies: Use your women's intuition - is this girl into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I want to know if this girl is interested in me or not, and I would prefer it if only girls answer to this post. I've know this girl since freshmen year, and we talk but we weren't like best friends or anything. A month ago I broke up with my...

All we've done is kiss, but I want to go further... any advice would be great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Ok well i am 14 years old and my bf is 16. we have been dating for 8 months. All we have done is kissing and making out. We want to go further. What is the best way to get in the mood. If he fingers me will it hurt? When we have sex will it hurt a ...

She's beautiful, and perfect for me... I think she's falling in love, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - i have a best girl friend. i fell in love with the wrong person i got really hurt and she was always there to cheer me up, make me laugh, distract me from things etc. so far shes done a great job. when im with her i forget about every problem i have ...

How do you get over a young love bad relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - How do you get over a bad relationship.. In short: Fell inlove He ran away to come be with me Spent lots of time together Had sex He wanted me to be pregnant I wasn't He went back home Broke up Lots of arguing Found out I had an STD ...

Is there any way to kinda like "help" make a girl like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I have a quick question. I am a freshman in high school and I've been kinda lonely since all of my friends have girlfriends and I wish I had someone to talk to and stuff like they do. The only problem is that it seems like no girls like me. I'll ...

Is he trying to make me feel jealous? Or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, Mi name is Sadie. Six months ago I became a counsellor at a camp for kids. I met a boy named Adrian. At first I would pass him straight because I was not interested in him. I was never even aware of his presence in a room. Two weeks la...

I say I love you when I don't think I even mean it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I really dont understand myself ya know, ok this is complicated, sorry if its a bit scatty and a bit of a jumble but yeah, lol, ok basically whenever I get into a relationship, (i'm on my 3rd in 6 months) I don't know why but I really get this ...

What makes me unattractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I don't know if this question is out of place on here but basically Im 24 and no one thinks im attractive guys blank me all the time yet I think I look ok so it must be me thats deluded lol. At college in a sociolly lesson the teacher did this ...

Should I ask him or just leave it...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but ...

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking....

Should I ask him what was said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. Somebody told him some things and won't tell me what they said.. I don't know what it could be, so I'm not that worried about it but he hasn't talked to me in three days, what should ...

Your comments are appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My b/f has been very much involved in the behaviour management of my 17 year old. My son is very intellient but very rude and argumentative and drives me mad and I have had to get social services and counselling organised for him. I turned to my ...

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should h...

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we ...

Second thoughts? What could I do to improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've been having thought of my own with my long time relationship going on for six years. He says he is happy with me, he gives me all that I could possibly think of emotionally. He's the perfect guy for me. We fit. Yet, it's been a week and I'v...

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in ...

What if he's scared to ask a girl to be his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - how do you know when a guy is ready to ask the girl he likes if she wants to be his girl friend?how do you know if he is scared to ask her?and if he is scared,what should the girl do to give him courage and more confidence?please answer....

She's sent a photo to him but says she loves me but there's things I know that she hasn't told me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. I love her i really do and i understand that females have guy friends and thats cool. She tells me she loves me all the time but i found a letter from one of her friends in prison and he ...