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Am I a slut?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...

What could be the reason for very bad luck?

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20 November 2009 (F) - What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

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20 November 2009 (M) - hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

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20 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...

What it the appeal of bad boys?

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20 November 2009 (M) - Girls like badboys? I was at the bar the other night and me and my friend got into a conversation with two other nice young ladies and one of the bar tenders. First I must make the assumption that all girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and in the...

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...

I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!

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20 November 2009 (F) - i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...

Do you think he got me a ring for Christmas?

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20 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. ...

I can't see a future with her, but I'm torn!

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20 November 2009 (M) - I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided ...

My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it

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20 November 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...

My girlfriend is worried about our future

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20 November 2009 (M) - I need help and i dont wat to do. My gf and i who ive been with for 4 and a half months and we both love eachother, are having a weird issue thats happened b4. We both go to the same school and hang out all the time, however recently, since the ...

Are there really any good men out there that don't abuse ladies?

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20 November 2009 (F) - There are a lot of evil people in the world. I was abused from the time I was 3 years old until I was 15 years old. I am 41 now. It seems like the abuse never goes away. In my life I always meet men who abuse me. I have been through a lot in ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!

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20 November 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding wh...

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

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20 November 2009 (F) - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...

What are the signs someone is in love?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Can a man tell if a girl is truly in love with him? or the other way around if so, then how? To make my question more clear, do people unintentionally give signs when they're in love? Thanks for your answers....

Have I ambarrassed myself, or am I just a little paranoid after my text?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Yesterday I texted to my crush/friend for one year, Rob, that I have had a little crush on him. Then I texted him asking him not to tell anyone or else I would have someone beat him up. So today was totally weird. It started out like a normal day ...

The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.

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19 November 2009 (M) - I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...

Help needed!!! How can I improve my relationship with my in-laws?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've just recently got married. My husband is Hispanic and comes from deep religious background. His parents are pastors. I am African American and I was raised by a single. We had talked about married when he proposed I said yes but he didn'...

Christmas alone...

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have no family and all my friends have their own lives/families at Christmas. Can anyone recommend ideas how to spend christmas without having to spend a fortune on hotels? One would think there must be lots of other people alone at Christma...

How can I move on and be more social?

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19 November 2009 (F) - hi I went out with a guy for just over a year and in that time found out he was a compulsive liar who lied about his age, (he said he was 23 and he was 27) relationship status (hes married) and having a child. Im glad that I dumped him but Im having ...

I hate myself. How can I fix this?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I feel stupid. In theory, I have a great life. I have a good, loving family, a good home, money, some great friends, I do well at school, going to university next year and I'm generally a healthy person with a lot to give. But I hate myself. I know...

Are these doubts to be expected when you are entering into a life-long comittment?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I am engaged to a really great hardworking man, we are from different cultures which means there has been a lot of learning in the relationship about how we each do things, what’s expected of each other and so on, some of those expectations we ...

He wants to get married in the near future but he's not sure if I'm the One!

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for two years. I am co_dependent /insecure so breaking up has always been hard for me. We have a very loving relationship, except for the marriage issue. I am 28, he is 29. He tells me he wants to get married in the next...

Married but cannot stop thinking about having sex with any woman I see or meet!

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19 November 2009 (M) - Asked this question previousley ,neeed more answers.. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my ...

I want my profession to be Japanese Animation!

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody...This Isnt A Question About Relationships Or Anything Like That So I'll Just get To the Point..I'm 18 Years Old And I'm From Idia...I Really Like japanese Animation And I Wanna Make japanese Anime As A profession...I Suck At Drawing:-[ ...

Getting a blow job?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys what does it feel like to get a Blow Job? -Thanks...

Victim of a prank and now confused?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I'm honestly hated, or atleast I think so, by someone I'm in love with- and that I'm not able to get over. Someone who was a bully to me heard that I was going to ask that one person who hates me, and at that time didn't, out and decided to play a '...

How to live with a vicious miscarriage of justice?

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19 November 2009 (M) - The world has changed completely. My nation, Ireland, has tonight been illegally denied a place in next summer's football World Cup by an unbelievably blatant handball offence which was stunningly overlooked by the referee and officials. The offe...

Should I tell my family I'm gay?

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19 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator Note: OP, there isn't a third gender. If there were, threesomes would be much less messy.] hello to everyone. i need your advice. please tell me what to do to overcome this problem that i am facing now. i belong to a third gender(gay...

Despite her denials I think she wants more than friendship too

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19 November 2009 (?) - Okay I need help understanding this! I am a 48 year old female who told a 55 year old unhappily married female that my feelings for her went deeper than just friendship. She denies feeling the same way but based on many things she has said to me and ...

Is it possible just to give up on love?

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18 November 2009 (M) - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've ...

Should I stay in this relationship or move on?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Should I stay in this relationship or move on? I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am deeply in love with. She loves me too but not anywhere near the intensity or passion that I have for her. I accept that, because we all l...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

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18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

I need a friend to talk to, but my friend always steers the conversations back to her problems!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have this friend who i've known now for nearly 7 years and shes one of my closest friends, shes 3 kids 2 of which are my godsons and i do love her to pieces however i am at the end of my tether. She is forever ringing me and texting me telli...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

How can I dress more attractively?

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18 November 2009 (M) - i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!...

I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. ...

My husband is abroad and doesn't send money or call to talk.

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am 41 years i been married for almost 14 years and we have 3 kids my problem is my husband i was asking myself if i need quit my marriage, my husband and i do not talk regarding family matters, sex do not say i love you he did not talk to often we ...

I'm going to prison for 6 months. How will I cope?!

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you are all well. Ok here is my problem, I am a nice middle class women of 28, I have guy I am with and another think I may end up with, a good job and a nice flaty I rent with some friends, I went to University, did a degree and ...

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

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18 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on ...

I know nothing about dating! Has anyone got any advice?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male who has never had a date because I've always been to shy to ask anyone. I am, now, perfectly confident in myself and can talk to girls much more easily. The problem is I don't really know absolutely anything about dating and ...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

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18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

Advice for last minute exam preparation?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Any tips to how to cope with last minute preparation for exams? I am really desperate now argh~~~...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

Insecure & Losing My Mind...

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18 November 2009 (F) - Please help me... I'm really suffering. I have done countless Google searches, read through hundreds of forums and advice columns, and sought the help of family, friends, and even my significant other, but nothing will silence my thoughts and ...

I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!

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18 November 2009 (M) - Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...

Help me get over this "desire!"

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18 November 2009 (M) - How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?...

I know more about books than women... help!

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18 November 2009 (M) - Well, this is another story of my life. i have decided to write those things down coz i cannot keep them inside me any more. I have started to like this website (I have received quite helpful advice), but I'm curious to see if anyone has an answe...