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Chaotic childhood. Do I leave it ? do I dig further to find out more about my mother?

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23 February 2017 (F - My upbringing was somewhat chaotic. my father 19 when he had me and my mother a drug addict. Me and my twin sister were removed from her care at 1 years old and spent sometime in a foster home until a relative fostered us. we were given a little ...

Why don't my men value my looks?

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23 February 2017 (F - All my life I have had relationships with men who turned out to not be physically attracted to me. Four relationships in fact. Each was attracted to me for other reasons but the physical just wasn't one and it always ended up being an issue. This ...

The way he manages money puts marriage in doubt

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23 February 2017 (F - Hi, So I have a question regarding relationships and finances. What do you think about being in a relationship with a guy who says that it will be a long time before he can get married, and the reason is that he is in a lot of debt because of ...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

22 February 2017 (F - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

21 February 2017 (F - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (F - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

Does she still want this wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 February 2017 (M - Just a quick question? Me and my partner are due to be getting married in october this year not a big expencive one but one we can offord we have put deposits down for most things but now all of a sudden shes saying we cant offord the wedding so i ...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

18 February 2017 (F - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

Should I really start planning a future with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

18 February 2017 (F - Hello! My boyfriend and I are both 20 and met at his hometown in Denmark in October before we took the relationship to long distance. So far he was my first everything-my first kiss, my first boyfriend, and my first time having sex (i don't regret ...

How do I cope with a gambling addicted boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

17 February 2017 (F - How do I cope with a gambling addicted boyfriend? My partner of 2 years started gambling a lot about 2/3 months into the relationship. Ive tried my hardest to support and understand this problem ive offered to go to counciling with him or pointed ...

I'm still a virgin with no dating experience at age 26, and I'm starting to feel like something must be wrong with me. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - I am 26 and am a virgin, have never had a boyfriend, nor have a I really ever dated. I have always just assumed that things would happen in their own time, and I have had two brief and non official experiences with boys (one for a few months at uni ...

My family expects me to get married, but I'm more attracted to men and gay marriage isn't an option. How do I convince them I'm not the marrying kind?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted today

16 February 2017 (M - Hi, I'm much more into men physically/sexually speaking. The hitch is that I live in a traditional and homophobic society.My family want me to get married any time soon. How can I "convince" them I'm not the marrying kind, without telling them I'm ...

Am I too old to make positive changes in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 February 2017 (F - I'm just going to preface this by saying that I know I may receive answers that I may not want to hear, but I just need honest answers so that I can have closure. When is a woman too old to find someone, to get married, get into a profession or ma...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 February 2017 (F - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

My boyfriend doesn't like my name

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend does not like my name. Of course he is entitled to his opinion about that, but I feel that I am inseparable from my name, and it suits me completely- it IS a big part of me. I asked him the other day over dinner if he liked it when...

My grandmother died and I've lost my job

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - I'm not one to ask for advice but I really need some. I've been under a tremendous amount of stress and I'm not sure how to cope, I feel like everything is crashing down around me. On January 10th my grandma who I was really close to died a...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

My husband wants me to give his friend a hand job!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - my husband has been trying to talk me into giving his best friend a mercy hand job , Because his wife has some kind of a medical problem ? His friend has been so sad ever since his wife has cut him off . I am seriously considering doing it for him ...

Two years and I should be over the treatment at my last workplace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - It's been nearly 2 years since I left my precious work place. This workplace was awful. I was treated horribly by both management and staff. I was talked about behind my back, was given almost all the workload and I was even called 'their bitch' a...

Relationship going no where. Am I just too accommodating, and maybe I should just not be like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - Hi. Been in a relationship for a few months now, he comes here ever other weekend as we are about an hour and half away from each other. I have kids and it's all pretty cool with them too. We also try other bits of time, face time a lot and text...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 February 2017 (M - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

I think he might want more than to be my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Does my male friend fancy me?. I have spoken to him about my ex boyfriend sometimes. He kept saying that I deserved to be treated better than how my ex was treating me. We had a night out last night. He touched my leg with his foot in a jokey way a ...

Our arguments often lead to physical altercations!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - ive been in this relationship for about five months now and things are definitely not the way i thought they would be. I care deeply about this man but the communication is limited. We get into arguments which some end in physical altercations. Both ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 February 2017 (M - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

My ex' could be ready to start again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 February 2017 (F - Hi I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years we split up 4 years ago but for that 4 year he is constantly around near where I live and each time I see him it brings all the pain back that he caused me he is always staring at me. A mutual friend told me ...

Is it just looks men care about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 February 2017 (F - Do men ever think highly of women for anything other than how the look. My partner never seems to give credit to any woman based on anything other than her appearance and I've been thinking that this actually seems to be such a common thing when I ...

I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 February 2017 (M - My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...

Do women ever regret dumping a nice guy for a jerk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 February 2017 (M - my question is do women, ever look back an wonder? they have been in a relationship for a while and the guy isn't very nice to them, not a gentleman or romantic, before him they were seeing a guy who was, but he wasn't a challenge,they thought he ...

How can I keep calm in this intense situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I want to ask on relaxation tips and trying not to be paranoid in a very stressful time in my life- here is a quick summary I got laid off from my last job(I work in HR(5years of experience with a masters) and I landed a reputable job in...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

Should I tell the parents of my daughter's boyfriend that their son aged 17 is having sex with my 16 year old daughter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - My 16 year old daughter revealed to me a little over a month ago that she and her 17 year old boyfriend have had sex. They have been dating for two years and I support their relationship and like her boyfriend a lot, so I am not really surprise...

Has this man gone cold on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - Hi, I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He asked me to be his girlfriend on our third date. We get on really well and can actually have great conversations on our dates and through texts (he only likes to text as feels anxious ca...

Any ideas how I can at least get him to talk about us having another child together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - Hi My partner and I have a 2 year old daughter together I would love another as I have never wanted my child to be a only child We live together and are in a happy relationship we just recently got married we have been together 5 years. Just ...

What can I do about my OCD and paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I wanted to ask for some advice as I have been in counseling and been offered medications which both don't work. I was diagnosed with OCD when I was young and have sought medication/ therapy for it but lately I feel like I am going crazy- I'm always ...

One of my parents is a bully!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Since I was young, I have pretty much always felt generally low in confidence and down/angry around 1 of my parents in particular. They still live at home with me and my other parent, and are my biological parent. This parent has acted rather con...

Why can't I get over this insecurity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - I have never written here before but I feel like I am lost in life - I feel very unfufilled and I'm not sure if that is because my insecurities or because of my upbringing. I felt like I was always compared when I was young and I felt like I was ...

I don't want my sick and twisted mother around when I have children.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Myself and my sister have started talking after 10 years no contact. I'm 29 now and she is 34. We're both very happy in our lives and we have been getting on great. When I was 16 my mum had left me homeless and moved to a different country. I've ...

He wont have any more sex with me because he is a Christian!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Hi there, I'm a normal girl, 26, and I'm in a relationship with a transguy, 29 (not yet done any surgery to transform) who happened to be a Christian since he was born (with girl name of course). I'm not religious at all. We've already been tog...

My husband has Erectile Dysfunction issues and yet is not interested in seeing the Doctor about this. I get no satisfaction. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Hey, my husband couldn't have sex with me. It's been a year since our wedding and I'm still being a virgin , I want to experience it. He says that he has early ejaculation and erection issues too. He never really tried to have with me but he a...

My husband can't see the problems with his ex wife ...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - My husband and his ex have not spoken in years because of all the trouble she caused at the beginning of our relationship. She called begging him to come sleep with her, she kept asking to come over claiming she needed closure (she was the one who ...

I feel guilty and pathetic because I know there are people worse off than me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 January 2017 (F - Sorry if this sounds whiny, but I think I need some advice from some non judgemental people. Basically, to say my life hasn't turned out how I imagined it is an understatement. I've done nothing with it literally. I don't know why, but when I was ...

My manager wants me to cancel my nonrefundable vacation for work!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 January 2017 (F - Long story short, I back up one of my colleagues whenever she goes on vacation. We're in different departments. I'm happy to do so and she always only takes one day off at a time anyway. Anything that requires her expertise that I cannot handle ...

Should I dump uni' for a small screen role?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 January 2017 (F - Hi everybody, I have a difficult decision to make. I am a student at uni studying accountancy. About half a year ago I suffered a nervous breakdown and was allowed to take break from my studies. I was experiencing a deep depression and took this ...

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