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Fallen for my old classmate but now he ignores me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 April 2017 (F - Good morning. I met my high school classmate online after 37 years. He is married for 30 years. He said he had an affair with two married women while his wife was working abroad. He became alcoholic too. And with the help of her mom, he ended into ...

Are there any telltale ways to see if he sees me just as a sister/friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

21 April 2017 (F - Hey guys, first of all, thanks for stopping by, even if you don't plan on answering. I will cut to the chase: I'm a 20 year old girl, and I really like this 25 year old boy, whom I met over the internet. Our locations are too far away to go see e...

I waited 3 years to tell my LDR boyfriend that I have 2 children and now he's unsure of how he feels

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 April 2017 (F - I've been in a 3 year long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I'll admit I've been wrong in never disclosing to him that I've been married, divorced, and have two teenage children. I'm also 42 yrs old while he's only 33 yrs old. I've trav...

Can this very complex relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

15 April 2017 (M - Ok so to start with I'm in a fairly new relationship with a girl who I do care quite a lot for and I feel this relationship is worth persevering with. When we are together things are really great. Since the beginning we seem to be very comforta...

Was sending that message to my BF the best option? Or did I just stoke the fire more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

14 April 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have been friends for years before that. One thing I know about him is that when he gets upset he doesn't want to talk right away so when I know he's upset I'll just leave him alone until he's ...

Am I being hurtful to my ex by choosing to move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 April 2017 (F - I feel like I'm being horrible making the decision to move away from my ex boyfriend and move nearly 70 miles away to live with my boyfriend of a year. Basically when we were 16, my ex and I had a son. We were only together 4 months when I found ou...

My Gf is 14 and I'm 17. Once I turn 18 and she turns 15 will it still be ok to date her? Can't find an answer anywhere

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

11 April 2017 (M - Hello, I am currently in a relationship with an absolutely amazing girl for 4 months and we are going to the same school, and we live in Washington state but at the end of this school year she has to move to the other side of this same state but I ...

My boyfriend left me at my lowest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 April 2017 (F - My boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, and I were in a relationship for 4 years until we recently broke up about a week ago. Just a year ago our relationship turned long-distance when he moved six states away. I had no money to move with him so I had to s...

When is it ok to have "the talk" or expect to be exclusive ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 April 2017 (F - Hi all .. How soon is too soon to expect a guy to commit when it's a long distance relationship? You know us women are always being told not to "scare" me away by putting too much pressure on them. I've been dating a man long distance since N...

Should I message him on the dating site to reestablish contact between us?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 April 2017 (M - Hi,I have been meeting with this man 2-3 times a year for the last 3 years, when he comes to my city on business from a neighboring country. We like each other a lot but distance makes things harder. Plus, he's also a bit inconsistent, and doesn't ...

How do we or I take this LDR relationship further? 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 April 2017 (F - Warning: VERY LONG on LDR In October, last year, I met this wonderful guy (25/M) on OkCupid of all places. He is literally a diamond. We’ve texted each other every daWy since we exchanged numbers. We met in person in February this year and by our f...

Is there something between us that could mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

5 April 2017 (F - Hello seeking a little advise.. We meet six months ago via internet finally met in person with our children spent a week together. Because of the kids we kept our distance neither one of us telling of our feelings. I've hinted that I'm interested ...

His sister is so negative, how can we put a stop to this madness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 April 2017 (? - i have been with my current boyfriend for 16 yrs. his sister calls from time to time and when she does she always dumps her problems on him, always negative for as long as i have known her, he gives her advise on how to better her life but she ...

Should I stay? Am I ready to move on? Please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 April 2017 (F - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a year and three months, I can honestly say I am so in love with him it's hard because he is 5 hours away because he is in the navy. He is from where I live, since he came into my life he because so ...

He says he's not quite ready for a relationship. Am I over-thinking this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - I've know a boy for 1 year and we were close talking everyday we could, he lives 6 hours away from me and is in the army, recently he's moved based and is less than 1 hour away from me. Whilst talking to him I slowly started falling in love, wh...

The person I like lives 4 hours away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - So I met this guy on holiday. He's so sweet, funny, amazing and basically everything I ever dreamed of. I have his number and he has recently gone back home. I miss him already. He lives 4 hours away from me by car. Can long distance ever work? Has ...

Second time I've caught my b/f texting other girls! Do I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - I caught my boyfriend messaging other girls twice on Facebook and I don't know what to do. The first time was last summer when I went on holiday. I coincidentally met a girl (seriously small country, everyone pretty much knows each other) who ...

Should I ask my b/f for a break due to exams and him being in another country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

3 April 2017 (F - Hi there everyone, i have a little dilemma that i don't really know how to deal with. I have a bf for about 3 years now and well recently, things have been hard on us with me being away and stressing out over exams. For some reason, we don't...

Is my LDR guy taking me for granted? Or is he cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 April 2017 (F - Hey, Aunts! I'm in a LDR with my guy for some months now. I understand it's difficult cause we don't get time together like we used to before. Nevertheless, communication was indeed great in our relationship. Since the last month, I've been ob...

An old Uncle muses

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30 March 2017 (M - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

I love her, I like her personality, and we've dated for 4 years in a LDR, but I have mixed feelings. Can I come to terms with the fact that she is hairy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 March 2017 (M - I have been with this girl for almost 4 years by now, and according to how everything has proceeded (education/financial etc) it's time for making the advance for marriage, as has always been our plan. We have not had sex (saving for marriage...

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk ...

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