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He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

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23 May 2017 (F - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

23 May 2017 (M - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

23 May 2017 (F - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

Is it time to downsize due to illness?

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19 May 2017 (F - Is it time to downsize due to illness? My husband just got diagnosed with a chronic and deblitating disease. His diagnosis came a month after moving into a bigger house. We have two young children. Since our finances are now affected (not to...

Has anyone felt lost in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 May 2017 (F - Has anyone felt lost in life? And has someone gotten out of this funk- I'm 33 and I've gotten the education - the fancy corporate job - done everything by the book - the worrying - the - counting the pennies - the over exercising - the nice ...

Does this look like a deeper relationship?

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19 May 2017 (F - I've had a FWB about 6 months now. We casually meet every other week, do our thing, split ways and just chat via messages the rest of the time. Lately, when I go to his house, he wants me to spend all night, go out to the movies, go eat, he kisse...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 May 2017 (F - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

How much do I need to earn to be an acceptable bride?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 May 2017 (F - Hi , Thanks for reading my post. I am very confuse with my current situation. I am 38-year-old female. I am in US. I work as nanny. I done my becholer from Middle East. But, I was not able to focus to my career in US. My father was sick I was takin...

Help me with this family situation, my father thinks I'm avoiding an event!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 May 2017 (F - I have a difficult situation with my over 65 yr old parents Need advice please My parents live in another state that is a 1hour plane flight away I visit once a year and they come to my state, once a year to visit and and we talk on phone sometim...

Is this kind of kiss usual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 May 2017 (F - What does it mean if a guy kisses his hand and then touched your lips with the hand he has just kissed? No guy has done that 2 me before have always gone with a proper lip on lip kiss Yes I properly sound young and not very experienced but ...

How do I know if my coach likes me and what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 May 2017 (F - I think my coach likes me but i dont know? So basically ive known the lad for half a year its got to the point where i think he likes me.I was training and he turned up.when it came to a couple of months later,i started to notice he was ...

Should I accept his invitation to have this short vacation together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 May 2017 (M - Hello.. There's this nice man living in an adjacent state, who wishes to visit the coast of my country, which is basically located south of it. He wants us to spend 8 days or so together by the end of August. Originally, I'm from the more mo...

How do I ask him his true feelings, and ask about commitment, without it appearing as me pressuring him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. He doesn't live near by so we video chat, call each other and text more then we see eachother. I sense things getting serious by the way he starts talking about our future together. He consta...

What, if anything, should I tell my future husband about my dating history?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 May 2017 (F - After dating few men and some random hook ups, i eventually had to agree upon an arranged marriage by my parents. While my parents are seriously looking out for a groom, I am confused if i have to change my contact number and also delete my faceb...

Trust and retroactive jealousy issues

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 May 2017 (M - Okay, well this is hard for me to write, but I really could do with some help or advice, please. I have been in a relationship with a lovely woman for 3 months now, and we are both getting along great and really enjoy each others company. We are ...

I give my manager the cold shoulder but he still tries to be friendly!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 May 2017 (F - My head manager acts friendly with everyone. He is very helpful. All the female employees are attracted to him. Some even flirt with him. I just keep a low profile and do my job. But he seems to try to get my attention a lot. He tries making s...

What purpose does it serve to have women's clothing that exposes so much skin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 May 2017 (M - Hey all, I have questions about women's fashion. This will probably make more sense to folks from the eastern part of the world. I'm sorry if this hurts sentiments but this is something I really do not understand. My city has changed a lot i...

Pipeline wives: how do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 May 2017 (F - my husband has presented the idea of him going to work on the pipeline on and off for the past two years or so now. i feel bad because every time he brings it up, i turn into a bitch (i'm woman enough to admit that) and nag until he drops it. i know ...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 May 2017 (F - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

What do I tell my child if he wants to know about his father's side of the family? My ex has another son, do I tell my child about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 May 2017 (F - !6 years ago i was in a relationship and had a baby , the ex decided he didnt want us both so 'disappeared' moved away and denied it was his child. He was 8 years older than me i was 23 so not like we were young and didnt know about things. I neve...

Should I move back home? I'm feeling pathetic with no close friends, boyfriend and stalled career

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 May 2017 (F - I'm feeling so lonely. I live with a roommate who is also very alone. I satisfy myself by watching porn. I recently found out the I was the side girl with a guy who was cheatimg on his main gf and basically wasted 8 months. My family is not near ...

Why is my General Manager so hung up on whether or not I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 May 2017 (F - He is already liked by the entire staff. Especially the female staff. I am not sure if he is looking for "all" of us female to like him to boost his ego, but all he keeps mentiong is how he doesn't understand why I don't like him. I never gav...

I miss my teacher so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 May 2017 (F - I am really confused about my feelings for my former teacher. It's been just a few days less than six months since I last saw her,and I still miss her terribly. I was shocked when a sub told our grade that our teacher "won't be back this semest...

Should I stay, hoping for a ring and a piece of paper, or leave now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 May 2017 (F - I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and our relationship journey has been one of the toughest I have ever experienced with anyone. During our time together, we have had to put up with travelling 90mins each way to see each other as we both...

I cant let go of this anger!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 May 2017 (M - I am having trouble letting go of anger and resentment for someone that has got under my skin. The guy isn't a close friend, he was more of an acquaintance that I would see and speak to from time to time due to overlapping friendship group...

I want to talk to my boyfriend about my miscarriage but I am too angry with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 May 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year. He made it clear from the start he didn't want more children, he has a daughter from his relationship with his ex wife, and I have a daughter from a relationship in my late teens. My ...

How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 April 2017 (F - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

Does this man care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 April 2017 (F - I recently returned back from Australia to Ireland to look after a sick relative. My WHV was almost up and I have plans to go back in the near future to some touring that I didn't get to do this time round. 3 months before returning I started a "no ...

What will restore my faith in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 April 2017 (F - Dear Aunts, I got out of a relationship with my ex narcissist. I didnt know he was a narcissist until we broke up and he called me all kinds of names "fat, stupid, not sexy or attractive enough, sperm dish, boring etc" you name it. He humiliat...

Does my friend have a fetish for trans guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 April 2017 (M - Dear Cupid(s), I have a cis-male friend who identifies as gay. I don't know if this is something I have noticed being transgender myself, but the only guys he has outwardly said he's attracted to when we are out, or together have all been transge...

My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 April 2017 (F - My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird? I work in an office and wear skirts and blouses on a daily basis. When I first started dating him he said he loved what I was wearing but recently it seems to have got even more intens...

Is it too late to change careers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 April 2017 (M - Not sure if this is the usual question on here but I would love advice. I work in finance, managing retirement funds. I have been in the industry for over 10 years and have been good at it. Lately I have felt incapable of making decisions follow...

My girlfriend is promised in an arranged marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 April 2017 (M - Hey guys, I desperately need some help. There is an issue in my relationship with my girlfriend. My Gf is 2 years elder than me and damn we love each other a lot. We intend to get married, but due to her family pressure (as we belong from an I...

How can I stop being intimidating and build lasting relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - I have always had difficulties with relationship with men and I genuinely want some advice and help. It would really mean a lot! I have grown up to be a perfectionist since I was young. Mastering four languages, national level in art, three instr...

Should I be mad because my friend helped get me fired?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 April 2017 (M - I was working with this girl K and my friend L and her friend C. Our boss LO, was always ingrained in L's life calling and texting her, and L asked me to make him stop with the text messages. After a while I discovered that LO was spreading rumors ...

His feelings for me changed so quickly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 April 2017 (F - Can someone's feeling for you change in two months? My ex and I broke up in September 2015. We didn't speak for 4 months then out of the blue one day he texted me. We started talking, and hanging out as just friends. We talked about stuff like...

How do you learn to love yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

24 April 2017 (F - I need relationship advice... Not your normal relationship advice though... I've really been struggling to get into a relationship since I started dating which was 8 years ago (i'm 25 now). Only ever had flings *rolls eyes x infinity*. A...

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