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Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 January 2017 (F - I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....

Being just friends makes sense but I don't know how to approach this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, I (23/m) met a girl (22/f) last year over the course of a job where we were both away from home. During our time there we became really good friends and it was after the time had ended (and I had broken up with a different girl) ...

Why guys appear to disappear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego an...

Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then i...

I've got an ex husband, an ex fiance and a new guy who all want me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - I'm 39 divorced and had been dating someone for 3 years. I knew him from university.He lives in another country. We became engaged. I have gone through a lot for this long distance relationship to make it work. I applied for a fiancé visa for him ...

My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. ...

We are five hours apart. Could it be worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - How do i know if it's worth the pain? Me and this guy met online, we live about 4 or 5 hours away from each other, he's just coming up to very big exams... We both really, really, like each other... infact, i think im falling for him, hard and fast...

Why would a man persist with a LDR if he was not attracted to the woman? Why even tell the woman he "loves" her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 January 2017 (F - Would a man have a long distance relationship with a woman who he wasn't attracted to and even tell her he loves her? Why would he want to do that if he later admits he is not attracted to the woman? Is it loneliness ? Is this a common thing ...

Boyfriend lost his job, became depressed and now won't speak to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I'm in a pretty bad situation. I dated a guy for 6 months long distance and were very serious- he met my family, I spoke to his, our parents talked- we were on the marriage track. 4 months into it he told me that he was unemployed. It threw me for a ...

How do I get him to last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - M boyfriend and I are in a Long Distance Relationship. We see each other every 4-6 weeks. I've been noticing that when we have sex, he doesn't last long... no more than maybe a minute or two at most. His explanation is that because he goes without ...

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been ...

Did I over-react when I was upset about his weak excuse for canceling his visit?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - My long distance bf who lives 3 hours away was suppose to come this weekend to see me. I was really looking forward to it since its a long weekend which means we will have more time together .However he has Monday to Friday job so he is only ...

Is he being a bit too selfish or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Hi, my boyfriend (45) and me (34) live in two different (European) states. We have been on an LDR since last Sept.(when we first got to know each other). Then we struck a “whatsapp relationship” until I flew to him for a week during the New Year ...

What does he mean? I want us to have a future together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - i told my boyfriend that we are impossible because we live in different country and our culture is totally different. we are at on the right age and he knows that i want to have my own family at the age of 30. he didn't say anything but when i want ...

I'm looking for feedback on my decision to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hello Everyone! I am truly at a crossroads in my life. I am 20, about to turn 21, graduating an entire year early from a pretty rigorous liberal arts college. Back in October I broke up with my 3-year, mainly long distance boyfriend, whom ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

Can I trust this long-distance love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - I have a long distance relationship and the guy is coming to visit me this weekend... I'm having doubts about our whole relationship... He's been acting strange I'm honestly unsure about where I stand. I mean he's a popular guy and he'll make ...

Why in the world can't I move on?! ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I have been through a couple of serious breakups in my life but for some reason the one that happened recently has seemingly destroyed me. I dated someone for a very short period of time albeit knowing him for over 12 years. We were only together...

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

Is he ghosting me? He's not anywhere online. What must I make of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - I hooked up with a friend of a friend. I first noticed him on Facebook and grew interest in him. Over time I asked a friend to organize for us to meet. My friend told me he was single I am also single. He's 41 and very handsome. I had hinted t...

How do I break these patterns in my relationship? Where I find it easier to breakup than to actually work on resolving things in the

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 December 2016 (F - I am in a long distance relationship and for that reason I feel It is not where it would be if I were with the person regularly. I don't feel I can ask him things or I can't tell if it's too soon or if I'm imposing too much on him etc...my default ...

How Long Do I Wait? Does he want a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - We have been talking for about 5 weeks now. We are about a 2 hours drive away from each other. We are not in a relationship, just been talking. He has already said he loves me we have sexted and we are planning on meeting up soon. I want to...

I'm not going to stop seeing my LDR Bf because a friend doesn't like him. But how do I best handle the situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 December 2016 (F - I haven't been dating my boyfriend for very long. He treats me well, loves me and cares about me. We are long distance, so most of my friends have not met him. The thing is my best friend got offended by what he posted online because he has d...

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