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How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 January 2017 (M - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend ...

He says my body is his.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 January 2017 (F - My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...

What was my colleague's intention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 January 2017 (F - Hi there, Looking for advice on how to handle this situation with a colleague at work. I'll start by saying I'm not usually one to assume that everyone is flirting with me or attracted to me. There is a relatively new man at work in quite a high u...

Entitled Flatmate Won't Pull His Weight - What Should We Do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - Moved in recently, I replaced another guy who lives here so didn't know the flatmates that well. The day I move in, the girl who lives here tells me that she hates the other guy, that he won't pull his weight in the flat, left a stain she ended ...

Should I just quit the job I hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - I have been working for the same company as a CNA for 5 years and I absolutely hate my job. I went back to school for dietary aide and I just got a offer in different facility to work in the kitchen.I went for training and I must say I like the job ...

Should I listen to my heart or to my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - Hi, i have fallen for my assistant. Its just that we are so different. We come from different strata s of society, different upbringing and different religion. We have different tastes. But we get along very well in office. Now i cant stop thinking...

Should I try to win back my friend after criticising her uncle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - My best friend's uncle is making me feel uncomfortable. He is an older unemployed man who might be in his late 30s. Everytime I go to my friend's house he calls me names like "my baby, sweetie" which he normally does not use with any of the females ...

Why guys appear to disappear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego an...

Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then i...

Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I sa...

Are my feelings justified or am I making a mountain out of a mole hill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - I'm really needed your honest opinions.. My boyfriend and I have officially been together for around four months. we knew each-other somewhat before this, however due to us both coming out of serious long term relationships, resulting in bot...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

Present employer could jeopardise new employment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Not a dating/relationship question, but would really appreciate any input from anyone who has any ideas/thoughts on this problem, as it could turn out to be a big problem for me. I have worked for a number of years for a small, family-owned com...

I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my in laws!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my husbands family . He has several family members who beliefs and behaviour are very challenging and they sometimes stay with us as they live interstate . Some are currently or were in the past ...

Do women daydream too?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 January 2017 (M - I have to admit, that when i see a beautiful woman, i sometimes start to daydream about her. What might happen if we got to know each other and where this may lead... Do women do this too when they see an attractive man? Please let me know a...

Suspicious of what's going on at work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I would appreciate your opinion on this. I left my previous job for a better opportunity. I work in finance department and my new job hasn't offered any training. So far I'm doing well. Just my manager doesn't realize that I started last month. ...

Is it just the sex he wants?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now, but we don't meet often, only once per 1 or 2 weeks, depending on our work schedules. We do go on dates when we meet, not just sex. He remembered my bday even though I have only mentioned it once and he ...

My life looks pretty discouraging!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - I have just turned 30, and that has caused me to evaluate what I should or should not have acquired/achieved by this age. And my self analysis looks pretty discouraging: Dead-end part-time job with no health benefits ,and no PTO I have just gradu...

Why do men insist on commenting about other women's looks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - I was wondering if anyone could shed some light in this for me . A guy was seeing went out of his was to make a point to me how beautiful his ex wife was. I have also noticed before that men seem to do this when on dates sometimes . They seem to ...

How do I get my friend interested in the dating scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, this is surely going to be a very long question and I'd appreciate any genuine answers as I'm doing this for a friend I care about. So my friend has had a pretty straight yet unusual growing up. Went to a boarding house for 6 year...

He promised to change if we got married ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I am currently married 5 moths this January, we where engaged for a year and dated a year and 1/2 prior to that. Well now I want a divorce! My husband is the man I married and he swore that after we got ,arrived things would change, but still 5 ...

I don't like feeling so alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I need some advice on being lonely. I posted his question once before and would really appreciate some more help pleasseeeee I've been feeling so lonely that I cry myself to sleep every night. I feel that I have nothing to live for. All I do is...

Why did he tell me about his ex wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I like a guy I work with and have been getting closer to him. We've known each other for a few years now but before I was very shy. We have a bit of an age difference so that made me a bit more hesitant as I wasn't sure if he would be interested. ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

My boyfriend didn't include me in his birthday plans

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Is my boyfriend trying to distance himself from me? Or is he trying to break up with me slowly? My boyfriend is acting like a jerk and didnt invite me to his birthday celebration. We spent NYE together and everything was normal. He was ...

I do so much for my boyfriend while he does very little in return

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Hi. I'm a 23 year old female, I have been with my boyfriend for almost two and a half years (He's 22), my boyfriend is kind, caring, a romantic in small doses (like buys ice cream on random occassions, or other things) I moved in with him ...

Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 January 2017 (M - I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...

I've wasted 20 years trying to be good enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I am soon to be 50. I have beautiful children and a low income in a job that is not a career. Have always had a turbulent relationship with both my parents. My mother died recently and my father became manipulative and abusive towards me - he is ...

How can I beat this loneliness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I need some advice on being lonely. I've been feeling so lonely that I cry myself to sleep every night. I feel that I have nothing to live for. All I do is go to work or school and have absolutely zero social interactions. I hate coming home and...

I'm 25 and feel like my best years are behind me. Am I going to be ok?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 January 2017 (M - I'm 26 no job, no degree and have no sexual/relationship experience. I know that I could live to 50 and beyond but it feels like my best years are behind me. I can't help but feel like once you destroy your youth opportunities your life is ...

Do gay men ever fantasize about women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

31 December 2016 (M - Am wondering about something, Am straight, an fantasize , about what it would be like to suck a guy off, it really turns me on,do guys who are gay,ever fantasize about having sex with a woman, ...

Messy situation with my housemate...we had sex and were almost a couple and now he doesn't want anything to do with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - I need help! I've gotten myself into a really stupid situation with a guy and I have no idea how to behave with him! I moved into a new place around 7 months ago, sharing with three new housemates. I'd initially thought one of them (a guy) was...

Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 December 2016 (M - Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other? Why or why not?...

How can I help my autistic brother have a normal life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - I would like some advice on what to do when you're autistic, aware of the way you differ from other 'normal' people, but still want to have a normal life that involves getting a job and a partner? I am asking on behalf of my brother because ...

What should I do to meet the right guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

25 December 2016 (F - Hi everyone, I am feeling like I'll never find someone. I am South Asian American and south Asian guys don't like me, or maybe I think they don't like me. Or I just don't like them. My parents want me to be with someone who shares my culture but I...

Go out on New Year's Eve alone? Is it safe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

25 December 2016 (M - The last 5 years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of ...

Was I right to call this woman a silly old trout over her cashmere jumper?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - Today me my husband and my severly disabled son when into a fish a chip shop restaurant. My son got hold of one of those small squeeezy packets of sauce, (he can grab at people and throw things so we always try to sit well away from people. )We were ...

No present - what should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend of four years did not give me a Christmas present this year. Should I be upset? Because I am. Should I say something to him?...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 December 2016 (F - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

How can I stop her spreading false rumours ? How can I get her to fess up and tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

20 December 2016 (F - I had a friend who I used to be close to some years back. I used to babysit her children when she was in hospital free of charge and generally be helpful. As the years passed the friendship changed. I moved to a more distant area and she rarely ...

Why has he turned cold?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

19 December 2016 (F - I've been friends with benefits with a guy for nearly three years. He not seen anyone else and nor have I. Over the coming months he been kissing my forehead, or holding my hand after sex. Recently we had sex and he we were talking and came over and ...

I need to stop his demands

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 December 2016 (F - Hi, i have been sharing for some time with a friend. He start looking for me and sharing with me. But it become a friend with benefits relationship, which i see was a mistake. Although he told me he isnt dating other girls, i dont believe him. A ...

We disagree about matter of religion! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 December 2016 (F - Hi everyone! I thought it might be a good idea to hear some impartial opinions on an issue I have been dealing with in my relationship. So my boyfriend and I are both Christian, though I only decided to be baptized when i was 14 while he ...

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