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Why is my partner's brother so negative about us all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 March 2019 (F - Hi there , so my fella and I are moving in together After 6 months of dating we both have a child each and all get on fantastic .. the issue is his brother is always negative about things .. our cars are rubbish ( his car is older than ours ) o...

Why do we hold onto people that are not good for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 March 2019 (F - Why do we hold on to those who we know are no good for us? My boyfriend of 10 and a half months broke up with me 3 days ago. He was my first ever relationship and I was so happy. I thought I was in love to be honest, because I wanted to be wit...

Is the grief causing him to treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 March 2019 (F - Hello. Firstly just for some context I was in a on and off relationship for 10 years with the sweetest best friend of a boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart but his lack of ambition and lazy attitude I couldn't take anymore. We are ...

His priorities don't make sense

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2019 (F - DEAR cupid, my boyfriend I and have been together for a year and 1/2. We have been living together for a year. We have been experiencing issues and decided to end our realationship to work on ourselves and our relationship. This is where it gets ...

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

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18 March 2019 (F - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the ...

She thinks there was a hidden message about being fat in my fruit and yoghurt comment

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 March 2019 (M - So I have been with this woman for 18 months. Our relationship has been perfect so far, no arguements, always get on. Today she had an arguement with a friend and was not very happy after. She sent me a message saying she was going for a walk and ...

What’s wrong with people? Do we not listen now??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 March 2019 (F - Why are people so self absorbed and disinterested? Is this rude? If you saw a friend you hadn’tseen in ages and she didnt once ask how you or your life was what would you do? You havent seen her in 5-6 months. and of course ask how ...

How do I go about finding love ? Does it happen when you stop looking?

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13 March 2019 (F - How do I go about finding love ? Does it happen when you stop looking? I am a single female that turns 33 in a couple of months and everyone around me is married or on their second child- I feel the pressure and loneliness of being single but...

Help ! Can anyone unravel this situation at work as I am becoming unwell

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10 March 2019 (F - I have recently started a new job where people have worked for over 20 years - I was full of enthusiasm for the job and it seems to have backfired on me, The boss is winding down and a manager fills in for him, the manager seems to have taken the ...

Would you date a toothless guy?

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9 March 2019 (F - Will you date someone with no teeth? I mean, i know hes not broke, he has 2 jobs in LA, he has Volkswagon car and can travel anytime he wants. Im just curious why he wont go dentist for it to be fixed. Lol...

I missed out on a group poster, and now I feel bad! Why do I feel not part of the team?

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9 March 2019 (F - I have been on leave 10 days got back to work today. How would you feel if you were on leave and the boss (female) took photos of all the female staff to celebrate int womens day? To show we are a good team. (Yes there are guys there, but t...

Wedding mania! Should I give a portion of my declines to fiance for his invites or is this just a very awkward lesson for him?

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9 March 2019 (F - My fiance and I are paying for our own wedding 50/50. We chose an affordable venue and plan to have about 80 guests. We are inviting 20 mutual friends, 30 from his side, and 30 from mine. Most of our guests will traveling. I am only inviting im...

Do I stay with my job with little time off and great money or go for something less stressful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

8 March 2019 (F - This isn't a relationship question, but a work one instead. Last year I posted a question about becoming a chef and got loads of great replies. I love most of my job and the pay is good and I have had a promotion and my manager wants to promote...

Do couples that have been together a long time have deeper love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

2 March 2019 (F - Hey all Might seem a silly question but i wondered if a couple are together a long time does it mean their love is going to be deeper than a couple who have say been together a couple of years as opposed to ten years?...

He is all that I have ever wanted but I feel trapped. Is an open relationship the answer?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 March 2019 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we met when we started university. All through these years I've been looking forward to graduating, getting a flat together and settling down. Now I'm coming to the end of my degree and I'm panicking because ...

Could these have been semen stains ... is he cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 February 2019 (F - Hi guys. I just need some advise. I’m driving myself mad and keep toying between am I just being super paranoid or is my gut instinct trying to tell me something... basically I want to know show I be weary of my partner! We have been together ab...

I'm pregnant and work part time. My husband wants me to get another job to pay his parents debts.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 February 2019 (F - My husband's parents owe a large amount of money to a family member which they can't pay. They have asked my husband to pay the money on their behalf, we are talking £500 per month for the next 10ish years. My husband works 9 to 5 and I work part ...

I'm 64 but still frightened of my dying mother.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 February 2019 (F - My elderly narcissistic mother is dying in hospital and after a violent abusive childhood, I hate having to see her. She's an embittered, difficult, hard to please woman and I feel very nervous in her company. I'm 64 now, yet still frightened of ...

I try very hard to acieve at university but my parents think its nothing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 February 2019 (F - At the moment, I'm a little upset with what my parents have said. Not exactly sure how I should approach the situation. So it started off by discussing how I'm already in my 2nd year of university and that in a blink of an eye, I would be in my f...

Starting out in serious relationships: Coping with "forever" ending and trusting the next "forever"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 February 2019 (F - Please bear with this question. I'd really appreciate supportive answers, rather than blunt or patronising answers, if possible :-) I've only been in one relationship and it did feel like it would last many more years than it did, though it lasted...

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