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Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm ready to walk, am I just being used as a babysitter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted today

20 July 2017 (M - hey, my partner sits on her phone all day does the odd chore round the house i mean when one of the babies does a dirty nappy she doesnt get down to cleaning it up she tells me babies pood so i end up doing it and been like that for years im a stay ...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 July 2017 (F - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

think they are way too secretive and just honestly don't want them anywhere near each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 July 2017 (F - Okay so before me and my bf were dating he had a crush on my best friend but nothing ever happened because he was actually dating someone else. We winded up dating about a yr later. We were kind of like a trio before our romance started but as time...

Do I pick my FWB or the girl I was dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 July 2017 (M - Hi all. In much need of some help to sort out this insanity I've found myself in. So I've been in a friend's with benefits relationship with a woman for 2 years now. She's actually become my very best friend. But I also have a girl who is supe...

He's back with her and I'm hurting. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 July 2017 (F - They were together for 2 years and they haven't really had a no contact period. Well, she stopped talking to him for two months and when she hit him up when she visited town he lashed out at her and said "You haven't talked to me in two months! What ...

A man who she has been dating for 3 weeks gets more recognition than I did in 3 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 July 2017 (F - I am so upset and livid right now and I just need some words of wisdom and kind responses to bring me back down. I'm a gay female. I spent 3 years in a relationship with a woman. I was the only woman that she'd ever been with. It was one of th...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 July 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

I want him back but I don't think my family and friends will like it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 July 2017 (F - I had been in a relationship for almost 6 years (engaged to be married) and my fiancé informed me almost a month ago he likes another woman. After plenty of time I decided one night to leave him and moved everything out and back to my parents ho...

Do I leave my depressed boyfriend who will not get help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 July 2017 (F - I have been with my partner just short of four years and I can confidently say he was the love of my life. I say was because now he is suffering with depression and will not seek help. He got diagnosed with this in 2013 and stopped taking tablets ...

I feel like I'm a rebound and that he's not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 July 2017 (F - My boyfriend broke up with his last ex girlfriend almost 2 years ago, I'm not very sure he is over her and I feel I'm just a rebound whenever I ask him questions about his past relationships he doesn't get frustrated about any of his exes except his ...

Help me understand these people! I'm feeling hurt and confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 July 2017 (F - Hi I broke up with my husband in October and met someone I'm work after. It was a whirl wind and I was vulnerable. The man was charming told me I was wonderful promised me the world. I fell for it hook line and sinker. I found out he lived w...

Hes been exchanging suggestive messages with an ex ... should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 July 2017 (F - A few months ago, my boyfriend and I argued over a woman that he had been making sexual comments with on facebook. He said that he was joking, but I didn't think it was funny. She said she had a soft spot for him, then he mentioned a "hard spot" , ...

I don't understand why she wont just delete her profile from online dating sites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 July 2017 (M - It's hard to know where to start, and I know this will turn into a long post so I appreciate anyone willing to read through and offer advice. I've been in a long-term-relationship for about six years, we're the same age. When things are good,...

Trivial Fights getting out of control

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 July 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have had our ups and downs. When it is good it is REALLY good. The passion is high. We share a lot and are similar in many ways. But we have had our share of down-at-the mouth fights. Somehow we ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 July 2017 (F - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

I may have made a massive mistake by breaking up with her! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 June 2017 (M - I really need to impartial and unbiased advice over a break-up I initiated 3 days ago, which I'm now really worried that I've made the wrong call - so please read my story and offer your advice! I had been dating this girl for pretty much 6 mo...

Do you think my ex-roommate will want to date me again if I put zero pressure on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 June 2017 (F - So I dated my roommate for a year. It never progressed very far because every time I put pressure on him (which I have a habit of doing) he freaked out and pulled away. We really liked each other though so I always assumed the problem was living ...

My boyfriend left me for another woman in the past, we have since made up but I can't seem to get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 June 2017 (F - I've known my boyfriend since high school so about 8 years or so. Last November, my boyfriend broke things off with me and within a week started dating the woman he was talking to behind my back. Now, I don't care that he was talking to another ...

He broke up with me but now is sending messages with hearts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 June 2017 (F - Hey i need help, My boyfriend broke up with me recently because he thought we were drifting apart after we got out of school. He told me that we should just be friends and after that he stopped texting me. Now he is texting me a lot and putting ...

He wants to be friends with his female co worker and doesn't take my feelings into consideration

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 June 2017 (F - Ive known a man for the past 6 yrs, we lived together for three years. the fourth yr we broke up. he was talking about marriage but never really asked me. then one day a new female came to work at is work place. slowly things changed between us. ...

I'm always the gateway girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 June 2017 (F - OK, I don't know what I'm asking here, maybe hope from people in / or were in similar situations. Basically, long story short, I'm the gateway girl for guys to find true love/marriage/happily ever afters. I'v never had a relationship last lo...

He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 June 2017 (F - I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him o...

My ex boyfriend had me arrested for harassment charges! Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - I need some advice please. I was with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and the relationship was great, we had so much in common and were lovers but also best friends. I have abandonment issues and eventually started to self destruct until, after weeks of...

My boyfriend says he's depressed and needs space

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 plus months and everything was so wonderful and amazing but recently, he told me he wasnt happy/depressed because he has family issuses going on at home and I wasnt allowed to see him because of my mom. O...

He said he needs his space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 27 days ago

24 June 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 14 months. We study in the same college and things were great. We loved each other. We used to spend a lot of time together and we were very happy. However as the college closed for the summer vacation, ...

Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

23 June 2017 (F - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...

How do I make the break for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 June 2017 (F - I just read this article about having to let go of a true soulmate; that certain brands of soulmates come in fast, passionately - like a tornado only to be the impetus behind the ultimate crash and burn. So you love someone who also loves you b...

Are we playing the "he loves me..he loves me not" game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

22 June 2017 (F - I had been dating a guy for a year and everything was going fine. And suddenly he stopped receiving my calls or replying to my texts. After continuously texting he replied and said he didnt want to hurt me but he needed space and time.The next day ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

21 June 2017 (M - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

Is my boyfriends best friend trying to break us up? Should the relationship be put after his best friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

21 June 2017 (F - So this is a bit of a long story so I do apologise in advance. Back in December my boyfriend broke up with his ex girlfriend, then on a drunken evening on New Year's Eve he slept with his best friend, that was all it was to him. We are all part of a ...

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