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Breaking up: Help and advice

My well-connected but broke boyfriend has 4720 friends on Facebook but won’t add me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

23 April 2018 (F - I probably know the answer to this question, but if anyone has some thoughts, I'm in a long distance relationship with a much older man who is very accomplished and well-connected (flat broke, but always has younger women chasing him). We see each ...

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

22 April 2018 (F - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I calle...

What are some thoughts or suggestions on solving this without ending this or is it just better to end this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 April 2018 (F - I’ve been with my partner for going on nine years. We have lived together a good majority of this time. There are children involved from previous relationships, but my struggle doesn’t really involve the children. My partner is a great guy. I trul...

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 April 2018 (F - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going ...

Am I meant to tell him to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 April 2018 (F - I'm currently talking to this lad who seems to be interested in me. It would be fine but he has a girlfriend, who I asked about recently. He never seems too happy to see her, says they're distant,she doesn't speak to him much and she has cheated on ...

How do I stop thinking about her being with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 April 2018 (M - My girlfriend of several years broke up with me recently and we haven't talked or communicated since. It has felt like I've had a death in my family - I've lost the person I've spent every intimate detail of daily life with for the last several ...

He said he loved me but then he dumped me out of the blue! Do I just walk away and forget it all?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 April 2018 (F - Hi Everyone I have a really big dilemma and don’t know what to do. Long story short. I was seeing this guy for a little over 2 months. Things were going amazing, we got along well, we wanted the same things out of life, we had many of the same ...

I have an ex that wont let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 April 2018 (M - Me and my ex girlfriend split up 4, maybe even closer to 5 years ago. In the end, she got quite nasty and I ended up blocking her on Facebook. Fast forward a few years and I get a message request from a previously deactivated account of hers,...

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 April 2018 (F - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and ...

My hsband left me for another woman but wont considera divorce.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 April 2018 (F - My husband left me with other woman his (mistress) it's been 2 weeks now since he left. I'm 37 yr old My husband is 54 and his mistress is 45 year old she's older than me . I want to divorce him coz I don't trust him no more . But my husband ...

I'm still sexually attached to the guy that my ex pretended to be. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 April 2018 (F - Thank you for reading this. About 10 years ago, I broke up with this guy after a few months when I realized he was abusive. I felt betrayed because we had supposedly been childhood friends. I broke all ties with him. Like most abusers, at first he ...

The man who was my companion contacts me through my daughter after 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 April 2018 (F - Hello peeps I have a question that I'd like your honest opinions about - please...? I met this lovely, magic but crazy guy in 2016. We clicked. It was very strong whilst it lasted. But he liked his drink and we both got drunk a lot and that was...

Can we really be future friends respectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 April 2018 (F - Same sex best friends for four years and we crossed the line and had emotional and physical affIr for 4 months. We are both married and won’t leave our husbands and families. We still work together and continue to have lunch and talk at work only ...

Am I wrong for checking his activity on Instagram? Is my not reaching out to him an overreaction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 April 2018 (F - I have a question regarding this issue I have in my relationship. My boyfriend follows hundreds of “Instagram models”, strippers, half naked ladies etc... and I’ve seen from his activity that he frequently likes their posts. Two days ago, he ...

Does this sound hopeless? Should I try talking to my boyfriend's rigid Indian parents and fight for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

9 April 2018 (F - Hello all.. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I’ve known him for almost a year and honestly, he is the best boyfriend over ever had. I’m not exaggerating. He treats me with love, respect and kindness. After breaking up with my abusive ...

My boyfriend asked me to move on but then why is he messaging me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

9 April 2018 (F - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about four months now. Things were starting to get serious but then we had our first big fight. It was all done over the phone and we argued for about a week, both being too stubborn to meet up. He had the weekend ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 April 2018 (F - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

Was it the right time to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 April 2018 (F - I’ve been dating a guy for a few months after a break up with a long term partner who i was living with. We started dating and it was great. It wasn’t butterflies and excitement, but comfortable and safe. After I told him the reason my...

Should I break up with my live-in girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 April 2018 (M - I am in a long term relationship and my gf isnt interested in sex. I've always had a higher sex drive than her but she only wants sex when it is her cycle for a kid. I want a kid but college is starting to get stressful and I dont think I want to ...

He lied about an ex. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 April 2018 (F - Last night I caught my bf of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told me he had a gf in the summer of ...

My ex is coming back into my life when I have a new partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 April 2018 (M - I need some advice, 4 years ago I started dating my best friend, we were together for about 8 months and it was perfect! However I made mistakes in the relationship such as being too close to her and so i drove her away and didnt handle the brea...

I started an affair as a FWB but we are so well matched!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 March 2018 (F - I have been with my fiancé for 6 years now he is much older than me and I have just recently caught the eye of a wonderful man that is my age that has a good head on his shoulders and is very charming and respectful the only bad part is we are ...

How do I get through this breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 March 2018 (F - My ex and I have a long history. We were friends for many years and then about two and a half years ago, started a sexual relationship. We did everything together, and eventually decided to make it an official relationship about 8 months ago. Out ...

What do you do when a relationship has become boring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

31 March 2018 (F - Hi what do you do when a relationship has become boring I’ve been with my fiancé for 4 years we never do anything together in that time we’ve been out for 6 meals and that’s it he never wants to do anything he gets stoned every day all day he was a ...

Why won’t he respond to me and give me back my things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 March 2018 (F - I have been involved with a guy from work for over a year now he was originally an affair from which I left a violent relationship. Things were going well although there has been a lot if issues a long the way financial and emotiobal more m...

He broke up with me but I'm worried he will hurt himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 March 2018 (F - I met a guy 16 months ago and fell instantly in love , although I felt he was too young and good looking for me he suffers ptsd and seemed to need me . He had no money and was struggling with breakdowns etc I helped him loads with money etc . He ...

I love another boy but don’t know how to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 March 2018 (F - Well, l am kind of in a weird situation, there was a boy who l had a crush on, but l thought he wasn't in to me. We grew up together and we did things we shouldn't have (anything other then sex*) but l thought we were just messing around, and he r...

I’m not over my ex, in a new relationship but feel numb, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 March 2018 (F - Hiya I was with my ex boyfriend over 2 year we split up 6 years ago and I still can’t get over him I was completely in love with him but I was young and didn’t know how to express it he was 8 years older than me I was 26 he was 32 he didn’t treat me ...

Should I keep trying to work things out after my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 March 2018 (M - Kate and I started seeing each other two years ago, February 2016. We liked each other a lot... we had unprotected sex on the first date and saw each other 2-3 times a week for about four months. Usually we would visit a museum or show, wander about ...

Am I wrong to not be friends with my ex because he’s re-established contact with the woman he was hitting on behind my back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 March 2018 (F - My ex and I broke up about two months ago because he's moving away. Now, in the beginning of us dating and getting to know each other we had an issue with him talking to and hitting on this one girl behind my back. I ended it with him when I found ...

Was I unreasonable in not accepting my ex boyfriend's friend (female)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - I had a row with my boyfriend and we broke up last year. I am torturing myself every day with the thought that I was unreasonable and it was my fault. I cannot move on in my mind. I am replaying the whole relationship over and over. My issue was ...

Boyfriend wants to break up because he has exams and can't devote as much time to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - I’m 15 and my boyfriend if 16 we’ve been together for 9 months now , he’s approaching his exams (GCSEs ) and is getting very stressed . Recently he said that it’s best if we break up as he feels as though He’s not giving me enough attention and that ...

I’m worried about my boyfriend and Emily!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - Hi, I'm worried about my boyfriend. Basically, a few months ago, I met him with my friend (let's call her Emily). Emily said she fancied him and I did. He then asked me out which was fine. But Emily was constantly texting him. One day she asked ...

Should I break up with my new girlfriend? I don't feel for her what I felt for others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 March 2018 (M - How am feeling these days, been with my girlfriend for over a year now, we get along pretty good, sex maybe once a month, I want more but she is too tired all the time so I quit trying, so I do myself, the thing is in the past six years had my heart ...

I can't make sense of her behavior and it's killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

23 March 2018 (F - I'm in a really bad place after a breakup and I need some help. What started off as friends with benefits close to 3 years ago eventually turned into a relationship about 9 months ago. It has been plagued with some issues here and there that h...

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