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Help me end my loneliness

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

15 August 2017 (F - Has anyone else ever felt completely alone? I feel like my friends are drifting away from me. I also feel like I will never find someone who will actually treat me the way I deserve. I guess my question is have you ever felt alone? And what did you ...

Career or relationship? On the cusp of a big decision, I would like your advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 August 2017 (M - So life has finally slowed down a bit. Its been roughly two months since graduation and my folks think that I should move on with my life. Ive been dating my girlfriend since January last year and its been a roller coaster of emotions that I wouldn...

I got back with my ex but I am struggling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

15 August 2017 (F - Hi everyone! Would I please able to get some opinions on my situation. I was with my ex boyfriend for almost a year we got on very well and had a pretty good relationship. Although towards the end we began arguing and bickering over differen...

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 August 2017 (F - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. ...

One minute he says he's not going anywhere, the next he is avoiding discussing feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 August 2017 (F - I'm not sure what to think about this situation anymore. I have a male friend who told me that he'd like to be romantically involved with me, however we agreed to wait until my divorce is finalized. We have been close friends otherwise. He told me ...

I cant break up with her because she threatens self harm.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 August 2017 (F - Hi, So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years total now with some time in between here and there. I've been on the fence about breaking up with her for the entirety of this summer but I haven't been able to act on it because she is s...

Each time I nearly had sex I pulled back .... now we have split up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - Hi, Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up and it was a very hard decision for us to make because we love each other very much...We met about four months ago at work and we've been together for a month and a half before our break up. Everythi...

Emotional after I climax- is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - This is embarrassing but I have been abstinent for almost a year and a half because I have my guards up and I have been hurt and it's hard for me not to attach feelings when I sleep with someoene so I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship- ...

Is my sister trying to control everything realating to our ageing parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - Is this my younger sisters way of being in control of things, ie about my ageing parents? Im the oldest Younger bro and sis who have families, I have noone, no family or partner Parents are 70 and 74, active and ok health, live indep...

He seems a lovely guy but could I be missing something?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - I have been communicating steadily with a man I met online now for around 6 months, but we have been also interacting on message boards now for more like 8 months. Things have progressed to us both being seriously interested in seeing if we could ...

What makes a person act like my ex did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I was dating a guy for about two years. Around April of 2017 he breaks off the relationship. I was being needy and angry during that time because I was in my senior year of college and it was finals. And my father had stage four cancer he got really ...

My love interest is ill .... is it worth waiting for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - I am in my 30s and my love interest is in his 40s but we are just friends. I haven't seen him in a long time and have seen recently that his health is bad. He struggles to walk, has asthma and drinks. He randomly said to me he would not be able to ...

I regret oversharing my private life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - What do here? I feel I may have "overshared" at work telling a few people I am having surgery in the next 2 months. I have told a few people 9 (not everyone..! there are 20 others who don't know and wont...) I am having surgery soon, and I need...

Why do I want attention all the time from men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - Why do I always enjoy attention from men I can't have? I am a single good looking girl (I'm not trying to be vain but just to paint a picture) and unfortunately I have not had luck in finding a loyal honest man- I have honest though that at work I ...

How can I change my outlook on life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - How can I stop my negative approach to life? Has anyone overcome this negative outlook on life and if so how? I have been in therapy and it's clear to me that I'm a miserable woman (sad) but true nothing makes me happy- I myself am not happy - I ...

We bought a house together but feel my fiance is taking advantage of me financially

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - My finance and I bought a house together at the beginning of the year. I paid for the entire down payment out of my savings account, with the understanding that he will pay me back for his half. In addition, I also put 25K into our joint account to ...

Should I leave my job to go work with my Ex boss, who I'm sleeping with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - I need some work related advice!! Back in March, I was working for a car dealership that I loved! But my GM, We'll call him X, ended up quitting and went to work at another dealership.. It's important to mention that the night he quit, we had se...

Husband's new job takes him away from home.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - my husband of two and a half years has accepted a job as a cell phone tower climber and will be starting in two weeks. the job includes full benefits (which is a boost to my salary since we'll be dropping the benefits we have through my employer), ...

I've told him how I feel but he says I am overthinking!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - Hello, I have been seeing a guy since April. I met him at university but now I have finished, I have moved back home, meaning we live 2 hours away from each other. I also went travelling for two months after seeing him for 2 months. We still...

Was substitute dad trying too hard or did he overstep the mark?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

31 July 2017 (F - So my ? is Can substitute dad put down ground rules on date night when i am 19 and will not graduate high school until January. My father is no longer living with us-Due to my dads meanness we have never been close. anyways, my step mom is now ...

I'm worried I'll never give up my virginity

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 July 2017 (F - Hi, agony aunts. I’ve never been worried about when I would lose my virginity, but now that I’m 21, I’m thinking a lot about it. I’ve kissed some guys in parties and so on, but I’ve never gone any further because I don’t want to have sex with som...

I'm straight so why do gay women always hit on me? Am I giving off some kind of vibes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 July 2017 (F - now a lot of women hit on me...why I don't know, I am straight....anyway here's my issue so i needed 2 use another coworkers comp so I found one which was unfortunately by my freaky coworker and she just said 2 me, so you are going be my cute desk ...

I'm dating a guy who's rather pushy and doesn't want to compromise on even the smallest of things

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 July 2017 (F - There's this guy I have been dating and he is overall wonderful. However, he's done things here and there that has shown me that maybe he can't really compromise. Once, we went dancing at a restaurant with a live band. We had a great time had s...

Does she want space or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 July 2017 (M - Six months ago I re-established contact with a girl who I had a thing for when we were young. She is in a relationship but unhappy. I was coming out of a break-up and she was a pillar of support for me when I needed it most. We'd text each other ...

My friend just featured in my dream and I wonder if that means anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 July 2017 (F - Hi! So I once had a dream about watching sunset in the middle of the sea (it's really weird but all my dreams are like that) with a guy but he had no face, and in my dream I think we are in a relationship (because we are doing sweet acts with each ...

Which expression is more of a compliment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - I'm just wanting opinions on the difference between the terms of "amazing woman" - "awesome chicky" and "chicky babe". For example, is there certain levels of intimacy involved in calling a girl this when you are interested, if you are interested? ...

Is my boyfriend being wise and protecting himself? Or is there more to the story?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have a very happy relationship, we spend a lot of our time together, we go out, stay in, and we have a lot of sex and we're very affectionate towards one another. We are in the process of selling our houses separately and buying ...

Why do these ladies not make eye contact when I am speaking to them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 July 2017 (M - Hello, This is not really a relationship question as such, but something that can be a little annoying sometimes. Pretty much every time I am with another male friend or colleague, and I have a conversation with a female, whether she be a friend, ...

Why do men think its alright to comment on a woman's nether regions?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - This is probably more of a rant than anything, but what is up with some men thinking it's ok to comment on the look of a woman's vagina/vulva?! Whether it's not neat enough, 'beef curtains', too hairy, it 'looks loose'... the list goes on! My m...

I'm feeling very low. Is it too much to ask to have what everyone else has?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - I just wanted to preface what I'm about to say by just saying thank you for all the times you've listened to me bitch, which I do a lot. I know. It means so much to me that you've heard me out, more than you'll ever know. I'm sorry I complain so ...

How do I appraoch being a step-father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 July 2017 (M - Hi There is this girl which we have a lot in common with...she is single mother to 4yr old girl but her dad has nothing to do with them from day she was born. What're your thoughts about being a step dad? I don't have kids of my own either, ...

I'm ready to walk, am I just being used as a babysitter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

20 July 2017 (M - hey, my partner sits on her phone all day does the odd chore round the house i mean when one of the babies does a dirty nappy she doesnt get down to cleaning it up she tells me babies pood so i end up doing it and been like that for years im a stay ...

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

20 July 2017 (M - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there ...

I like him but scared I wil lose the friendship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 July 2017 (F - Hi, so, I'm a 14y/o female. So I go to karate and there's this guy (14 too) who I get along with really well. I kinda think I have a crush on him. I end up thinking about him randomly and whenever I go anywhere I always hope I could see him ...

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