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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...

After a week of dating he wants to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2396 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - i met this guy a year ago and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused ... we were not in a relationship then but now after that one year he came back and i again refused so after four months i started having feelings for him and i talked t...

Is this too much for a first and second date or is he just trying to control her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - So, a friend of mine is seeing this guy.. They started talking through Bumble. He's slightly older tha her, she's 22. They've only know each other a couple of weeks or so. He's a volunteer police officcer. So, they met at the weekend. Saturda...

We want different things in life ... should I just let it go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2396 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years now. I’m 20 and he’s 22 so we’re still pretty young and we don’t plan on getting married or having kids any time soon. Especially since we’ve only been together for 2 years. But we have com...

I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...

My boyfriend and I argue constantly but I love him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 and a half years. Things were great in the beginning but more recently we seem to argue about everything. Things are lovely when we're getting on but we seem to argue most days and he goes silent and will ...

I am so madly jealous! How can I overcome this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 4 months now, we work together. Me and this girl (both 23 years old) started working at this job at the same time. Obviously every male co worker wanted to hang out with us, since we were new and they all flirted ...

Why am I stuck with the girl that doesn't want to give but wants me to do all the work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

27 September 2017 (M) - I been in relationship for 4 years. She was virgin before we met. I have high sex drive , she doesn’t. I tried to accommodate this by doing stuff in shower and not bothering her. Sometimes I ask her to go down, and she won’t put in effort, when she...

Long distance boyfriend is asking for naked pictures, should I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - Hi there friends...I really need your advice.. I have a long distance relationship and know for a year.we don't meet yet and we both christian born again... and I dont want this guy to entertain but he was keep in contact with me even if j don't....

My boyfriend's mother came over and rearranged our bedroom, I can't find anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now and we live together. He is 22 and I’m 20. Let me start off by saying, I think family is super important and I would never want to come between my boyfriend and his family. But it bothers ...

Hard to love a man's children like my own.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

26 September 2017 (F) - I've been dating a man for 7 months. I have no children, he has 2 daughters ages 9 and 7. He doesn't see them very often (once a week) on the weekends. I have spent almost every weekend with him and when he gets them. They are great kids don't get ...

How do I deal with jealousy? french kissing? He's my first boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - So I failed the year and got set back a year... I'm in a new class and I made friends (something that I didn't have for the past 2 years) and one guy (Gabri) started talking to me because I'm English (I live in Italy), after school we started ...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

My parents don't know about my relationship till I am 18. A parents advice would be nice

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I am currently 16 and live in Victoria Australia and my boyfriend is 20 from punjabi india.All aspects of our relationship is legal We have been together for just under a year and my parents don't know i plan on telling them when i am 18 but his ...

Should I reach out again or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

24 September 2017 (M) - There's a girl I started talking to in July, at the moment nothing is going on but I feel like that may be my fault. However I'm also feeling like I should move on but I'd like to know if theres anything I can do to start talking to her again ...

She stopped responding, is that it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

24 September 2017 (M) - Girl I liked a lot and went on a few dates with started getting cold after I told her I liked her and the time we had been hanging out. I asked her why she was acting so different and she said, she was dealing with stuff and I couldn't help her. She ...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

I found some unsettling texts between my boyfriend and our mutual friend. should I be worried?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

23 September 2017 (F) - We have been hanging round with another couple for about a year now. My boyfriend is a very outgoing, flirtatious person naturally but something has been bothering me. Our two friends, Michelle and Danny, well Danny does not have a mobile so ...

I dated one guy, then his cousin and am now going back to the first man because his cousin was a cheater and a liar

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Im a 25 year old female. I was dating A from 2006-2009 , then communication got lost between me and him , so in 2012 i got close to B which resulted in me dating with B. A and B are cousins. I stayed with B for a period of 1 month and i discovered...

Where's the sex gone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have no sexual chemistry. None at all. Every time I bring up anything sexual it’s, ‘we don’t have the time’ or she acts like it’s vulgar and what I’m saying is disgusting - we went to New York recently on our first holiday ...

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...

Is the guy I'm dating being a jerk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - I started dating this guy about a month ago and we've been on four dates so far.. We haven't gone all the way yet but have done some stuff in bed, as well as the usual things like cinema etc. TBF to him he does have his good points like he pays for ...

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language ...

What is going on? Are these just excuses?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - After still feeling neglected, I told my bf exactly why I was feeling down. In the last couple of weeks I have noticed that I was initiating the messages, which is ok, but I feel like I'm pestering esp being the only one initiating Messaging was ...

She's asked me for advice-Can I be honest and tell her she's in a bad relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on should I say what I think or... be polite and lie. I have 2 cousins who are like sisters to me. One of them is having problems with her papers. She's been living in a foreign country for the past 7 y...

He's rejected me but is open to having sex. I'm upset but tempted to, since I'll be bored and alone in his city.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I apologize in advance...this is a long one! I met a guy on Tinder back in March of this year. I was going to be in San Francisco for a few days and wanted to meet people while there so I changed my location to SF and started talking to him. ...

Is this something I can fix by correcting a few actions in our relationship? Do I give her space and trust that she will end up with me? What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years recently told me that she likes a guy from work as as more than friends but is unsure about what to do. She said she loves me and she doesn't love him because it is too early to tell. She said she recognizes that it is unfair to ...

I thought things were progressing well so why does she seemed to have slowed down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2397 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - A few days ago I was on cloud nine. I had finally gone out with a great girl after a couple weeks of chatting on Facebook since we were both moving back to our hometown. We clicked really well while we were chatting, she was very responsive and f...

I was drunk and slapped my boyfriend across the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

19 September 2017 (?) - I feel really bad admitting this but i have been with my partner five months and i think the world of him. But the other evening we was drinking and to the point where i literally don't remember what was said. But he went into the kitchen and when i ...

She said she wants to hangout with her friends which is fine except for my concern about this one male friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

19 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years is amazing for the most part. We have talked about getting married and moving in together and everything. We plan on moving in in the next 6months. Recently she told me that she feels that she will miss out on being young cause ...

I'm worried I can't ask her to do the same thing again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

19 September 2017 (M) - A few weeks ago I helped my girlfriend clean and put the dishes away. Afterwards she filled the sink with dishsoap and undressed me. She wanted me to sit on the counter over the edge of the sink. I was reluctant at first but I did it. She then used ...

Is this a genuine concern or is he blowing me off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been together for a couple months. He treats me really well and is different from the other guys that I dated. One thing though that has really started to worry me, is him trying to drop me off at home early in the day. He works ...

I'm worried my boyfriend is stealing from me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice - I've been in a very happy relationship for over six months now. My boyfriend is very loving and caring, and we've never even had an argument - we just seem very in tune with one another. But something odd happ...

My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene. Her teeth are yellowish and her breath smells bad.I love her but everytime I wish to express it with a kiss I hold back. How do I bring this up with her?...

Something is holding me back from having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - I keep stopping myself from having sex with my boyfriend. I'm still a virgin and my boyfriend knows this. The last two times we have spent the night together, he has tried to initiate sex which I have no problem with. I feel i want to have sex...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

I'm not as turned on by my IRL girlfriend as I was with the LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I've recently started dating a girl from my work who is the sweet, caring, interesting, real girlfriend material. Before her I was casually seeing a girl I met online, it was nothing serious, just dating and a lot of sex really. Now here's my ...

My girlfriend wanted an open relationship but I can't cope with it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I'm struggling with the pain and shock involved in starting an open relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. Recently we agreed to open the relationship and allow each other to have sex with other people. She's the one wh...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

Boyfriend won't speak to me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

16 September 2017 (F) - I'm with my current boyfriend for about 2 years and yest was hia bday. He thinks bdays are overrated, but I still got him gift card and since he didn't want cake, got him a small cake and went to see him. I was hungry by the time I reached his ...

The sex is just not working out. What are we doing wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend often complains that we don't have enough sex. But he doesn't initiate ot, or try to turn me on. The other day we were hugging in bed then he rolled over, saying that he had to because he was horny ... like, sex could've happened if he ...

Should I stay .... or maybe I should go

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - Hi dear Cupid, so I'll break this down in for form.. Myself (24) partner (23) - together three years Before I met him - I saved $13,000. Dating him - started going halves in things cause I thought it was a great idea. In three years - partner ...

I love my boyfriend but am looking elsewhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2306 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My situation.. I met my boyfriend a year ago while while I was living overseas, he is from that country. We ended up getting into a relationship quite fast. Our parents met each other and everything was great. A week later or so, he had to g...

Should we jump right in or take it slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - Hi there. I've been talking to a wonderful guy for a month or two now, things are going really well. It started as just friendly conversation, banter via text message and talking about everything we have in common, but the conversations went on ...

Is it too soon to mention I'd like more contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Hello and thanks in advance for reading. I'm having trouble dating and trusting men after a very difficult year that I'm slowly getting through and coming to terms with. This year I've had to deal with sudden job changes, dates going wrong a...

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

14 September 2017 (M) - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has ...

We just don't DO anything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, ...

Are we incompatible if he has these concerns early on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend more time with him and that I'm not giving him enough attention. I have crippling depression and often I am so anxious and so deflated even basic functions are difficult. I still see him at least ...

My destructive behaviour regarding my boyfriend's past is ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

13 September 2017 (?) - I have been seeing a lovely man for over four months. He is kind, caring and treats me very well. I have been on my own with my daughter for 17 years, her father left me when she was a baby and i was left devastated. He got on with his life and it ...

Not ready to meet the kids - but how to tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - Hi! I started dating a girl about 5 weeks ago (I'm 36 and she's 34). She has 2 children. She said the other day that she spoke to her ex, told him about me and that she'd like me to meet the children and he said that he's fine with it. I really a...