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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why do I feel so insecure about his ex and his other relationships?

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20 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for six months and right from the start we really liked each other. He has been married and split up with her several years ago. He married young and went to another country where she lived to be with her. I feel th...

Why would he not see me in 2 months then turn around and say he loves me loads?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2017 (F - hi everyone. person i'm seeing for a year now,we not had the exclusive talk but hes told me we friends but seeing where it goes etc we are sleeping together mostly when we see each other sex is involved 9/10 times it happens now recently iv not ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2017 (F - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

What is he doing? His last text said he still wants me but that was November third!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - hi i am seeing a man, don't what sort of relationship it is but hes not text me in 2 weeks and not seen me in 2 months now, i did text him 2 weeks ago asking whats going on my text to him was " how are you ive not heard off you in weeks how can yo...

If we could be friends should I try?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 November 2017 (F - Should I keep speaking to him, and try and be friends? I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 weeks ago and it's killing me. We broke it off about 2 months ago, then briefly got back together before we realised nothing had changed. We'...

Should I tell my daughter about her biological father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - This is a family question, my daughter doesn't know who her biological father is but from the time she was a baby my boy friend has been her dad and plans on adopting her. She knows that he's not her bio dad. Her bio dad had his rights terminated, ...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 November 2017 (F - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Do I fight to keep her or let her go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 November 2017 (M - So out of the blue my fiance has broken up with me, we've been together almost 3 years and engaged since May. I love her and want to be with her, she says it's because of my messiness and it's effect on her mental health. I've never been this ope...

Will we be able to get back together in the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 November 2017 (F - My ex and I broke up six weeks ago after living together for two years, and being together for three. He's a classical musician and is applying for jobs in other cities - there are a very limited number of jobs in full time orchestras in the ...

I'm torn between the re-appeared ghosting ex and the lovely but dependent new love interest! Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 November 2017 (M - I am going through a very tough situation and which is kind of a Love triangle. I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 year and I loved her so much . but 6 months back she ditched me for some reason. Everyday we used to go through a lot ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 November 2017 (M - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

10 November 2017 (F - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

He never wants to spend time with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 November 2017 (F - Hi everyone I've been with my fiance now for 4 years we have 2 children I already had my daughter when we met then we had a baby girl who is now 2 the problem is he never wants to spend anytime with us he goes to work on a morning comes home at 4.15 ...

Should I tell my ex that I am pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 November 2017 (F - Hello. I don't know how to say this but I recently found out that I am pregnant with my ex's child. He is 34 and I am 21 turning 22 January. While we were dating he told me he doesn't mind having kids. We dated for 6 months until we started arguing ...

Why didnt he just tell me he didnt want o be with me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - My ex of 5 years and I have recently broken up. For a couple of months I noticed him being extremely distant. I'd confront him about it and he tells me things at work aren't good and it's not allowing him to spend time with his son like he use to. I ...

I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is ...

I cyber cheated, my fiancé doesn’t want anything to do with me, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 November 2017 (M - Recently my then fiancé found out that I had been having an explicit conversation with an old friend on social media. She found out and we spoke about it and we agreed to move past it and better ourselves because there was a disconnect. Basically ...

My Boyfriend excluded me to his brother's funeral because his ex was going

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Hello, I am after some opinions please as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset and rejected. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly...

Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on? We're both at university (we're both 21) and have been going out for 2 years. We've been having problems lately because he wasn't spending ...

He had affairs while buying my IVF

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 November 2017 (F - My ex and I planned a pregnancy. I was having fertility issues and so we decided to proceed with an IVF. It was his idea and he has even funded the entire procedure. I am about to get pregnant and I found out that he has had numerous affairs ...

My boyfriend and I are unsure of our future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 November 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I are still in college but we graduate soon, like in the next year. He has a more laid back approach with things/life and is more up in the air/live in the now, whereas I'm more of a planner and I like to see more into the future. ...

Do you ever get trust back in a relationship and if it’s possible how on earth do you get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

2 November 2017 (F - I have been with my partner for just over four years now. We have had a rocky relationship, many hurdles along the way but overcome each and every one of them. I have trust issues, I don’t partially trust people and find it difficult to ope...

My boyfriend loves me, but can't trust me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 November 2017 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for over two months. Things were going good, until I lied to him. I told him how I was married to my ex but he was helping me with a certain issue. (I cannot disclose, my boyfriend knows). And he was okay with it. I ...

I don't know if I should ask a colleague out

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

31 October 2017 (M - I'm 26 and have been single for around 7--8 months now since splitting with my gf of 3 yrs. I found that break up hard and I'm unsure if I want a new relationship. However I've only been with 2 girls in my whole life and I'm desperate to "get out ...

My ex wants me permanently in the background and have a baby mother too!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

31 October 2017 (F - Im good frinds with my ex. We are very close. We broke up 5 yrs ago, but during those 5 yrs we have been sleeping with each other. We talked about getting back together and trying for a baby.... But I told him im not ready.He was ok with this...

I broke up with my fiancé after 5 years together, she is begging me to come back!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 October 2017 (M - Hello, We live in one of the bigger cities on the West Coast. Met my ex-fiancee (wow, writing that still hurts) 5 years ago. I run a couple successful tech companies so for the last two years I've been traveling back and forth (spending together...

Our 7 year relationship is in shambles. Is it over? Should I accept defeat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 October 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship for 7 years, and throughout the relationship we obviously had ups and downs like any other couple. However, one huge problem with us was that I had suffered some sexual trauma in my past which left it difficult for me ...

Am I seeing something that isn’t there and maybe she is just making excuses so I won’t hate her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 October 2017 (M - After about 4 years my girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn’t one that I wanted at all as I was ready to purpose She has distanced herself but not totally as we still have some contact I have informed her that I am moving and we are supposed to ...

Girlfriend lost feelings for me - is it her depression?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 October 2017 (F - Hi there. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I will try and be informative but brief! Myself and my partner (now ex) couldn’t be more perfect for each other. We were together just under a year and our relationship was great. We rarely...

Did I make the right decision breaking up with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 October 2017 (F - Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years but I am having a really difficult time because I'm not sure if I made the right decision. I am experiencing terrible depression and sadness. Of course I still love him. The reason I broke up with him...

How do I tell my online guy friend that I won't be able to keep talking to him every night when I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 October 2017 (F - So to give you a little bit of context - I've been talking with this guy over the phone for a little over a year (we met online) - Let's call him James. He lives in the US and I am in Canada. We used to talk dirty to each other over the phone during ...

How do I end a FWB relationship and just be friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 October 2017 (F - How do I end a friends with benefits thing? I'm 18 and he's 21 and we were friends for about a year and a half before we started sleeping together basically, and he took my virginity. There was a point before we had sex where I thought I had ...

My boyfriend took small amounts of money from my purse! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 October 2017 (F - I was dating a guy for 3 months, who I love, and knew was broke/unemployed. 2 weeks ago, $15.00 was missing from my wallet. I thought I miscounted, so the next time he came over I took a pic of my wallet, so I knew for sure. $20.00 went miss...

Guys, do you miss the other woman if the affair ends suddenly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

25 October 2017 (F - Guys, do you miss your mistress when your affair ended suddenly. I just ended my affair with a married man. Without stating the reason why. I know it’s wrong to be in love with him. So please spare me all the nasty comments. I feel kinda ...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

24 October 2017 (F - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

24 October 2017 (F - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

Am I being played here, or does he really associate being my boyfriend with one day marrying me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

24 October 2017 (F - My ex-boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me last month, we had a pretty amicable breakup (he told me that we have a good thing and it was hard because he loves me but he just doesn't see himself married to me one day and tbh I don't either since ...

Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

23 October 2017 (F - Dear Cupid. I think I know the answer but I need some advice... So, I have been helping out an ex from seven years ago with rent while he's jobless for the last six months (He rents out a room in a house) (I offered to help him) on top ...

How do I make him feel for me the way he once did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 October 2017 (F - Guys, I need help. So my boyfriend broke up with me and it's different from most relationships so I don't know what to do. Let me explain our entire relationship, we were best friends for 3 years and one year he really liked this girl and couldn't ...

Why would a man get distant when time together is limited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 October 2017 (F - so i have been seeing someone for about 2 years now, we are both military and it is now the time for me to rotate to a new duty and he will not be able to come with me. We both love each other very much but the closer i get to leaving, the more ...

Most of the things he does really gets on my nerves!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

21 October 2017 (F - I have been going out with a guy for almost a year now, when we first started going out I thought he was really sweet and I really liked him, we see each other every week but now it's been nearly a year I feel like things have changed, he still ...

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 October 2017 (F - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months and a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. We both currently live 100 miles apart and only get to see each other once a week. We decided an abortion was the best option for us as it wou...

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