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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do other couples spend time together and feel connected when it's just a lazy winter day and there's really nothing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Puzzled by b/f's behavior. This happens a lot. We're stuck inside. B/F is surfing the web on his laptop. I sit on the couch with him, and play a video game with volume turned off. After an hour he wants to watch TV. So I turn off the game but can't ...

The anecdote of perfection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Okay, so. I'm 19, shes 20. We started going out about 9 months ago, we click, we are perfectly together. So perfect, that i know its bad. We are both very close, we don't have intrest in other people, but we find, that our relationshop is perfect. ...

My sex life is just one big stress!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I ...

I'm a bit stuck! What to get him for valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - im 15 and ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months, we love each other so much x and its going so well... its coming up to valentines day and have thought of some stuff to get him but dont want them to be too mushy..., i was thinking about ...

I broke his trust... how can I make this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happene...

His anger problems are tearing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3 years collectively now. I've broken up with him before because of his uncontrolled anger problem. He gets angry at the smallest things and then I have to try and calm him down. Usually when he gets angry it ...

Your advice is needed. I don't know what to do for the best... for me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi, Thank you for reading my email. I hope it makes sense and you can help me. Ok so i have been in a relationship for around 3 years now, we were due to get a house but broke up last Monday. It was my own fault i suppose, my girlfriend had d...

What's a 69'r???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ...

How do I stay strong and have faith???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Well I've been going out with this guy for about a year, and we've just decided to split up because we both go to different schools and have hobbies and commitments inbetween and it's made it hard for us to be together and to be a proper couple as ...

Should I tell him my REAL age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey you guys i have a question that i want to ask im 14 soon to be 15 in june and my boyfriend is younger than i am i want to tell himm that im older than him but im way to scared that he might reject me becuse of that. please tell me how should i ...

I am tired of my boyfriend being too relaxed on the weekends to go out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a demanding 4 year old boy and a boyfriend of 1 year. We see each other twice a week. Half of the time he calls to say his shift happens to be short that day so he could see me. The other times we call on the weekends and hope we would meet ...

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and ...

Is not seeing each other while he's away...ruin what we have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and have been talking to a 18 year old boy for about 3 years now. He went to my school. There is nothing wrong, we text almost every day and speak on msn when we can. I sometimes worry about texting first incase i seem desperate or silly but ...

Is she afraid, I'll move away when I'm done college? advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I am totally lost with this at the moment. I'm 22 and talking to a girl that is 18. She is a senior in high school and I am in college. We have been on quite a few dates and things are going really well between us. She just got out of a bad ...

Lack of experience...any tips to share?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Im a 20 year old guy who has never had sex/date/or gf. i consider myself pretty decent-looking and have confidence. i talked to a couple of girls from high school that were just friends but the biggest problem i have is my lack of experience in ...

He's much older than me..will this be a problem?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....

"Fake" friend hitting on girlfriend - what should I do so she doesn't speak to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - im an 18 year old male. i have a girlfriend and my friend is so messed up and says stuff to her behind my back. he asks her to send him sexual pictures. he asks her for kisses to cheer him up. and to bite her ass and stuff. the thing is i promised ...

Why do I always end up just being 'the friend' when I want more than that?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Why am I one of those guys that women want to be friends with but nothing more? Of my ten closest friends, nine are female. They all say I would be a great catch. I have asked them, seriously, what I could do to make myself more appealing but ...

I sort of like this guy and we kissed while drunk, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - A few months ago I kissed a guy, we were both quite drunk, well really drunk. He goes to my college, and is in a few of my classes. It was really awkward for a while, but it's alright now. Anyway, I didn't know that he had a girlfriend, wh...

How can I stop comparing our relationship to others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I really need some advice. I can't stop comparing my relationship to others and i am becoming increasingly more jealous of other girls around my boyfriend. I don't know why i do it and its really getting me down...i keep taking it out on m...

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

Broke up with my ex and he says he still loves me, but how can he if he isnt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex slpit 5 months ago. he admitted he had feelings for someone else so we broke up. We had been together a year. Shortly after that he got together with this girl and they're still together now. Thing is, we've pretty much spoken every day ...

To move on or not when we have trust issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - We are having trust issues because he decided to bring a girl home, got touchy feely with her and in his bed. Then he updates her with his new number after swearing he is not going to have anything to do with her again. I went through his phone ...

So does anyone have any good suggestions for places to meet a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I really want to start talking to girls more. I'm 19 and in college but I go to a primarily guy college. No joke there is like no girls here. For every 15 guys there is maybe 1 girl. So one night I thought about all the ways I could come in contact ...

Is he interested or not? Should I drop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Below is a text from a guy I'm dating. "sorry i was hung over so it took a while to reply im sick atm. i finish work there at 6. wanna catch up in dalesford lemme knw xoxo." It took him 24 hours to post that.. he always takes forever.. I tri...

24th girl shot me down in a row, please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - this question is for the woman reading. I dont know whats wrong with me im a nice guy, very patient, understanding, and good listener. but all the girls i hang out with awile then become good friends with them, i ask some of them out, but i always ...

How do I cope when I see history repeating itself ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Oh my god, this is so petty, but I'm reliving memories I just don't want to relive at all!!!! A few years ago, my boyfriend and I partially broke up because he met this girl who got to a part of his soul. It wasn't the only reason, but she ...

Am I being unreasonable in my distrust of him and by getting angry at the drunken states he gets into?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 19, and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, he's 21. Before going out with him, I'd only had one previous sexual partner, when I was 17. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had about 10 sexual partners. None of which he dated, t...

Met a great guy and didn't get his contact info...I need tips on how to be proactive in tracking him down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I met a nice guy when I was out with my brother last night and I'd be really interested in meeting up with him again. The thing is, we lost track of time until my bro realised we had just 5 mins to get to the other side of town, so I had to rush off ...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

I want her but she has a bf! Any advice on how to make her mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Never really knew what I wanted in a Girl, but now i do. The only thing is she already has a boyfriend. Another thing to add is she already knows i like her. Im in desperate need of help and any advice on how to make her mine. Any tips?...

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...

He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he ...

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...

Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and ...

Is she acting differently because of what I said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - If a woman is interested in a man, might she change the way she acts based on what he says? For example, I said "you're awfully confident today." and the next time I saw her she was embarrassingly over-confident toward me. It was charming. I don...

Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...

Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are ...

Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...

He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...

Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, ...

Give yourself more respect. You are worth it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I haven't been on here very long, but most of the stories I have seen are about boys mistreating girls! In my opinion us girls don't give boys enough credit, I say boys! What i mean is the nice boys. Yes girls, there is some out there. Yes, they are ...

Telling my bf I am not in love with him anymore will devastate him...how do I break the news?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - i am realli confused! i have been dating the same man for four and a half years now. i love him to bits and do not like hurting him i feel that i am not in love with him anymore, because there is a difference between loving someone and bein...

The guy I like was upset when he saw his friend feeling me up! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Okay so last night I went to the local bar in the area of the city that i live in. Afterwards my friend and I went back to the guy I like's (he likes me in return)house with his friends as well. Needless to say i was quite drunk and flirty with the ...

He hugged me...does he like me or was he kidding around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - So i'm in tennis. There's this guy on my tennis team, he's korean and i'm viet/chinese. He's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. On Friday, my friends and I stayed after school to practice and play, and he showed up, since he always stays after scho...

I never ever get the guy I like.. NEVER! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - hey, my problem is i never ever get the guy i like! NEVER. and i dont know why coz im quite pretty and all. I liked this guy for 9 years but nothing happened. Finally moved on. Got to know another guy, wasnt quite attracted to him at first. But, he ...

What option do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he ...

He won't make a move! How do I show him that I want him to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - okay so i am almost a senior in high school and theres this one guy that ive known since 6th grade..i know he has had a very big crush on me since 7th grade when i had him in two of my classes, hes a shy guy to a certain point. Now i feel like since ...

Bf wants a break, because I can't stay at his house overnight. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, my mother really doesnt like him and never really has so, he doesn't stay nights at my house and because she's so controlling I can't stay out of her house all nite. He's been asking me to stay alot lately ...