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I want to work on myself and stay single. How do I keep from letting men distract me?

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11 December 2017 (F - Hi ladies, as the end of 2017 is approaching I’ve made a decision to be single for awhile. It seems like 2017 was full of meaningless sex with people I thought it would work out with and it just ended up not going anywhere. So I decided to work on ...

My roommate and her boyfriend constantly hog my couch, but other than that, they're not much of a bother. Am I right in feeling irritated?

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11 December 2017 (F - I'm not sure if this is ok to ask, but I'm having issues with my roommate. I feel like I may possibly be overreacting, so tell me your thoughts. We've lived together without issues since July. However, she has a long distance boyfriend who vi...

How do I control something that is so compulsive in my nature?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

10 December 2017 (M - I dunno if this is the right place to ask this question but here goes... I'm a motorcyclist and I'm impulsive and crave the thrill of speed.I had another accident today... This must be my fifth and it looks like I have completely torn my rotator ...

What would you think if your doctor said you look good?

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10 December 2017 (F - My male doctor surprised me the other day when I went in for an office visit. After discussing my medical problem he asked if I cut my hair and said I looked good.My hair hasn't changed the last few months plus I have been seeing him every 1-2 weeks ...

A practical joke gone horribly wrong

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9 December 2017 (F - My friend Bailey and I played a joke on our friend Eve just to embarrass her and teach her a lesson but Bailey took it too far and now Eve got suspended and her parents punished her real bad. She's not aloud to talk to us or anyone or go anywhere ...

Is it OK to ask him if he's serious about me?

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8 December 2017 (F - I’m currently in a long-distance relationship. I met him last 2015 but our relationship become more interesting when he come to visit me in my country April 2017 and again Oct 2017. It is our first time to be together, it was fun and we got the c...

On dating site for six years. Should this be a worry?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

8 December 2017 (F - I've been seeing a guy for a month and a half now. We text everyday, talk on the phone and we have been on multiple dates. Each time he is initiating it. So far things are looking spectacular! However, when I asked him how long he has been on the d...

I'm unhappily married but in love with a man who's engaged but hesitant to leave his fiance

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

7 December 2017 (F - Please could I ask for some advice on my situation... I have been married for 3 years but for the last year the marriage has been very difficult and we both feel that we have grown too far apart to fix things, although haven’t yet said we will div...

My friend is behaving differently since we had sex

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7 December 2017 (F - So I'm 25 best friend is 29. So I have been really good friends with an American man for about 12 years now, we met online and were penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we ...

Should I get her approval that I attend a fetish party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 December 2017 (M - Im a closeted crossdreser, I'm totally straight, No bi tendencies. I have a long term wonderful girlfriend. I'm loyal to her, She knows about my crossdressing habit and she is cool with it as long as she doesn't see me dressed up. Never. This c...

Is going to New York alone for 6 months a good or bad idea?

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7 December 2017 (M - im want to make a big move to new york. not permanently just for few months maybe 6. i feel a pull to be there now. i went when I was a kid so i don't remember anything. i have no special reason i just want to visit. ny sounds fun and full of cool ...

Should I leave my job even though I'm knee deep in student loan debt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 December 2017 (M - I've been in advertising for about 2 years now. The work load I have have can easily be divided among 3-4 people, my pay is pathetic and myself and a few other workers were harshly reprimanded by our boss a few months ago for something we/I didn't ...

Why the strange reaction to my bridesmaid offer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

5 December 2017 (F - Hi Everyone :) I have a best friend who is acting strange. She recently started acting odd ever since I got engaged in August of 2017. I asked her if she would be my maid of honor? She said yes, then I met up with her at a restaurant and got...

How do you get over the first person you were sexual with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

5 December 2017 (F - How do you get over the first person you were sexual with? I don't understand why I am so stuck on this. My first kiss was at 17, and he was also the first guy I ever touched or let touch me. However we did not have sex. I wasn't in a relationship ...

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

4 December 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a ch...

Should I have an affair with a married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

3 December 2017 (F - This is going to make me sound like a horrible person... Maybe I am. I've been infatuated with this man for months. I can tell he doesn't care about me emotionally because once I say no to a booty call, he says good bye. I'm not going to lie, I'...

Is it too soon to after he left me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

2 December 2017 (F - Hi. I had a short relationship only 3 months (but very intense holidays etc) I really thought I had met someone who could handle me - i have bipolar - however he ended it saying as he lived so far away he couldn't help me when I needed it. I was so ...

How do I move on from this married man and pick up the pieces of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

1 December 2017 (F - Two years ago I made a choice to enter into a relationship with a married man and I am having trouble pulling myself out of this horrible loop. I am struggling with depression from dealing with the consequences of this and am looking for advice to ...

What do I do and say? His depression is hard to deal with

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

1 December 2017 (F - I need help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 months and a bit more , and I love him so much but he has depression . I help him as much as I can and I’m here for him all the time but he always complains to me how he feels and I understand that he’s ...

Mental health issues: he wants to let me go but I don't want to give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

30 November 2017 (F - why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while ...

Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

30 November 2017 (F - During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty ...

How do I become a more submissive girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

30 November 2017 (F - My personality has always been very jokester and very sarcastic (think of every character on Roseanne type of sarcastic) and I? know when to be serious and turn it off, but in my everyday life it is just who I? am. But I’ve been dating this guy for ...

I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

29 November 2017 (F - Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia ...

Back in touch after 6 months but still confused where I stand with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 November 2017 (F - Hey all - this is a long one so please bear with me. About 6 months ago, a guy I knew started flirting with me and I told him I liked him and he replied that he thought I was fit but just wanted "laughter". There came a point where he wanted to do ...

A good match but lack of passion troubles me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

29 November 2017 (F - A few months ago I got out of a LTR that was passionate but troubled. I am looking for a new beginning in the future, but not right away. I want something that will last this time. I have a friend who is into me. He is a wonderful man, v...

Can we get back to normal after swinging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

28 November 2017 (F - Do you think there’s any hope of a relationship going back to normal after swinging? My husband and I have tried it - yes we had a lot of fun - but the lifestyle isn’t for me. When I tell him I want to stop we fight because he doesn’t want to stop. ...

How do I escape this rut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

27 November 2017 (M - I’m reallt stuck on what to do. I have been with my girl for 5 yrs. However I can’t have courage to get married. I’m always making excuses, but I’m reality I don’t know why myself. I have tried to think about it a lot, and the only conclusion ...

Am I selfish for not wanting a relationship? My parents are desperate for a grandchild but I'm not so sure I'm ready

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - I'm just curious as to what others think about this situation or if anyone else has had a similar problem. I'm 23 and I've never dated nor been in a relationship (and therefore obviously a virgin), but that is mainly by choice as I have no desire...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

I just don't want to give much attention to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - Hi I have been single since 3 years but didn’t go on many dates. I feel attracted to hot guys and have had one fling as well but I can’t stand more than 2 dates with anyone . I met a nice guy and we went on 2 dates but then calls started pouring ...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

25 November 2017 (M - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

Do you think he is behaving normally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

24 November 2017 (F - I had to switch doctors because my old doctor retired. I went in to see him to followup on a rash I had on my face. He looked at it once and said it looked better. Then he examined my eye because I had a swollen, red eyelid. After that he examined ...

Staying with his mum is taking all out savings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

24 November 2017 (F - Hiya.. I currently have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years.. we are in a very happy relationship- no problems and we get on like a house on fire.. we are currently saving to buy our first house and are currently living together at his mums ...

Head over heels in love with my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 November 2017 (M - Hello everyone, I'm a bachelor student. I am sorry for my grammar mistakes. First of all, I want to say that during my school and HS years I've never had this feeling before. Last year, I met one of the best persons and teachers in the world. She is ...

What does my partner's comment mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

23 November 2017 (F - My partner has told me that he has never been into one night stands and always has relationships with a view to taking them seriously. He has also told me he has never really loved anyone and I'm the love of his life. I told him last night by te...

Any advice on Dear Cupid burn-out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

22 November 2017 (M - I know I'm not the most active poster here and I'm not hoping that anyone would recognize me but I'm just gonna post this here for a message and maybe some advice. I'm thinking of leaving DearCupid for some time, all this posts about cheating...

Co-worker's stories make me green

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

22 November 2017 (F - I have recently got a new job and long story short I noticed my other co-worker in my team gets 20k more (out salaries are visible because we work in hr and do the same job ) I must tell you I am trying to mind my own business but it bothers me - he ...

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

21 November 2017 (F - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...

Was it inappropriate for my wife to wear the revealing dress just to get back at me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

19 November 2017 (M - A short time ago me and my wife had an argument just before we were going out to meet friends for some dinner and drinks. She wasn't quite ready, so she said she would meet up with us later. So I went and met with our friends. She came in about a ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

19 November 2017 (M - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

19 November 2017 (F - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

19 November 2017 (F - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and social...

Why does this person not stop harrassing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - Why would someone who you have told them no and they know you don't want to do the unreasonable request they asked you keep pressuring you and pressuring you to try and do what they want. You have even blocked their calls and they still phone yo...

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

How can I learn my value?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I ...

How important to you is respect for and trust of your manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - A work based question for those of you with years of experience of the workplace. How important to you is respect for and trust of your line manager? I ask because I am in a job I don't want to quit (for a number of reasons) BUT I have al...

Gossip mongers got me going

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - How do u act around people that gossip? I recently started a job and I noticed that two of my coworkers are partaking in chit chat - one of them first asked for my social media accounts right away (I only knew him for a month) and he wanted to add ...

Could this relationship be wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - I am falling in love with my soon to be step uncle and I don't know what to do. Do I end things now before it gets out of hand or do we carry on being like we are and tell people about us ? Is it forbidden to date him ??...

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