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Archived questions from: April, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Since getting a job my boyfriend's behaviour has changed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1322 days ago

30 April 2020 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year now. He's good and wonderful but one thing I don't like about him is when it comes to money. For example, during valentine's Day he couldn't even get a chocolate or even a cup of water. It wasn't that he w...

I'm not sure if the guy I met was just being friendly or if there was more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1453 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - A week before the lockdown happened I went for a walk with a walking group. There was a guy there who I have known for a few years. He seemed a bit shy when we said hello on arrival. During the walk he asked if I was seeing anyone. I'm not sure why ...

I'm struggling with waiting to see what happens with this guy after lockdown ends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1459 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - Before Corona virus hit I had been on a few dates with a front line doctor. We’ve known each other very loosely for a few years. I asked him if he wanted to go for a drink back in February then we had a great three dates before this hit, includ...

I give my girlfriend everything but it's not enough!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1454 days ago

27 April 2020 (M) - Im struggling with something. After a whole day of normal communication with my gf (we are living separate during lockdown) the smallest thing can make her go into a tantrum. For example I work 6pm-2am. Therefore when I finish at 2am I will call ...

S it possible for friend zoned relationships to turn romantic?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1464 days ago

21 April 2020 (M) - Okay, weird question. I can't ask my friends so I am turning to dearcupid as usual. I have a female housemate who is a nudist, although she refers to herself as a naturist. What this means is she doesn't like to wear clothes. Yes I know it's weird! ...

My anxiety and insecurity is getting in the way of my happiness

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1465 days ago

21 April 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I’m coming here for advice about an ongoing problem I have with dating. Bear with me- I annoy myself with this and am certain I sound exhausting. I’m a female in my late twenties and have dated a handful of men. I’m currently dating...

Messed up the second date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1465 days ago

20 April 2020 (F) - I met this guy on tinder. The first date went great!! Like sparks flying. The second date was great until alcohol got involved. I basically was embarrassed and vulnerable about something when I shouldn't have been. I am not usually like that but I ...

Fiance texting crush, but wanting to have a family with me. Do I let it slide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1464 days ago

20 April 2020 (F) - I'm not sure how to feel about this and i wondered if anyone could give me some advice. My partner had a crush on the same work colleague two times in our relationship, a couple of years apart (that i know of and he admitted to). They've neve...

Are these enough warning signs that my partner isn't into me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1459 days ago

20 April 2020 (F) - So I have been in a relationship for almost 6 months and am wondering whether this relationship will last. I've had a lot of bad relationships, and childhood was not ideal so I doubt myself a lot and struggle with what a normal relationship should ...

Does everyone "settle" or do they really believe they've found "the one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1468 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - Hi there, this might sound like quite a broad question but I'm interested to know people's thoughts. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and we're planning on moving in together this year. We've lived together on and off over ...

I met up with an old crush, had sex twice now he is being short with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1448 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - A few years ago I was speaking to this boy I met on Twitter and we got on really well, flirted and things. we didn’t live near eachother at the time and I got a boyfriend and obviously things didn’t continue. Recently though, me and my boyfriend ...

How do I tackle the problem of my boyfriend commenting every time I eat something?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1467 days ago

17 April 2020 (F) - I’ve recently moved in with my boyfriend, and I’ve noticed he makes comments every time I eat something. Anything. Like it’s too big or too much or I’m going to spoil my appetite if I have a snack. I don’t eat that much and I’m a thin girl so I’m...

Does it matter if a boyfriend is saying he is only 45 percent attracted to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1469 days ago

17 April 2020 (F) - A short question , just want opinions on being enough physically for a boyfriend . My boyfriend has given me a percent, and a value to what number he finds me attracted at 45 percent , should I be anyoed by this I never asked to be given a perce...

Someone tell me I’m not crazy for wanting a real relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1470 days ago

16 April 2020 (F) - I’m in my early thirties but I’ve never had a partner/boyfriend. I’ve been online dating for several years but all the men I meet just want no strings sex. They claim they are looking for a relationship but after a few weeks of dating we have sex ...

Why it is that some men nice and loving to the woman that they are dating, yet rude/inconsiderate to other women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1473 days ago

13 April 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can offer up some answers to my question. I was wondering why it is that some men nice and loving to the woman that they are dating, yet rude/inconsiderate to other women? I first noticed this in college. There w...

We talk about dating but I don't know how he feels about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1475 days ago

12 April 2020 (F) - I don't know how this guy really feels about me. we always bring up the subject of going on a date I just don't know how he is feeling and I don't want to rush him what should I be doing or am I doing something wrong?...

Is it wrong to want specific things out a person you are dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1472 days ago

12 April 2020 (M) - Hello Aunt's and Uncle, I havent been on the site for a long time, and for a long time I thought I was content. Its been 2 years or maybe even more since I broke up with my Long Term College Girlfriend, I dated a bit after but havent found a g...

My partner of 10 years is an alcoholic and porn addict with a bad temper, but he has his good points.. should I leave him? Title

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1475 days ago

11 April 2020 (F) - Hey guys! So I've been with my partner 10 years, it isn't all bad and I've learnt a lot through being with him. See, I grew up in a broken home, and though my mum loves me unconditionally, I was never really taught 'how to adult' or how to look ...

I've been seeing a guy since 2018 but we don't seem to be progressing forward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1474 days ago

10 April 2020 (F) - I have been casually seeing this guy since 2018. I am 37 and he's 43. At first it was just sex, and since he's a truck driver and a loner, he's away weeks, months at a time. Fast forward to last summer, we started "dating" and he even attended ...

Since this guy moved in I am losing my self esteem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1478 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - Hi all Dated a guy that I got from my best friend. After 2 months we moved into my house because where he was staying according to him they mistreated him. After 3 months together he started to undermine me, and emotionally abused me.he would talk...

I've met a 50 year old who lives in his mother's garage.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1474 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - I recently met a guy who is nearing 50. He has a full time job and has worked in the same place for 20 years. The problem? He lives in his mother's garage. He's not an addict, has a job, has a car, his kids are grown and gone. He's been divorc...

Can I help the man I love, or will he never change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1480 days ago

7 April 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I 26 am seeing a man who is 29 whom I have known for 10 years. he does nice things for me, he does his own washing, cleans up after himself (present) but here's the thing... 10 years ago when we were younger I was still in school, I...

I dated a doctor before Corona, now not sure how to behave with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1475 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - A couple of years ago I dated a guy for a couple of months. He was nice but I wasn’t over my long term ex. It ended because he said he couldn’t get my wall down (he was right). In February we bumped in to each other in the pub and went for a coffee ...

Could you date a social media addict?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1487 days ago

1 April 2020 (F) - Could you date someone who spends a lot of time on social media or is a socialite? I met a guy who is nice but he seems to have a social media addiction. He comments and likes lots of posts on his friends profiles and public pages. He seems to like ...