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Is getting back with him a vain hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

22 June 2017 (F - Hi everyone, I have a question regarding an ex that I am still in love with. We broke up in March. He said he "wasn't in the right mindset to have a girlfriend, I have to sort some stuff out" and "this doesn't mean we can't get back together." ...

Am I selfish or is he trying to guilt trip me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 June 2017 (F - I feel my boyfriend has the most unrealistic expectations of me and it's really pushing me away. Hr told me this evening on the phone that his back went out of place so he had to take the day off work to rest as well as see a physio. He also ...

A guy is visiting me from Europe, Should I be responsible for his accomodation and hotel bills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

21 June 2017 (F - It's my first time online dating and I met a likable European guy. He is 28 and I don't expect him to have much money. I really like him and I was to visit him first but because of my work I can't at the moment. He decided to visit first. I live in ...

Is there any way I can stop from vocalizing the thoughts in my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 June 2017 (M - Good day everyone, I apologise for the long post. My problem is that I don't like the person I've become. I grew up as a very quiet child and teenager, often not saying anything when I should have. It affected my grades, at my work place and rela...

My boyfriend wants me to buy a cheap car instead of one I can actually afford

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 June 2017 (F - So I'm in a conundrum. My bf and I have been dating on/off for 5 years. We were friends for years first before dating. Currently, we disagree on a car, to understand the struggle, a lil history is needed. In the very beginning of our relationship...

Is it normal for husbands and boyfriend to follow lingerie models on social media?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - Is it normal for guys to follow all these girls on instagram and like their half naked pictures on instagram every time they post them? I'm a grown woman and single but I can tell u when I'm in a relationship I don't have eyes for other men and in ...

Is my husband up to no good behind my back with another woman on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hello. I might sound like another jealous, insecure and paranoid wife with social media related relationship issues but here goes... I am a late bloomer on Facebook. I just started about 6 months ago. My husband of 3 years has had Facebook for 7 y...

Creepy old men are attracted to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - My question is why am I so appealing to creepy older men? I am 17 and will be 18 next month. People often think I'm older than I actually am, based on the way I think, dress and just from my face and body. Most are shocked when I tell them I'm only ...

He is getting married next month, I want to tell him I still love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hello, My ex will get married in one month from today - should I tell him I love him? We met nine years ago while travelling and had a whirlwind long-distance romance / relationship. I've never experienced being pulled towards someone lik...

Why can't I be alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - How can I feel comfortable with myself alone? I have a problem being alone and I have tried to do things alone and I just dread the weekend because I'm alone with my thoughts- I've had this feeling since I was ten and it always gotten me in trouble ...

Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

Who could this strange woman be who showed up asking questions about me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 June 2017 (F - Can anyone help me make sense of this situation? I live in a house. I rent the downstairs portion. My landlord who owns the home told me that this morning a woman knocked on his door asking questions about me. I was not home at the time. She ...

Why do people behave so weirdly online vs in real life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 June 2017 (F - why do people behave so weirdly online vs in real life? i know i do it too, and i just want to know the reasons. i go to college with a guy i really like and who i think really likes me, we go out together all the time, and we make plans together ...

I'm devastated because I tried my hardest but I couldn't make it to the Universities of my choice. How do I break the news to my parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 June 2017 (F - Hi everyone, I literally just got my results of my exams today and unfortunately i did not make the requirements of the universities i have chosen. I fell a little short of the requirements so its not too bad. The problem is, both unis actual...

Do I stand my ground or make up with my mother?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 June 2017 (F - Hi folks. I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment. I have my child's christening coming up this week and haven't invited my mother. Now I know that sounds awful but here's why (sorry for the essay) Basically all our lives my mum...

Why am I so stuck on social media?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone About two years ago I used to hang out with a group of girls that weren't that great - they were gossip fueled - vain - and all they cared about is showing off and getting married. For two years I fell into that hole - I started...

He says he wants to be friends but to be patient. Is he playing games with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 June 2017 (F - When I was 22, I was in a very serious relationship. After his father died, he broke up with me. We didnt speak for a number of years. We both married other people, and had children. We found each other again, I was divorced, he was happily married, ...

Despite what he says I feel I'm not good enough for him. Should I feel this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 June 2017 (F - hi everyone, i have recently got into a new relationship with a really nice man and he pays me a lot of nice compliments telling me i am beautiful, intelligent etc. except i don't feel that i am and i feel insecure about things. the thing is i am 43 ...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 June 2017 (F - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

How much should I spend on my boyfriend's kids' graduations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - Hi, I'm not very familiar with the US culture. My boyfriends son and daughter are graduating from high school and middle school. They have a party soon and I don't know what's the norm here and what I should get for them. Do you think spending l...

My husband has me earn lovers by performing painful or degrading acts with him

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - Hi I'm a bit lost and in need of help. I have been married for 20 years to a man I have always loved. He has always had strange sexual practices and I have always played along, I have always looked up to him and always felt that he was better t...

I'm very attracted to one of my future sister in law's alternate personalities

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - My love life is like something out of a movie and I feel like I'm out of options. A bit of back story, I have been seeing a man now for almost a year who has been my best friend for a long time and we've been engaged for a few months. He's ...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

My partner for 3 years loves me. Would it be wrong to take a chance with another man who I've loved for 27 years?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 June 2017 (? - Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...

Is my perfectionist boyfriend overly critical of my looks? Or am I oversensitive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - My bf used to think my looks were perfect. But he seems to put me down lately. Like he doesn't like a birth mark on my nose. I can't control that. He tells me that my body is perfect for a woman my age but that I am not 20 anymore. He sa...

How can I find a guy? I have this huge fear of being alone and not married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I wanted to come here and ask if anyone has any advice on how to get over this fear - for the last 12 years - I'm 31 - I have a huge fear on being alone- not being married It's driven me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and men that...

Would you stay with a guy who doesn't think you are a "vital" part of his life???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Would you be with a guy who knows he is a vital part of your life but he tells you that you are NOT a vital part of his???...

How can I stop being so negative ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - Hello - I feel like I have reached a breaking point in my twenties and I am really down. Here is the background - ever since I can remember I have been negative - on the outside I have a family- a career- somewhat good looks and most important ...

Nearly every man I've been with seems to feel no need to compliment me. Is it wrong that I have an emotional need for a partner who can indicate to me that he finds me attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

3 June 2017 (F - Why do some men think it ok to show obvious attraction and lust for women in porn yet not ever tell their wives or partners once that they are sexy or attractive in any way what so ever ? So they not think a woman will begin to feel hurt that he ...

My wife wants my mother's house signed over to me before she will move!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

1 June 2017 (M - I am married. About a year back I lost my job. Finding a new job has become challenging since I am nearing 50 years. I have a house which belongs to my mother. My wife wants to stay in a rented house which I have been paying high rent. I requested ...

Drunken fumble, was what the guy did normal making out or was it more than that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 May 2017 (M - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 May 2017 (F - I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is ...

Should I be hungrier and work harder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

28 May 2017 (M - So I'm 25 year old guy.I've got a decent job, a home,a car. I am completely content with my life. Although I would refer to my status as 'middle class'.I look at people my age and who have the same things as me... And they're quitting their current ...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 May 2017 (F - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 May 2017 (M - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

23 May 2017 (F - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

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