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We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

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7 November 2009 (F) - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...

Does their type of marriage work?

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7 November 2009 (?) - My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

6 November 2009 (M) - Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...

14 and falling for my teacher!

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6 November 2009 (F) - Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care...

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

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6 November 2009 (F) - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...

Is this older man playing me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

I was inappropriately intimate with someone. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I was inappropriately intimate with someone who has a girlfriend and the girlfriend works for me. I never meant for this to happen and still can't believe it. I'm not sure if she knows, but she hasn't returned my messages ...

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

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6 November 2009 (M) - hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 mon...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

Do I have a chance with my sister in law?

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Will she stop talking to me if I tell her how I feel?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I have feeling for my cousin but never told her. and I want to tell her but am to scard to. Im not shour that she will stop talking to me or not? Will she say that she feels the same or not? I love her and she loves me to but im not shour that she ...

Falling for my husband's cousin!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am married to a wonderful person.I was having a very normal life until my husband's cousin's brother joined us for a vacation. He slowly started talking to me about his love life and lot more about his personal life but we both never crossed the ...

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

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5 November 2009 (F) - what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

I think my 14 year old sister is going to run away with a 24 year old man!

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5 November 2009 (F) - i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell ...

Was it all in my head or did my professor have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - So this is complicated, I was asked by one of my Professors like three semesters agao to join a Behavioral Philosophy Lab that he was going to start at school. One day he approached me and asked if i would like to join and he explained to me ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

How do I convince my brother's friend that we should try dating?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I really really like my brother's best friend. We have been flirting with each other for months and a few weeks ago he asked me to go to dinner with him. When my brother found out he was upset because neither one of us had told him about it. He f...

Will committing incest emotionally scar my brother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Last night my brother and I (I'm a male) got pretty drunk just hanging out. We both started watching some porn, and discussing things, and, well....we ended up partially having sex. We were both consenting adults, although once we realized what was ...

I really love my cousin!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi ok hear it goes I am 14 Years old and live in Utah of the USA my cousin is 13. I have always loved her. but i am confused about all this, I think that she wants me to ask her to have sex some times but some times not. I cant get my mind off ...

Why do teachers flirt with female students?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Just being curious, but why do young male teachers flirt with their female high school students. Is it so they can get them to like them? Do they enjoy watching how we get crushes on them or just for fun?? And of course there's teachers who...

I'm developing feelings for him even though it's wrong. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I have known this guy since I was a little girl, our families are beyond best friends. We have been spending a lot of time talking, and I am quickly becoming infatuated with him, because he's been exposed to me and my family life so much, he ...

I want to date the girl my mum used to babysit!

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2 November 2009 (M) - Hi.. I need help with a dilema. I'm very interested in a girl! But.. she is younger than I, not being a problem, but my mother used to babysit her when she was younger, and My mother, nor her father would agree with us dating. What should I...

I've fallen for a teacher, but I'm no kid. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm falling in love with a teacher! he doesnt teach me and i'm not some hormonal teen, i know the difference between a crush, when he see's me we friendly flirt well at least that's what i think, but how can i flirt in a way that doesn't come acr...

Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?

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2 November 2009 (M) - My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...

He can't be with me. How can I cope with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Hey. I started college about 7 weeks ago, and made a lot of friends and there were a few guys I liked. I became really good friends with this one (straight) guy and we started chatting a lot on msn and stuff, then one night he told me he was b...

I'm pretty much in uncharted waters with no paddle...what should I do?

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2 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid, I work for a hardware store. while I was with my ex and a girl my age was hired. at first we where just friends. I found out she has a boyfriend. I treated her like a friend, basic bullshiting. we became close friends. her boyfriend also ...

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

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2 November 2009 (M) - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...

I'm truly in love with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - well there's so much to say i dont really know where to start. from the very beginning will make most sense. i've known my cousin Adrian ever since i was born. he's a year oler than me and we've always been very close. we told eachother everything, ...

Should I leave my wife and live with her sister?

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29 October 2009 (M) - I've been married for three years to who I thought was the woman of my dreams. Over the three years our sex life has declined to non-existant. I've tried talking to her about it but she just says that she doesn't feel like sex anymore. I've told her ...

Am I just bored and single or do I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came ...

Do you think my driving instructor likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think my driving insructor fancies me and told me he loved me by text. he is a joker and a few of my mates go to him. he slaps my leg when he gives me orders but also does this to my freinds. when he texts me about my driving lessons he sends me...

Is my teacher interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...

I have a big crush on my boss.. Help Me Please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and i just started a new job not too long ago, i have a huge crush on my boss and i dont know what i should do about it. we talk very friendly at work and get along great. he even bought me coffee one morning when i was coming into ...

We had an affair together and he ended it. Why is he still calling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Please can I havw advice on how is is acting, should I give up on him. Met a guy, liked him, he got married, we then had affair for many years, he kept promising to leave the wife etc. He said he would get a place for us never did, was still li...

Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

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Should I clear the air with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm very confused why I can't stop thinking about him. We are both married with children. My spouse could not be more perfect for me. We are both so alike in so many ways. The "spark" left our relationship once our first child was born. We go months ...

My teacher is on my mind literally 24/7. Help me get over this!

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26 October 2009 (F) - Ok, this is going to be kind of long but I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! Hear it goes... I am 15 years old I am totally in love with my business studies teacher since year 8 and I think I’m getting to the point of obsession. I know a lot about him and...

I can't stop thinking about my mom sexually

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26 October 2009 (M) - My parents got divorced 13 years ago, and so i was forced to live at my mums during the week and my dads at the weekends. About 8 years ago, i needed to get a glass from the cupboard, but my mum was standing on the worktop in the way cleaning the ...

Will he try to contact me again, out of the blue?

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26 October 2009 (F) - I have just ended a affair with a guy of 4 years and its over. I am ok with it wish him dead just joking.. What do I do if this sob decides to try and play me again and contacts me out of the blue. It has happened before and I wonder if it will ...

Does my male teacher likes me? A simple yes or no may help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I hope someone can help me figure this out. I have a crush on a Science teacher in our school since I was still in grade 5 and I'm pretty sure he already knew about that because the class would always tease us those times. I'm just 15 and he's...

Involved with married man. Where do I go from here?

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25 October 2009 (F) - hello, i'am 22 years old and i am breaking over this situation. 3 years ago i got involved with a married man 14 years older than me @ one of my previous jobs. everything just started, we both knew it was not right. I kept on because i liked him and ...

I want to know how people feel about dating your cousin's cousin.

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25 October 2009 (F) - Hello I'm a fourteen year old girl and I want to know how people feel about dating your cousins cousin. I'm currently dating my moms sisters husbands brothers son and I'm really starting to fall for him. I know there's no blood relation but is it ...

Is my professor interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - So I'm pretty sure that my professor is interested in me, but he doesn't want to make moves because like any professor with an once of brains, they realize the consequences if their passes are rejected. However, I'm completely interested and I...

His parents call me a predator!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...

My cousin and I are in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - ok i dont know where or who to turn to! ive done some research online and i kept getting similar questions on this sight! here's my problem....im 23 and my cousin is 28 we are very close we talk about everything....infact we even told each other how ...

How can I keep from being jealous of my married lovers flirting with other women?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I fear I have lost my married lover due to one jealous outburst in a year. I have always maintained complete discretion but last night I found myself angered by him talking openly with other women at a bar when I don't feel that I can even look at ...

Do you think they are into polygamy with me as a potential second?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - A little over a month ago I started working at a new job. I was familiar with 2 - 3 of the managers because I had friends who worked at the same place, but I didn't know them by name and wasn't friends with them. When I started working one of the m...

Are my boyfriend's reactions to the abuse he suffered normal?

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23 October 2009 (F) - hi please can anyone tell me if my bf`s behaviour is normal? hes lied so much im startin to wonder what to think. i met him in 07 when he was 34. he told me that between the ages of 12 to 15 he had been sexually abused by his stepfather. the abuse ...