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Breaking up: Help and advice

I sit there every day and think about him (my ex) and cry.

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20 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex split over 3 months ago and recently even though he has a new partner he has said he isnt actually happy and he thinks he may be going through a breakdown, because we share 2 children together and we were together from a young age for ...

Am I a slut?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...

What does he mean by 'give it some time'?

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20 November 2009 (F) - What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologiz...

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later...

How can I explain this to him so we end on good terms?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, ...

How do you forget the person you are in love with?

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi to all. Anybody who can give some effective tips on how to forget a person whom you love so much that you can't live without him. I am waiting for your tips. Thank you....

My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!

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20 November 2009 (F) - I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...

He doesn't show any emotions even though we are on a break! Do you think he loves me or is he just hiding his emotions to appear "manly"?

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20 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on a break. I've been sad, but he doesn't feel any emotions at all. He's broken up with me at least four times, and each time he wasn't coming back. Each time he told me he doesn't love me anymore, but in the end, he come...

Does this mean his still likes me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, a week ago me and my bf ended it. I did. Today I texted him telling him I wanted to talk. He said sure. After class, he asked how was my week without him. I said good and asked him how his week was. He said um good. Does that mean he like me ...

Secrets to Getting an Ex Back - Find Out What 3 Things Those Who Got an Ex Back Have in Common

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20 November 2009 (F) - Do you want to get your ex back? Are you tired of hurting and feeling lost and alone? I've written this article to try and give you hope and some help in winning back your love. It can be really difficult to think rationally when you are going th...

I'm so lost without her...

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19 November 2009 (M) - So here is my story. I have been dating a girl for the past seven months and even though that's not the longest time, we fell deeply in love with one another. Our first few months together were great. But for the past 2 months or so my attitude and ...

Should we just be friends?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have this problem.I started dating a coworker when we started working together,he was just getting over a divorce.We had a relationship for two years and right before I go for a family visit he was telling me about his plans for us and talking ...

Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...

I haven't dated in a year!!! Any advice?

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19 November 2009 (M) - hey, i was in a really close relationship that ended a year ago, but since then i just havent dated anyone. when i go out with friends i sometimes notice when a girl is interested but im so shy around girls i think they assume im not into them and ...

I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread here...

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19 November 2009 (M) - I was dating my ex for nine months and i broke it off with her. We kept on talking every day and hanging out like we were still together though this went on for about a year where she wanted to get back with me and have the title and i wasnt sure i ...

How to support someone I care about who is going through a divorce?

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19 November 2009 (F) - How do I play this? My boyfriend has broken up with me. He is in the process of divorcing his previous partner and has discovered in our relationship that he has not moved forward emotionally as much as he though he had - he keeps worrying that our ...

Do I stay with him even though I am not sure about him?

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19 November 2009 (F) - ok, well I am in a somewhat serious relationship for about 12mos. I really care about him but I dont feel completely happy. and for some reason i'm falling in love with a man that already has a partner also. what is wrong with me? what do i do?...

Ex wants to get back together but she has a boyfriend

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19 November 2009 (M) - My ex told me she wanted to get back together (dated 4 years), but she has a new boyfriend (dated a few months).She told me that breaking up with him would be hard, and she'd do it "very soon"--that was 2 days ago. since then she hasn't called me or ...

How can I move on and be more social?

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19 November 2009 (F) - hi I went out with a guy for just over a year and in that time found out he was a compulsive liar who lied about his age, (he said he was 23 and he was 27) relationship status (hes married) and having a child. Im glad that I dumped him but Im having ...

Will he ever come back to me?

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19 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were wonderful, he started to have financial issues in his family and then decided to take some finacial moves to help, one was moving away. About a month or two before he was to leave he told me we couldn't be together, i deserve ...

He wants to get married in the near future but he's not sure if I'm the One!

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for two years. I am co_dependent /insecure so breaking up has always been hard for me. We have a very loving relationship, except for the marriage issue. I am 28, he is 29. He tells me he wants to get married in the next...

Am I stupid to still care about him?

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19 November 2009 (F) - i was in love with dis guy 2 yrs back,he showed me love he made me forget about all my past we had 5 mnths but it was like many years.everything changed when he want to marry me cuase he wnt kids i suggested we get tested before.he tested positive ...

How many frogs do I have to date in order to find the one?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have written for advice in the past and still need it. I dated a great guy and we broke up afte six months of dating. He only was divorced one year. I have been single for ten. He went through a lot of bad stuff with his divorce. He never ...

I'm so dependent on my boyfriend and now he only wants to be friends!

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19 November 2009 (F) - My bf asked me to be friends because there were too many problems in our relationship. The thing is we have been living together 1yr. and 1/2... I love him very much, but I am so hurt. Every time I try to work it out with him he wants to, at ...

Is it possible just to give up on love?

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18 November 2009 (M) - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've ...

Should I stay in this relationship or move on?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Should I stay in this relationship or move on? I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am deeply in love with. She loves me too but not anywhere near the intensity or passion that I have for her. I accept that, because we all l...

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

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18 November 2009 (F) - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...

Do I still like my boyfriend more than a friend?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking of ending it. I've always been an undecided person, so I'm seeking for a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months. We're both 16. He really is a great guy; Calm, kin...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

I broke his heart when I was young and want to show him he can trust me again.

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18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so this is going to be a little long and little confusing, but I'd really appreciate any type of advice, so please read it(: When I was 15 I met this guy who we'll call Rob. He was 18 at the time and we hung out once but he basically ignore...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

Is it possible to change a man's mind once they've settled on a course?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've written before about my boyfriend who is going through a divorce and that I feel as though he has been showing less interest in me as a person recently and been a bit complacent towards me - even though he did make the effort to see me...

I am desperate to meet someone. Why am I having trouble?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a woman in my mid forties. I was in a relationship with a man a while back but, broke up. I still see him since we travel in the same circles. It took me a long time to get over him. I really fell for this guy and it has been...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

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18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

How should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.

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18 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have ...

I've never had a penny off my ex-husband, is it too late to do anything about it?

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18 November 2009 (F) - i left my hub 10 years ago we stopped friends. ive never had a penny of him. is it to late to do anything about it?...

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

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18 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...

How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depresse...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

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18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

I feel as if I have given my all to this guy but I'm worried I might not get anything in return!

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and am now in a long-distance relationship with a guy who I love very dearly. In fact, it was falling for him which made me realise that my previous relationship wasn't working. I fe...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he ...

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...

What to do when the ex who messed you about wants you back? I never got over him!

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17 November 2009 (F) - what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking ...

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a ho...

She went 'off' me and I can't figure out why?!

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17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, bit of an awkward one here. Im 20 years old and recently decided to go on a social website which contained a chat room, one girl started talking to me who is gorgeous, we got on really well and the day after we exchanged numbers, for about a ...

I have to make a choice between 2 men as I'm hurting them..what do I do?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I am torn between two men. The first is my boyfriend of 7 months, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me and is completely devoted to me in every way. We began a long distance relationship in September when I moved away to university, and ...

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still ...

I am struggling with the end of our relationship. I need closure.

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17 November 2009 (F) - I am struggling to cope with the end of a 9 year relationship, and need some advice on how to get through it all as my now ex-bf has cut all contact, leaving me with many unanswered questions and no closure at all. We were together 9 years, lived ...