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Breaking up: Help and advice

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i o...

I'm happy that he's interested to get back together with me but why now? And why's he acting like nothings changed?

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7 November 2009 (F) - So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided ...

Can you love someone you don't admire?

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7 November 2009 (M) - Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I...

At 24 am I too old to be happy again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no ...

How to make this situation better, how to explain where he understands?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have an ongoing problem and I can't deal with it at all! I was going out with a guy for a year: and he was great and I was happy with him. One weekend things took a different turn - all of a sudden I started feeling bad about him. Loss of attra...

I broke up with him and now I realize how much I loved him and want him back!

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was a...

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

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6 November 2009 (M) - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...

She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?

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6 November 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

How do I make him understand it's over?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been "talking" to this guy for a little over a year. i know want to break it off. i told him what broung me to thim decision and he does not want to except that. how do i make him understand it's over? help me please!!...

Do I have a chance with my sister in law?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

Has my bi-polar boyfriend left me for good?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Is it worth waiting for for is it over? my bf of 2 years has broken up with me. i love him to bits and i KNOW that he loves me more than anything too but he says he needs a break and thinks it's for the best. he's been under alot of stress; famil...

She's going to live our dream with someone else

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6 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 yrs has recently left me and i am finding it very difficult to move on. She says she loves me, but she's not IN love with me anymore. We have been through alot in our relationship, 4 miscarriages but it made us stronger. She says...

Violent ex tricked me. Will this hurt me in court?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My ex was arrested the following night of him attacking me. It was my friend who rang the police luckily she was there when he got in my flat, and pulled a knife on me. He wrecked my flat too, his bail conditions meant that he wasnt to come near me ...

Has he fallen out of love with me?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was ...

How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?

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5 November 2009 (F) - So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...

Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...

I know I can't get over our break-up while we have contact, but I can't abandon him while he is treated for cancer!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm in such a difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend 2 months ago, but I still love him. We've stayed in contact since that day which I know we shouln't have because it's made it impossible to get over him. He still loves me ...

How can I show my ex-girlfriend that I've changed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - i dated this girl for 4 years on an off. we broke up about a year ago and sine then she has started seeing another guy. she told me that we were done for good and then about a week ago she started calling me and saying that she still loves me and ...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

What do these vivid and awful dreams mean?

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5 November 2009 (F) - can anyone help me interpret these dreams? im so confused. lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot. we broke up on monday night (its thursday morning now). on monday night, i had a dream that i went out and kept drinking and drinking...

Can I get him back? Or is it too late?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I was devastated. I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but ...

Should I ask my boyfriend for space?

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5 November 2009 (F) - i know i love my boyfriend, i appreciate everything he do for me. and i don't want to leave him. but lately i feel like a need a little space. i don't know if if it is because i am in college and i want to just have other options. but should i tell ...

I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!

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5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...

He says it's over... is it? Somebody please help.

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4 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfreind split up on friday i havent always been a jealous person when we first was going out he was going with his ex 4 3 yr and he split up with her and i ended up getting with him at our christmas party we wo going out 2 week then i ...

Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

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4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

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4 November 2009 (F) - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...

Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we open...

After our break-up, I feel used! Am I wrong?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy aged 22 for 4 months, i loved him so an ended up giving up my virginity to him, he was an alcoholic and i rarely felt his attention. one day when i was asking about us, about the relationship an its weakness he looked at me and told me ...

My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!

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4 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...

Have I ruined everything with the man I love?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months. He's a complicated creature, very sports orientated from a young age so his appearance has always been important to him so he regularly goes to the gym. He has also never been on holiday with anyone and canno...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

When we are together it is amazing, but after a couple of days she becomes more distant! What should I do next?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi there all, Sorry for the long story but..... I am desperately looking for some help and any answers would be deeply appreciated. I have recently split up with my girlfriend of 2 Years. It was a very troubled relationship with arguments ...

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

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3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. ...

Is my ex leading me on?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

I'm confused! Do I love my ex-boyfriend?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. I live in Illinois and he lives in Pennsylvania. I know many of you will say it's a long distance relationship and it doesn't mean anything, so just quit it, but it's not that ...

While I love the way things are, I want room for more in the future.

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3 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes I'll try to be brief. Im 39 divorced with two childen in a relatioship with a divorced guy no kids who lives an hour away. Weve been together over 2 years having broke up several months back as he had never said he loved me and didnt ...

We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!

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3 November 2009 (M) - ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

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3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I will seek help, I am obsessed about my ex-girlfriend. Do we still have a chance?

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3 November 2009 (M) - I've posted about my situation numerous times. Brief recap. Dated for a year and a half. I started of as a confident dude, then started losing confidence, low self esteem, etc. My ex is beautiful. She broke it off, but we still continued to hang...

My ex keeps contacting me. What is she playing at?!

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3 November 2009 (M) - havne't heard from the ex in 2 weeks. I've dropped off the face of the earth and avoided her. Sunday night i get the text message. "I have a book, movie, and a bowl belonging to you. Let me know if you want them". She has had these items for over a ...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?

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3 November 2009 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for th...

Will he ever come back to me?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but cared about no ...