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Long distance: Help and advice

I'm scared my girlfriend is going to break up with me because of the distance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 February 2017 (M - Dear friends Well I'm quite scared my girlfriend will break up with me. I have had three relationships and the previous two both progressed the same way. It was perfect for a while, then they started to criticise me, act a bit cold. Then one day...

Should I really start planning a future with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 February 2017 (F - Hello! My boyfriend and I are both 20 and met at his hometown in Denmark in October before we took the relationship to long distance. So far he was my first everything-my first kiss, my first boyfriend, and my first time having sex (i don't regret ...

My long distance boyfriend worries about me too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

15 February 2017 (F - Hello! Me and my bf, who is a year older than me, have been going out for one month now - not really a long time but still - and from the way things look, we both really like and care for each other. During the early days of our relationship, his...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

How do I not worry that my girlfriend will chose the easy way out when returning home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 February 2017 (M - We're currently long distance and have been together for 6 months. We met in his home country but unfortunately my girlfriend has to move back to her home country. After we met, I have been studying overseas. We're very serious about each other. We ...

My LDR is not motivated to meet in real life.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I've been dating my LDR boyfriend for over 2 years and we haven' met yet. He never wants to pinpoint a meeting date and acts unconfortable when I try to. He says he wants to improve himself first so when we meet he makes the best impression on me. ...

Our LDR is stalling after 3 years. Do I stay with him, or look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I`ve been in relationship with someone for 3 years. I want to settle down and enjoy life together but he's happy the way it is We don't live together. We live 50 miles away from each other. I'm 50 now i want someone to grow old with and share ...

He doesn't have the same feelings as I have for him from the beginning until the end

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - My aunt introduced me to her husband's nephew 9mos.ago,he is a 4yr divorced man with 2kids,I also have a 13yr old son that's why get along so well. We were talking,messaging online for 8 mos until we decided to meet in Barcelona last week,he flew ...

How can manage to be less idealistic in this situation? I accidentally idealize my LDR partner and get disappointed when my expectations don't mesh with reality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - I'm in a long distance relationship which is hard because in his absence, I fill in the gaps of who I think he is or what he's like from memory and my memory is always more rosy than reality. Like right now I just think he's the greatest I want to ...

I am 61 and living with a man who's sought my approval to go out with other women. Is this acceptable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I am 61 years and /i nnnnnnnnnhave this man I met on a dating site last year it is coming up on a year we became friends on Facebook and chat and text almost daily. We have not met in person yet but he had asked about the possibility of moving i...

Now the grief about our broken relationship is starting to hurt me. what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - 3 months ago my ex boyfriend left me after my miscarriage. He said he don't want to be in a long distance relationship and because my career is not stable so he don't see any future with me . He don't know how to give me any emotional suppor...

Is he trying to keep me on the back burner? Or am I misreading the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - Dear cupid. I was seeing a guy last year for a couple of months. I fell for him. Was completely head over hills. We spoke all day every day and saw each other as much as possible. He was over here temporarily for work. We both knew it would be...

Should I be concerned about his actions? Should I be questioning his commitment to me, based on his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I'm concerned my fiance is travelling every other weekend for a few days without me. I want to go and he tells me to pay my way. If i try to go ahead with that plan, he just takes off without me. I bought him something for over 700 bucks the o...

Should I continue the contact with my LDR friend, or cut the contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Hi..We've known each other,and been on an LDR,for 5 months. We've met 3 times in person. A few days ago, he told me he considers me more of a intimate friend, while not being in love with me - he says he needs time. I have stronger feelings t...

Am I responsible for the baby or did she cheat on me? We had sex on October 8 2015 and she gave birth on June 15 2016

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Morning dear friends. My case is like this: I was in a relationship with my girlfriend(24 years old) for a year. we rarely met; at least once in three months. She visited me on the 8th of October 2015. We played the indoor game; but with pr...

How do I start the conversation without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hi, About 7 weeks, my boyfriend ended our 2-3 month relationship due to the fact I was abroad when we got together and there would still be another year and half of us being apart. He felt like he was waiting for us to truly be together because ...

I want to move and live with my partner in Colombia but afraid of losing my job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 January 2017 (M - Hey There, Perhaps this is not the right platform to ask such a question, but I am going to try I am a gay person who is planning to move to Colombia in order to live with my Colombian partner. We thought that we could get married once i arri...

LDR boyfriend is dragging his feet about us moving in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for almost four years.My finance live 88 miles away so I see him every weekend. The problem is he is dragging his feet for us to live together and I have become extremely resentful.He says we can ...

Did my words really crush his wish to marry me? Or was he looking for an excuse to break up, and blame me, for his own reasons?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - I met a guy on dating site he is from Europe and I'm from Africa. We met in person 3 times, he met my family twice and its been 19 months since we are in a relationship. Before 4 months he gave me an engagement ring and I accept we have differe...

Communication issues with LDR boyfriend. Is it normal not to talk every day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 January 2017 (F - I've been having issues w/communication frequency and attention w/my bf. We met online and have met in person a couple times. He came up for almost 2 weeks almost a month ago and everything is always amazing w/us when we are physically together ...

Just found out that my LDR is happily married. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. We are in a LDR, but he's very caring, sweet and romantic...keeps in touch. But one thing that continually bothers me is that he never calls me at night! Two days back, I was viewing his profile on s...

My ldr partner wants to do fun time while apart but I feel extremely unconfident doing so since he watches so much porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 January 2017 (F - My partner is overseas and wants me to video chat him and call him for fun time . The problem is that that he watches loads of porn and I can't help but feel self conscious that I could never be as sexy or anywhere near as good at exciting him as ...

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