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I don’t know if I should date my coworker!

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11 November 2018 (F - UI think I know the answer to this, but I’m looking for someone to confirm that I’m doing the right thing. I’ve been in my current job for a year, and have sat right next to a man who is around my age. He’s not my normal type physically, but ...

A month in, I hate my new career!

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11 November 2018 (F - Dear cupid, Not really a relationship question, more a career related. Hi I’m nearly 30 years old and have been working self employed/contracting to employers in the construction field since I finished school. I have always liked my job but it’...

I've got a crush on the check out chck!

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11 November 2018 (M - Over the last couple of months i have been getting very friendly with a girl who works on the checkout at my local supermarket. We chat a lot and share lots of eye contact, and when i am walking away with my trolley after paying i look back and she ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

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11 November 2018 (F - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

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11 November 2018 (F - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

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11 November 2018 (M - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.

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10 November 2018 (F - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance ...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

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10 November 2018 (F - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

Sometimes I feel lost about who I am.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

9 November 2018 (F - Hi All, Might sound like a silly issue raised, but I have a problem trying to have self belief sometimes. I feel I have come from a relatively tough background (in comparison to most people around me) divorced immature parents, a mother with a pe...

I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.

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9 November 2018 (F - Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

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9 November 2018 (F - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

9 November 2018 (M - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

8 November 2018 (M - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

My boyfriend doesn't want children, my mother is heartbroken.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

8 November 2018 (F - I met my boyfriend 1 year ago. He is 40 and I am 30. He told me about 3 months into the relationship that he does not want to have any children. I am confused because I am not sure if I want to have any. I know that my current circumstances will not ...

My ex girlfriend wants to be reimbursed for gifts she gave me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - I have recently broke up with my girlfriend after nine months together, a couple of weeks before we separated she bought me a present but now we're not together she's asking me to give her back the money she spent on that present, I don't think ...

I'm vegetarian, he's not. How can we compromise better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - I've been vegetarian for 4 years, since before I met my boyfriend. He's a big meat eater, and I honestly don't mind what he eats. I've never tried to convert him. We've found some common ground - we cook a couple of great vegetarian dishes together ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

Should I confess I'm gay, would it get him in trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

4 November 2018 (M - I've been online friends with another guy who lives in the UAE that I am 90 percent sure has feelings for me, and while I feel the same way I am unsure if he would get into any type of trouble if I were to confess my feelings for him and he were to ...

Does this mean he likes me, or am I friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2018 (F - Might be a bit young, but I’m a freshman who likes a sophomore. Now last year he started giving me hugs when ever I’m about to leave, same this year. (Extra information: Our school is small, so I see him often the the hallways or after school.) I’m ...

This friend intimidates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

2 November 2018 (F - I have been friends with someone for about 9 years now , in the years ive been friends with her , I always enjoy being with her ,she makes me smile , I look forward to seeing her , enjoy her company , we get along really well , have the same sense ...

How can I deal with racism/ignorance in the workplace and in personal life ?

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1 November 2018 (F - I am a white southwestern european woman that has been in this country for almost all my life - I wasn’t born here but I am very Americanized and do not relate to my cultural upbringings (Balkan peninsula area) - I did all my education in the states ...

He's successful and talented.. I fear missing out on an exciting life if I'm not with him but I want a completely different future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

31 October 2018 (F - I recently met a guy who’s an actor so his life is definitely in London. My life definitely isn’t in London. I don’t want to live there. I established this when my performer ex got a job there and it was the end of our relationship. We met a ...

People who were once a part of my life no longer miss me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

30 October 2018 (M - Hello all. I am male 33 and married, and doing fairly well in life. I feel stuck in life, stuck in my past memories, people who were near to me once upon a time I miss them so much. I feel so lonely and lost all the time, as if the world has moved ...

How do I stop myself repeating the past with a different guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - I’ve been using Tinder a lot recently and I recently met up with a guy who was in my city as part of a touring musical. We met up, he brought me flowers and took me for dinner. We had a night of amazing sex and a following perfect day. We ...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

A friend is interested in a poly-amorous relationship but how do I tell my wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 October 2018 (M - I and my wife have been married for 40 years and our love for each other is as solid now as it ever has been. Our sex life up until 8 years ago was very satisfying. Eight years ago my wife sustained an injury which has left her house bound. She ...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

28 October 2018 (F - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

How can I make her my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

28 October 2018 (M - There is this girl I work with and I really, really like her. Her and I both started working together at the same time and she has been in 2 relationships that hadn't ended well. She knows I like her and care a lot about her, but she keeps saying ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

28 October 2018 (F - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

After making him my facebook friend he held my wrist.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

25 October 2018 (F - I just made a new friend via Facebook on Sunday. I sent him a quick text and he read it but replied the next day being Monday morning. The same day (Monday) I saw him as I was walking in the evening. It was dark but he recognized me. He ...

I wont to move across country and leave this life behind, but worry if I am doing the right thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - Should I move across the country? I have grown up in New York - originally born in Europe but immigrate here when I was 9. I am 33 now single female and for my education oout if the way and currently working 89 hours a week to pay off my debt/loans ...

Men never notice me, it makes me feel bad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - I am 23 and I never get hit on, catcalled, approached, or asked out. I've never even had a boyfriend before. My friends seem to get hit on and catcalled and it starts making me feel like I am unattractive. I never thought I was ugly but not getting ...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

I think my husband is deliberately making himself unnatractive to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - My husband never showers or brushes his teeth when he is home with me , even if it’s a whole week . We’ve been married less than two years. The last time we had sex was three months ago , he says he’s tired from working but watches porn ( ...

I'm a finance director at a mid-size company but I’m singled out at the very bottom of the website. Should I bring it up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

23 October 2018 (F - Here is my silly question! I’m a finance director at a mid size company and my bio just got added to the companies website. The team are ranked by the title but I’m singled out at the very bottom of the page. I don’t know if it sounds stupid and ...

Should I take this job I really need even though I’m over-qualified?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

22 October 2018 (F - I have been offered a lecturing job which I really need - I already have 2 other jobs, but since splitting from my ex, this isn't quite enough for me to live on. The job that was offered would have been permanent ie.a permanent contract - but w...

I need emotional support which my husband can't give me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

21 October 2018 (F - Hi everyone.. its been months since my last post here. I had my 2 weeks old son now after long labor and he is perfect. Im the one who posted about trouble with my husband and mother in law. Things are not getting better. Im still living in my in ...

I have a question about porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

21 October 2018 (M - I have a question about porn. My grandparents are pretty strict and almost never leave the house. Well, they do but Grandma works part time and Grandpa is retired and is actually a Deacon but they are never gone at the same time unless I'm in ...

My LDR guy ignores and hurts me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

21 October 2018 (F - We are certainly not young in age: I'm 45 and my partner is 61 years old but both are new in LDR world. 2 years ago my partner has lived and worked in different country and we have been apart since then. He is workaholic. As a result he focuse...

I find myself wanting more but he appears lacklustre!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

21 October 2018 (F - I’m seeing someone new and we’ve been dating almost a month. In that time Ive seen him about 6 or 7 times. Real dates. Dinner or movies etc. He is great about showing up and doing fun stuff I don’t feel like he’s just looking for a physical ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

21 October 2018 (F - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

20 October 2018 (F - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ev...

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

18 October 2018 (F - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit a...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

17 October 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

I said yes when he proposed but I worry it wasnt the right answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

17 October 2018 (F - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 12 years and live with him. I've had some problems with my boyfriend for a while, maybe a year. He stopped being romantic and didn't go on dates or ever go out to spend time at the weekend with me. He woul...

How can I keep away from my awful co-worker when I am forced to work with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

17 October 2018 (F - I just started a new job a few weeks ago. Everyone has been nice to me so far... except one person. You see, when I met him I thought he was cool. He teased me a little and tried to make me laugh (it worked). But then it was like a switch flipped. ...

Girlfriend in jail. How do I handle that we have to move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

15 October 2018 (M - Girlfriend who has been living with me at my apartment for 5 months was arrested last month(drugs). Lease is up and all her stuff is here. I have been packing it up and cleaning the place to get the deposit back. So I have been there during odd ...

25, single, a virgin, and in the closet... not living my best life. How do I motivate myself to do better both personally and professionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

14 October 2018 (M - SO... I have this master plan to come out, but I haven't made it very far through it yet... And by that, I mean that I haven't done anything at all. Lately, though, this has been weighing on me. I need to tell you a little bit more about mysel...

Will I ever find someone the same as my unrequited love or will I continue spiralling into an endless depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

13 October 2018 (M - Over a span of about 3 years, I've fallen in love with someone who, not long ago, I decided to open up to. They told me that they only want to stay as friends, which has deeply saddened me. They were the only person I've been interested in ever and ...

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