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She's still sharing a bed with her partner of 6 years! What do I do?

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23 February 2017 (M - Hi I'm seeing a girl and have been for over 6 months but she's still living with her partner of 6 years ... I did know her before and was common knoledge they were not close ... she promised me she would leave once she got the finance to move out ...

If he wants to remain friends, I'm going to need a sincere apology!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 February 2017 (F - I recently broke it off with a guy I was dating because he wasn't ready for commitment. It hurt a lot but I'm mostly over it now. There was a deep connection and we could potentially be really good friends if the bad feelings can be resolved....

I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!

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22 February 2017 (F - I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 February 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 February 2017 (F - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited int...

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 February 2017 (M - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing ...

We were on a break for 2 weeks and he got a woman pregnant. I dont't know how I feel about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F - Hi my question is that I have been seeing a guy casually for about 8 months now. We had quite a big argument about 6 weeks ago and there were was no contact for 2 weeks, then he got in touch, so we started talking again. Whilst we were havin...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Should I completely cut him off and just mend my broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 February 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months in a sort-of FWB situaton. We never specifically defined it as FWB, but I did say I wasn't looking for anything serious...Unfortunately I have started to catch feelings for him and it was eating me up ...

I'm scared my girlfriend is going to break up with me because of the distance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 February 2017 (M - Dear friends Well I'm quite scared my girlfriend will break up with me. I have had three relationships and the previous two both progressed the same way. It was perfect for a while, then they started to criticise me, act a bit cold. Then one day...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 February 2017 (F - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

Should I explain to my ex? Or just let him think what he wants?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - Well, It all started when the guy I was seeing for a 1 1/2 years dumped me out of the blue... I moved on and met someone else who was going out of town for 2 months.. (New dating by this time) This new guy is nothing like my ex.. he's sucessful, ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Our LDR is stalling after 3 years. Do I stay with him, or look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I`ve been in relationship with someone for 3 years. I want to settle down and enjoy life together but he's happy the way it is We don't live together. We live 50 miles away from each other. I'm 50 now i want someone to grow old with and share ...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

I was an idiot to break up with her, now I see her all the time and she turns away ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 February 2017 (M - Hi I was with a woman who I fell madly in love with we were together a year I idolised her and could see myself spending the rest of my life with her and she also felt the same I finished with her after she had a miscarriage I was a idiot I know I ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Should I break up or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - I met a guy almost 2 years ago. He is very kind, generous, thoughtful, loving etc. I had just finished with a guy who I was with briefly who had none of these qualities. The problem is, I'm not physically attracted to him, he's average looking ...

He doesn't have the same feelings as I have for him from the beginning until the end

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - My aunt introduced me to her husband's nephew 9mos.ago,he is a 4yr divorced man with 2kids,I also have a 13yr old son that's why get along so well. We were talking,messaging online for 8 mos until we decided to meet in Barcelona last week,he flew ...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...

It shouldn't be this difficult only 6 weeks into a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 February 2017 (F - recently started a new relationship we've been together now around 6 weeks. he's 40 I'm 32 and we both work together. we've known each other for around 6 years now but we were always both in different relationships until recently. so at the ...

How can I get away from him this time, without getting attached to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over a 1 1/2 on an off. There have been times where things were good. Then there were times where he did not want me and I wanted him and vice a versa. Long story short this guy i am dating ...

He's verbally abusive. Consequences of leaving him concern me. Why do I seem to have the worst luck with men ? ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - what am I meant to do? how am I meant to feel? what do I do? I ask these questions and I'm not even sure If they are the right questions to ask!! I have no one in my life that I can talk to about any of this. I'm feel alone and need to feel lik...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

Now the grief about our broken relationship is starting to hurt me. what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - 3 months ago my ex boyfriend left me after my miscarriage. He said he don't want to be in a long distance relationship and because my career is not stable so he don't see any future with me . He don't know how to give me any emotional suppor...

I discovered that my 16 year old has had sex. Should I punish her by cancelling her "sweet sixteen" birthday celebrations?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - i recently found out by going through my 15 year old daughters phone that she has recently lost her virginity to an 18 year old guy whom is now dating another girl in the same area as us. When i first confronted her she denied it but eventual...

Is he trying to keep me on the back burner? Or am I misreading the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - Dear cupid. I was seeing a guy last year for a couple of months. I fell for him. Was completely head over hills. We spoke all day every day and saw each other as much as possible. He was over here temporarily for work. We both knew it would be...

Should I say something? Or cut ties with them? My friend uninvited me to their wedding

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - I have been good friends with the groom for over 4 years. He and the bride said I was invited to the wedding ceremony. I was surprised as a registry office is usually small so was please to be asked. The bride asked if I had my invitation w...

If I was happy, I wouldn't have had cybersex with the guy online. Anyone got advice? Should I tell my bf about what I did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - I became friends with this guy online. The conversations started off as topics about forums (met on a forum so) memes, YouTube, just general Internet stuff really. However, it slowly got a little flirtatious, and last night, I was drinking and we ...

We're on a break so he can deal with his issues and I need advice on how to manage this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend has been depressed for a month now. At first, he didn't know as he'd never experienced it but as I have, I started noticing it and told him. His relationship with his father is strained and his father has been putting immense ...

Slept with my best friend, My boyfriend is hurt, help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My best friend Michael and I always hang out on his bed and play video games, watch movies, listen to music, do work, or just talk. Last night we were just watching tv and taking about past senerios and we hit some that are sensitive to me and I ...

Should I bring this up for discussion? It feels like he does not trust me anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - My husband and I separated nearly a year ago due to my infidelity. We recently reconciled and moved back in together. I missed him so much and have grown up a lot over the separation. Although I couldn't be happier that we are getting a second c...

What happened to my dream girl? Do I just go along with her? Or call off the wedding and be done with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Sorry if this is long just bare with me because I need help. My girlfriend has ruined our relationship and I feel like she just wanted me for money. I need to know what other people think. I can't talk to my family or friends because they all...

How can I stop letting this one man's opinion of me beat at my confidence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - I have always thought of myself as girlfriend material and that I have a lot to offer a man. I dated a guy recently and he doesn't have any interest in me as a person whatsoever. I know it sounds vain or conceited, but I believe in mysel...

How do I start the conversation without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hi, About 7 weeks, my boyfriend ended our 2-3 month relationship due to the fact I was abroad when we got together and there would still be another year and half of us being apart. He felt like he was waiting for us to truly be together because ...

How to get them back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hello. I have 2 friends who were previously in a relationship but broke off due to a misunderstanding between each other. The guy complained that the girl was not giving him enough attention. She had not told me while they were in a relationshi...

Three times she has said she will change, I am sick of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hello, I'm in the midst of a troubled relationship. I've been with my partner a year and a half on and off. I moved 2 hours away to live with her and now things are rough as we fight a lot, I'm in the middle of nowhere away from my friends and fami...

She had sex with somebody else when we were apart, I can't get over it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 February 2017 (M - My girlfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. I had serious commitment issues and after being together for just under a year and a half I pushed her away and subsequently she withdrew. While we were apart I have never been in more emotional ...

I wasn't ready for sex so he hasn't talked to me for two weeks!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - my boyfriend hasn't spoken to me for two weeks..he suddenly went silent after we argued over the fact that I wasn't ready for sex .we have only gone out for almost a month.I like him but I don't want to base my relationship on sex....do I call him ...

His mother threatened to kick him out if he didn't break up with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Recently, I broke up with my ex. This was because his mother had threatened to kick him out if he didn't. We're both under eighteen and it was going really well, but then that happened and now, although we still want to talk to each other like we ...

Will I ever move on, get over everything and meet someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - Hello everyone, I hope you're all well. So basically I feel and think that I will seriously never meet anyone who I feel a close connection and chemistry with. A few years ago was the worst time of my life. I had no confidence and was very u...

Is it possible to tell him everything and stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - Hi. I'm hurting and would appreciate a third person's opinion. I've had feelings for a friend for last 2.5 years. They kept getting intense with time but he lives in a different city so I never acted upon my feelings. We used to flirt back and fort...

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