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I kicked my partner out of my house because of his hurtful comments. Advice?

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19 February 2018 (F - Yesterday I kicked my partner out of my home. He is 60 years old and has been a very high level banker in the past. We had a minor tiff when I confronted him (gently) by telling him I was hurt by a comment he made. I had shown him a mortgag...

Always feel trapped getting in to a relationship!

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18 February 2018 (F - So I’m trying to analyse my own behaviour a bit here. Until recently I’d been in a three year relationship with a man. He was a classical musician so worked away a lot. When we first got together it was this exciting touring lifestyle he had...

Too invested after a few dates?

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17 February 2018 (F - I’ve been on five dates with a guy. We slept together on three of the dates. We definitely fancied each other, but during date number four he said that his long term goal is to work away. I’ve been in a relationship in the past with someone who ...

I love him, but his deception can’t go on!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted today

17 February 2018 (F - Hi Aunts! I'm 29 years old and in an alleged relationship with a married man for the last one and a half year. It wasn't intended to happen cause we were only friends, but developed nonetheless. At first, he kept his marital status a secret from me....

A relationship with an attached man is making me feel so sad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted today

17 February 2018 (F - I've been seeing a man who lives with his baby mama for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving her and they are not really together but idk..He still live her a year later with no ...

She has a way of clawing herself back into my life! Insight needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 February 2018 (F - Hi all, I started dating this girl in December 15. I was 25 and she was 22 and was a TA in my class. We eventually grew in attraction and one evening, it progressed. Initially I was reluctant and said no as she was my colleague but she pursued ...

I treated her good but she ghosted me, I still want her back.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 February 2018 (M - Asking for advice,over a year ago, my ex girlfriend ghost me, no contact since, she didn't even say goodbye,I didn't do anything wrong, but treat her special,what I am asking is ,would it be stupid, in my part to try to contact her,I know every one ...

We text and fight, then meet, make up then make out! Now he wants to be just friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

14 February 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I am in relationship from 4 months,we fight alot on texts.Almost every week we decide to break up.But when we meet, we just kiss amd make out ,there is no fight at all.Now again after fight he wants to be only friends.Will we be ...

As much as it hurts badly do I need to cut guy 1 off to give myaelf time to get over him? And focus on guy 2?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 February 2018 (F - Dear Cupids! I am torn between two men in my life. Guy 1 and I dated for 7 months then he had to go back to Greece as his contract for work ended. Now we still chat long distantly it was hard and I broke it off with him. We still talk via Skype a...

Should I go out with her again? She didn't trust me the first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 February 2018 (M - I have recently got back together with girlfriend after a couple of months apart. We were together for 5 months before we broke up just after Christmas. I broke up with her because I felt she didn't trust me but we spoke recently and she told me she ...

He's driving me crazy, how do I get him out without involving courts or police?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 February 2018 (F - I'm back again with another question. I asked my last question in Novemeber, long story short, I was asking why I didn't want to marry my fiance, and I got most answered that suggested talking to him. So I did a few weeks later and told him I didn't ...

I can't give up the fantasy of a fairy tale ending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 February 2018 (F - The fear of being alone had led me to be alone - I have searched everywhere for a mate - online - bars - events - charity - church and nothing - when they have come out of the blue they have only made me miserable and empty- but I kept them just so ...

My husband spends more time with his female co worker than he does with me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted today

12 February 2018 (F - My husband has a female coworker that he has been friends with for a while. They go out to lunch together and text each other here and there. I’ve never had a problem with this, I have male coworkers that I am friends with as well. My problem is ...

I don’t think I can deal with the amount of travel his job entails. Should I cancel our third date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 February 2018 (F - SO I met a guy, lets call him CHAD. We went out on two dates. Really hit it off, loads in common, lots we like in each other plus great attraction. He works for some sales company and after our second date went out of town for 8 days. I have a t...

He loves me but wants space? What does it mean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 February 2018 (F - I have been dating a man I met 6 months ago. His wife cheated on him and now lives with a new partner but they had only just stopped sharing the marital home just before we met. He treated me like gold, told me I was the woman of his dreams and t...

What on earth do I need to fix in me to set myself free?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 February 2018 (F - Hi people, I am trying to work out what on earth is wrong with me at the moment. I've had two important relationships over a 35year period, the last was a marriage, 13 years ago and ended due to his infidelity. Prior to my marriage, (15 yrs prio...

I have a boyfriend but I'm still in love with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 February 2018 (F - Hiya do you believe that’s there’s a one in life I met this man 5 years ago and I’ve never felt that way about anyone before we split up due to not having enough time for each other and I was gutted for months we decided not to speak as it would ...

I drunk texted her while we were on a break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 February 2018 (M - Hi. So me and my girlfriend are on a break due to our age difference I’m 10 years younger than her and this scares her as she feels she’ll hold me back. Anyway. Went out on Saturday and got very drunk woke up Sunday morning to see if text her. Now ...

My girlfriend wants a break, what chance is there for us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 February 2018 (M - So my girlfriend said she needs space to work out what she wants. Now I know that this isn’t a good thing but is it necessarily a bad thing? Obviously I have agreed to give her space for one week. Two points though do I text her at all to make sure ...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 February 2018 (F - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 February 2018 (M - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

Could my FWB's partner's ego have kept him from admitting that he cares about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 February 2018 (F - I've been on and off friends with benefits with a guy for 4 years. I've fallen in love with him and I told him in person. he said he likes me but can't commit to me because of his family situation as his family are not speaking to him. During this ...

Is this seven year relationship worth working on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. He's currently in med school, and about 6 hours away from me. He did his post-bacc program at this school last year, and now he is in his first year. Even though we're 6 hours apart, I still ...

I don’t really want to go on this vacation with my dad and his girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 February 2018 (F - Dear Cupid. I am 24 and need some advice... I’m due to go on a trip in june, with my dad and his girlfriend...tickets have been paid for and now I’m not really wanting to go...I’ll be stuck on a yacht for 10 days, their friends are going bu...

Advice needed - break up or work through it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 February 2018 (M - Hi, I've in my late 20's and I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. I love her and she is an amazing woman but our relationship has recently taken a lot of hits and it's affecting both of our happiness. To the point, we are both seri...

Do we try to help this couple, whose marriage is deeply troubled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 February 2018 (F - So this is for a couple who have been family friends for a long time, let call them A (the woman) and B (the man). They've had differences in approach and tension going on, but now they have stopped conversing all together. They have a child and ...

He’s blocked me on everything, do I wait to see if he comes back or do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 February 2018 (F - Hi guys I need your advise. Me and my ex have broken up. A few months ago Due to arguing. But we are still meeting up nearly every week. He kept accusing me of cheating which I would never. He never likes me going out because guys would approach me ...

Should I just walk away and save myself more heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 February 2018 (M - Hi recently I’ve started dating a woman who is a bit older than me (I’m 22 she’s 34). It was all going well we were seeing each other most nights, we had a real spark so good we started being in a relationship, anyway a week ago she said she wasn’t ...

Should I call it quits and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 January 2018 (F - Dear Cupid, I think my relationship might be over, or it as been for a long time now...or maybe it’s not? Anyway... Myself (24/25 this year) and partner (23/24 this year) have been together for almost three and a half years and I/we are h...

The tickets have been bought, time planned but I don't want to go see my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 January 2018 (F - I have a plane ticket to go see my boyfriend this weekend. It's our anniversary and his uncle has gifted us with concert tickets and dinner. His uncle went through a lot of planning and prepping for this, because he's a really great guy and his aunt ...

Seven Year Relationship - Ended Over Phone Call

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 January 2018 (F - Hi friends... It's been ages since I posted here, however I'm stuck in yet another dilemma. I live with my boyfriend ('fiance') of 18 years. I never got to date, or try others, since I was 13/14 when we started dating. The first few years were g...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

26 January 2018 (F - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

How do I detach myself emotionally from him before actually telling him it's over if I decide I don't want this anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

24 January 2018 (M - I've been with my boyfriend for five years. To be honest things haven't been right since the second year. I met my boyfriend on online dating. I was 22 and he was 25. We are now 27 and hes 30.At the time he told me he was in and out of a gardening ...

My boyfriend's mother is a little too involved in our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 January 2018 (F - Hey everyone wondering if anyone can offer some friendly advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half although we split in the summer for a couple months due to not getting on and silly little arguments. My boyfriend ...

I wanted our mutual breakup to end on a good note but it hasn't and I am not coping with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 January 2018 (M - I was with my girlfriend since last two years, n we were good together. She always relied on me whenever she needed me even for d most small of her requirements but den few months back, according to our Hindu mythology we matched our stars or as we ...

Is this what to expect after 10 years? Or has my relationship run its course?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 January 2018 (F - Hi, I've been with my partner for over 10 years now. I'm not sure what to expect out of the relationship. If I'm looking for too much and it's unrealistic. I feel like we don't have anything in common anymore. He just plays computer games a...

Why do you think he unblocked my number and responded to me, and do you think there is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

23 January 2018 (F - I was seeing someone ( we would have been together exactly a year next month) , but he broke up with me just over a week ago. We had an on and off relationship . He broke up with me because he said he has depression and was put on anti depressa...

Do I stay? I have a lot to consider! Any advice would be helpful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 January 2018 (M - My problem is quite complex and works across a number of different levels and areaa. So i want to break it down and look at some of them piece by piece. The under pinning issue is that 18 months ago i moved from the UK to Norway (Oslo) to be with ...

Is it wrong of me to say I would leave my girlfriend if she became an addict? Is it right of her to say that I can't keep things that might "tempt" her around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 January 2018 (F - I was having a conversation with my girlfriend the other day about her being upset because her brothers have started smoking weed again. I have no problem with weed. I've smoked it before myself, but apparently for them it starts them on harder ...

A guy I was dating said how hot my sister was, and I dumped him the same night! Am I overreacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

22 January 2018 (F - Hey, everyone. So I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been on 3 dates total. I enjoyed my time with him and he's quirky in the way that he thinks and he can come off like an ass, not in a malicious way, but it intrigues me and he has treated me ...

I can’t figure out what happened with him?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 January 2018 (F - So I was talking to this guy for like some months now. We found each other online though we already knew each other beforehand, we started talking in a dating manner only from like 4 months before... so i had never really met him after we started ...

I don’t know what’s happening to my relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 January 2018 (F - I don't know what's happening to my relationship. We were together for a year and and we split. We got back together 4 months later and the past year has been amazing but something has changed. I feel like whatever I do is wrong. He never ever lis...

What hope for this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 January 2018 (F - I’m heartbroken and confused by all of this and appreciate any insight. Please bear with me and my story. I’m 30 and he’s 32. He’s Single. Never married. About 6 months ago, our friendship progressed to us having mutual feelings towards each other. ...

He's abusive and I need to get out

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21 January 2018 (F - I'm going through a really difficult period in my life and don't know what to do. How to restart and go on... I'm 41 and have been with my husband for 15 years, no kids. Good times and bad. Well now things have gotten pretty bad. The good times y...

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