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Does my partner have the right to know about the details of my therapy sessions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

18 August 2019 (F - Hi. I won't bore you with too many details. Just want to know if you think it is appropriate for your spouse/partner to ask you about the details of your therapy sessions? I was diagnosed with anxiety and PTSD. I have begun counselling rece...

Wife is angry that I hugged a co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

18 August 2019 (M - My wife is angry I hugged a female former co-worker/friend that I have known for 10 years. When we seen this old co worker I have not seen her in 2 years and she is over 20 years older than me. She has met my kids. When my mother passed she sent ...

Given our connections am I naive to believe that this couldn't blow up in my face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

17 August 2019 (F - So I'm at a loss as to if I'm making the right judgement. To be very brief, I'm currently hooking up with a friend of mine I've known for almost 20 years. I crushed on him hard as a preteen and we got close to hooking up years ago but when sober he ...

Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women .

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 August 2019 (F - Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women . I often see descriptions of ‘hot ‘ or attractive women include the word tall and cute or sweet women as shorter . Obviously individuals have individual preferences but in GENERAL is ...

How to approach her obsession with her looks

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 August 2019 (M - Wife bought waist trainer corset. When I first saw it on her, she looked super sexy; tiny waist with huge boobs (DD; what a dream. I made the mistake of telling her how hot she was and as a result, she started wearing it all the time. Over time, she ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

Want advice on dealing with loneliness, pursuing goals and courage to talk to the people I want to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - ive just finished my degree and have no academic plans for the next term as I have never known what to do job wise and I still don't which is why I haven't decided to pursue anymore courses. as a result of finishing my degree I basically have n...

Is what is happening to me financial abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - Would you call this financial abuse? I go to work and support my husband who has little respect for me anyway. He also pressures me to sometimes support his parents as he so desperately wants to please them, even though they are just using him and ...

Does it sound like I disrespected him or is he overreacting a little bit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 August 2019 (F - So my husband and I live here in England, but his family still live in Ireland so he goes over there a few times a year. Sometimes I go with him depending on if I can get time off work or not. He’s planning to go over in November but I won’t be ...

I'm worried I'll never find love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 August 2019 (F - Lately I've been feeling lonely relationship wise. I'm 27 never had a boyfriend or any sort of relationship. I have many friends but I just dont get attention like that. I'm not the most feminine girl and things like that. My friends think I'm ...

Taking care of stray dogs is taking a toll on me emotionally..

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10 August 2019 (F - Hi. This isn’t a dating question but I was hoping to get some advice here . I have rescued a lot of animals in my life and it’s not easy to get help/vets in this part of the world, especially for poor stray animals. I won’t even talk about the anim...

Why do men bring their attention to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - Hello, I’m having issues with men who are total strangers. I am a petite Asian woman in my 20s but I look young. I am often mistaken for 19 or younger. Men approach me regardless. I try not to assume anything and go about my day. I am not a very ...

Even divorcees with kids have it better than me when it comes to dating and marriage! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

2 August 2019 (F - This is more like a frustration rant. My last relationship ended years ago. Since then, I have been going on dates, dating events etc but have not found anyone suitable. A year back, I have also signed with matchmaking agencies where I spent over ...

I think I'm caught in what would be called a roundabout, complicated form of porn addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

31 July 2019 (M - Hi everyone. I am sixteen years old. I am a normal bloke, I think. Or maybe I am not. I have been reading this website a lot for the past one week. I generally understand that a lot guys struggle with porn. I also understand that porn has ...

What are the chances they are having an emotional affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 July 2019 (F - We purchased a home for my son and his fiancée and their daughter with his trust. We have been renovating the home to have it ready for them by August . I noticed my husband becoming more and more distant and him working different hours than he ...

My girlfriend's hoarder sist.er wont move out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 July 2019 (F - My girlfriends sister (41) will not move out! My girlfriend (28) and I (27) have been together for about three years...for most of that we have lived together. The first year my girlfriend rented and I moved in with her and not long after her s...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 July 2019 (M - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

Why do some men perceive women as entertainment

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 July 2019 (F - Why do some men perceive women as entertainment . I’ve seen this attitude from so many men and even seen it stated here on this round that women are men’s entertainment . Why do some Men think women are here solely for their viewing pleasure...

How can I get my partner to be a better parent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - Hi I’ve been with my fiancé for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship the problem is not a very good father he has never done any night Feeds or changed a nappy when she was a baby I have ...

I'm interested in an older guy, how do I find out if he is married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - for the past two months or so ive been wanting to speak to someone who is older then me , a lot of people who ive spoken to about this have give me mixed opinions . its the first time ive ever wanted to speak to someone older , he is older then me ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

My Baby Daddy never follows through on promises, how can I make him happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - I have been with my baby Daddy boyfriend for almost two years. I have stayed with him when he was unemployed for 6 months, quit jobs and been broke. I have worked full time even when I was pregnant. We split up for two weeks because I finally ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

21 July 2019 (F - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

How Do I Begin Feeling Happy About Other People Success?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 July 2019 (F - How do I begin being happy for others? Two years ago, I lost my job and got into a car accident. While I’m trying to get back on my feet, I see that my friends are moving out of my parents’ homes. I still live with mine. A majority of people I know ...

He quickly gives offers of help but wont do paid work for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

20 July 2019 (F - I became friendly with a guy who did work for me. We became friends on facebook so I suppose lost the trader/customer boundary. However he has let me down a few times now but if I have posted about needing something ie a code checker for my car or ...

My girlfriend constantly complains about her weight but wont do anything about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

20 July 2019 (M - How do I deal with my gf complaining about her weight. I used to pressure her to keep an eye in her weight but she loves eating junk. I gave up about 3-4 years ago as we went from size 10 to 16. She is adamant it’s because it’s certain parts an...

Married to a selfish man but I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

19 July 2019 (F - How do i stop caring about what my husband thinks of me!? Hes a very selfish person and i think i made a miatake marrying him. I cant leave because i love him but it doesnt feel like he loves me the same...

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