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Does he like me or is it just a game he's playing?

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13 May 2008 (F) - hi im Leighton, I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as...

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

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13 May 2008 (F) - (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teach...

I'm in love with her but she denied my feelings. She insists we stay friends!

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12 May 2008 (?) - Hello, I am a female in love with another female. The woman I am in love with has denyed she feels the same way. However I am convinced she does feel the same way, but because she is married and because of other circumstances she is not admitting it ...

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive acc...

I love my Science teacher!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

36 year-old woman sleeping in the same bed as her uncle?

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11 May 2008 (M) - what do you think of a 36yo woman sleeping in the same bed with her uncle? yes she lied to me, she said she's living with her uncle in separate bedroom, but when i went to their apartment it was just a studio and they're sleeping together in one ...

I wish we could come away respecting each other at least.

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10 May 2008 (F) - Well you could say I'm old enough to know better, but even though I'm way past adolescence I still want to know what he must think of me now. I live in a foreign country and sometimes give English lessons. Someone put me in contact with a diplomat ...

My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!

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9 May 2008 (F) - The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...

I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...

I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...

I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?

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7 May 2008 (F) - this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...

My parents hate her-help!

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7 May 2008 (M) - i have a perfect girlfriend and we have been very happy together for the last two years. she is everything i wanted and i love her more than anything in the world and i know she loves me to. the problem is my parents hate her. she used to live in ...

My lover says he wants his wife to know about us but is too afraid to tell her, should I tell her?

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6 May 2008 (F) - My lover has said he would like for his wife to find out about our affair. He is too afraid to tell her, he's afraid of losing his kids. Should I tell her? ...

I'm in love with my teacher who is 11 years older than me...

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6 May 2008 (F) - Alright, so I'm in high school and I'll be graduating in a couple of weeks and turning 18 in June. My teacher is getting laid off and won't be at my school anymore. We get along great, sometimes he talks to me randomly, he's extremely sweet with me ...

I didn't know he was still married! How can I get clarity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Over 1 year ago, I met a really great man, we got along wonderfully. A few months into our relationship, when asked about the length of time he had been divorced, he told me it wasn't final yet. I thought that within 6 months, it would most likely ...

I can't stand to see the girl I love with this jerk!

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5 May 2008 (M) - well basically im in a lot of pain...the girl iv liked for 3 years is with a horrible guy i cant stand to see them together...it's not even for the fact that she is with a guy it's that she is with THIS guy...he wears on my nerves to the point that ...

What should I do about a long term admirer? The scenario feels unfinished.

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5 May 2008 (F) - I wonder what should I do about a long term admirer . He sent me a letter saying " I will always be watching you, remember don't forget the happy ending ..." . I was in a relationship at the time and so was he .Neither of us were unfaithful . Since ...

I found out he is married and still is in love with his wife even after he led me on! I'm devastated!

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5 May 2008 (F) - where to start i am a 41 yr old single mother with 2 boys been on my own now for 7 years . i went out with a friend of mine on a saturday night ended up in a night club . i met this gentleman who i was attracted to instantly . we ended up going ...

How do I get this older, annoying, married guy to leave me alone?

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4 May 2008 (F) - ok, so theres this guy that i think likes me and i dont know what to do about it because i want him to leave me alone. at first when he would talk to me i thought he was just being nice. but now hes always calling me names like "baby" and saying how ...

I'm married but find myself attracted to a female boss, is she straight or not? What do I do?

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4 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was ...

Should I tell him that my friend he fancies is only 14?

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4 May 2008 (F) - I went to a show with a friend and my other friend *D was there, and I also ran into some other friends. He was checking out my friend *C who turns out to only be 14 while *D is 17. I noticed he was checking her out but I didn't really think much ...

We are married and neglected by our spouses so we fell in love! What do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone, Please help. I have been married for over 10 yrs. My best friend has been married for 19 yrs. We have just discovered that we are in love with each other. We both have children and spouses who neglect us. We have not slept together...

Should I have sex with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in ...

I would to anything to make him happy. Is he taking advantage of me?

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3 May 2008 (F) - im 14 and iv liked my ex boyfreind for 3 years non stop(wev been seeing eachother for 5 months). He broke up with me a coupl months ago and i thot it was the end of the world. We are now freinds with benifits.I would do anything to make him happy ...

Should I give my teacher the poem I wrote about him?

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3 May 2008 (F) - im deliberating over sending my teacher a poem i have written about him? shall i just go ahead and give it him because i really really want him to know? i dont understand how this site works but please could someone give me advice! ...

I don't think my friend is in love with me but he wants sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - im 14 and i hav a freind with benifits whos also 14 (hes my Xboyfreind). we have been seeing eachother for about 5 months and i hav already givin him oral sex. My freinds and family all say that he doesnt deserve me and that i can do better and at ...

Are my feelings for my beautiful teacher only a crush that will wear off?

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3 May 2008 (M) - i no this is wierd but i really really fancy my teacher. i cant stop staring at her. She has blond shoulder lenghed hair, blue eyes, fantastic skin. I just really want to touch her hips and kiss her. I have had dreams about her many times. Shal...

Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?

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3 May 2008 (M) - Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...

I'm so depressed over a teacher

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3 May 2008 (F) - Help me, I'm so depressed over a teacher I will never have! I don't know what to do... it's ruining my life, it has had such an impact on me and has affected relationships with my friends and family! They don't enjoy my company anymore because I'm ...

Does he see me as a woman or just his student?

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3 May 2008 (F) - God!I'm so confused the way a teacher act to me.. I don't know if he see me as a woman or he see me as his student?I want help is he flirting me or not? I'm gone tell you some things to help me if he does or not?:When we are at the corridor he alwa...

I'm a massage therapist and my married client wants to have sex with me. I don't want to lose my career!

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3 May 2008 (F) - I am a female massage therapist working with a male professional sports team. Players are always flirting with me and recently a married player made sexual advances toward me on a road trip, and I am afraid he will want to have sex next time we are ...

This married guy keeps trying to get me to sleep with him! How do I deal with him at work?

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3 May 2008 (F) - Found myself with a mutual attraction to a guy at work; he is married with kids. He at one point told me how he felt and being young and stupid, I admitted being attracted to him, mainly for his mind. (Despite what I'm about to relate, he's a pretty ...

I'm in love with a teacher, and another teahcer is flirting with me. Help me!

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2 May 2008 (F) - i feel i'm not alone anymore theres loads of people fancy's there teacher. well i'm also here so sai i do too but its really different!!!. its not jus one i love 1, i love 2!! soo anoyin but my first one was my form tutor! (charlie his name was) on ...

Can someone please help me...Am I depressed??

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2 May 2008 (F) - I just really need some advice, i guess sometimes it's more helpful hearing advice from people i do not personally know. I'm not sure, but i think I am depressed. I know a doctor can only disgnose someone with depression, but how can one actually...

He's older. I can't get him out of my head.

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2 May 2008 (F) - Hi Well i have a dilemma there's this guy and we always have a little flirt and there's a lot of chemistry between us when we talk. However it's a forbidden love thing, we're not allowed to be together and he's also considerably older than me, i...

Should you always persue a crush?

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2 May 2008 (F) - I am really confused about this. I just don't know if one should always pursue a crush. I believe that since you only live once, you should most definitely go for it. The worst that can happen to you is he'll reject you. But at least then you won't ...

I don't know if I will ever love. Please help.

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1 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone! i really need your help and i would appreciate it so much if you would answer me!!! first i want to apologize for my language mistakes as i am not a native speaker. i just turned 19 and i'm female. here's my story: i have never been ...

Age Differences-Gross Encounters Of The Bird Kind?

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30 April 2008 (M) - Are age differences an important factor in relationships? If it is older guy then it doesn’t seem to be an issue but if it is an older woman it matters (unless you are a Physics graduate then only matter matters). The fact is people (and rela...

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

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30 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we g...

I made a mistake by writing him a love letter - I feel awkward as our conversations are tense now! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ok where i work at is a family business which is ran by two brothers who are my bosses one of the brothers has children which 2 of them work in the store as well so they also have authority I've liked one of they're sons for a long time and would ...

I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....

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29 April 2008 (F) - Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer ...

How should I tell my teacher that he made my life worth living?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My chorus teacher (who I'm in love with, but forget about that right now) is the reason why I'm still here today. I was suicidal in eighth grade and was going to follow through with it if ninth grade didn't go well. Obviously since I'm in twelfth ...

Is my teacher a pervert?

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29 April 2008 (F) - help my teacher continually stares at me in class her never takes his eyes of me always singles me out asks me all the questions makes me do stuff to him tells me i look gorgeous is he a pervert? he is about 30 but isnt married or with children...

In love with my married teacher, and I'm going to tell him, will it work?

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29 April 2008 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm completely in love with my super-awesome chorus teacher who's 32 and married. I was planning on telling him the very last day I'd see him (I'm graduating soon), but I'm not anticipating any kind of reply or ...

Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...

Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my ...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

I'm pregnant with his baby and didn't know he was married! I really need some help!

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27 April 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love and had a 1 yr affair with a married 53 yr. old man that has been married for 18 years and has 2 kids (17 and 13yrs). I didn't know he was married until 6mo into the relationship. He claims that he is madly in love with me ...