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Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I confront him or break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

19 August 2019 (F - I have been seeing him for just over two months. We have a great connection, the sex is amazing and we can talk for hours. We are comfortable around each other. It’s really great most of the time. I noticed when I started seeing him that he had ...

Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

18 August 2019 (M - Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...

I know he wasn't the man for me but it's so hard to move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 August 2019 (F - I married the man of my dreams this past November. In May, I learned that he's been having an affair since February, barely three months into our marriage. I moved out and we filed for a non-contested divorce. Now I'm finally free of him and decided ...

We've broken up but he talks as though we're still together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 August 2019 (F - Hi I’ve recently broken up with my partner due to a few reasons we split up nearly 2 weeks ago but he is acting as though we are still together he won’t talk to me about any problems we have this is one of the reasons I ended it but now he’s talking ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

Is what is happening to me financial abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - Would you call this financial abuse? I go to work and support my husband who has little respect for me anyway. He also pressures me to sometimes support his parents as he so desperately wants to please them, even though they are just using him and ...

Lost GF because I would not propose because I am struggling with depression from long-term unemployment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 August 2019 (M - Hi, I am in a quandary. My long-term girlfriend just broke up with me because I have not proposed. I don't know what to do. Here is the background: I am 48 years old, never married. I have been dating a woman, now 46, also never married, sinc...

How long does it take after a break up to stop hurting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 August 2019 (F - Hi I’ve just ended a 6 year relationship to be honest I didn’t want to end it but I couldn’t see any other way we never do anything or go anywhere together he won’t talk to me so any problems just build up the last few weeks he has completely ...

My girlfriend betrayed me in front of my family. Was I justified in dumping her?

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5 August 2019 (M - My girlfriend and I were together for 3 years. We have an age gap relationship. She’s 22 im 33. Out of all three years this one has had to be the most stressful. For the last 6 months I’ve been unable to make ends meet. If it’s not one thing it...

Should I tell the other woman he's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

1 August 2019 (F - My husband and I are going through a divorce due to his affair. Should I inform the other woman that he's married? It seems she doesn't know. And in the chance that she does know and I look like a fool, I can live with it. I know it's sel...

Fiance cheated, how do I move on from my first serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 August 2019 (F - My now ex-fiance and I were dating and living together for three years. He proposed in December 2018. Starting in April, he started going out often and neglecting our relationship. Last month, he finally confessed everything to me. During this ...

Did he lead me on or am I just stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 July 2019 (F - I've posted numerous times before anonymously. Long story short - my ex and I work together. Friends first then started dating which was perfect...he told me he had a stronger bond with me than he'd ever had before with anyone, after three mont...

A guy keeps coming back when he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 July 2019 (F - My ex and met online game site 3 years and we hit it off. However, after 5 months he broke it off because he felt like we don’t live within reasonable distance to support a relationship. We live 5 hours away from each other of driving distance. We ...

We broke up but he said he wanted to be there for me but now he's acting insensitive and I'm confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 July 2019 (F - Hi all, My boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me because he moved to another country to pursue his MBA. The context is that we have been in a long distance for sometime in the middle as well. He was depressed at the time and not much was wo...

My husband is abusive, where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - I've been agonizing this for a while now. I love my husband more than I've loved any other man, and I see so much good in him, but is he abusive? He's never hit me. I don't think he would ever hit me, but he's really quick to anger. This is really ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

21 July 2019 (F - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

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