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I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

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27 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcoh...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

26 March 2017 (F - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

Are people becoming disrespectful to me because I'm now middle aged?

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26 March 2017 (F - Over the last few years I feel people around me have become increasingly disrespectful as I've come closer to fifty . My husband stares at younger women , my adult children are rude to me and in general I find shop assistants and people in general ...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

Is she just lazy or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

25 March 2017 (M - This has been eating away at me for way too long! I feel like my wife never thinks about me. More times than I probably should I go out of my way and above and beyond for my wife. For Christmas, she was saying that she wanted a specific makeup. I ...

How do I explain culture difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Since last December I have been seeing a man that I had feelings for the thing is he is not from the same culture as I am and we have absolutely different ways of living and expectations. Just yesterday he told me he is falling ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

Self improvement- I want to change but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

23 March 2017 (M - Hey all, This is not a relationship question but more to do with self improvement. I would love to hear from people who have overcome addictions of any form. I have so many things I want to work towards. I go to work during the day and I keep tel...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

My addictions are affecting my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

23 March 2017 (M - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

Am I a sex addict? 101

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - I just turned 31. I think about sex atleast every 30 minutes. I mentally undress every woman i See or imagine them having sex although im actually not interested in women sexually. My partner count is about 73 men and 2 women. To me a man has to ...

Whose last name do I give to my baby?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - My mom thinks I should give the baby the fathers last name but I don't think I should because I'm not married to him and he isn't in the picture. Won't that be an issue at school for my son and wherever I take him, if we have different last nam...

Am I a repressed sex addict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I am 30 year old woman and I have bein single for most of my life, happily single I should say. I had my first kiss at 15, lost my virginity at 18. These were two kinda isolated events more like a box to tick, virginity gone what's n...

Should I report my friend's family situation to the police?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Hello, My best friend has some family problems. She is 16 and she has a 11 year old brother. She lives with her mum,dad,and brother in the same city as I do. Her father is not a nice person at all. He is not working, so her mum has to work all day ...

My husband is perfect in every way yet my imperfect ex haunts me and my heart belongs to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - I'm 30 years old, I've spent more than half of my life crazy insanely in love with this person, we had a great love story but equally great drama, what broke us was a very strong storm, both of us are changed forever and deeply wounded that to end ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him ...

Why is he so hard to talk to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because ...

Roomies are all going in different directions so how do we divide the stuff we bought together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - It's coming to the end of our lease and I [26,M] just found out I need some major dental work that's going to cost me a TON of money. So to save up again I'm moving back in with my ex-girlfriend, Lana,[22,F] I won't have to pay anything so I should...

His girlfriend is coming between my old friend and me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - I've been best friends with a guy from grade school, and we were so close and I love him like a brother. We don't see each other very much anymore since I went to college, but we always kept in regular contact via text and Facebook. He has a ...

How Do I Move On From This Affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Hey Aunts and Uncle's.. I recently got myself into something stupid. I know many of you will judge me for what I have done and say I'm a bad person. But I have a good heart and really need some advice. A year ago, I started working at my ca...

Second cousin is pregnant and I'm the father. How do we break this news to the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - My second cousin, Brooke, and I have always been very close. We never officially dated but on rare occasions, we did become physical. When we were both 14 years old, she was my first kiss. Most of the time we are not physical. We just spend time ...

I'm not a virgin. How do I hide this from my husband on my wedding night?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - how can i hide from my husband on first night that i m not a virgin...

I feel I am second priority after my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Hey guys. I got a question regarding my girlfriend's best friend.. Well, both of them. I feel like my girl's best friend is first priority during the day. I literally can't speak with my girlfriend for more than 15 minutes without her best friend ...

Is he scamming me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

17 March 2017 (F - Hi and thank you for your advice I met a male online approximately two months ago. He is very charming. We've talked daily. He tells me his wife died in an accident and he doesn't communicate with his family and he has one son who stays wit...

Is it normal to get married without a proposal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 March 2017 (F - Hi, I have a question and would appreciate your help. I'm 40 and my boyfriend of 2 months is 44. We both have a kid from our previous marriage. He is a professor and I'm a nurse. I know it's too soon but things are going so well and fast! He is ...

Were they trying to get my attention by revving their car?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - The other day I was in a world of my own stop outside of a shop and a guy I know and his mate were parked nearby me. I knew they would be near by as the guy I know normally says hi etc. This time I didn't see them coming even though I was facing ...

Spectre of my wife's past has come back to haunt us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 March 2017 (M - 2-3 weeks before I met my wife she did a professional porn video in which she says she was actually coming from another man's house where she had had sex with him. Along with that she revealed other things that she never told me and that she has ...

How should we respond? My husband's ex has threatened to abandon the children on our doorstep, if we don't agree to take them at a time convenient for her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - We could do with some help solving a problem please. My husband has recently been made redundant(with one week pay) and was offered an opportunity to go on a course to improve his skills and at the end, secure a new job which he was so excited a...

Should I quit since my boss quit, or stick it out with my co-workers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 March 2017 (F - Hi.. So I've been feeling really depressed since my boss quit his position at our company.. I'll just fill you guys in real quick.. I've been sexually attracted to my GM since I first met him in our interview, and I was never able to shake off tho...

Does a man call a woman a bad word because of how he sees her physically?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 March 2017 (F - Do men call women wh..res because they think they are ugly ? Is it because it's thought a woman is not attractive enough to be appealing enough for a man to want to date and marry that she would have to sell herself sexually in order to survive ...

I want the relationship to work. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while the guy is in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - Please guys only (ps if advice is just shouldnt be together please do not respond. I want to make this work) Okay so guys. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while in a relationship. ...

Are single attractive women usually more messed up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 March 2017 (M - I know I may get flack for this. But it's been my experience that very good looking women who are single in their 30s and beyond are messed up in some way. My theory is that they have to deal with so many guys just looking for sex that they have ...

If my husband takes up the job then our relationship would suffer. What should we do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 March 2017 (F - my husband is applying for a job in a town about an hour away from the one that we live in. if this was where the story ended, there would be no problem...but it's not, and there is. the job is 12 hours a day, seven days a week, graveyard shifts (7 ...

My boyfriend charged me for work he did for me. Should he have after everything I have done for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy for almost a year. He is going to massage school and has jobs here and there. He lives with a family member. I have helped him lots of times with homework. I recently bought a new car and gave him my old car, because he ...

My co-worker was pushing invitations to her church, was my response rude?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - My co worker that I'm friendly with would always invite me to her church and church related activities. She got really pushy and told me not to disappoint God...that it is for my own good.I never had any interest until one day I decided to just see ...

Am I being correct in offering to pay or could I be offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 March 2017 (F - Hi, I have a question and would appreciate your help. I'm not an American and dating an American guy for the first time, we both are professionals in our early 40s. It has been a month and it's going amazing. We are going to take our first getaway ...

Garment crisis in the carpark

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 March 2017 (F - Hello everyone, My husband and i work in the same company different departments . So i just came from ethiopia to USA and i am experiencing cultural shocks! so the other day there is a fire alarm at work and all co-workers had to stay outside in ...

Does this signify interest?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 March 2017 (M - A girl at work responding to my asking her something responded "for you anything". I have had this also said to me in another setting by different girl (she serving me or telling me where a product is). Of course we've had a friendly chat or chats ...

Could this girl be interested in me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 March 2017 (M - I stop at this petrol station sometimes. The past two, three times there's been a nice young girl there, and as at the times I go there it's not that busy, we have a chat. Somehow we got on to the topic of massages. I said that my massages may be ...

My boyfriend doesn't know about my secret eating disorder.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - Long story short, I have struggled with bulimia and anorexia for 10 years. I do not struggle with purging anymore, but restrict my calorie intake everyday and continue to have issues with food. Me and my bf have known each other for 3 and ...

I want to marry this guy, how soon can I propose to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - Im thinking of proposing to my boyfriend on our one year anniversary! The thought makes me super excited, not nervous or scared, like in previous relationships. So I just want to ask, what are your thoughts on feeling the way I do after such ...

I am sure my fiance's mother will be a fantastic grandma, but could she also be a "monster in law" in disguise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - hi.. great day.. i need to share my thoughts and get some honest opinion from some experienced people from here.. im going to marry in the next couple months and move into my fiance house. theres his parent and sister family on the extended par...

He was my friend a long time ago. But he now has a girlfriend. Could I ever mean more to him? Or is he destined to be only a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - I fell in love with a old friend i met 39yrs ago. i were dating another one also. I chose my husband over him who is now deceased in whom were also a friend at that time. My friend came back in my life after 26yrs. To support me thru the ha...

Married 20 years. Yet he's not consulting with me over big decisions. Do you think my husband should have discussed this financial decision with me first, before announcing it at a family function?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and uncles, Recently my husband of 20 years and I had a dispute. I was surprised by something he did and told him that he should have discussed it with me before, as I would have done in his situation. He got angry with me and instea...

My married lover won't commit to me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Been having a relationship with a married man for 11 years, I have asked him on numerous ocassions for me and him to be a proper couple.....but even though he says he wants to in the future he can't right now because of the impact it will have on ...

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ...

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had ...

I'm worried my reaction means I am not over him.

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27 February 2017 (F - I had a one year relationship. The guy was a jerk, and anyway we boke up. After not even seeing eaach other for like 3 months i suddenly see him on the road and i vomit. why does this happen? please tell me it's normal and that i don't still have ...

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