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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How should I handle her being upset with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work togeth...

I already know he's a womanizer. Should I go for it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a divorced man who is well educated. I love him and had sex with him. Recently he has been saying about his past relationships and it appears that he had sex with two other women when he was married just because he had a ...

What do you do when you are torn away from your soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm so upset at the moment as i recently got back from an amazing holiday where i met the greatest guy ever. But i only got to know his first name and where he came from and i just del so down without his presence. I feel as he i have been torn ...

Instant Love: what should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - When i first joined my high school in 2006, i met this girl that i instantly fell in love with(lets call her A), however, since then, i have discovered that one of my best friends also likes her(lets call him B). My other friend (lets call him C) ...

How do I get him to admit his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Okay. I'll try to make this short and quick. I've liked this one guy for way too long and I just want us to date already. We are really good friends and I don't see how we can't be really great as boyfriend and girlfriend. There have been times when ...

Desperate to start a family! Am I rushing things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hey im 20 years old and im desperate to start a familly i am in a serious relationship and living with my partner we get on amazingly and have been together for 2 years the only problem is i told him how i felt and all he said is hes not re...

What can I do to feel less lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I feel so lonely that I am starting to feel very down. My Mum and Dad are both from large families yet they very rarely do anything socially together. They aren't nasty people, they just aren't social people. I have 14 first cousins, yet only ...

Shouldn't we be cementing our relationship by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hey 32 yr old male here..quick story and I need some honest advice...been with this girl for 8 mo now and things have gotten pretty seious..i feel like she is a great girl all around..i am a very busy guy at this time in my life..2 jobs, 2 houses ...

Does this signify she is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I am a guy of 20.there is this same girl of 18 who attends the same church with me without knowing our names. we usually say hi to each other.certain times looking at each other in church .i know that am cute too and she is pretty too which made m...

Is there such thing as a good man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I just feel like I will never find the a guy that knows how to treat me. As I posted before I met this guy that I really liked and he ended up being my first. After the sex he seemed to lose interest in me. He pretended like he wanted to be with me ...

My ex is all depressed because I'm back with my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I recently started going back out with my boyfriend (we broke up a while ago. Lets call him X). And he's best friends with an ex of mine (let's call him Y) And he and I have become really close friends again this school year. About two mont...

Should I wait his LDR out, or has he told me I'm second best?

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25 October 2009 (F) - I've recently started at university, and met a guy on my course who is just amazing. We get on really well, similar interests and we just 'click' He's told me he has a LDR with a girl in Eastern Europe and even though he likes me, he wants things w...

I don't know how to make his family like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - My bf's family don't make me feel very welcome when I spend time with them. My bf can obviously see that me and his family don't really "connect" type of thing and this upsets him that I don't get along like as if I am part of their family. ...

How do you tell guys you don't like certain things about them without hurting their ego?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Well here's the thing. I am currently with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He is about 11 years older than I am and I'm in my 20's. I am very happy with him he treats me better than most other guys but lately he's starting to be a bit controlling. ...

2 years and I love him so much but I'm bored!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hiya, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2years now and I love him to bits and hope to end up marrying him. However im so confused with my feelings- because im SO bored now and we're having less sex which makes me feel un loved and un wanted. I jus...

I am scared of potential legal action against me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl ...

Is he just being a show off or does he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - This one guy I know is starting to confuse me. We are not very close, but I had a class with him last year and he wanted me to give him a random high five one time and seemed kind of mad when I talked to other guys. On the last day of school I went ...

Is this wrong for a Christian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Is my relationship with her wrong? So heres the thing. :) I'm 15. I've been told many times I'm extremely mature for my age. I've been best friends with her since we were 3. Every summer she's come and stayed with her family that lives here for ...

I can't stop thinking that our relationship is doomed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (?) - Hi I am a 21 year old who is terribly in love with the girl of my dreams. I constanly think life will find a way of taking us apart and there is no chance in hell we can be together thoughts like these hurt me alot and I tell my Girlfriend ...

I have feelings for my best friend's girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I have this best friend who i have known for quite a long time actually we're so close that it is like we're siblings,at first i thought that i just treated her as my friend and nothing more but now she has problems with her boyfriend who also ...

Am I straight, gay or bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I have always seen myself as straight but recently (starting a year or two ago) I been more comfortable around men than women. Like if I were to hug a women or a man I would choose the man. I decided to explore my sexuality so I kissed a man. It was ...

Differences

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Heres my problem, my girlfriend and I have been dating for many many years. We get along great, hardly ever fight. We share similiar values, religious, and political views. The commonalities end there. We don't like to do anything the other person ...

We are planning on losing our virginity together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - hey all my girlfriend and i are planning on having sex soon, it will be the first time for both of us. what are some recommended positions for first time, aside from standard missionary which will make it fun and enjoyable?...

I want to know how people feel about dating your cousin's cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hello I'm a fourteen year old girl and I want to know how people feel about dating your cousins cousin. I'm currently dating my moms sisters husbands brothers son and I'm really starting to fall for him. I know there's no blood relation but is it ...

Why can't I relate to so many of my friends that are already settling down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - So my 2 year dating anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up. Unfortunately I don't know how to feel about it. I'm acting kind of unstable but I don't know why, and it's confusing my boyfriend. The background is that both of us are in univer...

I broke up with my commitment phobic boyfriend. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I met a wonderful man in his mid forties. He has never been married or in been in a serious relationship, he has very limited sexual experiences with women. He is kind, successful,loyal, honest. When we first met we emailed for two months leading ...

"I can't have a relationship with you right now". What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says I cant have a relationship with you right now, because I have trust issues and everything Ive been through? He says that doesn't mean a year down the road that he wouldn't want a relationship with me, because he ...

What do you think he's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hi! I liked this guy for ages, but was never sure if he liked me... i was pretty sure he did, and so, at the age of 17 (yes, it was humiliating) I finally kissed him at a party. It was my first kiss. He definitely seemed to like me that night, but ...

Am I being unreasonable about his friendships with girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - My problem is that my boyfriend has trouble making new friends, but when he does, they always seem to be girls. I wouldn't normally have a problem with this, but he does get a lot of female attention, and I'm finding it hard to deal with because a ...

How can anybody tell when an autistic person needs them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - i'm dating someone on the autistic spectrum i know because my dad is, sister and other members of my family so i picked up on a few things. for example my boyfriend doesn't like too many hugs. he can't cope with anyone but me drinking from his...