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Long distance: Help and advice

My long distance partner is confusing me!

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - ...

Getting closure from the person you thought was your ultimate soul-mate...

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13 May 2008 (M) - Sorry, the story below is a bit long but needed to explain my situation. Hopefully wont bore you too much! About 6 years ago (When I was 27) I had a long distance relationship with someone who I was crazy about. At the time I couldn't believe ...

Could a long-distance relationship really work?

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13 May 2008 (M) - can a long distance relationship work if youre in different countries and only see the person once a year? and also if we broke up 4 times within the year is that a bad sign? ...

How do you cope with long-distance relationships?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Im in a relationship with my boyfreind and it is long distance..I see him every weekedn and it is fine and we are happy..But has anyone got any advise on what some things i can do to make it a bit easier when you miss them like crazy? we have been ...

I loved her even though she was extremely cold and unresponsive! How can I get over this break up?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I'll cant promise I'll keep this short. I promise I wont ramble, however. Me and my long-distance girlfriend had been having problems making time to see eachother. She was also extremely cold, and completely a-sexual. She cited saving sexual ac...

He is the boy of my dreams, but now my mom has decided that I'm going to move to live with her. What do I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My dad and mum divorced 9 years ago when I was 6, since then until now I've lived with my dad and his new wife in another country, while my mum lived in England with no money. During all these years, my stepmum has made my life hell. Now I'm almost ...

He's booked his flight to come see me, but I'm just not attracted to him! My parents don't know, and I just don't want to be seen with him...

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, well I'm 17 years old living in England. I have been kind of in a relationship with an older guy (29) from a different country. He came to visit in April, it was quite a good weekend and he's coming again in June. The thing is he wants to go out ...

Should I cancel my trip to see ld boyfriend? he said he is unsure about our future

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm planning a trip to visit my boyfriend he lives in the UK. We have been together for 8yrs but have been long distance for the last three years. My last visit was about a month ago and he told me he is uncertain about us getting married....

I confessed my feelings to my crush but am not sure what to make of his actions since!

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12 May 2008 (F) - My crush went on a temporary duty 2 months ago ( he's military) before he left I said I was a silly girl who cares about him and that wanted to keep in touch with him. He replied that he was definitely be in touch at his return. Well, he did. He ...

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12 May 2008 (F) - I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a guy that does not live nearby. He has visited me numerous times and we spent every minute we can talking (whether it be on the phone or online). I'm in love, and he is too. He's very into sex. He com...

My boyfriend has moved abroad without considering me, should I follow him?

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11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has moved from the UK to the US a month ago - something he has had planned for 2 years. I met him 14 months ago and we fell in love quickly but he never once considered whether I was able to come with him and decided that he could not ...

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

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11 May 2008 (M) - Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practica...

I wish we could come away respecting each other at least.

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10 May 2008 (F) - Well you could say I'm old enough to know better, but even though I'm way past adolescence I still want to know what he must think of me now. I live in a foreign country and sometimes give English lessons. Someone put me in contact with a diplomat ...

I told her I love her but also to ignore the message! Problem is I do want an answer...

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10 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm a girl, and in love with another girl. She lives far away but we met in person and she was extremely flirty, alwyas touching me, holding hands, kissing me on the cheek, calling me love, slapping my butt, hugging me for really long, kissing ...

In love with an older guy who may not be gay and moved away

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10 May 2008 (M) - im am a 15 year old boy that live n ohio. Im n love with this boy that i just met and rite after we met he moved to florida. We talked last nite and i asked him y he moued and he said cuz he was bein a dummy and that he wanted to move back soon but ...

I'm pretty confused! Any advice as to what I should say or do?

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10 May 2008 (F) - so theres this boy...he is absolutely amazing and he's my best friend. He moved away because he got in some trouble almost two years ago now. well when he does get to come home to visit he acts like were together. which really doesn't bother me ...

I honestly never touched a woman's body while I was away working, and my g/f doesn't believe me.

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9 May 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 3 months, then on the 4th month we decided to live together. On the 5th month i went to Hawaii to work for 4 months (with continous communications, sending gifts and stuff to her). 2 weeks before i finished my 4 ...

I can barely afford a flight out there and back at the moment - just don't know how to get through this

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hi please help my boyfriend is emigrating in a weeks time and he's off to Australia to follow his dream. We have been going out for about a year. This has been hanging over our relationship the whole time. I didn't really think about it much until ...

How do I attract her when I have only one or two weeks to do it?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Every Christmas my mom and I visit this women's family in the states(They grew up together) . There’s this cute girl that I like but I rarely ever talked to her on any of my visits. How do I attract her without her consciously knowing? I really like ...

How am I going to last 6 months without him?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...

Am I doing the right thing waiting for him?

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8 May 2008 (F) - So I met my boyfriend my fresh year in college. He had a girlfriend and I a boyfriend. Well my 2nd year in college, we both went to the same party and were both single and now have been dating 3 months. He leaves June 2 for Basic in the marines. WE ...

I think part of the problem is that she doesn't realize that I'm in love with her, or why

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7 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend seems to have control of the relationship. Lately I've been impatiently waiting on her to call, and anxious all day until that point, while on the other hand, she seems fine without talking as often as we used to. I feel like we're ...

Did I creep her out?

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7 May 2008 (F) - hey guys there is a girl who i met in the summer, and we flirted a lot, she was always touching me and staring at me and i cud bet my bottom dollar she had feelings for me...then she went back home...across the globe to her home, this was august ...

How to be friends when you still love the person and live far away from them?

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7 May 2008 (F) - My ex and I were in a two-year long distance relationship (we met online) which ended very badly about five months ago. What ended it is that I was emotionally cheating, which I didn't know at the time, but which came out in a series of terrible ...

Dating someone who lives so far away, can it actually work?

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7 May 2008 (F) - Can long distance dating really work? I'm in the situation where i might be dating someone who lives over an hours drive from me. It's very early days, but i'm unsure if dating someone who lives so far away can actually work? Neither of us is going ...

He's paranoid and depressed coz I'm going to college

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6 May 2008 (F) - Well, I'm in my last year of school, with only this week left of school till my exams, and then I'll be off to college in September. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately because we are in the same school and he's a year younger than me ...

We're both getting pretty upset about not being able to spend more time together, what can I say to comfort her?

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5 May 2008 (M) - I've been with this girl for over a year now. And it's a long distance relationship, We live about 3 hours away from eachother. I try my best to please her, but I either have work or whatnot when she's free. I try to see her as much as I can, but...

Has he just used me or it is because he is scared about Iraq

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5 May 2008 (F) - Hey i just need some advice although i worte my story on here before xmas i might need some extra advice. I had been with my boyfriend on and off for 18 month andwe split at xmas we have been kind of just close since we split and recently decided ...

I wonder if I should jump ship before I get too attached, as I am skeptical about LD relations?

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5 May 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now, and we're not serious yet, but I think we're headed in that direction. He's really starting to grow on me, and I think he's feeling the same way. But the thing is, he's going to be leaving to go to ...

Should I let myself or someone else get emotionally attached if I'm moving?

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5 May 2008 (M) - Hi I was wondering if i could get your opinion on something i have been giving a lot of thought. I recently just started a new job and for the first time since my terrible breakup with my ex girlfriend. i really like a colleague, however i am u...

I'm going to university and I am really worried about my boyfriend. How can it possibly work?

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4 May 2008 (F) - I don't want this to be one of those tedious questions that no-one can really answer, I just really need some help with this. I'll try and keep it short! Basically I am going to university in september and I am really REALLY worried about having to ...

She has a boyfriend back in her home town. Should I still ask her out?

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4 May 2008 (M) - okay, so theres dis gurl i really like, and im not sure but i think she likes me too, the problem is that when she moved to my town she left h boyfriend back over there in miami, my question is if i should ask her out? i mean sh acts like if she ...

Is it possible to reverse his image of the "needy" girl, as I think I may have scared him off!

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4 May 2008 (F) - I met this guy about 4 months ago. He lives 2000 miles away, but was in town for the weekend and we met, but did not hook up. We exchanged numbers and began to get to know each other. I flew to see him twice already, and the last time(about 2 week...

I had a silly argument with my boyfriend who is living abroad, could you help out?

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3 May 2008 (F) - i really need help with this one as soon as possible ( this is very long )... i am in a relationship for almost 4 years with this guy who is really loving and i adore him to bits. we are in two different countries and we hardly meet, so we tr...

Are these signs he's blatantly flirting?

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3 May 2008 (F) - We met twice a year and a half ago, and since then we've keeping in touch by email. At first he was more like friendly (well we are friends, as nothing else has happened) but in his notes he's called me one of his favorite ladies down here (the guy ...

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

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2 May 2008 (F) - Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

Is my girlfriend cheating or is she just selfish?

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2 May 2008 (M) - So I've been dating a girl for more than a year, and we plan to live together soon. We live on different sides of the country and met when she was in town on a business trip, but manage to meet up quite frequently, often for several days at a time. ...

Are these signs he might be opening more or that he likes me a bit?

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1 May 2008 (F) - I just made a trip to Japan so I emailed I guy I like and that we kept in touch for a while now, some pictures of my trip. And he said they're were beatiful pictures and that he hasn't had the chance to go there so he hoped I had enjoyed it for both ...

Where do I stand with holiday romance turned long term thing?

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1 May 2008 (F) - I met a guy on vacation who i really like...we've been back a few days now but he lives far away...he calls me all the time and says how beautiful i am and how much he misses me....when i asked him on vacation what we were he said "for now,having ...

He is going to college and I am so scared I'll lose him

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1 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, i need some advice, some comfort. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months, he is talking about staying together forever. I am ok with him talking about it, but what bothers me is he is about to go away to college he...

It's really bothered me that he didn't send me even a card on my birthday.

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1 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about 4 years now. My question is: Should I expect a B-day gift or something from my b/f? My b-day was on sunday and I was hoping my b/f will send me flowers or a b-day card, but he didn't. This is my ...

I've totally lost my trust in her, and we don't seem to communicate. Please help.

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1 May 2008 (M) - I spent some time abroad because of some family issues, nothing to do with my wife. She was very understanding. Whilst I was there, she told me she started talking to somebody on the internet and he was just a friend, so I did not think much of it. ...

He has tried to get away from his girlfriend because of how he feels for me but it hasn't worked!! She doesn't even want to have sex with him!

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1 May 2008 (F) - I have history with this guy! A couple of years ago I had a one night thing with this guy i worked with at the time. It went pear shaped because, he had a girlfriend and I got over him! A few years later there relationship is nearly over as h...

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

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30 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from ...

She likes me!... But she lives far away. I don't want to hurt her. How can I spare her feelings?

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30 April 2008 (M) - There's a girl who likes me. Problem is, she lives over 3 hours away. We met over facebook. Until she revealed how she felt, I thought it was just friendly banter. Although, there were a couple of occasions where we were clearly flirting. During...

We've been together every day since we got into contact again, how will we cope with a long distance relation now? Any similar experiences you can share?

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29 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, iv known him since we were 3 years old, but lost touch when i moved away when we were 9, but 2 years ago we got into contact again, and we both were planning to go into the army but i ...

My boyfriend is moving to another school, how will I cope, what should I do?

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29 April 2008 (F) - Okay, listen I really love my boyfriend and his best friend was moving to a different school so my boyfriend's mom was gonna make him move but it turned out that my boyfriend's best friend's mom changed her mind but my boyfriend is still moving and ...

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

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29 April 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend b...

I want commitment. Are our differences too great?

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29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is leaving for another country, which has gotten me all stressed up and I was really afraid to lose him. So I try to pressure him to give me a commitment and I think that got him very frustrated. When he did not even plan to spend his last day ...

I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?

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29 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand...