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Breaking up: Help and advice

Help me deal with my provoking ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 July 2018 (M - My ex broke up with me a few months ago and we were together for almost 3 years, but since she broke up with me she has been trying to make me jealous or intentionally hurt and/or provoke me. I dont know what to do, I know she is into me but she ...

I met him 2 weeks ago and am wondering is this a friendship or a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I am 25 and have been single for a year now. Two weeks ago, I met a guy at a party who works with a friend of mine. We hit it off and talked nonstop. Later that week we ended up going to another group event together and staying after everyone ...

How do I close out this sad chapter in my life and start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 July 2018 (F - Hi all I am from conservative indian family. I am 24 and financially independent. I met my ex 6 years back on school. We fell in love . The relationship was intense and serious. All my school and college friends knew we were together. His pa...

I don’t know how to move on! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 July 2018 (F - I still love him and can’t move on.? We broke up after almost 2 years because I tolerated his abusive behaviour, emotionally and verbally. I broke up because I couldn’t take the nasty words and he said he wished I died. A week later he texts me...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

I'm sitting here alone and pregnant, can I get any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 July 2018 (F - I dated this guy for almost six months during the time I got pregnant.Issues between me and his mom became apparent when she and her daughter begin writting shady comments on my fb page I finally confront both of them and his mom end up call me a ...

How do I move on and am I to blame?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 July 2018 (F - I'm just in despair right now. I absolutely love this site and it's helped me in times of need for so long now, so here goes. I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We lived together for two years in his family house (his famil...

Her depression is getting in the way of our love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 July 2018 (M - I've been with my girlfriend for 9 years, and we are both in love with each others. We shared alot of great times together and i can't imagine my life without her. I was her first boyfriend, and she never dated anyone because she doesn't trust men, ...

I decided that I wouldn’t text him again but he keeps checking out my social media posts! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 July 2018 (F - It's like a one sided love at 1st sight, but idk , am into someone , am obsessed with him as hell .. we were chatting for more than a year then we met , well he kissed me it was soft coz I didn't want to especially that was our 1st meeting then we ...

Why couldn’t he understand that I needed his emotional support that day?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 July 2018 (F - Monday was a sad day for me. I lost my job and broke up with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. Although I'm not too worried about being able to find another job, it still is not a happy event to be let go... I called my boyfriend and he sounded shocked ...

Are we all THAT replaceable?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 July 2018 (M - Dear friends, I hope you are all well! I would like to have your advice today on a sensitive situation I am facing. I broke up with my ex of 6 months. She was a beautiful girl and it is clear she has and had lots of success. For some rea...

How to save this marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - Im currently 6 months pregnant and feel so lonely and depressed. I have a very weird relationship with my husband. We rarely spent time together because of our different schedule. I went to parents home in the morning while he still asleep and went ...

My husband is super clingy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - Hello I have been married for 27 years. In those years I have left my husband twice. My husband is super clingy. If I enter a room in the house, he is behind me. If I want to take a bath, he comes into the washroom to talk. I don't seem t...

Should I move away and start a new life close to my daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - I split up with a long term ex (17 years) because he treated me so badly that it ruined my self esteem and this impacted on my career and relationship with my daughter. I realise now I put up with his behaviour because I grew up in a dysfunctional ...

My ex has I have slept together too many times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - My ex and I go to the same college. We see each other a lot considering we have many of the same friends. We broke up two months ago because I was stressed out a lot, and he was too about school and things happening with his family. But rece...

I cheated and want to fix my relationship, but how?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, since I was 23. He is a wonderful person. I love him, he loves me, and we've always worked so well together. We've never had any problems beyond whose turn it is to do the dishes. ...

I am starting to lose my feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My partner (of two years) and I are separated due to his new location of work place. He has been stationed in a far distance island since March 2018 where his ex-wife lives now. He is a dedicated medical practitioner undoubtedly. This time in his ...

I need help in letting him go!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

2 July 2018 (F - We met online, he is kind, sweet, committed and just a good soul. I wasnt awfully attracted to him physically but he is the kindest man on this planet so I decided to meet him anyway. I was still not attracted to him but felt because he is such a ...

It’s been 6 months, how long does it take before the hurt stops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 July 2018 (F - I met this guy in school and we were together for 6 years . I am 24 now and working . We were pretty much immature then learnt by passage of time. We had all ups and down in the relationship. Since we are indians we stayed in limits with regard to ...

Everything was perfect... until he lost his nan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have been friends for about a year. We had the most amazing relationship. We both had said that we had a stronger bond than we'd ever had with anyone else. We tackled any ...

Our relationship is disintegrating, and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - So basically me and my partner have been together for almost 3 years now. We live together. Recently there are more and more days where I am doubting our relationship. We have never had sex, we have done other things at the beginning of our ...

My boyfriend is depressed and anxious, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. The first year was great but since then we've had alot of personal challenges. For the past 1.5 years my boyfriend has been struggling with anxiety and depression. He couldn't cope with work anymore and ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 June 2018 (M - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. ...

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different ...

Am I being too harsh in blocking her completely out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - I am currently going through a breakup. I already have a hard time making friends, for some odd reason (whcih I am in a way blessed) most of the few people in my circle are now also goiung through breakups, divorces, single, etc. so it helps me to ...

Am I mean to delete all our photos from his phone?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

25 June 2018 (F - I plan to break up with my boyfriend but I don't want to let him know until I delete all our photos together from his phone. Am I mean to delete all our photos from his phone? I never wanted to take pictures with him in the first place because I ...

My ex wants to say goodbye!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 June 2018 (F - My ex of 1 year got a job opportunity in France a few months back and we decided to end it due to the distance. She wants to see me before she leaves but I don’t know if that is a good idea as I’m trying to move on and it may spark old feelings ...

I want to let the past go and move forward from this dead relationship, thinking about it has been holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 June 2018 (F - I'm in a bit of slump, again. Been with this guy for awhile now. He told me upfront that he was depressed from the start but i went straight to it without knowing what i've gotten myself into. I was 17 back then. He gave me a sweet memory at ...

He blocked me on Instagram then lied about why!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - He blocked me on Instagram and lied to me about it saying his app had a problem. Yes I believed it. I have another account on Instagram for makeup and fashion posts. He commented on another girl’s picture saying “Dayyyuuumm”. He has all his exes and ...

Was I wrong not to thank the ex who agreed we would go “no contact” for the flowers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - So, my ex fiancé sent me flowers Monday, about a year ago he left me for his ex that he was stuck on. I knew something was wrong but he never admitted it. When she rejected him when he went back home he tired to get back with me. I flat out ignor...

I feel resentful toward my girlfriend. Should I keep trying to make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - I met my girlfriend online 7 months ago and we have been living together for the past 4 months. We use to talk on the phone everyday for the first 3 months. She came here from a different country to visit me and hasn't been back to her country ...

I miss my abusive ex who cheated on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

20 June 2018 (F - Now that I broke up with my verbally abusive ex ( it’s has been a few days)who also cheated on me, I miss him. All I can think about is the good times. I’m trying so hard not to contact him. It seems impossible. What do I do?...

I know I was stupid for having sex with my ex! What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 June 2018 (F - I split up from my fiancé 7 weeks ago due to not making any time for me I’ve tried talking to him loads of times he just walked out on me whenever I tried talking to him so I ended the relationship I did feel better about it up until Sunday gone he ...

My ex best friend is confusing me and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (M - Me and my best friend have been on a roller coaster ride this past year. It’s a long story so I’m going to try to keep my sentences to the point. We had a falling out almost 8 months ago. He didn’t say why he was mad and didn’t want to talk to me. ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

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