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Breaking up: Help and advice

He broke up with me but keeps in contact. Is he trying to be a FWB?

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24 May 2017 (F - I am 39 and my ex boyfriend is 38. We both have two teens apiece and are single parents. I'm divorced. We dated for 4 and a half months. Things were good but he broke up with me saying he didn't think things were going to work out and he didn't wa...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

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23 May 2017 (F - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

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23 May 2017 (F - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

She's broken up with her boyfriend, is it too early to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 May 2017 (M - Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well! I'd like some advice of you could. So I'm a 30/male this girl I need advice about is 25 I believe. She moved in to the apartment next door to me about 6 months ago. I instantly thought she was one of the ...

I think I made a mistake in getting married to him as I don't think I can accept his culture and all the family involvement. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 May 2017 (F - I am a vey independent woman who likes a lot of space and I do not like being told what to do. I rarely see my own family as I am busy with my life and they with theirs. My husband comes from Egypt and would like me to go and live there but I don'...

Does anyone act this way after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 May 2017 (F - Does anyone have this pattern of having on to an ex until someone else comes along- I have never "truly" gotten over someone until I got someone else. Example - my ex and this wasn't a long relationship left me- he did it in a disrespectful way and ...

Why am I jealous that she's seeing other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 May 2017 (F - Hello everyone...I have a gf and we have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. She lied and cheated me last year but we managed to get back. Now she's doing the same thing again so i broke if off. She said she loved both of us but i cant let ...

What are the rules for family visiting when we are separated but still living under the same roof?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 May 2017 (F - My husband has recently said he wants a divorce after I started sleeping in another bedroom for comfort reasons after my breast cancer and mastectomy last year. He says he is sick of being the provider and is angry that I haven't yet gone back to ...

How do I recover from this breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. Neither one of us was expecting it, but it became clear that we loved each other but we weren't on the same page and wanted different things. Our maturity levels did not align. The hardest part for...

What do her words mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 May 2017 (M - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

Is my ex a manipulator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 May 2017 (M - Hi All, I would like some advice on a person I stopped seeing recently and whether she sounds like a manipulator or I am thinking too much into things. We split up after about 18 months and we went no contact, I was doing fine and then she deci...

My girlfriend left me to go back to her husband. She said she didn't love me enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 May 2017 (M - My girlfriend recently broke up with me of 4.5 yrs to go back to her husband she left 8 yrs ago. She never stopped working for him and has been doing the same dead end job for 28 yrs. He is a grandiose type person, a bit of a show-off and loud. He ...

Where do I draw the line? Am I being brainwashed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 May 2017 (F - Where do I draw the line between him being too busy/tired/stressed and him just not being that into me? I'm dating a doctor who is training to become a surgeon. At first he was very attentive, calling, texting, wanting to see me all the time, th...

My boyfriend needs time to figure his life out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 May 2017 (F - I've written on here before about concerns with my boyfriend not saying I love you after about 5 months. However, we split up/decided to take a break yesterday although I'm unsure exactly which it was. Our relationship has been very happy...

We are two very different people. I feel stuck in this relationship. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 May 2017 (F - Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years, and we have lived together for 2. He is an incredibly kind guy, he always means well, and is all around just a nice guy. However...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 May 2017 (F - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 May 2017 (F - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

A long term friend dated my brother, treated him poorly, and now she wants to reconcile with me, without explaining. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - Sorry this is so long! My best friend from grade school went overseas for college and upon returning started a relationship with my brother. I was living in a different state by now and she initially wanted him to keep the relationship a s...

She behaves so sweetly in public. But she cheated on me. What can I do to forget a crafty girlfriend, who I trusted and love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 May 2017 (M - My LDR girlfriend cheated on me. I found out and I told her about her cheating. She cried, she denied her cheating. I said to her that I would not sponsor her into U.S as the fiancee. She replied to me that she did not want to go to U.S. After...

Why would my ex male friend partially ghost me instead of going to complete NO Contact? How do I end this madness?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - First he tried to ease me into a FWB, after agreeing to friendship. We spoke, text and video chatted practically everyday. We did have sex twice. He wanted to continue to have sex as an FWB. I informed him recently that I was not FWB material. I ...

What should I do? Four years after we broke up my ex still hangs around, tries to get my attention and stares at me whenever he sees me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Hi I split from my ex boyfriend 4 years ago, after I had a miscarriage. Neither of us wanted to split up but after the miscarriage he ended it with me i moved on met another man and had a baby girl. Yet my ex still hangs around and stares at me an...

Do you think he'll ever be open to friendship with me? Two weeks after dumping me he was back on dating sites.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Hello, I am hoping for some advice and help to make sense of a situation I am in. Was together with a man for 9 months. He lived about 90 minutes away, and for various work and child matters we saw each other from Friday through till Sunday ever ...

Feeling upset. Is this just natural or am I wrong? I love my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Well...not been on here for a while. I am engaged, pretty happy with my partner of 5 years then my mother goes and mentions my ex who split with me when times got hard on my family farm and I got very depressed and lost everything. Things got na...

I do have trust issues. How do I resolve this situation with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - Please no negative replies!!! I feel low enough!! I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year. I had known him for 2-3 years before that as a friend. We split about 4 months ago but have kept in touch. The reason for the split was because...

I don't trust him as he's still active on the dating site, but I really don't want to end the relationship!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - We met online dating site. Agreed to close accounts once established relationship. He agrees exclusively, yet is still active on dating site! He denies any chatting or meetingsd x but refuses to close the account. . I was with him when he recieved a ...

Why is my ex-fwb still contacting me after he ended things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - I was recently dumped by my fwb because he and his girlfriend is getting serious. i wanted to end things when i found out he got back with his girlfriend but i wasn't strong enough to leave. after a week he ended things he texted me something that ...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 May 2017 (F - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Why is he so cruel after I did everything to be a good girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 May 2017 (F - I was introduced to this guy but I didn't find him attractive so I told him I wasn't interested. He persuaded me for 2yrs and I agreed to get to know him, I began to like him my friends and my mum thought he's a nice guy and I should give him ...

Should I try to become friends with him again? I feel tempted to try again

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 May 2017 (M - Hi,I was in a 6-month LDR with this guy, but I ended it due to me having feelings for him (while him not). So, there's been no communication for the last 1,5 month. Now I feel like contacting him again to become friends - I have no expectat...

We broke up because she's emotionally disturbed and would have sex with random people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

1 May 2017 (M - So i started this new relationship about 3 months ago with a girl. Things went fast between us, but at times she was still emotionally disturbed and attached to her ex who was a complete ass to her. But she had 2 kids together with him, so it was ...

Is this something to stick with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 April 2017 (F - Now just so you know my partner does not want to leave me ....however should I leave him??? I have been through a lot in life I grew up with a compulsive liar for a mother (not spoke to parents for 2yrs)..I have also lost a child when he was 11yrs ...

Why won't he apologise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 April 2017 (F - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago. My bf and I both live in the UK and we had big argument on his birthday and he refused to accept my card and gifts for him and told me is done. I saw on his Facebook he had been sexting and ...

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and never had sex. I think he's in love with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 April 2017 (F - Hi. I am 56years old and my boyfriend is 55. I have been with him for 2 1/2years. Lived with him for 14 months out of that time. He has never made love to me although he says he loves me. I also found out, reading his own words that right before ...

I need to forgive myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 April 2017 (F - The guy I used to date for a short period of time, kind of dumped me in a very rude way. Well I wanted to dump him too, but I tried to do it in a decent way. He got angry and simply dissapeared, not before making me feel like crap. I wished I could ...

I wish I could get over the love of of my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 April 2017 (F - Hi there. I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 4 and a half years and broke up almost 10 years ago. I feel foolish and dumb to say that to this day I cannot seem to get over her. She was my first kiss, my first love, and my ...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 April 2017 (F - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

On a break from boyfriend and have a job offer in another town

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - My Bf and I are on a sort of break right now. We are still with each other but spending time with our own families to reassess what we both want. There is a job offer for Me far away from home but I won't be happy there (I will like the job just not ...

Time to break up? Has the love faded? We talk less now and have less sex now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 April 2017 (M - Don't know if I should break up with my gf of 8 months. As the relationships progressed we've moved apart, we speak less, have sex a lot less, and don't get on aswell. The thing is, I know this is expected to some degree as a relationship goes on. ...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates.  Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it.  There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

My g/f hasn't changed her status on FB yet does that mean we are not broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 April 2017 (M - My fiancé and I have been together for almost three years and engaged for 7 months. I wrongly accused her of having a 'thing' for her brother in law a few times which has led to us having a 'break' for a few weeks. We reconciled but it took some...

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