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writes:I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started doing stuff what i have made clear i dont want him doing behind my back.He talks to his ex.I let him talk to girls yet it seems as soon as i talk to a guy i am a slut or i flirt.I get that i flirt but i love him and only him.He tells me on a regular basis that he doesnt love me.Or i treat him badly that my family treats him bad.This boy has changed from the boy i fell in love with to some one i could almost hate.I wont to make it work but it just seems as though their is nothing their any more.It seems as though he wants to be single.Tonight he told me that he doesnt want to be with me any more.That i am a slut.I am not sure weather to put the effort in or just leave it.I am confused and need some ones oppioun.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
You're not a slut at all. This is a classic case of manipulative monster who has now started to control you. Belive me, get rid of this guy now, before he seriously hurts you. He's not good enough, he's a liar and does things behind your back. You deserve better than this. Dump him and find a better guy who knows how to treat you.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (24 October 2009):
tell him, im way better than you in a million ways, and that if im a slut, then what are you.
don't give him the light of day, you deserve someone better and the fact that he didnt appreciate it, shows how inconsiderate he really is to your feelings. Open your mind for a better person to come to you. you need to leave this, and show him you are way better off, and you never know , in time, he might run after you again, and he might not. But until then, move on, take your mind off it and heal.
take care.
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