New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login236734 questions, 1040345 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I wait another year until I am more sure of my feelings for him before I buy him an airline ticket to allow him to visit me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 March 2017 (M - This issue is a bit tricky and I need an external view I met a guy online 6 months ago , he lives in Argentina, he is 5 years younger than me, I live in Europe, we talk constantly every day including video calls , although the time is differen...

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because ...

I feel like a third wheel in my own relationship! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Hello aunts and uncles, Me and my bf of a while now have usually been quite close with each other... Even though the majority of our relationship has been long distance, we've tried to keep each other happy and made sure to spend enough time toge...

I love her but I am nervous about the pressure to marry her so soon after the start of our LDR relationship. How should I respond to this pressure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 March 2017 (M - Dear all i've been with my girlfriend since June last year and we've not had any problems. I've had 3 girlfriends before her but nothing has even come close to this. I know that she is the right one for me. She is probably the only person...

Why can't I quit him? Heart says yes and mind says no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for a good month now and we were getting pretty flirty and didn't think about the future. He had to move back to his family in another state for work and he told me he couldn't do LDR, even though he likes me a lot, ...

Why cry? Was she feeling guilty? My LDR is currently studying overseas. She has started a new friendship there but promised me that they would not have full sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 March 2017 (M - Hello guys, My gf is studying abroad currently in a relationship with someone else, we were arguing cause i was asking how far their relationship is. The sex) She promised she wont have sex with her current BF but then when i asked if she did to h...

Can this LDR survive? He's just gone into the army!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - My boyfriends just got into the army gap year and has been 8 hours away for 4 days from where I live and he isn't aloud his phone except for about 30 mins on a Sunday and I already miss him so much. I was just wondering if anyone else has been in ...

He was so attentive and now not so much. How do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy from another state and he told me I was gorgegus, from there we have been messaging each other everyday. However in the beginning he moved alittle too fast for me, he was calling me beautiful and added "xx" at the end ...

She dropped me as a friend after realizing we would not work romantically! Why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 March 2017 (M - OK, perhaps people will think I'm daft but in brief I began corresponding with this woman in another country on an international dating site. At first we thought we would just be friends, and we seemed to share a lot: philosophy, books, movies, art, ...

LDR What are the options? Is moving closer to where my LDR lives worth considering?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 March 2017 (F - I am in my early 40s and wanted to know if anyone has ever been in a long distance relationship (whether it be 3 years or 10 years) and given up their life where they currently live (especially if they have lived their all their life) to move in ...

Is he "distancing" himself because he likes me or because he doesn't?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

3 March 2017 (F - I've been talking to a guy for nearly eight months. He lives 200 miles away and we met through a mutual friend (his ex, who I'm not close to and they've been split up a year). We were constantly texting every single day during this time and in the ...

My LDR boyfriend is so loaded with work we don't have time to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Hello there! My LDR bf and I are usually quite close, and we try to text each other at least once - even if it is just a "Good Morning" message - but recently, I've noticed a change. We've been going out for quite a while now, and we keep either S...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

Archived Long distance questions:

March 2017 (11)
February 2017 (18)
January 2017 (28)
December 2016 (18)
November 2016 (18)
October 2016 (21)
September 2016 (23)
August 2016 (14)
July 2016 (11)
June 2016 (13)
May 2016 (11)
April 2016 (8)
March 2016 (18)
February 2016 (13)
January 2016 (13)
December 2015 (25)
November 2015 (22)
October 2015 (16)
September 2015 (25)
August 2015 (17)
July 2015 (18)
June 2015 (32)
May 2015 (14)
April 2015 (28)
March 2015 (26)
February 2015 (15)
January 2015 (23)
December 2014 (16)
November 2014 (18)
October 2014 (32)
September 2014 (41)
August 2014 (32)
July 2014 (30)
June 2014 (25)
May 2014 (27)
April 2014 (21)
March 2014 (37)
February 2014 (34)
January 2014 (34)
December 2013 (32)
November 2013 (31)
October 2013 (27)
September 2013 (29)
August 2013 (37)
July 2013 (44)
June 2013 (34)
May 2013 (46)
April 2013 (46)
March 2013 (55)
February 2013 (37)
January 2013 (86)
December 2012 (64)
November 2012 (38)
October 2012 (60)
September 2012 (68)
August 2012 (68)
July 2012 (56)
June 2012 (60)
May 2012 (55)
April 2012 (37)
March 2012 (55)
February 2012 (55)
January 2012 (62)
December 2011 (51)
November 2011 (61)
October 2011 (86)
September 2011 (67)
August 2011 (73)
July 2011 (86)
June 2011 (82)
May 2011 (104)
April 2011 (118)
March 2011 (126)
February 2011 (125)
January 2011 (136)
December 2010 (122)
November 2010 (154)
October 2010 (137)
September 2010 (126)
August 2010 (136)
July 2010 (112)
June 2010 (146)
May 2010 (83)
April 2010 (106)
March 2010 (93)
February 2010 (88)
January 2010 (80)
December 2009 (65)
November 2009 (88)
October 2009 (118)
September 2009 (99)
August 2009 (102)
July 2009 (97)
June 2009 (81)
May 2009 (90)
April 2009 (98)
March 2009 (89)
February 2009 (94)
January 2009 (89)
December 2008 (98)
November 2008 (100)
October 2008 (89)
September 2008 (109)
August 2008 (116)
July 2008 (113)
June 2008 (107)
May 2008 (101)
April 2008 (90)
March 2008 (81)
February 2008 (50)
January 2008 (63)
December 2007 (56)
November 2007 (70)
October 2007 (110)
September 2007 (98)
August 2007 (87)
July 2007 (71)
June 2007 (47)
May 2007 (50)
April 2007 (33)
March 2007 (56)
February 2007 (61)
January 2007 (37)
December 2006 (32)
November 2006 (31)
October 2006 (35)
September 2006 (65)
August 2006 (32)
July 2006 (22)
June 2006 (19)
May 2006 (32)
April 2006 (36)
March 2006 (24)
February 2006 (21)
January 2006 (34)
December 2005 (21)
November 2005 (33)
October 2005 (23)
September 2005 (26)
August 2005 (19)
July 2005 (22)
June 2005 (20)
May 2005 (9)
April 2005 (9)
March 2005 (7)
February 2005 (14)
January 2005 (21)
December 2004 (7)
November 2004 (4)

Recent answerers

Tisha-1 agony auntaunt honesty agony aunt
chigirl agony auntDenizen agony aunt
mystiquek agony auntAunty BimBim agony aunt

Browse

Recent questions
Recent answers
Unanswered questions
Most discussed
Most viewed

Age differences (5615)
Big Questions (33213)
Breaking up (28310)
Cheating (20966)
Crushes (5132)
Dating (82312)
Faded love (7155)
Family (20425)
Flirting (242)
Forbidden love (4399)
Friends (33916)
Friends with Benefits (1014)
Gay relationships (5886)
Health (17301)
Long distance (8149)
Love stories (2289)
Marriage problems (14859)
Online dating (5048)
Pornography (2899)
Pregnancy (8017)
Sex (39410)
Site News (158)
Social Media (170)
Teenage (41607)
The ex-factor (21648)
Three is a crowd (12289)
Troubled relationships (66064)
Trust issues (25888)
Virginity (4510)

Our other life advice sites

Parenting advice
Career advice
Financial advice

Stats

236734 questions asked.

233850 answered (99%)

4.39 answers per question

1040345 answers in total.

(see more stats)

Archives (questions in category Long distance)

March 2017 (11)
February 2017 (18)
January 2017 (28)
December 2016 (18)
November 2016 (18)
October 2016 (21)
September 2016 (23)
August 2016 (14)
July 2016 (11)
June 2016 (13)
May 2016 (11)
April 2016 (8)
March 2016 (18)
February 2016 (13)
January 2016 (13)
December 2015 (25)
November 2015 (22)
October 2015 (16)
September 2015 (25)
August 2015 (17)
July 2015 (18)
June 2015 (32)
May 2015 (14)
April 2015 (28)
March 2015 (26)
February 2015 (15)
January 2015 (23)
December 2014 (16)
November 2014 (18)
October 2014 (32)
September 2014 (41)
August 2014 (32)
July 2014 (30)
June 2014 (25)
May 2014 (27)
April 2014 (21)
March 2014 (37)
February 2014 (34)
January 2014 (34)
December 2013 (32)
November 2013 (31)
October 2013 (27)
September 2013 (29)
August 2013 (37)
July 2013 (44)
June 2013 (34)
May 2013 (46)
April 2013 (46)
March 2013 (55)
February 2013 (37)
January 2013 (86)
December 2012 (64)
November 2012 (38)
October 2012 (60)
September 2012 (68)
August 2012 (68)
July 2012 (56)
June 2012 (60)
May 2012 (55)
April 2012 (37)
March 2012 (55)
February 2012 (55)
January 2012 (62)
December 2011 (51)
November 2011 (61)
October 2011 (86)
September 2011 (67)
August 2011 (73)
July 2011 (86)
June 2011 (82)
May 2011 (104)
April 2011 (118)
March 2011 (126)
February 2011 (125)
January 2011 (136)
December 2010 (122)
November 2010 (154)
October 2010 (137)
September 2010 (126)
August 2010 (136)
July 2010 (112)
June 2010 (146)
May 2010 (83)
April 2010 (106)
March 2010 (93)
February 2010 (88)
January 2010 (80)
December 2009 (65)
November 2009 (88)
October 2009 (118)
September 2009 (99)
August 2009 (102)
July 2009 (97)
June 2009 (81)
May 2009 (90)
April 2009 (98)
March 2009 (89)
February 2009 (94)
January 2009 (89)
December 2008 (98)
November 2008 (100)
October 2008 (89)
September 2008 (109)
August 2008 (116)
July 2008 (113)
June 2008 (107)
May 2008 (101)
April 2008 (90)
March 2008 (81)
February 2008 (50)
January 2008 (63)
December 2007 (56)
November 2007 (70)
October 2007 (110)
September 2007 (98)
August 2007 (87)
July 2007 (71)
June 2007 (47)
May 2007 (50)
April 2007 (33)
March 2007 (56)
February 2007 (61)
January 2007 (37)
December 2006 (32)
November 2006 (31)
October 2006 (35)
September 2006 (65)
August 2006 (32)
July 2006 (22)
June 2006 (19)
May 2006 (32)
April 2006 (36)
March 2006 (24)
February 2006 (21)
January 2006 (34)
December 2005 (21)
November 2005 (33)
October 2005 (23)
September 2005 (26)
August 2005 (19)
July 2005 (22)
June 2005 (20)
May 2005 (9)
April 2005 (9)
March 2005 (7)
February 2005 (14)
January 2005 (21)
December 2004 (7)
November 2004 (4)

Privacy Policy

Syndicate

You can read this relationship blog in your RSS reader using our XML feed. Learn more...

RSS feedXML feed

Subscribe with Bloglines

Most active agony aunts
(past three months)

= Top Rated by readers!

Our favourite relationship and dating links:

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.156249600000592!