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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I just found out my bf was married but separated, yet JUST signed divorce papers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Before anyone makes any assumptions, here's the background story: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. The first few months he lived at home with his parents to catch up on debts. I would stay over all the time, and no one in his famil...

What is he thinking in his mind??? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was ...

Does she deserve another chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - This might take abit long. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a bit strange. She was suddenly dressing up for work. Few days ago she had a ...

Seems he's far away enough from me to cheat on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years now.. we have been in a long distance relationship.. he is in med school and i am back here in the US.. i feel now that he is far away he may cheat on me.. is it possible or am i just being paranoid..?...

How can I open up to him more when he talks about sexy stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i ...

Can you really go from being bi curious to straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Right here goes x im 17, ive been with my boyfriend since we were 13 and i love him to pieces. the thing is, he's always been openly bisexual, and ive always accepted that as part of who he is and i love him despite that, i honestly have no...

Am I not good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Heyy Peoples! Recently i started dating one of my childhood friends and everything is going great! I'm so happy! We both gave eachother our bebo passwords. One day i decided to check his private mail. I probly shouldnt have invaded his privacy...

Every time I have sex it brings on a period!

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31 May 2010 (F) - Every time i have sex with my boyfriend it brings on a period even if i'm not due one?? can someone please explain this?...

She says she's not bothered whether or not she has an orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - hi there im going out with this girl and we have had sex. she has never had an orgasm ever and i really want to giver her one. i know i can but she says she doenst really care whether she orgasms or not. i respect that but im still going to try. but ...

Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...

I miss my boyfriend to distraction, what can I do regain control.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It's been about 9 months now. We hit it off last summer and things are going really well. But we said goodbye about 4 hours ago, because he'll be flying off to another country with his...

My boyfriend thinks I am faking it when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hey , my boyfriend said i sounded like i was faking it during sex but i wasnt and i told him that. What does faking it exactly mean? Cause the thing is if i keep my mouth shut nothing would come out inless i make my mouth open, is that faking? I ...

Any thoughts...? Sexual frustration!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My fiancée that I am scheduled to marry within the next couple of months doesn't turn me on the way my exgirl friend use to. My exgirl who I was crazy about was always dripping wet for me day night early in morning and would have orgasms through ...

Deprived of sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my fiance for three years, we moved in together about 4 months ago he recently lost his job. sex before was not an issue since he has no job sex has gone down the drain. i almost have to beg for sex or masturbate, i am older than him ...

My boyfriend is stealing from me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, here's the thing, my bf and i been together for 2 years coming up to 3. hes not working and looking for work now. In the two years i caught him stealing money from my purse and confronted him about it. he promised me not to do it and i ...

When it comes right down to it boys never want a relationship with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm fed up of boys using me when they are bored. They give it all the sweet talk like " I really like you and couldn't imagine having this much fun with another girl" but when it come to it they never want a realtionship. This isn't the 1st ...

So how much contact is appropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I'm going overseas for a holiday for a month! I'm 16 with an 18 year old boyfriend. How often should I contact him while away? Skype is a viable communication method as is email. I don't want to ruin my relationship but I also don't want to spe...

I have given him an ultimatum to get married, but I don't want to lose him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - im in a relationship with a guy for one year.he says he like me and can also marry me but doesnt love me and not give commitment now.we both are 27.my parents are worried because i should get married now.i gave him 3 more months to tell me whether ...

Do you think my relationship is healthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i'm with my boyfriend 8 months now and were very happy together, we've never had a fight yet do you's think my relationship is healthy? my friend keeps saying to me its weird we haven't had a fight she fights with her boyfriend all the time, me and ...

I have spent a long time liking him for reasons that are not comprehendible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I'm now going on 3 years that I've liked this guy. I'm gay, he's supposedly straight. Infatuation? Don't think so because it's not like I don't go out with other guys and fall for them. Obsession? Nah cause I'm not dying without him. Crush? I think ...

Is this how scorpio men show love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Please help! I have been dating a scorpio guy on and off for two years and I am still lost. At the time we met in May 2008, we had just left our respective partners. He told me he wasn't ready to get serious because his last one lasted five ...

We broke up, got back together but he doesn't treat me right now1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just got back together,after a two month break. I don't drive,and sometimes it's hard to hang out. This Friday,I asked him if we were hanging out, and he responds with, "Umm I dont know?".."What are we going to do?" As if it ma...

Should he be saying this if he's not my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 May 2010 (?) - Well, me and this guy have been talking for about two weeks. He's really sweet, we get along really good. I like him a lot. We constantly text, all the time. He keeps the conversation flowing asks me questions. We have hung out a few times, we've ...

He comes on strong and then pulls away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year and a half. I have fallen in love with him and I dont know if I should tell him because he has me confused. One min he acts like he really likes me and another min. he's pulling away. What should I do....

How do I get over the pain of the relationship and be able to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - About three months ago my girlfriend of about 5-6 months broke up with me saying I don't want to be in a relationship at the time. The following day She went out with my friend and she insulted me when I told her it upset me and so did my friend. ...

How can I be sure to impress him on our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - there's this guy i like, and he told me he wants to go out with me. how can i be sure to impress him on our first date? thanks for the help, love, Mandy....

Can this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles... looking for some feedback here! My current boyfriend and I have known each other since high school and have been together for about four months. We moved really fast once getting together, although neither of us were trying ...

Am I too obsessive? I need something else in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I feel really strong about each other, but the thing is I feel more strong then him.. He says he always loves me more, and I feel that's a lie. I know I love him more but I feel a little obsessive. If he doesn't call me back ...

Why am I still worrying about the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I liked my ex boyfriend very very much, and I let him be my first . But now that we are done I have moved on to other guys, but every time I'm happy, my past comes back, and it makes me feel horrible , and messes up every relationship I have now , ...

Is she interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I have a feeling this shy girl I like in high school likes me back but I'm a bit confused. Here are some things she does: 1. I catch her looking at me but she will quickly look away if I look her way. 2. If I say hi to her she will wither ig...

Hanging by a thread!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - well me and my girlfriend had a steady long distance relationship for the past 3 years. she was always caring and loved me a lot. we had loadz of good times all along.i would go and meet her up during holidays n stuffs she was a very studious an...

His changing his pictures upset me, should I mention it to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i am on a online dating site.. i was getting tired of it.. i met this one person on there from it and we have been talking every day.. we have gone out 4 times.. we haven't gotten too physical yet and i am still deciding if i like him. Seems like ...

Help! Am I just too sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi I don't stay with my lover at the moment, we chat but she is always busy on google and other sites when i want to chat she's always too busy doing other things, does that mean she does not love me? It feels that I am not important to her but ...

She was too immature to be in a relationship after 9 months but had the biggest crush on me for 2 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hey there everyone, I have been going out with a girl for 9 months and we just recently broke up. She was saying that she is too immature to be in a relationship. She just wasnt ready for any commitment. I wasnt asking much of her. She wanted to ...

Can't get my boyfriend to cum on my own?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I'll give him a blowjob.. handjob and he'll be like making noises and shaking, and he's all wet.. and you can tell it's genuine and he says he loves it + that i'm the best he's ever had but then he goes 'omg i could cum now' so then he takes hi...

After his surgery he thinks I'm going to leave him, how can I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for amost 3 years and we have talked about having a baby i already have one child who is 7 but seem to be having trouble getting pregnant so we have gone to the fertility clinic i had to have a operation 2 months ago to ...

He still talks to his ex, and has lied about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i'm having trust issues with my boyfriend that involve me being jealous of his ex-girlfriend. we've been together for over two years but when we first hooked up i suspected that he wasn't over his last girlfriend. we've had many talks about th...

If he sees me without my makeup on I don't think he will like me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - ok, I'm so insecure. i feel ugly without makeup, because of my freckles. so i really like this guy, but he talks about sleeping over, I'm really worried though, that if he sees me without makeup he'll think differently or think I'm ugly. i really l...

Are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (?) - This is a very vain question, I'd like to know what guys think of girls with short hair... I've had short hair for a while now and I suit it, but just because I can't pull off long hair, but are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?? I...

Am I reading too much into his flippant comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I need to ask a question without sounding paranoid! It's to do with my boyfriend and whether his opinions are to benefit me or him. We have been together 5 years and there is complete trust between us. We aren't a jealous couple and neit...

What did he mean when he said "take care" in his text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Im kinda dating this guy and we got in a little fight and he said "I'm going to sleep k night sweet dreams take care muahh" what does take care mean in the text message ...

How can I make his birthday picnic more special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I really love him. Well, his birthday is coming up and since it's going to be June and I don't really have a lot of money to spend, I want to surprise him by taking him to the beach and ...

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a ...

Should I tell him what I know or just not mention it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Three months ago, an HR rep from a previous company that I worked for, asked if I would assist them on a case (lawsuit) that was being filed against them. I said yes, and the rep stated that their outside counsel would call me and I would assist ...

Is it possible to change how he views children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated for around a year before becoming exclusive. I have two young (grade school aged) children from a previous relationship. I have been aware the entire time that ...

What is his deal? I don't understand, does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have this guy friend who I like, who may like me I'm not sure. There are two things he did that really bug me because i don't know why. One was he and his best friend randomly stopped by my work (I work in a bridal store) to just say hi and ...

I cant find a good reason to talk to the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so theres this boy at my school that ive had a crush on for a long while. Ive realised that im completely in love with this guy, and I pretty much think hes amazing. I cant think of anyone else id rather be with! Although the fact im so in love ...

Tricky love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY...

Could he be losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Ok i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, When we first got together he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and we used to kiss all the time but recentlly he just isnt really kissing me i've asked him about this and he just ...

I'm ready for our first kiss, but how do I get him to initiate it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i want to kiss my bf but im to scared i dont want to make the first move so how can i get my bf to kiss me?...