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Breaking up: Help and advice

My boyriend keeps on criticising me. Why can't he see that he's upsetting me? He says he's 'trying to help me be a better person'

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24 May 2013 (F) - I had a rather large argument with my boyfriend today. We where trying to organize who's place we would hang out at tonight. Every week, on this night I'm out until after dark and I often get a lift home from class but not every week as I don't ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

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24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?

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24 May 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when...

Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?

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24 May 2013 (F) - I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me ...

How long does it take to move on from your First Love?

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24 May 2013 (F) - My first love was someone who I was deeply in love with for 3 years. We were teenagers when we met. It is now 4 months after our break up. I ended our relationship, for the better of both of us. I do not regret my decision for us to end. If we we...

Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?

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23 May 2013 (F) - does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's ...

While I know that I completely ruined everything by expressing my fear of sadness when he's away, and deserve his current feelings, am I stupid to believe that he'll come back to me?

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23 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids, I would really appreciate some advise..Apologies for the long post! I've been with a guy for the last year and a half..I adore him...We've had several ups and as many downs..I am his first proper relationship and he is my third....

No sex for 2 years - should I walk away from this otherwise happy relationship?

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23 May 2013 (F) - My mate and and I have not had sex for 2 years He says he can't get a hard on anymore, but he can materbate and watch porn alone, I am not sure if it is me or if he avoids me, I am happy about everything else in our relationship but the sex. He ...

Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?

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23 May 2013 (F) - I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have bee...

We broke up. What life lessons can I learn from this?

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23 May 2013 (F) - hi aunts and uncles.... i finally got the chance to ask my ex after a year and a half of being seperated and divorced, why he left me. i wanted to know what mistakes i made so that my next relationship would not end up breaking up because of a...

Boyfriend just broke up with me. What do I do now?

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22 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year just broke up with me, and I don't know what to do or how to feel. As a reference, I'm 19 and he's 17, so while we may seem young, we're both very mature and understanding of the world around us. It was the first serious ...

He wants to get married and have children and I'm not sure yet. Do I stay and have kids or do I let him go?

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22 May 2013 (F) - I have been together with a guy for two years. We live together and for the most part, things are fine. We come from different cultures and are quite different as people, but we get on well in many respects. I'm happy enough with him but he doesn't ...

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

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22 May 2013 (F) - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies ...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

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22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

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22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number s...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

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22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

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22 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone...

Am I thinking right for a guy my age? Have I wasted my youth? Am I missing opportunities to meet girls?

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21 May 2013 (M) - This may be daft a question but well I've had like 4 sexual partners from about 16-21 I'm now 25.. So that's 4 sexual partners in 9 years one relationship lasted 4 years and I got hurt in the end (a lot was my fault). I've been single for these...

He wants a break after 3 months, he's not sure when he'll be ready to start dating me again. What should I do?

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21 May 2013 (F) - I met a guy online around 3 months ago. I wasn't initially into him but I liked him so I decided to give it a go. He runs his own startup business therefore we had an understanding from the off that we'd only see each other infrequently. He'd had ...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

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21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!

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21 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days...

Why is my ex still trying to hurt me? He is bringing a girl into my work and my church.....

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21 May 2013 (F) - Okay so my ex broke up with me. He knows my work schedule and where I work so he brings another girl to my job I work in a make up store most guys don't go in they usually go shopping or wait outside. I was off that day he brought a girl but I ...

My ex has jumped straight into a new relationship and she wants me to leave her alone, but I want her back! What should I do?

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21 May 2013 (M) - So my ex girlfriend/the mother of my child of 5years broke up with me and is involved in a rebound relationship. I really want her back but don't know what to do, I've tried expressing my feelings but that seems to push her further away and closer ...

Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural...

How can I get the confidence to do more things without feeling guilty? And any suggestions on how to end my relationship and not feel like I'm dropping in a hole of being alone forever?!

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21 May 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles :) This may be a little long but I could really do with some help. I am a single 24 year old female, would describe myself as being attractive,easy going,hardworking and loyal amongst many other things. Not meaning to sou...

I broke up with him because of this girl and now I feel like she's replaced me. I'm really hurt

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he was basically cheating on me. He didn't sleep with her or physically cheat on me, but I found out that him and her were flirting a lot and always up talking all night and exchanging ...

B/f ended things rudely denied dating a co-worker and now they're hugging and kissing at work!

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20 May 2013 (F) - I am so hurt by my ex and I really just want to vent... we dated for about 6 months and it starts off great... we met at work, went out on dates that he paid for, we spent alot of time outside of work, and generally enjoyed our time together...I ...

My ex and I are in contact again but I wonder if the bad way I broke up with him will stop us from having a future?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi, in a bit of a pickle at the moment! I dated this guy while at uni, four years ago, when uni finished I was in a bad space and broke up with him without a proper explanation. I defiantly handled it the wrong way and regret that soo much. 4 years ...

Should I move on / how can I do it when I'm so emotionally attached?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Long story short, I had a relationship with a guy for few months and things we're going great (I felt like it was a mutual feeling and he did express he had feelings for me and he always said how everything felt "too good to be true" cos we got ...

Do you think Steve and I will ever have a normal relationship?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I've been with Steve over 1 year. I'd consider myself a fairly attractive and confident 26 year old, he's 31. We've had an extremely tough year so please bear with the long background info. I used to work with Steve then...

He keeps promising to marry me but seven years later...nothing

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19 May 2013 (F) - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years an we've even bought a house together cause we were both tired of him renting small places. My problem is he forever promises to marry me an when the time comes he become agressive. On the past 4 months I...

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

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19 May 2013 (M) - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me ...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

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19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

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19 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't de...

My boyfriend has a one way ticket and is trying to sell all his stuff!

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19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and have for the last 6 months or so been having some issues, out of frustrationa and feeling hurt from all his bullying antics i told him i wanted him leave. We spoke about it again after and i topd ...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

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19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

Was it my fault that she broke up with me? Was I wrong falling in love with a recovering alcoholic?

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19 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I keep hearing I should have left her alone during her tweive step program, but we were together for three months. I don't know if she drank before I picked her up to go dancing, movies, walks in the parks, trips, picnics. I stopped drinking...

Feel hopelessly bound to him. Do I just try to get over him?

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19 May 2013 (F) - Began I relationship with a boy from a very young age. We lost our virginities to each other and were beyond in-love. Due to our age and him wanting to 'be a bloke' and hang out with 'his boys' and the pressure of us having to get on with our live...

Girlfriend keeps breaking up and then saying she regrets it. What am I supposed to do?

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18 May 2013 (M) - i'm having a bit of a hard time lately. i've been with my girlfriend about a year now and sometimes our ups and downs really effect me. since this is anonymous, i don't feel too bad disclosing this information, seeing as how it's very pertinent. ...

My ex is trying to change, should I get back together with him? How do I tell my mom?

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18 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my fiancé in late January this year. I loved and still do love him dearly. I left him because I was unhappy about many things about how he chose to live his life. he chose to hang out with loser drug addicts and got himself ...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

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18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

Lesbian LDR and I need help. Is our relationship going no where?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Guys I need help My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi but not 100% straight neither… I am sooooo confused …Although I understand that we shouldn't be putting labels on ourselves but I just don't feel our relationship is secure. Almost all my f...

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

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18 May 2013 (M) - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. s...

Does my ex-girlfriend want to reunite or remain friends?

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18 May 2013 (M) - Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the ...

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

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17 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...

How do I engage myself on weekends so I wont have time to think and mope and call him and get humiliated by him?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hi My abusive bf dumped me a week ago and im still struggling to move on. I havent contacted him from the day he dumped me. I had work the whole work, hence i didnt have much time to mope on, but since its friday and i have no plans for t...

My girlfriend's friends do not like me. I'm worried it could lead to us breaking up

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17 May 2013 (F) - Let me just get this out in the open, i'm a lesbian... I have been with my girlfriend just over a year, everything has been great apart from a month or so ago when she lied to me by saying she was at home in bed when really she was out clubbing...

How can I break up with my b/f? He always brings it up that he'll kill himself if I break up!

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17 May 2013 (F) - hy!! 7months ago i asked for help to break up with my boyfriend. well every1 asked me to tell him the truth and breakup with him nicely. . here i go I'm still stuck him. . i tld him that i dnt love him nd i even cheated on him with ex bf. and he ...

Boyfriend said he needed time to "discover himself" does it sound completely over? And how can I cope?

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16 May 2013 (F) - My 21 year old boyfriend and I (also 21 y.o.) split last night. It's more of a "break" but he doesn't want to call it that because it might not be a temporary thing. Basically, in a nutshell, my boyfriend of more than 3 years hasn't been himself ...

Its been a year, why can't I let go?

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16 May 2013 (F) - What is wrong with me- WHY can't I just let it go. It's been almost a yr. since I heard from my ex..the last time I heard from him was not a good conversation. His soon to be wife had been calling me 2 mths. prior but, I totally ignored the ...