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Why do people at work bully other people?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 January 2019 (F - Why do people at work bully other people? I have a close relation with someone at work. I am at a managerial position and she is at Junior level. This girl is good at her job but still her manager has an issue with my friendship with her. She ...

My boss is not letting me move on from our affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 January 2019 (F - I posted about a month/two back about having had an affair with boss and having ended it. He wanted to stay super secret best friends. But I’ve done a great job of only being professional with him and not interacting unless absolutely neces...

Can we get married in a church if neither of us are religious?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 January 2019 (M - My fiancee and I would like to get married in a church, however neither of us are religious. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice on this? Neither of our families are religious either. We have come across many churches locally and while ...

I hate being criticized and corrected and I don't like anyone see me other than at my best. How do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 January 2019 (F - Most of my self-worth depends on me not looking stupid in front of people, and it is affecting my life. When I was younger, everyone told me I was smart. I was always reading and didn't have to try very hard to learn. I barely studied and still ...

Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 January 2019 (M - Met a girl from Bumble and here's how it's gone dating wise: Sat 29 Dec - went for a few afternoon drinks. Sun 30 Dec - Went out for a meal and more drinks, ended up staying over at hers kissing most of the night, slept together but we didn't h...

Why do I feel fear and anxiety of not being able to cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 January 2019 (F - I've always suffered with anxiety and ruminating thoughts etc. Lately this has got alot worse. I've been trying to work through and figure at out what the under lying feelings are and why I feel this way. I feel alot of fear and get so overwhelmed ...

How can I discipline myself so I can learn how to drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 January 2019 (F - Hello aunts and uncles, Do you have any advice on how could I discipline myself and do what I do not want to do, but have to - learn to drive? I'm 41 and had deluded myself so far that I may somehow avoid having to get a licence. I'm otherwi...

Will I ever get the chance to massage her all over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 January 2019 (M - Hi, on the question of massages, I have a friend who will let me massage her back, neck, etc and feet, but not butt. She has also allowed me to see her topless, but she doesn’t fancy me and we also cuddle in bed a bit when she sleeps over. She ...

Was I in the wrong to tell her to let my boss know? Is ending our friendship justified?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 January 2019 (F - So My husband works in the oil field industry and we live 12 hours away from home. We are alone in the state we are in, and have no family close by. In 2017, My husband befriended his coworker and wanted me to meet his coworkers wife so I could have ...

A stranger offered herself to me to help me lose my virginity. Do I accept?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 January 2019 (M - I will be 20 very soon and am still a virgin. I have tried to date probably more than a hundred women and have always been rejected. I have contemplated visiting an escort but don't want to lose my dignity doing so. Out of a whim I posted an ad o...

My friends are all so busy enjoying themselves they forget about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 January 2019 (M - 2018 was a difficult year but unfortunately I have realised I have no real friends. What would you do in the situation when you feel like you have no true friends. 2018 has been tough time with family issues, and finances however I feel like beca...

Should I ask an 18 year old out or is she too young for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 December 2018 (F - I’m a single mum with a toddler and after over two years of being single i decided last week to put myself back out there. I’m bisexual and while on a dating site I started talking to a girl who I like. My problem is that I’m nervous about getting ...

He wont have sex with me and prefers porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

31 December 2018 (F - We have had a rough relationship. 2 years+. Hes cheated, and always put me in competition. Now we have a baby and he loves him so much, but he cheated on me when i was pregnant. Its been an abusive relationship ever since the 5th month. He ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 December 2018 (F - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

Should I take note of our horoscopes? The Chinese one says we are incompatible!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 December 2018 (F - This probably seems silly but I have been reading Chinese horoscopes and compatability with my boyfriend and they say we are not suited. It says his soul mate Chinese animal was a horse and his ex wife was one, yet my animal is the least compatible ...

My new job demands much more of my time! Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 December 2018 (F - Three weeks ago I started a job in my career path that I’ve been praying for for a long time now. Great location for me, benefits, union, pay is good, the whole nine yards. I feel so overwhelming blessed for me and my family. The only downside to ...

My step children's mother is creating problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - Dear Aunts and Uncles I need some advice please. Not sure where to go from here. I have 2 beautiful step children. They have just got back from a once in a lifetime holiday with their Mum. We didn’t know about this holiday at all as the...

Does he still like me? Am I over thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - I ve been seeing this lad for a couple of months. We spend hours talking and he always asks about my life. On nights out he will.stay with me all night in the club rather than his friends. When people ask us what we are sometimes he says I m his mrs ...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 December 2018 (M - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

My abusive father has turned the family against us. Does anyone have any words of support/similar stories?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - Hi, Im just seeking stories of others if anyone has gone through something similar. It would be comforting to hear, as I know there is little to be done about my current family situation. Last year I decided to cut contact with my father due to hi...

Male friend wants to discuss sexual fantasies ....he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 December 2018 (F - No, I am not looking to make him my boyfriend Just want to know if its normal for men with girlfriends to want to talk to their female friends about their sexual fantasies? he even asked if i had a boyfriend and when i asked why he said because...

Boyfriend lied about moving overseas to keep sleeping with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 December 2018 (F - My Boyfriend and I broke up I'm very depressed this Christmas we had been together for a year with a 2 month breakup in between because he refused to tell anyone about me... He claims to be private I took him back because I don't believe he was ...

Is collateral damage a side effect of online dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

23 December 2018 (M - I’ve been trying online dating for a little while with the goal of eventually finding a committed relationship. I haven’t actually met anyone in person (yet) but I have chatted with a fair number of people. Most of those conversations fissled out ...

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