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Teenage: Help and advice

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always ...

Should I try to contact him?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Ok, sorry if this is long! I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished ...

Women, so confusing! What should I do about contacting her again?

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13 May 2008 (M) - I am very confused at the moment by this girl I met 7 weeks ago. We were doing great, really liked each other, until 4 weeks ago when she started to ignore me then told me it wouldn't work, although until that point everything seemed to be going ...

Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them?

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13 May 2008 (F) - A question to the guys: Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them? This is the line that my boyfriend pulled on me and bailed, after HE implied that we're in the relati...

How do I deal with my two-faced boyfriend? I've just been dumped...

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13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has just dumped me, for a girl who he said he's hated forever. How do I sort this problem?...

I'm a tired, sad mess

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...

He dosen't allow me to see my mates and makes me feel guilty!

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13 May 2008 (F) - i am a young female aged 17, i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very much in love, we see each other every single day, and stay at each others house every night, we are very close, but i work through the day while he goes out ...

I am 16 and I am scared of having sex!

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13 May 2008 (F) - the big question: sex? why am i scared to have sex?! i am 16 and i am scared of having sex, because i hear that it hurts the first time espeacially, and from what i see from movies, i know this will sound funny, bu when i watch movies where it happe...

I can't seem to stop masturbating...

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13 May 2008 (M) - I am a 15 year old guy, and I am a pleasure addict, I like to ''play with my self.'' I dont know why but I look up porno on the internet and masturbate, I do it like 5 times a day or less, I just stay at home and do it in my bathroom or my room, I'...

Do I have a masturbation problem?

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13 May 2008 (M) - well ever since age 14 [15 now] iv been having irges to have sex so when ever i do i masturbate ,but the thing is i constantly do it like 3 or 4 times a day is that natural,also y does it come out in small amounts ?...

I'm 15 and I think I'm pregnant

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13 May 2008 (F) - Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this ...

My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. ...

If he does these things does it mean he likes you?

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13 May 2008 (F) - -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes whe...

How do I be a normal teen?

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13 May 2008 (M) - my questions simple...how do i be a normal teen? everyone goes on about how theyve ''had mistakes'' and ''have a past'' and their around my age! and I have no past or mistakes or regrets at all! I feel like I've fucked up because of this, like, ...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

How do you cope with long-distance relationships?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Im in a relationship with my boyfreind and it is long distance..I see him every weekedn and it is fine and we are happy..But has anyone got any advise on what some things i can do to make it a bit easier when you miss them like crazy? we have been ...

Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own sperm?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own "product"? My fiance has expressed interest in wanting to share a kiss with me after giving me a blow job. Just curious as to if there are any negative side effects....

I don't think she fancies me, how do I stop liking her?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I like my friend. We are close. We talk a bit, but I don't know if she likes me. She sends me pics of hear wearing new outfits and asks my opinion. She was tellin me bout this guy who liked her, and she turned him down. So she feels free talk to me ...

I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!

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12 May 2008 (M) - ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with ...

My crush took my number, now what do I do??

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12 May 2008 (F) - My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???...

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive acc...

I insulted my crush, how can I make things better?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. ...

I don't love her as much, what should I do?

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12 May 2008 (M) - What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...

I love my Science teacher!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...

I'm shy about my underarm hair!

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12 May 2008 (M) - hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...

Why have I still not got a boyfriend?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...

My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with ...

My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly ...

I'd like to take things a bit further but don't really know how to ask him!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are very happy together. I want to take things a little bit further with him but I'm not sure if he wants to and I don't really know how to ask him. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in ...

Is he embarassed to hold my hand? He says he will but never does!

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goes I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, th...

He is the boy of my dreams, but now my mom has decided that I'm going to move to live with her. What do I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My dad and mum divorced 9 years ago when I was 6, since then until now I've lived with my dad and his new wife in another country, while my mum lived in England with no money. During all these years, my stepmum has made my life hell. Now I'm almost ...

I'm concerned about his drinking! What should I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm going to be 18 soon, I've been in this relationship for almost 7 months, I love my b/f and he loves me,the problem is he drinks alcohol almost everyday, he do this just to impress his friends, I told him to stop, but he would'nt listen to ...

He's booked his flight to come see me, but I'm just not attracted to him! My parents don't know, and I just don't want to be seen with him...

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, well I'm 17 years old living in England. I have been kind of in a relationship with an older guy (29) from a different country. He came to visit in April, it was quite a good weekend and he's coming again in June. The thing is he wants to go out ...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

Do guys prefer curves?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone I was wondering if some guy could please explain to me why do they prefer curves over thin girls?? I have got curves and sometimes worride that guys wont find me attractive...What kinda chicks do guys really like? ...

What should I do if I don't like my boyfriend as much as I used to?

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12 May 2008 (F) - well wat if i dont like my boyfriend as much as i use to but im afraid to break up with him because i know how it will be with out him it will be very different no more holdin hands or talking on the fone for a long time or even having a boyfriend ...

How do I find out if she like me without letting on I like her?

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12 May 2008 (M) - goin shoppin next week with my friend who I think I like. First time we goin alone jus for a few things anythin I cud do to test her if she likes me without giving the teeniest hint I do? Cud I buy her a meal? Cofee? Nythin?...

So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time.

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12 May 2008 (M) - So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time. I want to do something this summer. I've never had a G/F, and I really don't care for one, but i always think it would be nice to have someone sweet te be there in your...

My mum thinks I just started my periods, but I've had them for 6 months.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i got my first period in Dec 2007. My mom's only just found out {i don't really care that she knows} but i just didn't know how to tell her. She bought me pads and told me i need to keep track and stuff...but i don't know how tell tel...

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my e...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

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11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

Which of the four should I choose?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this ...

I have milky, white discharge! What is wrong with me?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Today when i went to the restroom i had a milky white discharge in my panties and while i was using it white discharge was leaking what is wrong with me? ...

I want to love him and lose my virginity to him. How do I know if it's right?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him ...

I'm not sure how to give head. Help please?

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11 May 2008 (F) - The past weekend, I was asked to give head, but I'm not sure how to. I really liked the guy who asked me to give him head, but I had to tell him no, becuase I don't really get how to. Help please?...

I'm confused but I love him. I need some advice.

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11 May 2008 (F) - hello, i have liked this boy for a long time and we have a really special bond , he even says that we are really close he comes to sit next to me all the time in school and everyone says he always flirts with me so i flirt back and he loves it...

How do I stop the spots appearing? And how to I get rid of them?

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11 May 2008 (F) - hey, is there anyhing i can do to help me not to get spots, by tht i mean teenage spots, i've always had them and always used a facewash that is supposed to help prevent them but then i oticed i started getting blackheads so chnaged it use one for ...

Embarassed to buy lubricant and condoms...

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11 May 2008 (M) - im 14 and i want to masturbat with condoms or lube but im too embarrased to go to the shop and buy them myslef what should i do?...

Just out of curiousity, what does this dream mean? My teacher is involved.

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11 May 2008 (F) - Recently I've had this dream about a teacher of mine...Who I have strong feelings for. Before you say anything, I am NOT like other girls. I'm doing the right thing by actually trying to get over him. Why? Because I know if that if we had gotten ...

I think he may like me but he's married and expecting a child!

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11 May 2008 (F) - I need some serious help!!! Ok, there is this guy I talk to. We're friends...sort of. He's married and his wife is pregnant. She's in another country. I met him through another friend. And we kind of started talking. I like him, but I know its wron...