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One date later, should I pursue this girl?

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19 May 2019 (M - I have been internet dating for a little while now and have had 4 dates. The last was a woman from Canada who is visiting over here for a month. She contacted me and explained she was travelling but we chatted a little online and we went for a dr...

I have doubts about my fiance.

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19 May 2019 (F - Hi, I’m not sure about if I should be with my fiancé or not. I feel because I ask the question that it should be the obvious answer. But I don’t know if my expectations are just wrong. I’ve been with him for 10 years, we have a house together. ...

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

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18 May 2019 (F - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

My boyfriend is very casual about his daughters' privacy and I find it very very odd

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F - Ive been seeing a guy who's super awesome. We're both single parents of two girls each. They stay the night frequently. My girls are 9 and 13, his are 9 and 11. Despite having lived in an all girl house for the last 5 years or so, my daughters and ...

Is it ok to have sex with my aunt who's now divorced from my uncle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 May 2019 (M - My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. ...

Passing ships in the night but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 May 2019 (F - Help. I don't think I'm gonna hear from this guy again. I really fell for this lad on my adult training course. He's a bit younger than myself, but we sat together and flirted a lot and even caught each other staring at each other from time to time, ...

Do we change our views in regards to relationships as we get older?

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16 May 2019 (F - Silly question maybe but in terms of how you are as a person do we change all that much from the ages of twenty to forty when it comes to how we view relationships? My partner says he didn't know what love was, had nothing to compare it to, looks ...

My husband wants "space", is shutting down all communication with me, is cold, rude and distant and spends a lot of time with people at work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 May 2019 (F - For the past few months, my husband has been spending more and more time hanging out with his colleagues and bosses (male) late at night. Work has been getting busier and he's trying really hard to impress his bosses, as he was placed in charge on a ...

I'm afraid I will be alone, I've screwed up my life and personality and don't know what to do

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13 May 2019 (M - I've lived a life of a quiet, lonely loner. It was an act of convincing myself I was better off alone and could not feel lonely. Eventually, any semblance of loneliness I had was simply masked by complacency. This turned me into believing that I...

How do I deal with an old, terminally ill dog who's pooping all around the house?

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12 May 2019 (F - Sorry if this is not the typical question for this site but I need advice. I have an 11 year old dog. I have had him since 8 weeks old. Recently he's been falling over a lot on walks and not picking his feet up properly so his nails would bleed. ...

How do you deal with getting older and society treating you like you are invisible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 May 2019 (F - Just looking for a little advice on how to deal with getting older as anwoman and losing looks and it seems visibility in society . Some seem to say enjoy the invisibility but I find it heartbreaking when I’m basically ignored say in a store for a ...

I know I should just walk away .... but I love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 May 2019 (F - Hi I wonder if anyone can help me.. So I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3years and also he's an overthinker and recently he was feeling a little depressed. I supported him and was going out of my way to be there all the time .. he was m...

Why would a married man who I barely know tell me that he's in love with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - Around 5 years ago, I was selected to attend an academic programme in another country. Upon reaching there, I met a guy from my country who was also a participant and we hit it off. There was nothing even remotely romantic... He was married and I ...

Is my FWB starting to get feelings for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - My friend with benefits knows i like him more than what we have we talked about things a while back he said he doesnt feel the same way but at the weekend we did a lot more than usual and he made a point of wanting to hold my hand and wanted to keep ...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

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8 May 2019 (F - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

Why am I only drawn into these inappropriate, wrong relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - Why am I always drawn to taboo, inappropriate or wrong kind of relationship?? Ok here is a little detail about myself. I grew up a bit of a wallflower - no confidence at school, never pushy or good with hair and makeup and so was always the l...

HOW can I salvage the rest of my life so I don't feel so depressed and like such a failure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 May 2019 (F - When I was very young my mother left my brother and I with my grandmother to take care of us because she wasn't happy with her life so she immigrated to this country. When I was 13 she brought all 3 of us over(also made my grandma sell her house ...

How do I tell my girlfriend her bed isn't comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 May 2019 (M - I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a few months. So far everything has gone great. The problem I have is that I think her bed is super uncomfortable. Her mattress is a 3 inch thick piece of foam. Her blanket is 4 or 5 layers of thin blankets that ...

How do I stop feeling down about an unrequited love situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 May 2019 (F - How do I stop feeling down about an unrequited love situation? I foolishly let myself fall for a young guy who was pretty much unavailable due to age, background, personal circumstances etc. I knew deep down there was no future in it, but I felt h...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 May 2019 (F - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...

Whenever we disagree he brings up everything that has ever made him mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 April 2019 (F - Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating 20 months. He said God brought us together but this relationship has been emotionally draining. He has such a quit temper that even when I say things that are right I'm still wrong. He is not a person that ...

What rules/boundaries/routines to set out when finding a housemate/flatmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 April 2019 (F - Hi all, simple questions really, but still needs detailed thought and I’m struggling to think of everything. When finding a housemate/flatmate what am I supposed to look for? Also, what are the rules/boundaries/routines/etc to set out? Do you set ...

Do you believe in reincarnation or soulmates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

26 April 2019 (F - Do any of you believe in reincarnation or soulmates? My partner and I have such a deep connection that was so instant that it was like we've known each other for years. So I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar. ...

I'd really like a hobby. Should I take a comedy course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

26 April 2019 (F - i often put myself down but i can give at least a list of ten things i like about myself and for any of the other cupid users i hope this doesnt come across as big headed but i do think i am naturally a funny , witty creative person . in the pa...

Is it possible that a man could be so nervous that he can't stop shivering around women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 April 2019 (F - I've been seeing this man for about 2 months, everything was going great but I'm not sure how can i make him more comfortable around me whenever we are on a date. I have more experience with men but he claims that I'm the first girl who went on a ...

I have trouble when living with someone on how to go about getting them to pay part of the bills

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

25 April 2019 (F - Hello. I am a thirty year old parent of 2 who has had a few short term relationships over the last ten years, but for the most part have lived by myself. It seems that once things start to progress into living together, that i really struggle ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

23 April 2019 (F - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 April 2019 (F - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

What's wrong with me? I've always been conditioned to want certain things out of life but none of them fit my idea of my most honest self

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 April 2019 (F - How can I accept who I am? for the last 30 years all I have been conditioned to want is 1. Get married 2. Buy a house 3. Make babies and compete with your neighbor to show who is happier - fancier - richer etc . My family is quite dysfunc...

It looks like he's lost interest after we had sex. How do I get him interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 April 2019 (F - I met a guy a couple years ago (let's call him Adam), and it was immediately clear he liked me, but I had a boyfriend. We hung out a handful of times over the next 2 years, but I kept it friendly. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, so Adam and I ...

How would you feel if your doctor hugged you?

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20 April 2019 (F - My medical doctor started giving me hugs at the end of our regular appointments. The first time he just initiated a hug; the second time he said "I hope you don't mind me hugging you. I have been working with him for about a year. How would you ...

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