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Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I support my ex? I feel angry and ashamed of succumbing to his desperation

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19 January 2017 (F - My ex and I were together for 2 years but in the end it became unhealthy and toxic. He became verbally abusive and was flirting online with other girls which made me depressed and anxious. In the end I had to go ‘no contact’ in an attempt to get ...

He stood me up numerous times but the one time I tell him I can't meet he ends things??

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19 January 2017 (F - In december last year a guy popped up to me. we had both known of each other for a very long time, he had even been following me on all my social media platforms since 2014, but only december he decided to make his move. he was really intense ...

He lacks a stable job and a career so I'm breaking up with him. Am I not openminded?

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19 January 2017 (F - Dear Cupid, I've put a lot of consideration into this and I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's not that we don't get along - we get along rather well and have a great time together. He is positive I will be his future wife and has info...

How can I get my current Gf to trust me? I've not cheated on her. But I did cheat on my ex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (M - I cheated on my first love two years ago with my current girlfriend. I broke up with my first love to set her free from my cheating ways. I still love her and check her social media accounts to see how she's doing but I never told her I cheated wh...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

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18 January 2017 (F - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?

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15 January 2017 (F - I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...

Do I stay with this guy or do I leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 January 2017 (F - Hi. I am needing advice. When I was 18/19 I got engaged to my ex, we were together almost three years. I was 21 when we split. I met my current partner within three months of my ex and I splitting up (my ex cheated and got engaged to s...

What can do, I am still learning how to negotiate conflict in a relatonship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 January 2017 (M - My relationship recently ended with my girlfriend of nearly a year. There was a falling out at my uncle's wedding where my girlfriend was heavily intoxicated and left the dinner table to vent to a bartender about things she did not like about my ...

I asked before and followed advise but nothing works

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - I have written here before asking for advice and I tried to take th advice but I'm still feeling the urge and fighting so hard to be happy - I can't seem to get over my ex- it's been close to a year - it was a short relationship and he wasn't let's ...

Being just friends makes sense but I don't know how to approach this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, I (23/m) met a girl (22/f) last year over the course of a job where we were both away from home. During our time there we became really good friends and it was after the time had ended (and I had broken up with a different girl) ...

My boyfriend says I can't leave him because he's planned the next 5 years around me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - Have I fallen out of love with him or am i just depressed? Recently i can't bring myself to say i love you to my boyfriend. We have been friends for 3 years and have dated since last May. In October i felt the same way as i do now just feeling dow...

Could it be her using fake profiles?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - I would like your opinions about what has happened four times in the last four months, i have been on a dating site for few years now, I've had two girlfriends,so the one ghost me a year ago, I've ask a few women friends of mine about this, well I ...

Can a seven year relationship be over because of a lie said 6 years ago? Am I completely in the wrong here ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 January 2017 (M - My Partner [30 F] of 7 years broke up with me [32 M]for lying. She found out I met my son (1year old at the time) when I was abroad 6 years ago. Myself and my partner had just broken up at the time so I was single when abroad. I never told her I...

I still think he cares. How can I convince him that I am fine? Or should I even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I was in a five year relationship with a man I loved. He lived with me in my home and we did everything together. We saw a counselor together because we had broken up in the past. In one session the counselor made some comment about my memory ...

My crazy abusive ex got a job where I work.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I was in a emotionally abusive relationship for years. I finally had the strength to get away. For years, the cycle was that she would do something horrific to me, and then break up with me. We would proceed not to speak for a while until she ...

Boyfriend lost his job, became depressed and now won't speak to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I'm in a pretty bad situation. I dated a guy for 6 months long distance and were very serious- he met my family, I spoke to his, our parents talked- we were on the marriage track. 4 months into it he told me that he was unemployed. It threw me for a ...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

Did I over-react when I was upset about his weak excuse for canceling his visit?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - My long distance bf who lives 3 hours away was suppose to come this weekend to see me. I was really looking forward to it since its a long weekend which means we will have more time together .However he has Monday to Friday job so he is only ...

I always fear something bad is waiting for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Hey all! I have a dog of 2 years. I love her like a baby and so does my family. Sometimes I just watch her sleeping and worry about how long she will live. I want her to complete the 15 year mark and don't want to lose her young- of course if I h...

Has anybody else been in a bad place, and how did you turn your life around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I've gotten myself into a mess and I would like some advice with how to deal with it. Has anybody else been in a bad place and how did you turn your life around? I'm depressed at the moment because of an extremely bad relationship. He did s...

How long does a relationship 'break' last?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (M - How long do relationship 'breaks' generally last? My fiancé has suggested two weeks but then said it could be indefinitely, I feel she is messing with my head. ...

I think she's going to dump me because her dog loves me more than her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 January 2017 (M - I have been with my girlfriend for a little while now, but she has trouble with her dog loving her... I see that the dog loves her, but she thinks the dog loves me more and dosent love her at all. Recently I have been accused of stealing her dog...

A brief text on Christmas but nothing since then! What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - Really need advice Haven't spoken to a guy who I got close to but it didn't work for various reasons We had a huge falling out but last year (January )he asked to meet me and we had a coffee After that we didn't talk again So this year...

What should I do about my ex-partner and eventually getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - How do I get my ex boyfriend back?? I was with him for one year but friends for years before that. I have previously been in an abusive relationship(6 years ago) The partner at the time lied and lied to me that he wasn't cheating, to the point...

I can't get over this girl that rejected me 3 months ago!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 January 2017 (M - I can't get over this girl that rejected me 3 months ago because, I smoke pot, drink, go to parties and deal a little bit of weed and molly to make a little bit of some extra cash when i'm not at school. I tried to hide that I was feeling sad from ...

I'm looking for feedback on my decision to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hello Everyone! I am truly at a crossroads in my life. I am 20, about to turn 21, graduating an entire year early from a pretty rigorous liberal arts college. Back in October I broke up with my 3-year, mainly long distance boyfriend, whom ...

Why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me? He broke off our relationship six months ago for no reason that I could see. When I asked him all he could say was that he wanted someone who was the same every day. Makes no sense as I am always i...

She's broken up with her girlfriend and I've always thought we could have something special together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Yesterday I bumped into an old friend, someone I haven't seen much of this past year, but someone I have always, since we first met, had very strong feelings for. In the entire time that I have known her she has always had a long-term girlfriend, ...

I am finding it hard to communicate with my perfectionist BF, especially about studying law. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - There is so much going on in my life. I am a 21 year old accounting student who wants to change to law. It is quite depressing especially if i tell my bf (23 years old) of 6 months that because he will be disappointed in me. My parents already ...

Why is he doing this? He tells me its my fault

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - My question is me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year. I have been deeply in love with this guy for a long time, we enjoy the same things we have fun together,but recently things have changed for the worse, we no long do things t...

In just 2 days? How can someone do that - fall out of love and become so cold to someone in such a short period of time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (M - Hi guys. Glad to be sharing my first post here with you - hopefully you can offer some perspective on what has been an incredibly difficult week... Apologies for how long this is likely to be - I want to make sure that I get as much detail in ...

Why in the world can't I move on?! ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I have been through a couple of serious breakups in my life but for some reason the one that happened recently has seemingly destroyed me. I dated someone for a very short period of time albeit knowing him for over 12 years. We were only together...

What I want to know is, if he is seeing my ex best friend then would he really want to stay friends and in touch with me when there is a good chance I would eventually find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend of one year an I split up 8 weeks ago. We split because I thought he was seeing my best friend....I still do. He has ALWAYS sworn that he never had and never would have anything to do with her and that one day I will see that. He tells...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Is my ex looking to reconcile, or just hoping to being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Ex gave me two missed calls on the 29th of Dec. He claimed it was accidental. So I didn't react thinking it was genuine mistake. But he wished me a happy new year, and we ended up texting for about an hour. Funny thing about the text was we we...

Can this become my best option? I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely. I come from a very large polygamous family but we're so divided that every part of the whole is like on its own niche. I don't talk to my step neither do they talk to me. I only keep co...

Is it possible I haven't found anyone who could excite me and hence I've now lost interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - hi there!! A happy new year to everyone I want to know if anyone has gone through the phase I am going though right now. So it has been over a year I broke up from a bad relationship that was long term. Since my focus is on my career and other p...

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...

How do I tell a sexting creep I'm not interested without hurting him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - Hi every one, I need help to tell him I'm nit interested. I had a one night stand about 5 months ago, and have been texting him since. But he has tried sexting me for a few weeks now, I keep trying to change the subject, but he's not getting ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

I just broke up with my BF and I am upset. Any advice. please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - I told my boyfriend of almost 7 months that I loved him. He didn't say it back. I asked him why and he said he just doesn't feel that way. And that when he feels it he will let me know. He had a very nice ex girlfriend for two years and he sai...

What do I do? Don't want to split up. Yet also don't want a Bf who behaves like a cheater 2.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - hiya everyone me and my fiance have been together for 3 years. A few month ago he started to add women on facebook the women he added were the type of women he said he would like as a girlfriend. I asked him why he was adding them (he hardly uses ...

Why is this happening? He has no time for me. I am fed up and ready to just walk away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend and i have been together for four years now we have three girls together and now we are having problems because he doesn't involve me in any part of his life what so ever. He doesn't invite me out anywhere when he goes out with his...

I've given her support over the years. But now she seems to have dropped me. Should I just accept her rejection and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - My friend is mad at me after constantly asking me for advice and not liking my advice. Okay I have this friend from college - we met in class 3 years ago and kept an in-class friendship, we messaged almost every day on Facebook but we live 3 ho...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

What do I do ? Head says no. Heart says yes. He dumped me, lied to me, then asked me for sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - I was with my partner for a year and at first it was perfect. He was the first man to understand a lot of things. He constantly called me beautiful and always surprised me. He did things I'd never had before and I never felt so loved. But then ...

What hope is there for our relationship? He's pushed me away and we don't interact anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - Ok, so im currently in a relationship and have been with this man for 9 years and we have 3 children together. I dont love him anymore. He is obsessed with this game on his phone and has been for the past 2 years, since he started working....

Can our relationship work? we have a baby on the way but the father of the baby has an addiction. Should I break up with him and move back with family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - We have a baby on the way and he is addicted to marijuana. I had my own personal addiction to it myself but after realizing I was with child, I don't need it anymore. I want my child to have the extra money instead and to use it to benefit as a fam...

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