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Breaking up: Help and advice

Does my ex still have feelings for me? Or am I imagining it?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have posted on here before and got some good advice. My ex bf of 3 years broke up with 1 month ago and started dating a new woman a day after we broke up. He met her while we we were out clubbing together and they had known each other on and off...

My boyfriend broke up with me and now I think I might have depression

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13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didnt want a relationship. Hes all i had and made me so happy. Recently ive had sickness, memory loss, anger, stomach pains, headaches, and ive had a period thats lasted 2 weeks+. And i havn't ate...

Getting closure from the person you thought was your ultimate soul-mate...

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13 May 2008 (M) - Sorry, the story below is a bit long but needed to explain my situation. Hopefully wont bore you too much! About 6 years ago (When I was 27) I had a long distance relationship with someone who I was crazy about. At the time I couldn't believe ...

I keep thinking about what happened with my Ex..

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13 May 2008 (F) - Basically i broke up with my bf, who i was with for 9 months, and then we saw each other on/off for 3 months after. Towards the end of the relationship he became extreamly sour, stubborn, selfish...and i broke up with him. I thought that if i broke ...

Did he ever really get over his ex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - hi. i met my boyfriend in march and he had an affair at that point with a girl from another island closeby afetr he had just brokne from his ex girl which he was dating for 9 years..from what he said he wanted to move on thats why he was trying o...

He's asked me to hang on, but I don't know if he'll ever break up with her!

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13 May 2008 (M) - I am 27 years old, I met this guy 2 months ago, we talk everyday for hours and really like each other. He says he has a girlfriend in another country whom he can't marry for culture reasons and wants me to hang on. I dont know if he will ever break ...

I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...

How do I deal with my two-faced boyfriend? I've just been dumped...

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13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has just dumped me, for a girl who he said he's hated forever. How do I sort this problem?...

He don't wanna say if he still loves me

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13 May 2008 (F) - Sigh , i have this boyfriend whom treat me very good in the past , but as time past like 3-4 months , he started to change alot , he like no longer that i know from the start, then one day , we had a quarrel , and i went checking on him , i realise ...

His ex-wife is now expecting his child-should I be happy for him?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I am dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. We are so much in love with each other... it was love at first sight and we both feel we are right together. He was married (divorced in the meantime) and already has a 2yo boy. His ex-wife got...

Married long time, with new partner now, cant orgasm easily with new partner?

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is the scenario: Married 14 yrs, getting divorced, since ex have not been able to orgasm easily with anyone, met someone now that is kind caring and still have trouble w/orgasm, have to use vibrator which never had to do with ex. Any opinions ...

I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...

How do you stop feeling like your worthless, and that if you weren't good enough for your ex then you must be no good for anyone else?

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13 May 2008 (F) - How do you get over caring about what an abusive ex thinks of you? How do you get over the feeling that you're a loser because your ex treated you so bad, used you and then dumped you because you had nothing of value to them left?? How do you stop...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...

I loved her even though she was extremely cold and unresponsive! How can I get over this break up?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I'll cant promise I'll keep this short. I promise I wont ramble, however. Me and my long-distance girlfriend had been having problems making time to see eachother. She was also extremely cold, and completely a-sexual. She cited saving sexual ac...

Ever since we became friends he has stopped initiating things. Why is this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - well me and this guy were really close...but then we decided that we were better off as friends because of the type of relationship we had we could talk about anything. and i came off as one of his friends. so thats why we decided to be just ...

Confused, and wondering about my commitment to him!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years now. Give our age difference (he's 30), he's been one of the most wonderful guys i've ever dated. But starting at the beiginning of this year, I sta...

I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My question is a bit strange but it is something that has been bothering me for a long time. Ok, it all started bout 8 months ago, i fell out with my bitchy best mate. A few weeks later i started getting anonymous phone calls, the number would alw...

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

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12 May 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

I want her back as a partner, not a friend.

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12 May 2008 (M) - My fiance' and I were together for 4 years. We have split and come back a few times, but recently she decided that it was time to end it for good. She still wants to be friends, but I still love her and wish her back. Is there anyway that I can ge...

I don't love her as much, what should I do?

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12 May 2008 (M) - What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...

I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...

My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help

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12 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...

I still can't get over him

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hello again people..my names _______ and my boyfriend for 1 year just broke up with like 2 months ago and i still can't get over him..i thought i was but other nite was prom and i seen him and when i looked at him he jsut liked stared at me..idk wat ...

He's broken up with me for good this time, how do I get over him?

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12 May 2008 (F) - How do I get over a broken heart, my boyfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago and since then I've sunken back into a depression. This is the second time he has done this but we got back together the last time. he says this time we won't.... I have ...

How long is too long on a break?

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12 May 2008 (M) - My gf and I split up just over a month ago after 18 months to have some time apart etc. She said she did want to get back with me eventually. Its been a month and all she says is that she doesnt want a bf at the moment however I still see her and ...

He gives me hope to just shut me down! Is this his big ego?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I have been on a rollercoaster ride with my ex boyfriend for almost 4 months. We were together for almost 14 months. We have been on and off. We go through our times of no contact, then he finds a way to measile his way back into my life. Sending...

What should I do if I don't like my boyfriend as much as I used to?

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12 May 2008 (F) - well wat if i dont like my boyfriend as much as i use to but im afraid to break up with him because i know how it will be with out him it will be very different no more holdin hands or talking on the fone for a long time or even having a boyfriend ...

Can someone help me understand his behaviour?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give ...

My girfriend broke up with me but still hasn't moved out, why?

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12 May 2008 (M) - so i was seeing this girl for a few months, felt we really connected. we moved in way to soon she needed to stay for a bit while she looked for a new place, and eventually we both agreed we enjoyed living together. that was after 2 months, soon i ...

I'm too scared to tell him about my past in case he doesn't want to see me anymore.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I married when i was 22 (i'm now 27). I was with the guy for 5 years and we have been separated 3 years now. It was an amicable separation, we just grew apart and were too young I guess and rushed into it. I've started seeing this guy who I r...

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my e...

My practical driving test is tomorrow and I can't find my theory test certificate? Please help!!

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11 May 2008 (F) - Please help me!!! My practical driving test is tomorrow and i cannot find my theory test certificate? I dont know what to do? Can anybody please please help me?...

Which of the four should I choose?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this ...

My ex wants us to be friends even though he has a girlfriend. Why does he send me mixed signals?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Me and my ex-boy friend been broken up for almost 4-5years and he is in another relationship still with the girl he was cheating on me with. He want's us to be friends but it's hard for me because we had history. I get a feeling that he regrets are ...

I'm heartbroken and frustrated, will I ever find love again?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Will I ever find love again? I thought that I had finally found my soul mate and after almost 2.5 years together she decided that she wanted to be friends. I know she got frustrated that we weren't engaged yet and I wanted to and told her this but i ...

We keep breaking up and I don't know why I keep going back?!

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11 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 5 months... and we have broken up 4 times already over stupid things. but i dont like to argue with him and i dont. but I dont know why i keep goin back to him. But I know im in love....

We broke up but he has been finding reasons to contact me, why?

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11 May 2008 (F) - hey aunts jus wondering. me and my boyfriend hav been broken up for 2 months almost and only recently like 2 weeks ago his been trying to get my attention. It started off by him msgin me pointless things like "do u know where this place is?" th...

He broke up with me suddenly, so why is he telling me he still loves me?

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11 May 2008 (F) - My now ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 3 intense years together. It came as a bit of a shock because we had been having a few problems but agreed to work through them but before we had a chance to he broke off with me. We both went ...

He broke up with me, how do I get him back?

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11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, he was all i had and im feeling exremely lonely and want him back, how can i get him back? ...

One day passed after the break up - and I'm sorry for the things that will never happen... help!

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11 May 2008 (F) - It has been one day since I broke if off with my boyfriend - I am kinda lost and dont know what to do - does anyone have any advice on how to keep moving and not be thinking about him? I knew I was going to be second guessing about the breaku...

Does my jealous ex want me back?

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11 May 2008 (F) - please help? I was going out with this guy i broke up with him cuz of his jealousy and anger problems. however he never stopped calling until one day i met with him and i had a friend with me who he is a guy.. my ex started getting mad tell...

Why is all the good not remembered, just my inadequacy?

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11 May 2008 (M) - many years of being loving and loyal in a marriage, does it really matter? being disabled leaving me lacking in the intimacy department, so it is not as often as it use to be, i thought i was living a life of love,but now she says it is not enough. ...

How do you break up with a guy when you're just not sure why you want to do it?

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11 May 2008 (F) - I really liked his guy and then when i started to date him I stopped he he done nothing wrong but I don't like him anymore and I have no clue why but I am going to break up with him cause I dont like him anymore how do I do it (break up with him) ...

How can I make money to help out my mum and dad?

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11 May 2008 (F) - The price for gas is going up, Food prices are going up, basically everything costs more! So, my mom and dad are getting low on money. But i'm a responsible and GROWING 13 year old [ha] and i'm tired of asking my mom and dad. Plus, summer is comi...

My partner has skipped the country leaving me with a 5 month old child

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10 May 2008 (F) - I've posted before so please bear with me. My partner and I were having difficulties back in January as he kept on upping and leaving me for several days at a time. In March we had a chat and agreed we would make a real go of things and he co...

Why am I so scared of ending this relationship with my drug addicted boyfriend.

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10 May 2008 (F) - Okay i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfrend for over a year now, i met him at the beginning of university. I'm moving in whith him and a few friends next year but the problem is, is that i don't know if i want to be with him anymore. He does drugs an...

My girlfriend wants to move on but how do I get her back?

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10 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 and a half years just recently broke up with me. We started dating right when she got out of highschool she is now 22 and i am 25. We were each others first love and now she says she wants to be alone. She says she doesnt really ...

Is this really over because I think he still has feelings for me? It beaks my heart to think it is!

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10 May 2008 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend broke up a few days ago, he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we moved too fast and we've been together for 8 months, but it wasn't a horrible break up,and we talk on the phone like friends, and hung out for a ...