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Family problems, problems wth my friend, panic attacks, working two jobs and unhappy. Help me get out of my rut

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18 July 2018 (F - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and I can't get out! I'm a university student and the most I struggle with is the odd panic attack about dying, but since being back at home they are getting worse and I think it's to do with being back. I'm tryin...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

Please help me with my questions on infertility..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 July 2018 (F - This question is for anyone who has struggled with infertility. How was your relationship (marriage or otherwise) affected by it? Did you undergo fertility treatments (successful or otherwise), adopt, or just choose to remain child-free? Also, for ...

I'm wasting the prime of my life. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 July 2018 (M - Hello all, I've been in a rut for 8 years now and can't shift it. I'm alive but not living I guess. I have no drive or ambition. I can't remember the last time I thought yes I really wanna do this. Problem is I don't know what I want nothing ...

I need to get time off but how should I go about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - (Not a relationship question, but I need some advice on a work issue.) Ok here goes. I’ve been at this company (hospital) for 10 months now. I work night shift, have rotating weekends, and work most-if not all- holidays. The job itself is good, I ...

How do I bring up the question of my salary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 July 2018 (M - Hi Aunts, My question is work related. I'm wondering if anyone here with a HR background or has had a similar experience can give me their insight. About 4 months back I joined a new company. I was fresh out of an internship and was quite naiv...

I found out my fiancé lied about his education. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My fiancé and I were recently engaged. We have been together for two years. He moved here from out of state shortly before we met. He told me and has always said that he graduated from University A. According to him he attended University B for ...

I feel stuck because of his lodger! What do I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

2 July 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I in early 60s, have been together 5 years, but nothing is moving on because he has a female lodger in her 40s been there 25 years! Pays little rent, no household bills and keeps dogs. She wont move out, we gave her 6 months notice, ...

The life path to goals through education is now shut on me and I do not have entrepreneurial spirit. Can I still make something of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 July 2018 (M - Realistically what are my chances at overcoming my life deficits and catching up to where I need/want to be in life? some info late 20's no degree, flunked college numerous times, cannot get a job, very poor learning skills and a very defeatist ...

What if they award the golf match to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 July 2018 (M - It never ceases to amaze me how rude and arrogant some people can be... I have to play a match in a golf tournament.The match has to be played by July 29th (4 weeks time). I had agreed to play it on July 1st, but 2 days prior I had a personal s...

Should I volunteer for the first time for three months in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - ive never known what I want to do career wise and ive never really had any ambitions or hobbies as such . I often get slightly worried that in a few years I don't know what ill be doing and I don't know if ill have a job . ive been wanting to ...

Something's not right with my mother and I'm very worried about her mental health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - I think my mother has ADHD,I'm no professional so I may be wrong in diagnosing her but something is definitely not right..she's a wonderful mum but I'm starting to feel very frustrated with our relationship, I apologise in advance if this is long ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 June 2018 (M - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

Some colleagues at work are targeting me and I feel that they'll complain against me yet again and have me fired. How do I handle things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - Hello everyone, how do you deal with a petty, catty work environment? Honestly, I feel like I just need to vent to some helpful strangers with the comfort of knowing no one will ever find this. However, any advice will be appreciated. I am a yo...

Why do men want to show off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - I am back in the dating game after two years of not looking. For the first time in my life I am looking to actually pay attention to the red flags(previously when the signs read “wrong way”) I just kept going. I would say I am an attractive women...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 June 2018 (F - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages ...

I've lost faith in relationships, love and marriage. Can anyone else relate to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 June 2018 (F - Hi, I've kind of lost faith in love. The guys I dated taught me harsh realities and often love is not enough. I used to be romantic as a teenager and then it became mutual love and respect, then it became more about finding a good intellectua...

I basically have Chandler Bing's personality! How do I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 June 2018 (M - Dear Aunts, I realized that I have a flaw in my personality which is that I enjoy putting others down/make fun of them. I always did it thinking that the person wouldn't mind, would take it lightly and laugh at it. I told myself that it was just...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

24 June 2018 (M - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male fr...

What if I fail ......

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a ...

How to tell my family that I may never get married..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

23 June 2018 (M - Hi. I'm a 36-year-old guy living in a traditional society. Physically speaking, my interest in women is almost nonexistent, as have been scarce my sexual experiences with them. Until two or three years ago, I used to go on many dates with girls, i...

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people bu...

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

22 June 2018 (M - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used ...

I suffer from OCD and crippling jealousy and my husband's occasional comments about other women's looks drive me over the edge

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 June 2018 (F - Hi, I hope you guys can give me some wise advice, because i can't deal with and handle my OCD and my jealousy. I do suffer from OCD and now my OCD appears to have crossed into the realm of the physical too, whereby i get obsessed by a part...

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

20 June 2018 (F - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've tak...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

19 June 2018 (F - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

How can I stop obsessing over a taken man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

19 June 2018 (F - Has anyone dealt with obsessive love and limerence? I have an issue with being obsessed with my crushes and making up scenarios and fairy tale endings in my head to the point where all I think about is the object of my obsession . To be frank I am ...

I'm struggling to trust my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I'm struggling with trusting my boyfriend of 2 years and I don't know what to do. I guess my reasons sound petty but things add up. When I met him he had been seeing this girl casually and they'd been sleeping together. Anyway things ended and we ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive...

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (M - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

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