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How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?

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14 May 2008 (F) - How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?...

She backs out at the last minute for whatever reason. Any ideas what's up?

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14 May 2008 (M) - Okay, here it goes... I have gone out with a decent amount of women and am puzzled by this one. Generally speaking, I would just chalk this up as a loss, but I'm not sure if I should. The two of us went to school together years ago, haven't ...

He's leaving for Afghanistan, I'm terrified something will happen to him, and he wont know how I feel.

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14 May 2008 (F) - I'm married to a serving British soldier. After moving to Germany with him, i ended up sleeping with a work collegue. I felt awful, disgusted and ashamed, and so i told him what had happened. About a month later he came home drunk and assaulted me f...

Any tips on how to let the guy at work know I like him?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I like this guy at work. How can I let him know without being too foward or unprofessional? Any tip? I'm super shy around guys. (I've been turned down several times before) ...

The prom is in a few days and I can't dance! Can anyone help?

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14 May 2008 (M) - prom is in few days. I cannot dance and dunno wot to as Im going with a girl who expects me to dance. Any websites or anything that might help? ...

Is the saying 'true love never dies' really the case?

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14 May 2008 (F) - Is it possible to re-unite with an ex after being apart for awhile? Is the saying 'true love never dies' really the case? I am apart from my ex and miss him dearly.....just wondering if anyone has some positive stories. thanks!...

Why did I stare? How could I not be aware of it? Where to go from here?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Here's the background story, my gf and I went out to a friends. (friend, wife, female friend of friend) We were all hanging around cooking dinner, and then had dinner, and towards the end of dinner my girlfriend was standing by the window, clea...

What do men like? I feel I am socially awkward.

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13 May 2008 (F) - im a 20 year old woman and have never been on a date before. i wouldnt say that i am unattractive physically however i am very socially awkward and can come across as 'standoffish'. so any tips on how i can come across more likeable, confident...

My wife discusses our personal problems with friends. I can't face them now.

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13 May 2008 (M) - Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine. Now i can barely f...

Should married couples seek outside help or try to work it out on their own?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Should married couples get help with their problems from third parties? Or thrash it out at home? One to one using their own brains....

Problem with snooping - but it leads me to suspicious things, should I keep confronting my husband?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have a problem with snooping, i will be upfront about it, but the only reason I keep doing it is I always find something, but not anything concrete and my husband always has a great story for instance I found a print out of a conversation between ...

Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them?

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13 May 2008 (F) - A question to the guys: Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them? This is the line that my boyfriend pulled on me and bailed, after HE implied that we're in the relati...

What are your thoughts or experiences about relationships between people of different nationalities?

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13 May 2008 (F) - My question is about relationships with people of differing nationalities. I am Australian of english/irish heritage and my boyfriend is Greek but was born/raised in Australia. his brother is married to a women who is half greek and half anglo. ...

Is commitment really so different for men than for women?

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is a question for the men around! I have read info basically saying that commitment is different for men and women. Apparently - women are looking for the RIGHT man to come along before they get married, whereas men are waiting for the ...

I'm a tired, sad mess

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...

Is my boyfriend putting off proposing because he thinks I'm too young?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I need some advice from people who have experience in this area and know what they're talking about. I am almost 23 and my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for quite a while now and i guess i am hoping for an engagement ring in the next coup...

Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?

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13 May 2008 (M) - I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color ...

Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?

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13 May 2008 (M) - I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? ...

His ex-wife is now expecting his child-should I be happy for him?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I am dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. We are so much in love with each other... it was love at first sight and we both feel we are right together. He was married (divorced in the meantime) and already has a 2yo boy. His ex-wife got...

Do we have double standards whenever a woman "cheats"?

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13 May 2008 (F) - its funny that.....when men come on line asking for advice about cheating on their girlfriends, you never see many men being judgemental and condeming them. However, when you see a woman who betrays her husband, all the men are so quick to respond...

Is masturbation murder?

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13 May 2008 (M) - well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

So Long Mr. NICE GUY!!! Pt.1

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13 May 2008 (M) - "Nice guys always finish last" This is true in this modern society "Nice Guys" always finish last especially with women. If you're a man reading this (and I hope you are..) you realize this to be true. If you felt that statement was too far fetc...

Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...

Why is it that I don't really make a lot of friends/

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13 May 2008 (M) - I have always been considered as a loner(and that is why my named myself as the lone wolf).I hardly have any friends and I have been in two relationships during high school. Those girls were pregnant by their other boyfriends and for what? To ...

How do I be a normal teen?

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13 May 2008 (M) - my questions simple...how do i be a normal teen? everyone goes on about how theyve ''had mistakes'' and ''have a past'' and their around my age! and I have no past or mistakes or regrets at all! I feel like I've fucked up because of this, like, ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said or done?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone! I have asked before and I got some really nice responses, but I know that there is more romance out there, so I want to know, What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said to you? Or how about, what's the sweetest thing thet've ever ...

I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My question is a bit strange but it is something that has been bothering me for a long time. Ok, it all started bout 8 months ago, i fell out with my bitchy best mate. A few weeks later i started getting anonymous phone calls, the number would alw...

Should I include her in my future or not??

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12 May 2008 (F) - About 6 months ago i met this really great girl through the internet. We met on a dating site, but we were there just to find people to chat with (wasn't strictly at dating site) because we had both just come to terms with our sexuality. An...

I deserve to be punished, I know, but please help me?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my wife will find out about a fling i had with a woman a few months back. I love my wife with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself for what...

I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...

Masturbation. Can anybody confirm my fears, or is it all just a big lie?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm a little concerned. People say that you can Masturbate as often as you want and it's not a problem. But I heard about a condition you can get if you do it too often. I forget the name of it, but all I know is I don't want to get it. Recently...

I'm shy about my underarm hair!

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12 May 2008 (M) - hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...

Do these feelings mean I'm a lesbian?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi i was going shopping with my mates and i saw a lesbian couple kissing and i was all confused cuz i had never thought about that before well not really and i had this funny feeling all inside. when i got home that night i was a bit board so i w...

Where does your confidence come from? Any tips on improving my self-confidence?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I know this is going to seem like a really random question but it would really help to have some ideas. I have always suffered from confidence issues and have low self esteem, though I have no reason to feel underconfident or inadeq...

Why can't I say I love them?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it up...

My boyfriend is obsessed with me - or is it real love?

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12 May 2008 (F) - my bf is starting to be obsessed with me i think. seems like he only wants me for himself. is this really a good thing and if he really loves me like he always say....should i just accept his behaviour or does that mean he's love for me is actua...

My dad says TV rots your brain, what do you think?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My Dad says T.V rots your brain, what do you think?...

I need help arranging a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I wanna have a threesome with another women. Not a friend, just an anynomous hottie. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing, but I wanna give ...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

Is he too young to want the sort of commitment I'm looking for?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Okay, I need your advice to keep from feaking out the b/f anymore than I already have... So I'm a 24 year old woman dating a 20 year old who appears quite serious about me. We've been dating for 2 years and we've had our ups and downs, but we're...

Why do people get put off more by gay men than women?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi. good day! I just want to hear some opinions/comments from people from different sides of the world. It's just that i observe the general community here and even the world (in general) in how they accept homosexuals. Would people agree wit...

Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...

Do guys prefer curves?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone I was wondering if some guy could please explain to me why do they prefer curves over thin girls?? I have got curves and sometimes worride that guys wont find me attractive...What kinda chicks do guys really like? ...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

Where is the Moral Outrage?

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12 May 2008 (M) - This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their ...

Is 21 too young to know if you've found 'The One'?

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12 May 2008 (F) - is 21 too young to know if you have found "the one"? I spent my whole life thinking I didn't believe in marriage, or I didnt want kids. Now I have been in the most amazing relationship for a year and a half and that has all changed. I don't want ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't like kids but I have a 4 year od son. Can you advise?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for about a year and half. I love being with him, he is amazing. Although he has met my 4 year old son a few times, I don't like to bring him around because I'm afraid that my son may get attached ...