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Long distance: Help and advice

Should I meet an Online Friend?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the so...

"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson h...

Is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been...

Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?

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7 November 2009 (F) - One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have ...

He's moving away for school, can this work?

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6 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends ...

Anger issues with my LDR

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6 November 2009 (F) - hi im 18 and i have been in a 2 month long distance relationship with a man from argentina who is 27. we met on the internet so we havent met in person yet. however we connect very well. im in love with him and he says he loves me to. but a cou...

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared ...

Do you think we should continue this LDR? How to make it work?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i am involved with a wonderful guy who is 21.I am 33 and the age gap doesnt seem to be a problem at all but the distance does i'm from england and he is in california i just wait for the time when we can be together for always. Do you think we...

Should I patch up the relatonship with my girlfriend or take a chance with the new woman I have met?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I’ve been in a long distance relationship with “A” 3.5 years now. We see each other almost every weekend. Lately we’ve grown almost apart. We don’t call, no texts, nothing. We share friends and family together and I’m afraid if we split I will ...

Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...

Arranged relationship -- where do we stand?

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5 November 2009 (F) - One of my parents friends from another country proposed for his son .. I am in Canada. My dad told his dad that we have to get to know each other, so we started chatting online and I told him, if he wants to know when I am going to marry him, his ...

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

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4 November 2009 (F) - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...

How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?

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4 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older email...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

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3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

I'm afraid my 20 year old marriage is over. Am I right?

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3 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married 20 years. My husband was laid off from his job, but got hired same type of work at a company in another state. We own a big home here and have a big labrador pet. I can retire in a year so I could not go. He left, calls me ...

Should I confess my love for her and risk losing everything?

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3 November 2009 (M) - HI All, This is SRSG. My question is like I am in deep love with a girl she stays in X country and i am in Y country.I got to know about her when we use to work together at one place and its been 4 years i am in touch with her. I will be calling ...

I'm confused! Do I love my ex-boyfriend?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. I live in Illinois and he lives in Pennsylvania. I know many of you will say it's a long distance relationship and it doesn't mean anything, so just quit it, but it's not that ...

I renewed my commitment and she said fate will decide!

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3 November 2009 (M) - I consider my relationship with my girlfriend extremely healthy, I have had about 3 girlfriends in my life and non of them had the effect that this girl has on me, I guess I can say this one is the 'one'. Well at least I thought she was... I am...

What should I do about my ex-girlfriend?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Me and this girl met in senior year of high school and we had a bunch of the same classes. I liked her in high school but I didn't really care about girls so I never really got to hang out and get to know her. Then we both went to college. I stayed ...

How do I prove that I didnt cheat? I need help!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Hi, i was wondering if anyone could help me out here. I have a fiance and hes been away for a while spending time with his sick mother, now I have no problem with that its just now we are both in separate towns. Mind you he is coming to town soon, ...

LDR: I am happy to be faithful to him but I don't want to hold him back, any help?

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2 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys and girls, I'm sorry if this is a long post! Basically...I left home to go traveling for 18 months 6 months ago. I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years and we moved out and I set off.He couldn't come with me because he is doing a PHD i...

What can I do about this long distance relationship?

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1 November 2009 (F) - Hi! Me and my BF have been together nearly 2 years, and we have made some pretty big changes during that time. Firstly, he went off to Uni at the coast while I was in London, and during that time we split for a few weeks to get some space. We got b...

Should I go back to the UK for university, and leave my b/f in Australia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I'm from the uk, and I moved to australia with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I'd quit university in the uk, after a year and a half, because I felt like I'd chosen the wrong course, under pressure from my family, and it was incredibly stressfull ...

I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.

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31 October 2009 (F) - I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...

How could he say he might love me only to drop me shortly after?

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31 October 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy that lived in my hometown for almost 7 months. The first 2 months were while I was at college, but when I was home, I followed him to all the summer ball games he played. When I had to go back, he told me how he would ...

Why do I feel a sense of rejection with her?

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31 October 2009 (M) - Hi here's my problem -- I feel sick and upset even thinking about the fact that other men have slept with my girlfriend. She is 18 and I am 20. I fell deeply in love with her the day that I met her two years ago, but it took her 5 months to feel t...

Will he leave his ex alone for good if we get back together?

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30 October 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy who lives an hour and a half away from me. We really conected and Ive been seeing him for about 5 months at this point. He told me he had an ex that he has a 2 year old daughter with and they were no longer together. But one ...

Can I trust my long distance boyfriend?

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30 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I just little confuse about my long distance boyfriend. He never lie to me before. But yesterday I found out he has new email address and he found some female friend.He invited some female friend and give them his phone number.It's ...

If I like her should I convey my feelings or will she think I'm rushing things?

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29 October 2009 (M) - I am in late 20s. I have been chatting with this girl for almost 3 months now. We initially chatted almost every other day for 2 hours. We also talked on phone for 4-5 times (everytime for more than 3 hours). We have never met due to geographical ...

Is there any way I can save this? Whatever I say is falling on deaf ears!

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29 October 2009 (F) - (i posted a few days ago, but have reposted with extra details) my boyfriend of three years works very hard, and long hours. he has a son who lives with him, and money is tight. i also work but part time, i have three sons and we usually s...

I feel like there's someone else...

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28 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are very serious. i go to his house and spend a lot of time with his family and all that. However, in those 2 years we basically fight everyday break up once a week but always get back ...

I don't love him any more, what should I do?

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28 October 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i'm 20 years old and i'm with a 27 year old man. we have been together for a year and a half. my love from him is fading away. it is a long distance relationship, different countries. at the beginning everything was good, and we were ...

Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?

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28 October 2009 (M) - me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and ...

Does it sound like he isn't interested?

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27 October 2009 (F) - There is a man who I connected with very strongly the first time we met. We had so many things in common and confided in each other. We realized we lived 3 1/2 hours away from each other. He got my number and said he needed to take me on a date. ...

There is a guy who lives a long way from me, but I like him a lot, how do I get over him?

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27 October 2009 (F) - There is one guy I want to date. He lives a ways away and its hard to get together. I am trying to get over him because I don't think it will work but ever since I have met him there have been numerous guys who want to date me. I find none of ...

How do I reconnect with my friends?

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26 October 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of almost a year. We are irrevocably in love and everything is great. But it seems like I have no friends anymore. I don't go out like I used to, I lost contact with one of my best friends that I ...

LDR: do I let her go?

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26 October 2009 (M) - Ok im confused, scared, frustrated... Me and this girl have been dating for 5 months now. Everything has been going good till she went off to college. I know the whole giving space and letting someone go. I understand if you care for someone its ...

He said she was only a fling yet I found emails saying he wanted to marry her, how do I know that I'm not just another fling?

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26 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a really long one but Im DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... and we've been together for over 3 and a half yrs now....and its always been in a ...

Should I tell him how I feel? I don't know whether it is possible to have a relationship with him!

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26 October 2009 (F) - okay so i'm like freaking out. i think this sort of started maybe 3 years ago when i started talking to my friend from germany. at first, it was just normal things and we chatted like everyday, and then he gradually started flirting and stuff bu...

What do you do when you are torn away from your soulmate?

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25 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm so upset at the moment as i recently got back from an amazing holiday where i met the greatest guy ever. But i only got to know his first name and where he came from and i just del so down without his presence. I feel as he i have been torn ...

I thought I met the man who could change my life and solve my problems!

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25 October 2009 (F) - 2day, i have a big problem that i can not solve by myself. i need help from u guys. i am 17 yrs. and my boyfri he is 17 yrs too. i am living in Maryland, USA. and my bf living in Cambodia. we love each other almost 3yrs until now. since we're going ...

I can't let my abusive ex go.

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25 October 2009 (F) - ok basically this is a long one. I met my ex on the internet, back in january(big mistake im never going to do that again!) we started off and friends, we got together in april, even then he used to tell me about this girl that girl, which shouldv'...

What can I do to feel less lonely?

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25 October 2009 (F) - I feel so lonely that I am starting to feel very down. My Mum and Dad are both from large families yet they very rarely do anything socially together. They aren't nasty people, they just aren't social people. I have 14 first cousins, yet only ...

How do I stop wondering what he's doing when I'm not around?

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25 October 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 2 years and ive caught him cheating on me twice. but last time he left me for a girl because i didnt want premarital sex but then 4 mnths later he came back to me and apologized i took him back. But i told him that i am ...

Shouldn't we be cementing our relationship by now?

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25 October 2009 (M) - Hey 32 yr old male here..quick story and I need some honest advice...been with this girl for 8 mo now and things have gotten pretty seious..i feel like she is a great girl all around..i am a very busy guy at this time in my life..2 jobs, 2 houses ...

Why did he lie to me about the way he felt about her?

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25 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a realllllllly long one but m DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... n we've been togther for over 3 n half yrs now....n its always been in a long dis...

Should I wait his LDR out, or has he told me I'm second best?

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25 October 2009 (F) - I've recently started at university, and met a guy on my course who is just amazing. We get on really well, similar interests and we just 'click' He's told me he has a LDR with a girl in Eastern Europe and even though he likes me, he wants things w...

Why did he have to call his ex about my STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I recently broke it off with a guy I was seeing LDR for 7 months. I got myself tested since I always want a clean break from everything before dating again, and found out I had Gonorrhea. I never had symptoms which was weird. I told my ex about it ...