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This confusing guy is sending mixed signals!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 July 2018 (M - So I met this guy off a gay dating app. We had tremendously good sex. As he left my house he told me he "really wanted" to see me again. He lives in a different city and for a hook up from an app, it was brave of him to say that. I asked him when he ...

Why couldn’t he understand that I needed his emotional support that day?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 July 2018 (F - Monday was a sad day for me. I lost my job and broke up with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. Although I'm not too worried about being able to find another job, it still is not a happy event to be let go... I called my boyfriend and he sounded shocked ...

My boyfriend is going away on vacation for two weeks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 July 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and we have an amazing relationship. In a few weeks he’s going away with his family to his family’s house in Europe for 2 weeks. I know this sounds pathetic, but I’m genuinely upset that he’s ...

What would you do in my situation? Travel first or settle down now, travel in retirement?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

9 July 2018 (F - I have been in a relationship with a man for a year. I'm pretty happy with this guy. We've had ups and downs, but overall things are good between us. We love each other. We have a holiday booked together and are planning to move in together. Howeve...

I don't want to ruin my future with this guy by not making the right choice. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 July 2018 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year but we've known each other for three years as we met at university. He is starting a masters degree this year, whereas I've decided to go straight into employment. His masters is at a university over ...

I cheated and want to fix my relationship, but how?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, since I was 23. He is a wonderful person. I love him, he loves me, and we've always worked so well together. We've never had any problems beyond whose turn it is to do the dishes. ...

I am starting to lose my feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My partner (of two years) and I are separated due to his new location of work place. He has been stationed in a far distance island since March 2018 where his ex-wife lives now. He is a dedicated medical practitioner undoubtedly. This time in his ...

It’s been 6 months, how long does it take before the hurt stops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 July 2018 (F - I met this guy in school and we were together for 6 years . I am 24 now and working . We were pretty much immature then learnt by passage of time. We had all ups and down in the relationship. Since we are indians we stayed in limits with regard to ...

Should I volunteer for the first time for three months in another country?

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30 June 2018 (F - ive never known what I want to do career wise and ive never really had any ambitions or hobbies as such . I often get slightly worried that in a few years I don't know what ill be doing and I don't know if ill have a job . ive been wanting to ...

What should I do about this player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - OK - this is a long and complicated story, so please bear with me. I worked in the same company with a guy. We worked there for over a year, remotely. That means we didn't meet in real life, until perhaps a year into the time at the company, at a ...

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different ...

I fear that he has grown controlling, though he says that I am too sensitive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

29 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both 23 and met in our first year of university. I did not take uni seriously initially and ended up failing and being suspended for 2 years for it. I was struggling financially and relied on ...

What do I do when I'm not ready for this to be over and fear that's what will happen if I told him I read that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - Even my boyfriend and I got together, he told me "You can read my diaries, but do not tell me about it." When I asked about it he said it's because he wants to be understood, but he doesn't want anyone to read his deepest thoughts. So, after his ex ...

My boyfriend is being secretive of his phone and is liking Instagram pictures of girls in bikinis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

25 June 2018 (F - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for almost 5 months. He is from Israel and went to go visit his family for 6 weeks. It has only been less than a week since he left but for a couple of weeks before he left I have been getting a ...

My ex wants to say goodbye!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 June 2018 (F - My ex of 1 year got a job opportunity in France a few months back and we decided to end it due to the distance. She wants to see me before she leaves but I don’t know if that is a good idea as I’m trying to move on and it may spark old feelings ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

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