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I'm in love with my professor.

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20 November 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we ...

How do I leave my married boss and not lose my job?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, i really need help. I am 21, i am a student, i live here on my own. My parents live in another country.Last year i started working and yeah beginning my boss was trying wooing me all the time and i didn't really like him, cause he...

How to stop liking your teacher?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I am a student in my sophmore year in high school. Last year, during grade nine, a new teacher came to the school halfway through the year. Ever since then, I have had this thing for him. He's 27, so I would definitely be jail bait. He just ...

In love with my friends girlfriend

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20 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?...

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck bet...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still ...

I am in lust/love with a straight man... or do I just miss my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Guys + Gals I am in a strange situation which is pulling me apart. I currently live with this guy who I met in 6th form and we bonded really well. Since I met him I was attracted to him, although he is straight and has a girlfriend. (he kn...

I am in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend!

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 16 years old and i'm Having Problems. I realy like this Girl i know and i Cant stop thinking about her. thing is she has a Boyfreind alrdy. I'm lost i'm not relay Used to being in love as i'm no ladies man shall we say I dont know wh...

How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?

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16 November 2009 (M) - How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...

I slept with my ex, even though he has a new girlfriend. I want him back, how do I do it?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I have a kind of bad story, but I need some advice, without bad comments please. So I have been talking to my ex whom I dated about five years ago. I am still crazy in love with him, and he told me there is no reason why he would not go out ...

I never told him that I loved him! What should I do?

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16 November 2009 (M) - please give some pieces of advice.... my problem goes this way.. i am an ESL teacher for more than a year. i told myself before not to fall inlove with any of my students. but after a year i met a new student who comes from Osaka Japan, he had be...

He's 17. I'm 15 and his parents don't want us together!

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15 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator Note: Personal information removed] my Boyfriend is 17 and he is going 2 be 18 june 1st and i really love him and want 2 be with him but i am 15 and his parents don't want us together bc of age.. i don't know what 2 do bc we are going ou...

Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter. We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a ...

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...

Help!!! I think I am in love with my teacher.. What do I do?

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14 November 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. There is this teacher at my school. He is single, and he is 24 years old and I am 13 and I think that Ii love him. He is an awesome person and I dont know wat to do about it. I need advice. Am I wrong? Should I give up? ...

Are these reacurring sex dreams a sign that I am a pervert?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I have been having reacurring sex dreams of me and my 15 yr old niece. When they happen i wake up in a cold sweat. Once i even ejactulated while i was dreaming. I would never do anything with my niece and now if i see her or talk to her i feel ...

I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...

Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best ...

My teacher keeps looking at me. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have this algebra teacher tht i rlly like. I feel shy around her. During the day, I always see her looking at me with this worried look on her face and when shes talking to me. Today i was the only one who stayed for extra help. While i ...

When I leave school should I tell my teacher I'm in love with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Now, im going to aplogise for poor spelling firstly (its late at night for me!!) and secondly I am sorry this is another teacher/student crappy topic!! Ok so lets set you the picture. I am over 18, and still stuck in sixth form (3rd year) I am ...

How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...

How can we be honest with my brother AND gain his support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I recently have developed feelings for my older brothers best friend. I am 28 and he is 38. We've known each other for 5 years and he has admitted he has feelings for me also. For about a month now we have been having a secret relationship behind ...

Should I go back or move forward in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back ...

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

Should I visit him and see where our love stands?

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11 November 2009 (F) - i need help to move on. a childhood friend who courted me since i was 15yrs to 18yrs til i left for canada had reconnected jan 2008. i was still married but seriously seeking a divorce because of abuse and mental cruelty. while husband was on a ...

I love my teacher and is that okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I like my teacher, is this totally wrong? I don't expect for him to ask me on a date. I know its illegal. and its not like i want to go out with him or kiss him or anything! i sometimes blush when i talk to him and idk why! and i sometimes get kind...

Does my cousin fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My cousin is two years my senior but when we was younger he went to live in another City with family... We lost contact for many years and recently got back in contact! We chat about everything and go on camera to one another and we always smile ...

I'm 14 and am in love with my teacher!

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9 November 2009 (F) - So i'm 14 years old, and there's this teacher at school, she is amazing, like really amazing and i really really like her, she acts so nice to me and like i think i might be in love with her. She acts strange though, telling me i'm beautiful...

Why do teachers have to be so nice? And how can I stop this attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have end of year exams coming up and I am soo stressed. My maths teacher, has been really helpful, and I feel like I'm becoming attached to him. I haven't taken this any further, but I want to. BUT I am sensible, so I wont BUT I WANT TO!! How can ...

Is my step cousin flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - I am probably imagining this but still just want to make sure. My step-cousin came up behind me without knowing and there was no space(right up against me) and when I moved over so he could get by he just followed my footstep, then after a minute he ...

How do I remove the invisible tattoo on my forehead that says, "dupe"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - After breaking up with my bf, who lied to me about being single, I started casually dating. After sorting through some real jerks, I thought I found Mr. Right. Guess what! He's also married. After I confronted him with the evidence ( ad on...

My lesbian cousin wants to date me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Okay..my first cousin (she's 17 and im 16 year old GIRL) wants to date me. We used to do sexual things(just oral) when we were younger but i didn't think this would happen. I know deep down i feel the same about her but i dont know what to do. She...

Should I pursue my gay cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Okay, so, I am gay, and my 3rd cousin twice removed is as well (homosexual and male), and i'm not going to beat around the bush, i want to hook up with him and have even thought about dating him. 1. Is this bad? 2. What do i do about it?...

Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in ...

I think my teacher wants me... what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Okay well I think maybe I'm just being paranoid but I'm not sure. I think my teacher may like me. I thought he was handsome the first day of class and I was annoyed by this because I didn't want him to distract me from learning. However, the seco...

Is this a mutual attraction? He's my boss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship 9 years but it is not going any where and we have not been intimate for months. i teach and I have developed a crush on my principal. He is warm and I have shared many itimate problems with him in relation to work...

I had an affair with a pastor. How do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Help! I had an affair with a pastor friend who I love very much as a person and friend. He needed something at the time and so did I. I want to break things off. I am terriby sick and hurt about it. How can I get past this. Just take time? I ...

I think my teacher likes me...am I just misinterpreting his personality?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I think my teacher likes me. I'm 14 and he's 30. So it started last year. From the first time I saw him, I knew I liked him. I didnt tell my friends, I knew that they'd tease me. To me, hes absolutely beautiful, he's perfect in every way. No-one e...

We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...

Does their type of marriage work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 November 2009 (?) - My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...

14 and falling for my teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care...

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...

Is this older man playing me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

I was inappropriately intimate with someone. What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I was inappropriately intimate with someone who has a girlfriend and the girlfriend works for me. I never meant for this to happen and still can't believe it. I'm not sure if she knows, but she hasn't returned my messages ...

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 mon...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...