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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we wer...

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I ...

You're a lesbian, so leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Essay time- get comfy! I'm a little confused about my best friend and what exactly it is she is up to... See, we have been best friends for 9 years, she's like my right arm and we do everything together pretty much (even work together) I always ...

How do I achieve my EMO look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing and he is one of my best friends. He always looks amazing and he always says I look amazing too but I don't feel confident in the clothes I wear! I dont like to wear skirts I love shorts and jeans and I love a quirky style ...

She's always bringing a friend along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I like a very shy girl..we are both 20.i approached her and made obvious i wanted to hang out with her...at first she brought a friend.But then i ignored her so she started texting to me.I asked her out alone and she accepted.Next days she kept ...

My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex! Am I too demanding or am I right to question him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever want...

How do I ask this girl to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I really wanna kiss this girl who i like and I am pretty sure she likes me but I don't know how to ask her to kiss me. Has anyone got any good ideas?...

Am I wrong in being paranoid about my party-loving bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting ...

Is it normal for a guy to take this long to decide whether or not he wants to date someone he once dated before and has been friends with since?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three ...

She's the woman of my dreams, but I can't ask her out on Facebook, can I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Okay, this is quite a difficult thing to explain, but I'll try. - I have been single for a good while now. I'm currently 20, and haven't had a girlfriend in about 18 months. This never really bothered me too much and I was pretty happy, up until ...

Boyfriend travelling overseas for first time - hasn't contacted me yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend has just taken his first overseas holiday with one of his mates. He's had a very rough couple of years and I'm excited that he's getting the chance to travel as I've done much of it myself and it's my passion. Ho...

Thinking about the future -- would it be safe for third-cousins to have children together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we love each other very much. But recently we found out we are third cousins and we are both thinking about the future. Is it safe for us to have children together? ...

Two guys with different things to offer, don't know which to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ...

Should I take a break from this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Yes lately it seems like I am always on this site lol! Anyways, the past month or so things have not been so good with me and my bf. We started seeing each other about 8 months ago, and were always exclusive from day 1. We never felt the need to ...

I don't understand him! Do you? Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - He calls often, just always wants to know how I'm doing and that he finds me attractive and at times tutors me with my science classes, so he's quite bright (unless he's quick on Googling information). It's all really sweet. However, when I ask him ...

I texted "love you" and I haven't heard back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - okay, so here is the deal. It's senior year and I found this guy within an old group of friends. He goes to my old high school and somehow we found out that we are absolutley perfect for each other. We have such a great time together whether we are ...

He wants to keep our relationship secret.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I like this boy but his mates don't like me, he said that if we do go out then we would have to keep it secret. I'm okay with doing this. What Should i do ? Help !!! ...

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together...

Why I am attracted to women with low self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Why am I attracted to these needy messed up low self-esteem women? It's like if she is in trouble or is in bad emotional place or drug addict or w/e . I find these women very attractive.. Its like their emotions are so pure I can't explain it.I ...

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us ...

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life qui...

Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help woul...

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

We were all set to meet up and then he goes on a date with another girl, and now only wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I have joined a dating site, i got talking to a guy on it and we really seemed to have a lot in common, we swapped numbers and were texting the whole time. he lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so we were dying to meet eachother but we ...

She rejected me but I am sure there were some signals from her! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Help! I met this girl... I was at a Karoke bar, she was with her 3 friends, and when I got up to sing, I asked for her name. When I sat back down, she called me over and we got chatting. She asked me to come along with her and her friends. ...

Should I initiate contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Well, I've met the most amazing guy. He's very intelligent, fit and into sports, and a fantastic musician. He's kind, thoughtful and sweet, and so handsome. So in other words, I'm infatuated. We started talking a little around a month ago, because ...

Should I tell him explicitly that I do want him or distance myself from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I had a summer job whilst studying at uni and towards the end of my time there, I met a man who I really fancied. He’d talk to me online fairly regularly and we had a work party where he told me he wanted me. When I moved back to university, he kept ...

3 guys pulling me 3 ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - hi there i got a boyfriend now been dating him for almost 8 months he sweet caring treats me like a queen breakfast in bed he shouts at me when i am doing something wrong hes got his exes on his mxit and i hate his sister and he gets angry fast ...

He blows hot and cold. I want him to look at me as a potential girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Any suggestions as to how to make a guy who only looks at you as a friend, look at you like a potential gf? I mean there's this guy who blows hot n cold...i know there's something there...but i can't seem to get it!!...

Our classmates made fun of our friendship and now she doesn't talk to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hi frnds i am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of mine i just truly love her but all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a s...

Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share ...

How to turn a drunken hookup into more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Friday night I drunkenly hooked up with a guy I was set up with to go to a college formal with. I am interested in continuing to talk and possibly hook up more, but how do I find out if he is too? I waited until Sunday to text him, but he didn...

Why does he say he doesn't like me that way then act the way he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me an...

Was I stuck up because I ignored him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - There was this guy back in middle school who used to stare at me incessantly. I also remember him kicking the back of the bus seat I was sitting on, and leaning on the wall adjacent to me while I stood in the lunch line. I never reacted to his ...

What am I doing wrong? Why am I still single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been told that I'm pretty, and a lot of guys hit on me. My friends even tell me that they wonder why I'm single. But that's what I don't understand either! I just don't get it - the guys I don't want hit on me, and the guys I do want reject me. ...

Did this guy like me? Or did I miss something?

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28 February 2011 (F) - This guy named Russell keeps nodding at me, and sometimes looks sorry for it. It's unusual, because we barely know each other. A few times I just smiled back politely. But last week I gave him an awkward smile, because really it was getting weird. ...

Is it ok to tell your girl that you masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4798 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Since masturbation is selfless and innocent act and all woman know that single man do it and also in there mind they feel relaxed that the guy she would be knowing or is going out with is masturbator and doesnt exploit woman just for release etc etc ...

How do I find out if they are into me for who I am or for my money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi I'm bisexual. How can I find out if a woman or man's into me because of who I am or because I'm financially wealthy and is there a difference between women and mens thoughts about my financial weath and whether those thought effect his or her ...

Have I blown my chances with her by not making my feelings obvious enough and maybe appearing disinterested??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, Yesterday I went on a second date with a really nice girl (beautiful, intelligent, etc etc) which I thought went quite well but when I sent her a message afterwards to say thanks I got no response (normally she responds within ...

My FWB was hitting on my friend even though she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my fwb for more than two years. Recently we had our first time hanging out in public. We had been in this type of relationship as a secret so finally we were introduced. He had a little smirk going on and so did I but no one saw. W...

Is it possible he wrote the note himself and doesn't want to admit it and that he likes me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! I met this GUY in one of my classes and the first time we talked it was pretty cool, we are very comfortable with each other. For a couple weeks we just said hi and asked casual questions. One class we started talking alot and...

Really paranoid when it comes to kissing a guy!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I really like my friend and I've known him for about three years. I already know he likes me and when we first met we went out but it wasn't for tht long and we didn't even kiss. I'm pretty sure he's kissed a girl before and I'm way to scared ...

How do I deal with my bf's bi-curious fantasies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - During sex, while talking about our sexual fantasies, my boyfriend told me the thought of sucking a man's c*** turns him on because it is "wrong" and "taboo". I brought it out by telling him I fantasize him being done by another man. He said he ...

Guys: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - This is a very short question aimed at men/boys, and I'm hoping for a straighforward answer: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)...

Should I start the healing process and move on from this LDR which doesn't seem to be working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy I met in college for almost 4 years now. We have in a good, stable, loving relationship. I'm an international student, so I had to leave upon my graduation. We're half a world away now. I have plans to go ba...

Why are they making fun of me because I'm an 8th grader dating a 7th grader?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he's in 7th grade. I'm in 8th. All the guys talk to him and say stupid things like blink twice if she's forcing you. (They are immature) And they get me and push me into him and say "why are you raping him!!!" Then they make ...

If a couple breaks up because one of them didn't want anything serious, yet that person marries someone else in a few months...how and why does that happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Just wondering when you hear about a couple breaking up , because one of them didn't want anything serious. Then you hear about that person getting married/ having a baby to someone else, maybe months down the line. Why do people do that?...