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Dating: Help and advice

Dating 2 and a half weeks, he's tried every single time to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been dating for 2 and a half weeks. I really enjoy being with him. The problem is that he is trying to move to fast to the sex. He tried to sleep with me on the first date. I told him that I didn't sleep on first date. We hav...

How can I be "touchy" with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - Ok, I am in need of some advice. SO the thing is that I', a little shy doing some things with my girlfriend. We've been going out for almost 10 months now and havent really done anything sexual...I know, might be a shocker to alot of you out there ...

Prize idiot--I got involved with a guy at work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I am feeling like a prized idiot and I need some helpful advice. This is quite long, sorry. Everyone knows you should never get involved with someone at work but my head was tunred by this guy I work with, he is the first guy ever that I have l...

Is a live webcam session something I should reasonably be upset about?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14. I am 20 now. We have a 3 year old son and have been living together for 4 years now. The other day he accidently left his computer signed onto a porn site. I do not have a problem with him looking at porn, ...

Did she say things to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - OK, there's this girl in my science class. She is really nice to me and talks to me all the time and wants to work with me during experiments. I was working with her one day and I heard her talk to her friend about another guy. She didn't talk like ...

9 years older! Ask her out anyways?

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3 October 2009 (M) - hi everyone i like this girl who i don't know(socially) i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are...

Russian dating site tips

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3 October 2009 (?) - With the modern world and internet it is now very easy for Russian brides to search for a partner online. There are many Russian dating sites that offer the chance for single men from the west to search for a Russian bride. Over the last decade it ...

Can people really change??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok where do I begin!! I have been going out with my boyfriend on and off for over two years!! The first year was a joke because we kept fighting and he was'nt faithful but over the last year he has really changed!! He really does love me and i...

Wait for him? Or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Ok so this is complex. Right I met a guy and we dated a little, but only just got serious, we ARE NOT going out, and have only kissed, but we go out lots and I stay at his most weekends and we hang out. Now recently he told me that he wants to be ...

I'm getting bored with my LDR just talking to him on Skype

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - hey guyyss..i really need ur help ok so im 16, and im dating a guy (also 16).. we have been doing this LDR for 1 or 2 years now. *he lives in the usa and i live in another country...* but we saw each other of course (the summer one year ago,...

Why am I attracting these losers at the pub?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I go out to a local pub in town most friday nights to see a friend play in his band. I enjoy going, but for some reason, I seem to be atracting scum, players and old dudes. Am I giving these people that impression? I am not a slutty person at all! I ...

Should I trust him since it's only MySpace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - im kind of worried about my boyfriend talking to this one girl over myspace. they have been friends before i met him through myspace. she lives in New york but the one thing that bothers me is that he posts comments on her pictures like "I love this ...

Was I just convenient at the time for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - i was with a guy for at least three months and we were not an official couple because he was the coach of my volleyball team and we did not want the other team members to find out as it would be very complicated. Then there was the fact that his ...

How do we get birth control pills without our parents finding out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - So me and my best friend were talking the other day about birth control we relized that we both need to go on the pill but nether of us wants our parents to find out we would be dead. She's in a long term relationship and is talking about haveing ...

I feel disgusted doing the sex acts he wants but I don't want him to leave me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, weve had our fair share of ups and downs.. i love him to bits but theres one thing i really get upset about. Im alone alot, hes at work all the time and i see him almost 2-3 times a week. When i do ...

If he needs 'space' and 'time' - does that mean that he will actually sort his head out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Just a question on this whole I need 'space' and 'time' thing!! There's a guy who I like and I think he does really like me but its been a really weird couple of weeks - kinda started as bed mates and then getting closer. Anyway - I think that we ...

How do I get a man to want me and not my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - hey i have a problem i am really lonely although i get alot of attention from guys they all just want sex from me and i dont want to have sex until im either married or in a serious relationship but all my friends tell me to keep a guy i have to ...

Are you genuinely happy being single? If so why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Are you single and stuck in your ways? It seems these days that most people only feel complete if they are in a relationship. I will admit I used to feel the same way. And went from one relationship to the other, quite quickly. I have been single n...

Ex exotic dancer can't stop sexualizing everyone in the world...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hi ~ I have been an exotic dancer for over 1 years on and off. The industry jaded me for a long time, then finally I found love and all that changed. I have a good sex life, although too infrequent, w my partner.. although I can't seem ...

How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you know the person is worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - (Mod Note: Two questions in one.) How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you do this w/o feeling that you have compromised your values to be w/ someone? How do you feel intimacy and attraction to your partner by ag...

Should I keep trying and suffer the consequences of rejection? Or stay single forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I'm nearly 40. My last serious relationship was 7 years ago. I was celibate for 5 of them. 2 years of celibacy was "self-imposed" because I felt that I needed to concentrate on myself. Those 2 years were great - I really widened my circle of friends ...

I managed to lose weight and get into shape...now I need help talking to girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, in my past I was always that chubby kid, and yeah, I had popular friends, and soon found out that ANY popular kid who hangs out with a non-popular kid is only doing it because, in comparison to you, they are ALOT more attractive and ...

What makes a woman change when she starts dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Whar is it that comes over a woman when newly in a realashionship? I've turned into someone I don't recognize anymore. I went from being cool, calm and quite "righteous". I have turned into a jealous and very insecure woman all of a sudden. I ...

My insecurities are getting the best of me in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I am in a serious relationship we met 9mths ago and things have been awsum but lately for the last few weeks i have started to feel insecure about things, my body him being friends with other girls and it makes me feel that hes gonna run away on me ...

Boyfriend's self esteem issues turned me off of him, now I just want to break up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hello, So about fiveish months ago I met an amazing guy (my boyfriend), attractive, nice and caring. A couple weeks into actually dating each other he would make comment's every now and then like “you’re beautiful, are you positive you like me". I w...

What kind of flirting do men really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - What kind of flirting by women do men really like? I mean, what types of things get a man's interest going in a good way, getting him intrigued and attracted, and interested emotionally and physically. I mean as opposed to the stuff that just makes ...

Girls, do you like it when guys wear eyeliner, or "guyliner"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - do girls like it when a guy wears guyliner? i would like girls' opinions. thanks for any responses... ...

What kinds of things do guys do when they like a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I don't know if this site is only for personal problems, but I really want to get an answer from a guy, or as many as posible. How can a girl tell if a guy really likes her? What knd signs does he give off during conversation or just when he's near ...

He wants phone sex! Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - so their this one guy i really really like you but then he never tell me how he feel:/ mmm he will tell me to have phone sex with him and i'll do it cuz i really like him i know its really stupid but thats how he makes me happy. Anyways do you think ...

Which girl should I go for? And how should I talk to the one girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - Hello. I've three questions I'd like some help with. Thanks in advance for your advice. First, I like two girls. I've been told that this is all normal and fine, and that's well and good, but I can't decide between either one. I'm leaning ...

She constantly talks about marriage. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating this young lady for 2 years. She constantly talks of getting married. She has never been married , I've been married twice. One for 1 year, second for 21 years. As a divorced man I try to explain to her that a marriage takes more ...

Why did she reject my proposal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - I meet a girl. She is very beautiful. She is my friend. After few days i propose her and say that i love you. She replied that i cant accept your proposel. Because she loves other boy since 2 years and they have breakup also. I know that she loves ...

Is it wrong for me to date a 19 yr old?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - i am 15 im currently dating a 19 year old we stay friend and arent intesrested in sex until were married but i have been told it is illegal to be four years of age to date but in two montshs i will be 16 and he had just turned 19 is it wrong because ...

I've fallen for him, but he can be quite a strange character!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - we have an age gap of 14 years and hes being the elder one. We met through a commom friend and before he knew she was getting married he used to give her little hints. She is brazilian and i am caucasian. I went out with him once already and we kept ...

Why am I embarrassed to introduce him to anyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Is the fact that I am embarrassed to introduce my boyfriend to my colleagues, friends, etc. a bad sign? He is a super sweet guy but his grammar is not great, and he is a little rough around the edges. I did introduce him to a very close friend of ...